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  1. #1391

    Well put by both or you!

    Quote Originally Posted by Rockman2000  [View Original Post]
    Very well said Lex. I was one of those sadly married men and bit the bullet, left and filed for divorce. I was stuck in a sexless marriage where I did everything and she did whatever she wanted, my desires be damned. I know many guys stuck in the same boat and they are not willing to part with $$ to get out of it. I was, it was that bad. It cost me dearly but I am happy now. I do have a SO but I hire the occasional escort or get a massage as a change of pace. You can only eat so many turkey sandwiches until you want roast beef. My advice to anyone stick in a sexless, crappy marriage is DO NOT stay for the kids. I did and they saw the misery. I don't want my kids growing up thinking that what their mom and I had was a normal marriage.
    That almost hits the nail on the head for my situation as well. To long with nothing. Not even affection towards the end. Just resentment and bitterness. VERY sick emotions for anyone. Destructive emotions. So I did what you dod. NOW for the BIG question: Does anyone know why divorce is so expensive?

    Ans: "Cause it's worth it! NO LOL - too much truth.
    Last edited by Elibom; 01-03-14 at 13:11. Reason: Duplicated in error - apologies MOD: Please remove dupe if possible

  2. #1390
    Quote Originally Posted by LexLuther  [View Original Post]
    Thanks for the validation. I think it's all too easy for our brothers here to get confused about how life works and what this forum is all about. That (in my opinion) is because visiting a prostitute or a massage parlor or picking up a street walker can actually make a man feel so good, so normal, that his confidence level is boosted to the extent that he starts to think that he actually could go to a bar on New Years Eve and hook up with a normal woman, which is the way life should work. Of course if it did work that way, there would be no need for prostitutes, escorts, AMP workers, etc. And there would be no need for this website. But in reality, in this society, there is no normal. I'm not saying there are no exceptions. But I think for most men, life works somewhat this way: Maybe you get laid in high school or college. Up until that age, women and men are enough alike that they are both in touch with their natural human desires. Then, for many men, comes marriage, which starts out with a lot of excitement and even some sex. But after about four or five years, bitterness and disappointment set in. The woman stops performing her duties for the man, who in any event, is tired of the same old same old.

    It's at this point that many men (admittedly not all, but a large percentage) either begin to look outside of their marriage for sexual satisfaction or decide that their marriage has served its purpose (often the production of children) and ask for a divorce. It's a shame we don't live in a society like France, where the divorce rate is significantly lower. One reason is that today, it is very common in France for couples to cohabitate and not marry. Additionally, wives in France have traditionally been tolerant of their husbands' extra-marital affairs.

    After divorce, in my experience, most woman have so much "baggage" with them that they find themselves unable to interact with men in a healthy manner. And in any case, they cease to be attractive to most men. And if you think that at middle age, you are going to have any kind of a relationship with a young woman, you have been watching too many movies. And if you're a young man, unless you are ugly or extremely fat, you shouldn't need to pick up women in bars. Which is why, whenever I have seen a young man posting here, I have always been forthright in telling him that he has no business playing this game. This game, as it happens, is not a young man's game, but an older man's game.

    LexLuther.
    Very well said Lex. I was one of those sadly married men and bit the bullet, left and filed for divorce. I was stuck in a sexless marriage where I did everything and she did whatever she wanted, my desires be damned. I know many guys stuck in the same boat and they are not willing to part with $$ to get out of it. I was, it was that bad. It cost me dearly but I am happy now. I do have a SO but I hire the occasional escort or get a massage as a change of pace. You can only eat so many turkey sandwiches until you want roast beef. My advice to anyone stick in a sexless, crappy marriage is DO NOT stay for the kids. I did and they saw the misery. I don't want my kids growing up thinking that what their mom and I had was a normal marriage.

  3. #1389

    Thanks!

    Quote Originally Posted by Zappa3  [View Original Post]
    You're the second coming of the voice of reason. I am one of the miserable married men that you so aptly described below, at least until my kids get a little bit older. Bar hopping and chasing women just isn't an option nor does it sound the least bit appealing to me. I'd rather part with a few bucks then spend one minute trying for a one night stand at the local bar and would feel much less degraded in the process. I think Whitt must be trying to show a little sarcasm towards the noobs who only post questions. I don't think he was being too serious. At least I hope not.
    Thanks for the validation. I think it's all too easy for our brothers here to get confused about how life works and what this forum is all about. That (in my opinion) is because visiting a prostitute or a massage parlor or picking up a street walker can actually make a man feel so good, so normal, that his confidence level is boosted to the extent that he starts to think that he actually could go to a bar on New Years Eve and hook up with a normal woman, which is the way life should work. Of course if it did work that way, there would be no need for prostitutes, escorts, AMP workers, etc. And there would be no need for this website. But in reality, in this society, there is no normal. I'm not saying there are no exceptions. But I think for most men, life works somewhat this way: Maybe you get laid in high school or college. Up until that age, women and men are enough alike that they are both in touch with their natural human desires. Then, for many men, comes marriage, which starts out with a lot of excitement and even some sex. But after about four or five years, bitterness and disappointment set in. The woman stops performing her duties for the man, who in any event, is tired of the same old same old.

    It's at this point that many men (admittedly not all, but a large percentage) either begin to look outside of their marriage for sexual satisfaction or decide that their marriage has served its purpose (often the production of children) and ask for a divorce. It's a shame we don't live in a society like France, where the divorce rate is significantly lower. One reason is that today, it is very common in France for couples to cohabitate and not marry. Additionally, wives in France have traditionally been tolerant of their husbands' extra-marital affairs.

    After divorce, in my experience, most woman have so much "baggage" with them that they find themselves unable to interact with men in a healthy manner. And in any case, they cease to be attractive to most men. And if you think that at middle age, you are going to have any kind of a relationship with a young woman, you have been watching too many movies. And if you're a young man, unless you are ugly or extremely fat, you shouldn't need to pick up women in bars. Which is why, whenever I have seen a young man posting here, I have always been forthright in telling him that he has no business playing this game. This game, as it happens, is not a young man's game, but an older man's game.

    LexLuther.

  4. #1388

    Well said

    You're the second coming of the voice of reason. I am one of the miserable married men that you so aptly described below, at least until my kids get a little bit older. Bar hopping and chasing women just isn't an option nor does it sound the least bit appealing to me. I'd rather part with a few bucks then spend one minute trying for a one night stand at the local bar and would feel much less degraded in the process. I think Whitt must be trying to show a little sarcasm towards the noobs who only post questions. I don't think he was being too serious. At least I hope not.

    Quote Originally Posted by LexLuther  [View Original Post]
    If that's your advice, why do you inhabit this realm? If you go to a place like Thailand or the Philippines, that might work. Here, in the land of welfare and womens' rights, it doesn't work so well. Women don't feel as though they need men for their survival or well. Being. So they are disdainful of men. A woman can get a job without being qualified for it. And if she can't work or doesn't feel like it, she can go on welfare and live well enough.

    Our society and the way we have architected life here makes men, marriage, and even just relationships between men and women pretty much irrelevant. It allows women to pursue their ridiculous fantasies about what a man should be. A huge percentage of men cheat on their wives and an even larger percentage live in sexless, loveless marriages and just accept it as normal. And we all know that around 50% of marriages fail.

    This forum is, I believe, about finding women who sell sex, It's not about dating or hooking up with women in bars.

    LexLuther.
    Last edited by Zappa3; 01-02-14 at 21:36. Reason: typo

  5. #1387
    If that's your advice, why do you inhabit this realm? If you go to a place like Thailand or the Philippines, that might work. Here, in the land of welfare and womens' rights, it doesn't work so well. Women don't feel as though they need men for their survival or well. Being. So they are disdainful of men. A woman can get a job without being qualified for it. And if she can't work or doesn't feel like it, she can go on welfare and live well enough.

    Our society and the way we have architected life here makes men, marriage, and even just relationships between men and women pretty much irrelevant. It allows women to pursue their ridiculous fantasies about what a man should be. A huge percentage of men cheat on their wives and an even larger percentage live in sexless, loveless marriages and just accept it as normal. And we all know that around 50% of marriages fail.

    This forum is, I believe, about finding women who sell sex, It's not about dating or hooking up with women in bars.

    LexLuther.

  6. #1386

    Lame Advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Whitt  [View Original Post]
    It is New Year's Eve. Shower, shave, and dress like your mommy didn't help. Go to virtually any bar. Talk to girls, but don't force anything. If you can't get laid for free on a night like this, cut your wrists in a warm water bath. No one wants to clean up if you shoot yourself.
    If that's your advice, why do you inhabit this realm? If you go to a place like Thailand or the Philippines, that might work. Here, in the land of welfare and womens' rights, it doesn't work so well. Women don't feel as though they need men for their survival or well. Being. So they are disdainful of men. A woman can get a job without being qualified for it. And if she can't work or doesn't feel like it, she can go on welfare and live well enough.

    LexLuther.

  7. #1385
    Quote Originally Posted by SexyBoy124  [View Original Post]
    Where can I find some lady company of the street in Baltimore MD.

    Guys help me out and I will return the favor back.
    It is New Year's Eve. Shower, shave, and dress like your mommy didn't help. Go to virtually any bar. Talk to girls, but don't force anything. If you can't get laid for free on a night like this, cut your wrists in a warm water bath. No one wants to clean up if you shoot yourself.

  8. #1384

    Lady company

    Where can I find some lady company of the street in Baltimore MD.

    Guys help me out and I will return the favor back.

  9. #1383
    Quote Originally Posted by PussyRomper  [View Original Post]
    http://baltimore.backpage.com/Female...nde-28/8403964

    Looks 9 Attitude 7 -would be more except kept getting calls etc, once started kept her attention though Service 8.

    Good experience, Will repeat. Has a druggie friend though, that may want to split it she drops in. I did the first time. Her friend is a little too out their for me. Available pretty much 24/7.
    I'm glad it worked out for you. Be advised, though, there are ripoff reports on this chick.

  10. #1382

    Hanover Blonde

    http://baltimore.backpage.com/Female...nde-28/8403964

    Looks 9 Attitude 7 -would be more except kept getting calls etc, once started kept her attention though Service 8.

    Good experience, Will repeat. Has a druggie friend though, that may want to split it she drops in. I did the first time. Her friend is a little too out their for me. Available pretty much 24/7.

  11. #1381
    Quote Originally Posted by Piddybo  [View Original Post]
    Any info on this one?

    No reviews or matches anywhere but she is working the Loch Raven area. Not sure if she is in the stable with the other girls.

    Thanks.

    http://baltimore.backpage.com/Female...eet-25/8541350
    I swear she looks like Shay. Met her years ago working on the block. I don't know for certain. She had moved to Rockville. Might be back.

  12. #1380

    Info

    Any info on this one?

    No reviews or matches anywhere but she is working the Loch Raven area. Not sure if she is in the stable with the other girls.

    Thanks.

    http://baltimore.backpage.com/Female...eet-25/8541350

  13. #1379

    Both good and bad

    Quote Originally Posted by LovelyJewel137  [View Original Post]
    I'm completely new to the escort business. I would like to know is it good not to have reviews on here or bad? Since I'm new on the forum I was curious to know.
    Some escorts do very well with a high volume of clients and good reviews. Some do very well by staying under the radar and have a select few clients, few reviews but steady clients and good word of mouth. I might suggest e. Mailing a couple of escorts as well and seeing how they are doing. Your best bet is to do well with the model that suits your style. Good luck. Hope I hear of some good experiences with you.

  14. #1378

    Depends

    Quote Originally Posted by LovelyJewel137  [View Original Post]
    I'm completely new to the escort business. I would like to know is it good not to have reviews on here or bad? Since I'm new on the forum I was curious to know.
    We discuss good and bad experiences. Why don't you post a picture and ad in the escort listings section. The reviews will come afterwards.

  15. #1377

    Is It A Bad thing not to be talked about on here as a provider

    I'm completely new to the escort business. I would like to know is it good not to have reviews on here or bad? Since I'm new on the forum I was curious to know.

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