Thread: Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"
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12-26-13 15:49 #2036Senior Member

Posts: 2645First of all, let me correct you on your numbers. She was NOT 40 minutes late. She was 54 minutes past the appointment when she CALLED me, which doesn't even mean she has arrived. I looked out the window and there was no one there. Providers who do outcall are NOT always 15-20 minutes late. If that's your expectation without telling the client that it's a possibility, then you are in the wrong business.
Originally Posted by EloquentEven
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FYI-- I gave her up to 45 minutes to be late, which is TRIPPLE your 15 minute expectation. That's when I cancelled, at 45 minutes. And the reason I didn't act like it was a problem until it became a problem (at the 40 minute mark when I texted that I was thinking of cancelling.) is because it wouldn't have helped the situation. Would she have gotten there any sooner if I told you I was getting pissed?
Secondly, it doesn't matter whether or not I have plans at 8:01. Whether I do or do not is of no concern of yours. If I planned on just walking around my house naked with a vacuum cleaner hose stuck up my ass giving myself an enema at 8:05, that's MY TIME and not for you or or any provider to allocate for yourselves as a buffer. You want a buffer? You ask for one.
It doesn't matter if it's 2 days before Christmas, or 10 days after Cinco de Mayo. I made the appointment for 7 pm, you accepted and verified. It's not unreasonable for me to expect that she be there at 7 pm. I think, and everyone here pretty much agrees that me giving her 45 minutes before cancelling was being generous of me.
If she has GPS (as you claim she was using) she has ZERO excuses why she couldn't be there within a reasonable time, and 54 minutes before calling allegedly from my house is NOT reasonable. I can drive from downtown to King's Island AND BACK in 45 minutes. I can drive from Covington, KY to the northern part of Lexington, KY in 55 minutes. I can make an entire drive around the I-275 loop, all 80 miles of it, in 55 minutes. ZERO excuses.
So, if you think that coming here on The Octagon, and make yourself out to be the victim of some unreasonable man, then you really need to learn some customer service skills. I was more than reasonable; more than some of the other guys. A better businessman would have apologized, offer to re-schedule with a time guarantee, or just say, "I'm going to address this with Melea so it never happens again.
THAT would have been the thing to do. Instead you try to make me out to be the unreasonable bad guy, trying to excuse the tardiness with, "It was 8:01 pm 2 days before Christmas. You can't be doing anything else anyway." That is bull shit. 100% utter bull shit.
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12-26-13 15:01 #2035Senior Member

Posts: 898A2 are we having server issues today?
The site is having issues loading to get on or at least on my puter. Maybe just my machine.
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12-26-13 00:09 #2034Senior Member

Posts: 307It's a business doing pleasure with you.
Attention to detail, common courtesy, AND thinking about this as a business. Not mechanical or work-like in the moment but all of the prep that goes around it. Think about it fellow mongers, if you had a work meeting somewhere any you'd never been there before, wouldn't you plan to arrive early 10-20-30 minutes. That's just part of the job so that at meeting time, you KNOW you're going to be where you need to be. Getting lost happens but it doesn't become a problem unless you've timed everything for perfection.
Originally Posted by Mmslim84
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Pros, and I include Ally in that group (as well as some of the other "usual suspects" of top providers that roam these parts), know that chit can happen that they set their plans to allow for it without it effecting the meeting time.
And while I'm on a rant. The un-pro thing that makes me absolutely nuts is when you talk to a provider to get the general area, then you talk to her to get the specific property, then you call to say "I'm in the parking lot, what room" and they say "by the way, do you have any raincoats, I'm all out". I know, I know. Boy scouts are always prepared but sometimes there are circumstances where I just don't want to be walking around with a pocket full of trojans. And then, to wait for the third call to say BYOC. Seriously. WTF. That's like the plumber showing up at your front door to repair the leaky shower and announcing he can only do it if you've got a pipe wrench in the basement.
Last time I got that message 60 seconds from hitting the room, I said screw it, I'm out of here. Miraculously, I got a call back in 30 seconds announcing that some supplies had just mysteriously appeared.
Anyway, my point is that a pro is not just a pro during the meeting, they're a pro during all the prep too. Going early to be sure they're not late. Having all the appropriate supplies. Being focused on good communications before and during a session. All these little things add up and ladies, you can say it's not your job because we're only paying for the half hour or hour (or more) of your time. What sets the Ally's, Molly's, or LSM's (as examples) apart is they know that they have to prepare to deliver a great experience. It ain't just good luck. There are more than a few providers who think their only role in all this is to show up and be horny. That sure helps but the prep makes all the difference in the world.
Rant over. We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming.
Have a great day.
Dz.
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12-25-13 14:59 #2033Senior Member

Posts: 154That's the difference
That's what sets you and other top notch providers apart, attention to details along with common courtesy.
MM.
Originally Posted by SinfulDreams
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12-25-13 02:16 #2032

Posts: 715Coal In Your Stocking!
Despite his platitudes, make no mistake, UTR is nothing short of Grimm's Krampus. Book with him if you wish to simply avoid being with any gal I have seen since I bruised his ego, however I would proffer that his ladies would be even better if they break free from his erratic and often Psychotic bonds.
Originally Posted by UtrInOhio
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12-24-13 15:26 #2031Preceptor

Posts: 546Seasons Greetings!
Sasha, CupCake, Becca and I want to wish everyone a Very Merry Christmas!
Originally Posted by PhatDaty
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12-24-13 12:57 #2030Senior Member

Posts: 1170Tardiness
Pardon me for butting in from up north, but I got to add my 2 cents. Tardiness is an innate part of being a woman. I have never in my almost 56 years of life been involved with a woman who was reliably and always, or even mostly, on time, with the exception of a few women in legitimate business I was involved with in the past. And even they were usually late, if only a couple minutes.
Gentlemen, I submit to you that having a punanni causes one's timekeeping devices to slow, probably due to a heretofore undiscovered vaginiac electromagnetic radiation effecting the circuitry. The only solution is to make plans with the foreknowledge and foresight that you expect the lady to be anywhere from 1 to 2 hours late. Either that, or Steve, start driving them to their appointments, they spend the drive time getting ready.
Cheech.
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12-24-13 12:53 #2029

Posts: 43515-20 minutes late
I would think most providers show up 15-20 late the first time visiting most clients cause they don't know where to park and what building it is and apartment etc..
I work a few jobs. At one I am a chauffer for a limousine company. I know things happen when you are going to a new place to meet a person. I have had my gps send me 20 minutes from where I was supposed to be picking my pax up. I have passed exits driving through construction on interstates adding unaccounted for minutes to my drive time. Traffic jams can get you when & where ever you go. For these and many more reasons I try to map out any and all trips as soon s I get the info. If I even think I am going to be close to late I call the dispatch or the client to verify location or even have them walk me in to their location. Why? Because I am a professional, I want my clients to have nothing but rave reviews of my service. I want them to request me for their future needs in transportation. I understand shit happens, that's why I am proactive. I would rather be 15,25 or even an hour early to a pick up than 1 minute late. I don't get paid extra if I am a half hour early. But I have never been late when I showed up early either. I know every time your girls are late they are going to say sorry I did not mean to be late. My question to them is did you mean not to be late? Cause if you ment to not be late, more times than not, your not going to be late. For you to tell your girls it's ok to be late 15-20 minutes every time they meet a new client at a new location (and that's exactly what you did with your post here) is bad business. You re enabling them to continue their less than professional ways. I can't imagine the shit I would get if I told my passengers it is standerd procedure to be 15-20 minutes late when a driver is picking up a a new person at new location.
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12-24-13 04:01 #2028Advertiser-Escort

Posts: 380Tardiness
I move this to the octagon since I can't have my say in the other discussion forms.
Yes she was late...Yes it is and was a problem...
But I did tell you about it and updated you everytime I was updated. I cannot call or text them constantly as they use the GPS on their phones.
Traffic, lack of sunlight and street lights, unfamiliar part of town, wrong turns, wrong directions from GPS (yes this happens), and just the basic fact she is a girl driving herself in the middle of the night using the phone makes them late.
At no point did you act like it was a issue. I would think most providers show up 15-20 late the first time visiting most clients cause they don't know where to park and what building it is and apartment etc..
It's to reason you would not have plans at 8:01 pm. It seems as it's 2 days before Christmas you would be more forgiving. Yes I recruit the young and hot providers. Maybe I am Insane but they have what most all other providers cannot match, youth and looks.
Yes they are hard to motivate and get commitments from. They do not deal with the backlash... I do.. I try to get them all on the same level but it takes time. And I know your time is important and is mine and hers.
If you want bash and ridicule me over Melea being late 40 min then that's your right and that is what makes USASG great. I can certainly see why a lot of providers do not offer outcall. Not everyone likes or uses my service. I understand.
Again Melea and I apologize and hope to Dnut and Mslim84 . Hope everyone has a great and joyful holiday,
Thanks EE.
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12-23-13 23:12 #2027

Posts: 435Que the midgets
Jerry Jerry Jerry!
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12-23-13 22:59 #2026

Posts: 715Typical Potomac Two-step
You back-peddle when you are roasted on your bullshit, and you and your buddies decide to attempt to pile on and fail. Just fuck off already. I will continue to do sessions with many of the ladies in our region, many of which you see, while you cling to ignorance being bliss. Even the ladies you claim that say differently know the truth. Nobody matches my ability to make them cum and squirt. If it makes you feel better, I have a skinny, 3 inch dick, so that is why I became so good at DATY and digit / g-spot squirting during DATY, hence the handle.
Originally Posted by DGoesDown
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As to Sasha and company, they are merely, if it is even them typing the posts, parroting UTR. At best he is an idiot pimp, at worse, he is an erratic and indiscreet bastard. Either way, I will no longer see Sasha and Cupcake, even if they begged me until they drop him and go independent. All he has done is caused me to to revisit my old belief that girls with handlers are in a bad place.
There are plenty of other wonderful and skilled that want my business: money, kindness in sessions, and erotic pleasure.
Cupcake and Sasha, if they are being honest, know I have always been very kind to them in our sessions, until that slovenly egomaniac got in their head. In the end, he only deprived them of steady income with his constant bullshit.
The only other "no see" gal is Molly. Why? Because I once wrote a bad report on her after she dropped three appointments in a row, one of which cost me $160 on the room I booked for us when she no showed.
So for all of you that can't bear to see the same girls as me: go for those three. I wouldn't fuck them if they paid me.
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12-22-13 14:27 #2025Senior Member

Posts: 246My last retort
Pissing Contest? I feel as if I have nothing more to prove. Asshat keeps altering what I say so that in his mind he is right or the best or whatever. I've never said that I wouldn't see a provider just because you are. Please repost my quoted statement where I did. What I did say is that I see a couple (2) girls that won't see you. I've said that more than once. In the case that my one girl who came forward is lying. & you are in fact seeing her, I accept your DATY challenge. Since a well recognized, highly reviewed provider has already said that I'm the best, please pay for my next session with her on your next visit. I am not impressed or intimidated by your writing, money, or worldly travels. You have nothing that makes me wish I had any part of your lifestyle incorporated into mine. I will concede on one portion of our back & forth verbiage. You apparently own a bear bell and I do not. Cherish the hell out of that bear bell. You beat the hell out of me on that one. I've never seen Molly but will have to try to schedule some of her time as she must be an outstanding judge of character. Merry Christmas everyone! Now I'll wait to be insulted some more because bullying and boasting is all he can do to make up for feelings of inadequacy. Peace to all, I'm done with it.
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12-22-13 14:27 #2024Senior Member

Posts: 617No excuse for fake photos
If there is a concern about confidentiality, it is perfectly acceptable to post a (real) photo that hides the face. But fake photo is never acceptable.
Originally Posted by RhettB
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This is why, gentlemen, you should require all non-vetted BP providers to send you a selfie with the day's date, a unique gesture, etc. This simple step can bungle any scammer.
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12-22-13 08:47 #2023Senior Member

Posts: 240Pissing Contest?
DGoes & Phat need to settle this pissing dual once and for all. I'm personally sick of both of your chest pounding junior high antics. Let's settle this once and for all and have you both post a dick pic with a ruler showing your manly tool length? Oh, and since we're on the subject of DATY, a tongue extension pic would also help.
Originally Posted by PhatDaty
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Have a Merry Christmas, everyone!
P.S. I'm fucking kidding! Please don't.
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12-22-13 08:33 #2022

Posts: 715Dumb as Douchebag Down
You, like Douchebagdown, are missing the point. They thrive on ANY GENT that will give them business. If you are being a fool like him and telling a lady you won't see her if she doesn't see so and so, she will most likely just soothe your ego and tell you she isn't seeing that person.
Originally Posted by Mykull44
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This is a business, not junior high.








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