"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

I agree with HG. In my into letter I request that they SEND me a Face Shot and a full length shot. Only time I've ever been burned is when I ignore my own rules. After receiving the photos...when they sit for their chemistry exam...it's never looks.

Still hitting them like I hit my tennis shots: "Hard and Deep".

Booyao!

Speaking of rules. I negotiated a $$ hottie down to $. Went to go meet her and she flaked. Said she got cold feet one block from the meet. Meet # 2 tonite.

[SubCmdr]

I have definitely gotten very picky on photos myself. If there is no very clear pic of the face and another one of a head to toe shot I always request that before getting too carried away. Been burned more than once.

I agree with HG. In my into letter I request that they SEND me a Face Shot and a full length shot. Only time I've ever been burned is when I ignore my own rules. After receiving the photos...when they sit for their chemistry exam...it's never looks.

Still hitting them like I hit my tennis shots: "Hard and Deep".

Booyao!

[HollywoodGuy]

After reading my own post about things getting tight I started to review my own MO about meeting girls online. What I normally do is just send my intro letter and that's it. If they don't respond it's over.

But I have narrowed my search to such a tight demographic (18 to 22, AA or mixed spinners, at least an 8/8 or better) that even in L.A. There are a limited number of girls to choose from. So I started sending follow up letters to my turn downs to meta question them about what they wanted and why did they turn me down.

To me a legitimate turn down could be for lack of sufficient funds on my part, that they are not attracted to me, or they think I am too promiscuous. All legitimate concerns.

So I re-messaged a few true hotties. I have gotten a few responses. And yes, some wanted far more than I could give. But so far it's mostly come down to their being overwhelmed with responses when they first signed up to the site.

Once they had a chance to filter through that and understand what I was proposing it all made more sense. So I have 2 m&g's for Saturday so far.

[BigTigger]

So you haven't met them in person yet, but you've already scheduled an overnight?

I have plenty of photos, including full body pics. We've talked daily, texted and email daily. The first date is not a hotel date. The second one is scheduled for overnight, assuming the first goes as planned.

BT.

[BigTigger]

If I am reading your posts correctly, you mean the booby call list.

This girl has been on and off the site for months. I see she moved from the L.A. Area down to san diego county.

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/profi...rnia-SugarBaby

I,m a slender guy and I like spinners, but I bet this is more the type that gets all the attention from most of you guys.

Actually most of the booty call list has small boobs. MsBigRed had big ones, but she has big but and belly too, lol...
BT.

[HollywoodGuy]

I'm sure, but I meant he might be disappointed in their true appearance. Photos can be deceiving and he may not like them in person.

I have definitely gotten very picky on photos myself. If there is no very clear pic of the face and another one of a head to toe shot I always request that before getting too carried away. Been burned more than once.

[Spitfire]

There are a lot of girls that are down for whatever. And never underestimate the power of the Benji.

I'm sure, but I meant he might be disappointed in their true appearance. Photos can be deceiving and he may not like them in person.

[HollywoodGuy]

So you haven't met them in person yet, but you've already scheduled an overnight?

There are a lot of girls that are down for whatever. And never underestimate the power of the Benji.

[Spitfire]

TheDuo is moving along well, we are schedule for a face to face on Sunday night. Is supposed to be a quick meeting, but MsChocolate is ready for a few drinks and hotel experience. I told her to hold on, as we are supposed to have our overnight on Friday of next week.

So you haven't met them in person yet, but you've already scheduled an overnight?

[HollywoodGuy]

Had a booty call friend (MsBigRed) hit me up yesterday. She's all in. So now I have 4 on the booty call list.

If I am reading your posts correctly, you mean the booby call list.

This girl has been on and off the site for months. I see she moved from the L.A. Area down to san diego county.

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/profi...rnia-SugarBaby

I,m a slender guy and I like spinners, but I bet this is more the type that gets all the attention from most of you guys.

[BigTigger]

I have family obligations for the weekend, starting tomorrow.

MsBubbly is very unreliable and has some terrible habits that are probably going to be deal breakers. She's always fashionably late...like 30 minutes or so. She says she will call back and doesn't. She doesn't do well with planning. She communicates very sporadically and will disappear in the middle of a text conversation. I ask to confirm by 2 pm, she doesn't confirm and sends a Hello, text at 6 pm.

MsSllimCheerleader, seems to be settling in as my main SB. We'll see each other twice next week. One 3 hour date, one over night date. The week after we are scheduled for dates on Wed, Fri and Sat.

TheDuo is moving along well, we are schedule for a face to face on Sunday night. Is supposed to be a quick meeting, but MsChocolate is ready for a few drinks and hotel experience. I told her to hold on, as we are supposed to have our overnight on Friday of next week.

Had another nibble (MsTallShapely) that hit me up on SA. 5'11, beautiful, 20 years old, working and in college. 10 for a body! I just love the tall ones. She was not available much today to talk or text. So I expect to pick up on chatting with her next week.

Hit up an old POT who faded away because she was too far away without transportation. Now she's only 20 minutes from the Tiggapad. We talked today and she's all in. Not sure where I can fit her in, but she is 5'2 with plenty of boobs and butt. Beautiful face. We laughed and chatted well today. She's staying at home with mom and taking a few semesters off. So we'll call her MsHomeBody. She cannot do overnights, but she can stay out as late as 2 am. I hope to finally meet her next week.

Emailed with another POT, she has gorgeous in her name. She has been done wrong by a few men and is now a little rough around the edges. Let's call her MsHoodSexy. She's game for a hotel date on the first date, but I don't remember what her price range is. I am going to try and at least meet her and see how things go from there. Not sure I want to hit it the first date, but the body is slim with the right amount of curves, so we'll see.

Had a booty call friend (MsBigRed) hit me up yesterday. She's all in. So now I have 4 on the booty call list.

MsHipsnThighs.

MsBigRed.

MsVanity.

MsLilMama.

SBs in Order.

MsSlimCheerleader.

TheDuo.

MsTallShapely.

MsBody.

MsHomeBody.

MsHoodSexy.

I was supposed to be narrowing this down.

BT.

[F Scott]

Haven't been playing the online game much lately. Starbucks. College town. Four blocks from campus. One of three coffee joints in town. The place is packed but there's not a student in sight.

Where has this place been all my life? I don't like coffee, so I've never really hung out in one. What I see are 30-something single moms. What I hear is one complaint after another about lack of funds. For rent. For Johnny's soccer cleats. For Mary Jane's Abercrombie addiction. These women are broke, but hanging out in an expensive coffee shop. That tells me that between food stamp re-ups, they like to pamper themselves a little.

Lurk. Listen. Don't offer to help quite yet. Sympathize. Get very friendly, see how she responds. Gauge whether you'll reach home plate before you commit. This is a very sensitive situation that can easily tip over. These women don't want to be hookers. They fancy themselves as far as possible from that. Any insinuation that you want her to provide sex for money will blow the whole thing up, maybe even ruin your chances with others.

She'd be glad to accept some help from a friend, sure. A gift now and then. It sure does make things easier, knowing there's someone out there who can help you out from time to time.

Just make sure you're available during the day, while the kids are in school.

Westie,

Welcome, but I'm afraid you are too cryptic for me. Have you scored any MILFS just by hanging out at Starbucks, or are you merely sharing your hunches?

This is an open, honest thread, my friend, so please don't feel like you need to encrypt your post. Read back to the beginning, and you will see that we are all happy to share.

Please share real details, successes or failures, and help us all to land those sweet little fishes that we so desire.

Scott.

[West Central]

Haven't been playing the online game much lately. Starbucks. College town. Four blocks from campus. One of three coffee joints in town. The place is packed but there's not a student in sight.

Where has this place been all my life? I don't like coffee, so I've never really hung out in one. What I see are 30-something single moms. What I hear is one complaint after another about lack of funds. For rent. For Johnny's soccer cleats. For Mary Jane's Abercrombie addiction. These women are broke, but hanging out in an expensive coffee shop. That tells me that between food stamp re-ups, they like to pamper themselves a little.

Lurk. Listen. Don't offer to help quite yet. Sympathize. Get very friendly, see how she responds. Gauge whether you'll reach home plate before you commit. This is a very sensitive situation that can easily tip over. These women don't want to be hookers. They fancy themselves as far as possible from that. Any insinuation that you want her to provide sex for money will blow the whole thing up, maybe even ruin your chances with others.

She'd be glad to accept some help from a friend, sure. A gift now and then. It sure does make things easier, knowing there's someone out there who can help you out from time to time.

Just make sure you're available during the day, while the kids are in school.

[FotoGuy1970]

Earlier today, I received this response to my CL ad. This is completely unedited:

"I'm going to be very blunt with youI'm 21 and I'm ina bad spot I need help paying for school and I want to get my own place ijus need 25,000 and can you help me out with that if ihelp you?

That is one serious case of unrealistic expectations. It turns out she wanted that much as an advance for our visits. I explained there was no way I or any sane daddy would ever advance her that much sugar, so she tried to negotiate for half that instead. I reiterated my offer from my CL ad and made it clear that I wasn't going to negotiate much beyond my initial offer. I didn't hear back from her, which I'm fine with.

[FredMoore]

I'm now living vicariously through you studs out there. I miss the chase terribly.

RE: ATF.

I see her once / week. She is totally game for whatever and now seems like another SO, except she will take it in all 3 holes and deep throat with the best of them. She brags about previous experiences in her wilder days which is a little off putting to me. But she is always available to me so I think for now she is happy with the way things are. She is a 10 across the board so could accelerate her activities if she wants to. I don't think she wants the UTR life though at this point. She was as wild as any of us back in "the day ".

Re: SB#1.

I met her in the FC a while ago and leaves much to be desired. She is a cute white UTR sort, perhaps 7/7/7/7. If she ramps up her involvement a notch she will be a decent Stable addition. She is $ and has a FC, but last time we were there she was rushed and wanted to pop and run for fear that the roommate will return. She is definitely not worth renting a Notel for. I will use her when ATF is out of town for a month. She wants a car date as a fantasy so I might take her up on that. Believe it or not I have never done that even in my HS years. All I need to be arrested for public indecency LOL, so will have to pick a private spot.

RE: Personal FC.

I had a FC last year and it was really nice to be able to take SBs back and wine and dine them there. The good thing about it was the security. No one can get through the entry door into the lobby to even approach the apartment door. So I never worried about an ex-SB showing up at the door. I guess they could always wait for another resident to let them in but it is a layer of security, Also parking is in a gated garage so the car can not be spotted on the street outside the building. Good points to know for you guys looking for one like BT has as well.

Keep up the good work guys, I enjoy reading about your exploits.