"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

So after getting flaked on by the 19 year old 9/9 hottie earlier in the day I took a M&G from another girl that responded to my follow up letter.

I had already scheduled an evening date with a different (third girl) who I then rescheduled for Sunday.

So anyway I went to meet this 18 year old college student who I picked up from her dorm and went straight back to the FC for a 40 minute BBBJ. She would have gone another 20 minutes if I let her. Paid the usual $. She was an AA 7/9/9/8 (really a 7 but adding a point for duration) spinner (pictured). I told her if she couldn't fuck me on the next date there wouldn't be one ... So we will see, as she was uncertain of her feelings about that.

Her winning personality kept me rock hard the whole time as she was happy to do whatever I asked until the end. It was a little frustrating as I was horny as hell and really wanted to fuck.

So after only one day of follow up letters I had about 6 girls respond. 4 were GPS, but the other 2 were down. So I did the one and I am going to meet the other one tomorrow afternoon before she goes to work. (she looks to be about an 8/8).

[Revvo]

I have definitely gotten very picky on photos myself. If there is no very clear pic of the face and another one of a head to toe shot I always request that before getting too carried away. Been burned more than once.

I can't tell you how many totally fat or just plain ugly POTs I have met and even fucked a few. Just do not settle for incomplete pics. If they refuse or blow you off there is your answer.

Revvo.

[HollywoodGuy]

I agree with HG. In my into letter I request that they SEND me a Face Shot and a full length shot. Only time I've ever been burned is when I ignore my own rules. After receiving the photos...when they sit for their chemistry exam...it's never looks.

Still hitting them like I hit my tennis shots: "Hard and Deep".

Booyao!

Speaking of rules. I negotiated a $$ hottie down to $. Went to go meet her and she flaked. Said she got cold feet one block from the meet. Meet # 2 tonite.

[SubCmdr]

I have definitely gotten very picky on photos myself. If there is no very clear pic of the face and another one of a head to toe shot I always request that before getting too carried away. Been burned more than once.

I agree with HG. In my into letter I request that they SEND me a Face Shot and a full length shot. Only time I've ever been burned is when I ignore my own rules. After receiving the photos...when they sit for their chemistry exam...it's never looks.

Still hitting them like I hit my tennis shots: "Hard and Deep".

Booyao!

[HollywoodGuy]

After reading my own post about things getting tight I started to review my own MO about meeting girls online. What I normally do is just send my intro letter and that's it. If they don't respond it's over.

But I have narrowed my search to such a tight demographic (18 to 22, AA or mixed spinners, at least an 8/8 or better) that even in L.A. There are a limited number of girls to choose from. So I started sending follow up letters to my turn downs to meta question them about what they wanted and why did they turn me down.

To me a legitimate turn down could be for lack of sufficient funds on my part, that they are not attracted to me, or they think I am too promiscuous. All legitimate concerns.

So I re-messaged a few true hotties. I have gotten a few responses. And yes, some wanted far more than I could give. But so far it's mostly come down to their being overwhelmed with responses when they first signed up to the site.

Once they had a chance to filter through that and understand what I was proposing it all made more sense. So I have 2 m&g's for Saturday so far.

[BigTigger]

So you haven't met them in person yet, but you've already scheduled an overnight?

I have plenty of photos, including full body pics. We've talked daily, texted and email daily. The first date is not a hotel date. The second one is scheduled for overnight, assuming the first goes as planned.

BT.

[BigTigger]

If I am reading your posts correctly, you mean the booby call list.

This girl has been on and off the site for months. I see she moved from the L.A. Area down to san diego county.

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/profi...rnia-SugarBaby

I,m a slender guy and I like spinners, but I bet this is more the type that gets all the attention from most of you guys.

Actually most of the booty call list has small boobs. MsBigRed had big ones, but she has big but and belly too, lol...
BT.

[HollywoodGuy]

I'm sure, but I meant he might be disappointed in their true appearance. Photos can be deceiving and he may not like them in person.

I have definitely gotten very picky on photos myself. If there is no very clear pic of the face and another one of a head to toe shot I always request that before getting too carried away. Been burned more than once.

[Spitfire]

There are a lot of girls that are down for whatever. And never underestimate the power of the Benji.

I'm sure, but I meant he might be disappointed in their true appearance. Photos can be deceiving and he may not like them in person.

[HollywoodGuy]

So you haven't met them in person yet, but you've already scheduled an overnight?

There are a lot of girls that are down for whatever. And never underestimate the power of the Benji.

[Spitfire]

TheDuo is moving along well, we are schedule for a face to face on Sunday night. Is supposed to be a quick meeting, but MsChocolate is ready for a few drinks and hotel experience. I told her to hold on, as we are supposed to have our overnight on Friday of next week.

So you haven't met them in person yet, but you've already scheduled an overnight?

[HollywoodGuy]

Had a booty call friend (MsBigRed) hit me up yesterday. She's all in. So now I have 4 on the booty call list.

If I am reading your posts correctly, you mean the booby call list.

This girl has been on and off the site for months. I see she moved from the L.A. Area down to san diego county.

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/profi...rnia-SugarBaby

I,m a slender guy and I like spinners, but I bet this is more the type that gets all the attention from most of you guys.

[BigTigger]

I have family obligations for the weekend, starting tomorrow.

MsBubbly is very unreliable and has some terrible habits that are probably going to be deal breakers. She's always fashionably late...like 30 minutes or so. She says she will call back and doesn't. She doesn't do well with planning. She communicates very sporadically and will disappear in the middle of a text conversation. I ask to confirm by 2 pm, she doesn't confirm and sends a Hello, text at 6 pm.

MsSllimCheerleader, seems to be settling in as my main SB. We'll see each other twice next week. One 3 hour date, one over night date. The week after we are scheduled for dates on Wed, Fri and Sat.

TheDuo is moving along well, we are schedule for a face to face on Sunday night. Is supposed to be a quick meeting, but MsChocolate is ready for a few drinks and hotel experience. I told her to hold on, as we are supposed to have our overnight on Friday of next week.

Had another nibble (MsTallShapely) that hit me up on SA. 5'11, beautiful, 20 years old, working and in college. 10 for a body! I just love the tall ones. She was not available much today to talk or text. So I expect to pick up on chatting with her next week.

Hit up an old POT who faded away because she was too far away without transportation. Now she's only 20 minutes from the Tiggapad. We talked today and she's all in. Not sure where I can fit her in, but she is 5'2 with plenty of boobs and butt. Beautiful face. We laughed and chatted well today. She's staying at home with mom and taking a few semesters off. So we'll call her MsHomeBody. She cannot do overnights, but she can stay out as late as 2 am. I hope to finally meet her next week.

Emailed with another POT, she has gorgeous in her name. She has been done wrong by a few men and is now a little rough around the edges. Let's call her MsHoodSexy. She's game for a hotel date on the first date, but I don't remember what her price range is. I am going to try and at least meet her and see how things go from there. Not sure I want to hit it the first date, but the body is slim with the right amount of curves, so we'll see.

Had a booty call friend (MsBigRed) hit me up yesterday. She's all in. So now I have 4 on the booty call list.

MsHipsnThighs.

MsBigRed.

MsVanity.

MsLilMama.

SBs in Order.

MsSlimCheerleader.

TheDuo.

MsTallShapely.

MsBody.

MsHomeBody.

MsHoodSexy.

I was supposed to be narrowing this down.

BT.

[F Scott]

Haven't been playing the online game much lately. Starbucks. College town. Four blocks from campus. One of three coffee joints in town. The place is packed but there's not a student in sight.

Where has this place been all my life? I don't like coffee, so I've never really hung out in one. What I see are 30-something single moms. What I hear is one complaint after another about lack of funds. For rent. For Johnny's soccer cleats. For Mary Jane's Abercrombie addiction. These women are broke, but hanging out in an expensive coffee shop. That tells me that between food stamp re-ups, they like to pamper themselves a little.

Lurk. Listen. Don't offer to help quite yet. Sympathize. Get very friendly, see how she responds. Gauge whether you'll reach home plate before you commit. This is a very sensitive situation that can easily tip over. These women don't want to be hookers. They fancy themselves as far as possible from that. Any insinuation that you want her to provide sex for money will blow the whole thing up, maybe even ruin your chances with others.

She'd be glad to accept some help from a friend, sure. A gift now and then. It sure does make things easier, knowing there's someone out there who can help you out from time to time.

Just make sure you're available during the day, while the kids are in school.

Westie,

Welcome, but I'm afraid you are too cryptic for me. Have you scored any MILFS just by hanging out at Starbucks, or are you merely sharing your hunches?

This is an open, honest thread, my friend, so please don't feel like you need to encrypt your post. Read back to the beginning, and you will see that we are all happy to share.

Please share real details, successes or failures, and help us all to land those sweet little fishes that we so desire.

Scott.

[West Central]

Haven't been playing the online game much lately. Starbucks. College town. Four blocks from campus. One of three coffee joints in town. The place is packed but there's not a student in sight.

Where has this place been all my life? I don't like coffee, so I've never really hung out in one. What I see are 30-something single moms. What I hear is one complaint after another about lack of funds. For rent. For Johnny's soccer cleats. For Mary Jane's Abercrombie addiction. These women are broke, but hanging out in an expensive coffee shop. That tells me that between food stamp re-ups, they like to pamper themselves a little.

Lurk. Listen. Don't offer to help quite yet. Sympathize. Get very friendly, see how she responds. Gauge whether you'll reach home plate before you commit. This is a very sensitive situation that can easily tip over. These women don't want to be hookers. They fancy themselves as far as possible from that. Any insinuation that you want her to provide sex for money will blow the whole thing up, maybe even ruin your chances with others.

She'd be glad to accept some help from a friend, sure. A gift now and then. It sure does make things easier, knowing there's someone out there who can help you out from time to time.

Just make sure you're available during the day, while the kids are in school.