"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[BikeRider]

Yep, $99 at Best Buy.

The trackers (as seen in Breaking Bad, available at Best Buy, and in SkyMall) are 100% passive, and the only way to identify them is visually. Good luck.

I'll submit, however, that if you're to the point of being worried about a tracker than you've already lost. Sign away 50+% of your assets (unless you had a pre-nup) and move-on.

No risk. No reward. Welcome to the bowl.

[Just757]

Fellas, do you typically invite your sb to your place? Why or why not? And is this strongly not suggested?

[Golfcart]

I agree bike there are a lot of guys out there that are nice. But notice I said be good to them I did not say be nice to therm. Being nice is the death of attraction for a woman. They want a man. Not a nice guy. But too nice is things like, kissing her ass, rearranging your life around hers, following her lead, not standing up for yourself when she misbehaves. All things that make woman's pussy shrivel up and never want your dick.

You can be good to a woman and still be a man. Fine line indeed.

Revvo.

I think the fine line is giving a woman what she wants when she wants it. The "when she wants it" part is every bit as important as the "giving a woman what she wants" part. The fine line is not doing it very often and being very unpredictable about it. I'm not talking about sex. I'm talking about everyday life, everyday interaction.

[BigTime2]

Lurker, but not yet a SD yet here, I feel I have something that may be of value. Anyone who's ever watched the show "Cheaters" knows that 90% or more of the cheaters busted are caught by following their car. As an avid reader and somewhat technical geek I know there are many passive and real-time ways for individuals to electronically track a vehicle. Most are under a couple hundred dollars. It could also be as easy as SO having access to and recording the mileage on your vehicle. Being aware of your surroundings, varying your routes, stopping at convenience stores and watching for suspicious acting vehicles is about your only defense from people visually tracking you. I really don't have answers for good countermeasures for electronic tracking. If you are as one person said, "under the wardens spotlight", you have to learn and figure out how to avoid detection on your own. If you do, and are successful, I hope you share it on this site.

Good luck to all.

Yep, $99 at Best Buy.

[Binder79]

So I've been busier than normal lately at work and heading out door earlier in the morning. Last week flipping through the radio I stumble across this local radio show that tests men. It's called "war of the roses". A wife or gf that suspects a cheating partner calls in and gets the radio hosts to test the man. The female radio host calls the man's cell and says he won a free dozen long stem red roses and he can choose to have them sent to anyone in the continental US at zero charge. I listened on the radio (and then checked out the website) as almost all of these guys send the roses to their mistress. I'm pointing out this lesson so that if something free like this this comes along, use your Brain not your dick. Send the freebie to your wife and include a nice sappy message about how you love her and are sorry you've been so distracted with work lately!! Don't send the flowers to your ATF SB... Ie. Give the dick pounding to your SB and the flowers to your wife. I recommend pulling the website and listen to a few. Just search war of the roses radio...

Good Luck and stay safe,

PF

Lurker, but not yet a SD yet here, I feel I have something that may be of value. Anyone who's ever watched the show "Cheaters" knows that 90% or more of the cheaters busted are caught by following their car. As an avid reader and somewhat technical geek I know there are many passive and real-time ways for individuals to electronically track a vehicle. Most are under a couple hundred dollars. It could also be as easy as SO having access to and recording the mileage on your vehicle. Being aware of your surroundings, varying your routes, stopping at convenience stores and watching for suspicious acting vehicles is about your only defense from people visually tracking you. I really don't have answers for good countermeasures for electronic tracking. If you are as one person said, "under the wardens spotlight", you have to learn and figure out how to avoid detection on your own. If you do, and are successful, I hope you share it on this site.

Good luck to all.

[BikeRider]

I don't think either of us have it. Symptoms are different. But I want to make sure. Is there any where else you can get Flagyl?

Revvo.

You could walk into your local (or better yet near-by) health clinic, or you might be able to try http://getstdtested.com/trichomoniasis-test.

I don't know anyone who has used that site, but Hunter Handsfield is on the advisory board. He's pretty well known so I think the site is legit.

[Revvo]

And you will need flagyl to treat it. Other antibiotics won't work on it. #1 symptom in women is a "fishy" smelling coochie, which 95% or better of all SW's have.

On an interesting note; smoking crack gives a large majority of SW's a "fishy" smelling cooch also. Confirmed by many SW's I've talked to about it. Now you might be thinking, hey the SB I'm doing isn't like this. But really? She's doing P2 P with you and who knows what the last guy she was with was doing.

But back to the trich. Don't know about your area but here in Detroit the free health dept. Clinics don't bother to test for it. They'll just give you the flagyl and make you take it in front of them if you mention that there might be a possibility. Personally I think it's good practice to get tested once or twice a year. Helps you sleep better at night.

I don't think either of us have it. Symptoms are different. But I want to make sure. Is there any where else you can get Flagyl?

Revvo.

[Revvo]

I agree with both Dsprdo and Revvo. There is a fine line we have to walk here though. A former GF and I once discussed having an open relationship. She was against it because I was "too nice". In the bowl, we have to walk this fine line of being nice and using a "strong pimp-hand" when needed. It isn't easy.

I agree bike there are a lot of guys out there that are nice. But notice I said be good to them I did not say be nice to therm. Being nice is the death of attraction for a woman. They want a man. Not a nice guy. But too nice is things like, kissing her ass, rearranging your life around hers, following her lead, not standing up for yourself when she misbehaves. All things that make woman's pussy shrivel up and never want your dick.

You can be good to a woman and still be a man. Fine line indeed.

Revvo.

[BikeRider]

Dsprdo is right on on this one. You never know when you are going to run into a keeper. You might think it is a one and done and the next thing you know. You have a real fine quality piece of ass a good woman, and she really does not want any money. Then you are in the situation of having to maintain a bunch of bullshit. I tell them the truth. I am open with them. I just do not give them details of my location, name and family. That way they cannot come back to me except maybe on my license plate. But most of the time I have rental cars for my work. So even that would be hard. Running a tag is not so easy any more. That is logged by who is requesting the information. And police can even get dinged for it.

Be straight with them. Treat them right. Otherwise just find a pro. They wont care.

Revvo.

I agree with both Dsprdo and Revvo. There is a fine line we have to walk here though. A former GF and I once discussed having an open relationship. She was against it because I was "too nice". In the bowl, we have to walk this fine line of being nice and using a "strong pimp-hand" when needed. It isn't easy.

[Revvo]

Okay, I get the irony of someone pursuing age inappropriate babes wanting to claim the high ground, but I am (mostly) straight up. It's easier to keep your story straight, it doesn't create unrealistic expectations, and honestly I don't think most of them really think they are going to end up on the red carpet on E! (although some might-avoid them! That being said, my SA profile age is shaded a few years to keep me south of a milestone birthday (for as long as I think its believable).

I think the girls fall into a few categories-there is discussion about this right now that applies. If the are GPS / UTR / Pro, then it doesn't matter what you say, only what you pay. If they are the middle of the road, hard luck single moms looking for the white knight, maybe puffing yourself up helps, but do you really want that karma if you're only going to see them 2-3 times? If she is the rare breed of first time SB, hesitantly entering the wood, fearful of the wolf, then connection is probably more important than your back-story; but in any event, please leave that one alone and send her to me, I'll keep her for the long term!

What say you, brothers?

Dsprdo is right on on this one. You never know when you are going to run into a keeper. You might think it is a one and done and the next thing you know. You have a real fine quality piece of ass a good woman, and she really does not want any money. Then you are in the situation of having to maintain a bunch of bullshit. I tell them the truth. I am open with them. I just do not give them details of my location, name and family. That way they cannot come back to me except maybe on my license plate. But most of the time I have rental cars for my work. So even that would be hard. Running a tag is not so easy any more. That is logged by who is requesting the information. And police can even get dinged for it.

Be straight with them. Treat them right. Otherwise just find a pro. They wont care.

Revvo.

[Dsprdo]

Question for the gallery. How do you typically portray yourself to the babies? It's obvious that a number of these girls are attracted to wealth, power, perceived status, and other superficial things. Do you exagerate your networth, net income? What do you tell them you do for an occupation if you are really a mid level manager toiling away in corporate american. Curious if I should play into what these girls want and pretend to be a little more than what I am or if I should be 100% real as can be.

Also as a caveat, for the most part I'm looking for 1. 3 times and then moving onto the next baby. Not looking to get locked into anyone for a long term situation.

I'll hang up and listen.

Okay, I get the irony of someone pursuing age inappropriate babes wanting to claim the high ground, but I am (mostly) straight up. It's easier to keep your story straight, it doesn't create unrealistic expectations, and honestly I don't think most of them really think they are going to end up on the red carpet on E! (although some might-avoid them! That being said, my SA profile age is shaded a few years to keep me south of a milestone birthday (for as long as I think its believable).

I think the girls fall into a few categories-there is discussion about this right now that applies. If the are GPS / UTR / Pro, then it doesn't matter what you say, only what you pay. If they are the middle of the road, hard luck single moms looking for the white knight, maybe puffing yourself up helps, but do you really want that karma if you're only going to see them 2-3 times? If she is the rare breed of first time SB, hesitantly entering the wood, fearful of the wolf, then connection is probably more important than your back-story; but in any event, please leave that one alone and send her to me, I'll keep her for the long term!

What say you, brothers?

[BikeRider]

It's in DC / Balt as well on 99.5.

http://www.hot995.com/pages/the-kane...ticle=11387003

[Ron M]

So I've been busier than normal lately at work and heading out door earlier in the morning. Last week flipping through the radio I stumble across this local radio show that tests men. It's called "war of the roses". A wife or gf that suspects a cheating partner calls in and gets the radio hosts to test the man. The female radio host calls the man's cell and says he won a free dozen long stem red roses and he can choose to have them sent to anyone in the continental US at zero charge. I listened on the radio (and then checked out the website) as almost all of these guys send the roses to their mistress. I'm pointing out this lesson so that if something free like this this comes along, use your Brain not your dick. Send the freebie to your wife and include a nice sappy message about how you love her and are sorry you've been so distracted with work lately!! Don't send the flowers to your ATF SB... Ie. Give the dick pounding to your SB and the flowers to your wife. I recommend pulling the website and listen to a few. Just search war of the roses radio...

Good Luck and stay safe,

PF

Don't get Married. That Story is Funny.

[Member #5570]

So I've been busier than normal lately at work and heading out door earlier in the morning. Last week flipping through the radio I stumble across this local radio show that tests men. It's called "war of the roses". A wife or gf that suspects a cheating partner calls in and gets the radio hosts to test the man. The female radio host calls the man's cell and says he won a free dozen long stem red roses and he can choose to have them sent to anyone in the continental US at zero charge. I listened on the radio (and then checked out the website) as almost all of these guys send the roses to their mistress. I'm pointing out this lesson so that if something free like this this comes along, use your Brain not your dick. Send the freebie to your wife and include a nice sappy message about how you love her and are sorry you've been so distracted with work lately!! Don't send the flowers to your ATF SB... Ie. Give the dick pounding to your SB and the flowers to your wife. I recommend pulling the website and listen to a few. Just search war of the roses radio...

Good Luck and stay safe,

PF

This is some funny shit.

I heard the exact same episode on my local radio this morning (or was it yesterday's).

So dude got the call and decided he wants to send roses to his claimed co-worker. Who the FUCK send roses to the co-worker? Moron.

Of course his wife was on the call listening-in, you know what happens. LOL.

[BikeRider]

3. Dancers / Strippers / Models suck.

I think this holds true within the US mostly. When I was a sophomore in college, I dated a Playboy centerfold (long story how it happened. Just call me lucky). She was the epitome of a dead fish. Worst fuck I've had. I've had much better luck outside the USA.

When I lived in Japan, I dated both a TV / Movie actress (learned to hate paparazzi), and her BFF (a model) after the broke-up (long story). The actress was a total freak (think Wide Eyes Shut), and the model was the best sex I've ever had hands down. She'd do anything to please. I was close to marrying the model when a f'ing Investment banker grabbed her (I was poor then). She's in NYC now...and still stays in touch (fingers crossed we'll meet again).

The moral of the story is don't over generalize. But I do think strippers in the US are jaded. Third rate models as well.