"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Walruscl** · 10-02-13 18:43

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

just the knowledge that there will be no hot young pussy for me for the next several months has got me in a total funk. Is it possible to experience depression over pussy withdrawal? I believe it is.

Had a mini version of that myself over the weekend. Texts suddenly got terse and she admitted that she was feeling overwhelmed. Then she said that she might not be in a good enough mood for our next FC visit. So the paranoid part of my brain starts to run amok, thinking that maybe things are imploding. And I really don't think I have the time or inclination to go back on the hunt anytime soon, since this catch is just so golden in so many ways.

So suddenly facing the possibility of being cut off was really, really depressing.

Fortunately things turned around, but wow, that was unpleasant. Definitely a wakeup call as to how deep I'm in, and how I am going to handle the inevitable day when I / she moves on.

**F Scott** · 10-02-13 18:43

Originally Posted by Walruscl [View Original Post]

Oh god, tell me about it. I've been finding sex scenes depressing for years.

Then there's the flip side: we just started watching Breaking Bad from the beginning (yeah, we're behind the curve) , and the scene where's the wife is giving him an absent-minded hand-job for his birthday struck waaaaay too close to home.

Funny you should reference this show. It was the series that introduced my wife, I am certain, to the concepts of the undercover life, the burner phone, and the idea that I might be doing something untowards in my spare time. Fuck Walter White!

It gets way more intense as it goes along, but that whole issue of the burner phone kept coming up. If it's possible to stop watching it now, I'd recommend it. If not, be extra vigitant, in the immortal words of Dogberry from Much Ado About Nothing, which is a Shakespeare play about pussy, I kid you not.

More anon,

Scott

**Walruscl** · 10-02-13 18:30

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I remember at some point in my x marriage where I had to stop watching love scenes on TV because they were so irritating knowing I was"nt going to get any.

Oh god, tell me about it. I've been finding sex scenes depressing for years.

Then there's the flip side: we just started watching Breaking Bad from the beginning (yeah, we're behind the curve) , and the scene where's the wife is giving him an absent-minded hand-job for his birthday struck waaaaay too close to home.

**F Scott** · 10-02-13 18:12

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

My double dip with MsHipsnThighs and MsThickness went great. I was not able to get the big O with MsThickness, but I was able to give her 40 mins if good slow then fast luvin. She gave me a few great compliments and my ego just ate it up. When a 21 year old athletic co-ed tells you that you have wore her out and made her tired. Who cares if it true. I do know she got 3 orgasms and I was proud of that.

AF.

Today I chatted with a married AA spinner with a cute butt. She pretty much has the same body as MsLMama. She is 25. We met for lunch today and it went well. Interesting I don't know if sexually we are a good fit. She does not like to do or receive oral, not much of a kisser and not big on 4play. I brought up the differences and she was willing to give it a shot a few times BEFORE we decide on an arrangement. I thought I was getting punked. A slim sexy cute 25 year old that I get to test drive. We are meeting for Tiggabounce tomorrow, I figured why waste time!

Chatted with another, who wants to meet ASAP, I will update more on that later.

I will see MsHipsThighs at her place Fri morn. So this is turning out to be a great week.

BigTigg

Tigg,

You continually amaze me with your exploits! What do you do for a living and how do you find time to make the money you are lavishing on these babies? Can I come work for you?

Also, what does your SO think you are doing when you are netting these sweet little fish? Either you are an eccentric millionaire, in which case I'd still like to come work for you, or you are one of those people who never sleep.

PM me and I'll send you my resume, LOL.

I could use a change right about now,

Scott

**BigTigger** · 10-02-13 18:00

My double dip with MsHipsnThighs and MsThickness went great. I was not able to get the big O with MsThickness, but I was able to give her 40 mins if good slow then fast luvin. She gave me a few great compliments and my ego just ate it up. When a 21 year old athletic co-ed tells you that you have wore her out and made her tired. Who cares if it true. I do know she got 3 orgasms and I was proud of that.

AF.

Today I chatted with a married AA spinner with a cute butt. She pretty much has the same body as MsLMama. She is 25. We met for lunch today and it went well. Interesting I don't know if sexually we are a good fit. She does not like to do or receive oral, not much of a kisser and not big on 4play. I brought up the differences and she was willing to give it a shot a few times BEFORE we decide on an arrangement. I thought I was getting punked. A slim sexy cute 25 year old that I get to test drive. We are meeting for Tiggabounce tomorrow, I figured why waste time!

Chatted with another, who wants to meet ASAP, I will update more on that later.

I will see MsHipsThighs at her place Fri morn. So this is turning out to be a great week.

BigTigg

**HollywoodGuy** · 10-02-13 17:49

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Gentlemen,

As I near the end of day two in solitary, I am amazed at how much I am jonesing, if that is the right term, over the lack of babies in my foreseeable future. It really is an addiction, I'm coming to believe, and while I did not maintain as active a schedule as some of you, just the knowledge that there will be no hot young pussy for me for the next several months has got me in a total funk. Is it possible to experience depression over pussy withdrawal? I believe it is.

The 500 pound gorilla continues to sit in the corner, making mornings and evenings strained to say the least. Last night we were watching tv, and some show was on where the husband gets caught cheating, and the suddenly-escalated tension in the room almost gave me a grabber. I now know it is possible to hear someone thinking bad thoughts about you.

Thank you to all who have posted or pm'ed me with advice and words of encouragement. I know that this too will pass, and whether the center will hold or not, I will survive.

Onward, in a bit,

Scott

I remember at some point in my x marriage where I had to stop watching love scenes on TV because they were so irritating knowing I was"nt going to get any. I sympathize. No new pussy. Fuck that. No young girl pussy. Fuck that. No spontaneous wild sex. Fuck that. No hot extended makeout sessions. Fuck that. Never again for me bro. Pussy is my drug of choice.

**FredMoore** · 10-02-13 17:39

That is the sound of walking on eggshells. The questions and ultimate explosion never seem very far away. Dissemination, obfuscation, and feigned innocence only work for so long. Hopefully SOs don't take a heightened interest in the family finances, because once the cash flow is cut off the party is over. Unfortunately money is the name of the game in keeping these little angels interested, at least for us oldsters. Perhaps you 30 somethings have enough realistic appeal to be considered a real life prospect, but not those of us who are 3 or more decades older. No matter how cute and interesting we are money talks.

The media if rife with shows and news stories about some aspect of infidelity, porn, or prostitution. Not a day goes by that it isn't thrown in our face. For an overly sensitized SO it is a constant strain.

**F Scott** · 10-02-13 17:16

Gentlemen,

As I near the end of day two in solitary, I am amazed at how much I am jonesing, if that is the right term, over the lack of babies in my foreseeable future. It really is an addiction, I'm coming to believe, and while I did not maintain as active a schedule as some of you, just the knowledge that there will be no hot young pussy for me for the next several months has got me in a total funk. Is it possible to experience depression over pussy withdrawal? I believe it is.

The 500 pound gorilla continues to sit in the corner, making mornings and evenings strained to say the least. Last night we were watching tv, and some show was on where the husband gets caught cheating, and the suddenly-escalated tension in the room almost gave me a grabber. I now know it is possible to hear someone thinking bad thoughts about you.

Thank you to all who have posted or pm'ed me with advice and words of encouragement. I know that this too will pass, and whether the center will hold or not, I will survive.

Onward, in a bit,

Scott

**FredMoore** · 10-02-13 08:57

Originally Posted by JoeBlowDC [View Original Post]

Maybe these will get someone to go visit the poor lass.

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Where is it? DO planes go there? LOL

Although if she is needing $650 she won't get it in one visit . A recent One and done SB just before my "retirement" wanted $1000 for tuition and books to see me again . When I offered my usual $250/meet she didn't even respond . Too bad since she was ATF material and could have gotten $1000 /month for "ever". Definitely in the top 5 sweetest pussies I have ever had . These Babies are so short sighted sometimes .

**LikeMike1963** · 10-02-13 06:42

G Damn. That would be my PERFECT SB. Tell us more!

Originally Posted by JoeBlowDC [View Original Post]

Maybe these will get someone to go visit the poor lass.

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**JoeBlowDC** · 10-01-13 22:33

Maybe these will get someone to go visit the poor lass.

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**HollywoodGuy** · 10-01-13 21:20

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

Remember she wants to believe you are innocent. It is your job to help her through this. Do not change your habits. That means don't start being nicer and more caring all of a sudden.

Women are amazingly sensitive to any change of behavior. Stay steady brother.

Revvo

Back in the day. If I just felt like takin an extra shower I would get the third degree.

**Revvo** · 10-01-13 21:18

Originally Posted by F Scott [View Original Post]

Alias,

My best play was to say that the link to SA had apparently come in on some sort of spam, and that I had not, in fact, sought it out. There was clear skepticism, but enough plausibility that I slept in my own bed that night. The real issue is moving forward, and I'm sad and afraid that for the next few weeks, or months, I will need to impersonate an altar boy. I vacillate between chucking the whole married thing or keeping on living the under-cover life. I know I am addicted to the adrenaline rush of fear mixed with lust, so just don't know where to land. Yoga tomorrow, just to clear my head. Hopefully Jenn will be teaching.

Keep up the good work, my brothers. I am always here to be a sounding board if nothing else, and am happy to share any insights I may have.

Sheesh,

Scott

Remember she wants to believe you are innocent. It is your job to help her through this. Do not change your habits. That means don't start being nicer and more caring all of a sudden.

Women are amazingly sensitive to any change of behavior. Stay steady brother.

Revvo

**F Scott** · 10-01-13 19:53

Originally Posted by AliasSM [View Original Post]

Scott- I doubt that finding a single web site open on your laptop is enough evidence to prosecute on. Likely only a small percentage of people that actually visit the SA website actually act on their fantasies. You can continue to claim your innocence and be totally believable.

To all married guys who continue to play this game. Be extra careful and always keep up your guard.

Alias,

My best play was to say that the link to SA had apparently come in on some sort of spam, and that I had not, in fact, sought it out. There was clear skepticism, but enough plausibility that I slept in my own bed that night. The real issue is moving forward, and I'm sad and afraid that for the next few weeks, or months, I will need to impersonate an altar boy. I vacillate between chucking the whole married thing or keeping on living the under-cover life. I know I am addicted to the adrenaline rush of fear mixed with lust, so just don't know where to land. Yoga tomorrow, just to clear my head. Hopefully Jenn will be teaching.

Keep up the good work, my brothers. I am always here to be a sounding board if nothing else, and am happy to share any insights I may have.

Sheesh,

Scott

**Dsprdo** · 10-01-13 19:28

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

Paragraph 2. It was an overnite. If it was me I would pay up and continue fucking her at your convenience.

I agree, definitely fine with giving her the money. I was just surprised because she was really indignant. It just shows that anything extra given is soon not an extra but an expectation.