"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[BigTigger]

We had an impromptu meeting last night. Our Tiggabounce date is tonight I wanted to have a quick meeting to make out some more and prime the pump per se. It was supposed to be an hour of getting coffee and dessert, but I got delayed and every thing was closed. So we rode around some and talked until I found a parking lot overlooking some water.

There I told some funny SB stories and kept sprinkling in long kisses. Eventually it turned into a hot make out session with my hands all over that body. Since it was a fairly public place I did not want to get in the backseat, so I had her get out and we continued outside leaning on the hood. This girl is extremely passionate. She loves kissing and she knows how to move that body. At some point she turned around and just started grinding that wonderful butt all over the Tiggastick, with my hands all over those boobs. It was like being in high school all over again. We easily spent over an hour total just kissing and rubbing our body parts all over each other.

It was late and I had a long drive. So we agreed to get a room tonight as part of our date. She asked a lot of sex questions as she really wants to please me tonight. On my way home I was marvelling at this find. She just turned 21, she is very sexual, follows instructions and very low maintenance. The plan is to enjoy her passionate juices tonight, Sunday and twice next week. After that I will get a better balance between her and MsLilMama. Interestingly, I cancelled a couch date with MsLilMama to see her last night.

8/9. 5/10/ (face / body / personality / skills)

I will update more after tonight.

BT

[HollywoodGuy]

Wow. Not used to this CL civi dating. I saw my 21 year old responder (picture in prior post). She has sort of a hippy girl attitude. She believes in free love, that may not be so freely given. Now I know why I SD date. The rules are clear and my time is dear.

This girl has to like me for real for real and is not hard up for great sex or money. Which is bestowed upon her by man and woman alike (and steady work). I spent 12 hours with her today just to get to know her, and not in a biblical way.

There was no talk of sugar or spice or anything nasty or nice. Her last SD. Yes there was one (and only one). Was an overly generous fool that she actually kicked to the curb for being too possessive and not very sexual. Not problems she is likely to encounter from me.

So only time will tell if this girl rings my bell.

BTW... I did finally figure out how to get real girls to respond to my CL ad. All I will say is I dropped my shotgun and picked up my 22.

[Genxkva]

My 2 cents, if the girl is talking to you, she is flirting. The question is where she wants to take that. I am sure she likes the attention your paying her. I would expect you could do something publicly one on one and find the opportunity to hug / brush up against her and see the reaction.

My brothers,

I had a second class with my hot, hot yoga teacher yesterday, and I just can't figure out what's going on. Maybe wiser minds than mine can weigh in.

So I get to class and see that Jennifer is the teacher for that time slot. Scottie immediately starts his stretching exercises, and I smile broadly as I approach the sign-in desk. She looks up, sees it's me, and smiles as well, saying "Hey Scott, it's good to see you. I've missed you the past couple of weeks." (I have been going in the afternoons due to work load, so this is the first time I'm back at my normal morning time).

I reply that I've missed her as well, and am glad to see her teaching, since she always inspires me to push myself a little harder. As I'm standing there, she is clearly looking me over, at least I think (hope) she is. I go into the class room, and put my mat directly in front of the teacher's platform, which is not my normal spot, so as to have an unobstructed view of the Fineness That Is Jenny.

Class starts, and she is not wearing the skimpy unitard from last time, but has changed into a cotton bikini top and small, tight cotton "boy shorts", so I now have a clear view of her fantastic, toned, taut body, superfine ass, and that sweet spot just a few inches above the camel toe. Scottie is losing it at this point, and I am thankful that my shirt is not tucked into my shorts.

As class progresses, she gets sweatier and sweatier, until her entire body is glistening, and her clothes are soaked through. Again, I can clearly see that she is shaved, and I am dizzy with excitement, while at the same time I am struggling to get the poses, maintain my balance, and working like a dog.

After class, I chat her up a bit, saying again how glad I am to see her, and she tells me that she was noticing how much I've improved since I started, and how much more defined and muscular my body is (which it is, but when you start with a marshmallow.) We laugh a bit more, then I head out and that was that.

So my question to you all is this: was she flirting? And if so, what is my next step? I realized as I was heading to work that I have been spoiled somewhat by my time in the Bowl in that I know that the baby I'm talking to at the m&g understands where we are headed, provided all hurdles are mutually cleared. With Yoga Baby, I don't know what is next. Continue to flirt? Is that as far as it will go? Ask her out for coffee? Ask for a private class? Do nothing? Enjoy the frisson and let it go at that? What to do?

On the one hand, my gut says she is flirting, but on the other hand, maybe she just likes to get attention from older guys. The last thing I want to do is come off like a creep. Again, what would your next step be, knowing that I am totally out in the open here in terms of secret identity? The only thing she doesn't know about me is my ATM password.

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott

[J Martinez]

. POT 2: a 19 year old that says she's married to an abusive guy. Says she wants to get enough together to leave her husband. I'm a lot cautious, but she seems intelligent and funny. .

You're right to be cautious, I would stop seeing her. Her situation is volatile, extremely unpredictable, and potentially dangerous. Way too much drama and risk for me.

[Member #5570]

I am suddenly feeling the urge for a Yoga class!

BT

LOL. You're not the only one.

Brother Scott, make your move. What's the worse that can happen? You're not fucking her now, so if your move didn't work, you're still not fucking her.

But, by any chance that it works, you'll get her POF and fuck her silly doing it yoga style. Hmmm. I wonder what that would looks like.

[Happy Lover]

First of all way to go brother. Next with women there is either interest or no interest. If she is not interested you will know right away. She will give short yes or no answers or not make eye contact. This cutie on the other hand is actively explaining her schedule to you and chatting after class. This is interest.

The question is what are you going to do with it. My recommendation is to give her a clear test for her to reciprocate. Such as mention a nice coffee shop or smoothie shop around the corner. Or Tell her to give you her number. Do not ask women like to be told what to do. As long as it is done smoothly. Keep it simple nothing fancy at first. Remember she knows that you want to fuck her already she is not stupid. Do not hide your interest. But don't get creepy either. And she most likely is thinking about fucking you.

You just have to pass her hurdles. Be respectful but playful. Don't get too serious. Lead the interaction, make sure that if you are talking to her that you touch her a lot. And make very strong eye contact. Women love this. Also use your body language to communicate with her. Vary your closeness and then back up a little. And tease her not mean just light and fun.

I think you have a real opportunity here. Just stay relaxed but pursue her consistently. Keep it simple at first. And if she asks about if your married tell her the truth. She is probably assuming you are already.

Keep us updated. We are rooting for you.

Revvo

What Revvo Said. I wish I could tag posts. I think that's excellent advice. I hope to implement it myself soon.

HL

[Golfcart]

With Yoga Baby, I don't know what is next. Continue to flirt?

1. Always look her straight in the eye.

2. Listen to her.

3. Treat her just like a guy.

4. See what happens.

[Revvo]

My brothers,

I had a second class with my hot, hot yoga teacher yesterday, and I just can't figure out what's going on. Maybe wiser minds than mine can weigh in.

So I get to class and see that Jennifer is the teacher for that time slot. Scottie immediately starts his stretching exercises, and I smile broadly as I approach the sign-in desk. She looks up, sees it's me, and smiles as well, saying "Hey Scott, it's good to see you. I've missed you the past couple of weeks." (I have been going in the afternoons due to work load, so this is the first time I'm back at my normal morning time).

I reply that I've missed her as well, and am glad to see her teaching, since she always inspires me to push myself a little harder. As I'm standing there, she is clearly looking me over, at least I think (hope) she is. I go into the class room, and put my mat directly in front of the teacher's platform, which is not my normal spot, so as to have an unobstructed view of the Fineness That Is Jenny.

Class starts, and she is not wearing the skimpy unitard from last time, but has changed into a cotton bikini top and small, tight cotton "boy shorts", so I now have a clear view of her fantastic, toned, taut body, superfine ass, and that sweet spot just a few inches above the camel toe. Scottie is losing it at this point, and I am thankful that my shirt is not tucked into my shorts.

As class progresses, she gets sweatier and sweatier, until her entire body is glistening, and her clothes are soaked through. Again, I can clearly see that she is shaved, and I am dizzy with excitement, while at the same time I am struggling to get the poses, maintain my balance, and working like a dog.

After class, I chat her up a bit, saying again how glad I am to see her, and she tells me that she was noticing how much I've improved since I started, and how much more defined and muscular my body is (which it is, but when you start with a marshmallow.) We laugh a bit more, then I head out and that was that.

So my question to you all is this: was she flirting? And if so, what is my next step? I realized as I was heading to work that I have been spoiled somewhat by my time in the Bowl in that I know that the baby I'm talking to at the m&g understands where we are headed, provided all hurdles are mutually cleared. With Yoga Baby, I don't know what is next. Continue to flirt? Is that as far as it will go? Ask her out for coffee? Ask for a private class? Do nothing? Enjoy the frisson and let it go at that? What to do?

On the one hand, my gut says she is flirting, but on the other hand, maybe she just likes to get attention from older guys. The last thing I want to do is come off like a creep. Again, what would your next step be, knowing that I am totally out in the open here in terms of secret identity? The only thing she doesn't know about me is my ATM password.

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott

First of all way to go brother. Next with women there is either interest or no interest. If she is not interested you will know right away. She will give short yes or no answers or not make eye contact. This cutie on the other hand is actively explaining her schedule to you and chatting after class. This is interest.

The question is what are you going to do with it. My recommendation is to give her a clear test for her to reciprocate. Such as mention a nice coffee shop or smoothie shop around the corner. Or Tell her to give you her number. Do not ask women like to be told what to do. as long as it is done smoothly. Keep it simple nothing fancy at first. Remember she knows that you want to fuck her already she is not stupid. Do not hide your interest. but dont get creepy either. And she most likely is thinking about fucking you.

You just have to pass her hurdles. Be respectful but playful. Don't get too serious. Lead the interaction, make sure that if you are talking to her that you touch her a lot. And make very strong eye contact. Women love this. Also use your body language to communicate with her. Vary your closeness and then back up a little. And tease her not mean just light and fun.

I think you have a real opportunity here. Just stay relaxed but pursue her consistently. Keep it simple at first. And if she asks about if your married tell her the truth. She is probably assuming you are already.

Keep us updated. We are rooting for you.

Revvo

[Member #4103]

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott[/QUOTE]My $.02, fwiw. You've got a totally different animal here.

So. You have two options. Option 1, go the "I'm not married route" and see if you can get away with it. You know better than we whether that has a prayer, but does not sound likely.

Option 2. The mistress audition. The only way this is going to happen is to become friends first, then good friends, then at the appropriate time mention the shortcomings of your current situation and see how she reacts. Do it in a way that she can take the bait and off you go, or not and she doesn't view you as a troll.

My gut is it is only going to work out the way you want (e. G. Sneaking off to bang the shit out of her on a regular basis) if you go option 2, and are totally honest with her. She may be totally cool and into the mistress thing, and off you go. Or she may not and you will know early before you do any damage.

Again. Just my $.02.

[BigTigger]

I am suddenly feeling the urge for a Yoga class!

BT

[F Scott]

My brothers,

I had a second class with my hot, hot yoga teacher yesterday, and I just can't figure out what's going on. Maybe wiser minds than mine can weigh in.

So I get to class and see that Jennifer is the teacher for that time slot. Scottie immediately starts his stretching exercises, and I smile broadly as I approach the sign-in desk. She looks up, sees it's me, and smiles as well, saying "Hey Scott, it's good to see you. I've missed you the past couple of weeks." (I have been going in the afternoons due to work load, so this is the first time I'm back at my normal morning time).

I reply that I've missed her as well, and am glad to see her teaching, since she always inspires me to push myself a little harder. As I'm standing there, she is clearly looking me over, at least I think (hope) she is. I go into the class room, and put my mat directly in front of the teacher's platform, which is not my normal spot, so as to have an unobstructed view of the Fineness That Is Jenny.

Class starts, and she is not wearing the skimpy unitard from last time, but has changed into a cotton bikini top and small, tight cotton "boy shorts", so I now have a clear view of her fantastic, toned, taut body, superfine ass, and that sweet spot just a few inches above the camel toe. Scottie is losing it at this point, and I am thankful that my shirt is not tucked into my shorts.

As class progresses, she gets sweatier and sweatier, until her entire body is glistening, and her clothes are soaked through. Again, I can clearly see that she is shaved, and I am dizzy with excitement, while at the same time I am struggling to get the poses, maintain my balance, and working like a dog.

After class, I chat her up a bit, saying again how glad I am to see her, and she tells me that she was noticing how much I've improved since I started, and how much more defined and muscular my body is (which it is, but when you start with a marshmallow ...) We laugh a bit more, then I head out and that was that.

So my question to you all is this: was she flirting? And if so, what is my next step? I realized as I was heading to work that I have been spoiled somewhat by my time in the Bowl in that I know that the baby I'm talking to at the m&g understands where we are headed, provided all hurdles are mutually cleared. With Yoga Baby, I don't know what is next. Continue to flirt? Is that as far as it will go? Ask her out for coffee? Ask for a private class? Do nothing? Enjoy the frisson and let it go at that? What to do?
On the one hand, my gut says she is flirting, but on the other hand, maybe she just likes to get attention from older guys. The last thing I want to do is come off like a creep. Again, what would your next step be, knowing that I am totally out in the open here in terms of secret identity? The only thing she doesn't know about me is my ATM password.

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott

[Happy Lover]

Hi Guys,

I started seeing escorts earlier this year and I'm already over that scene. It just doesn't fulfill my needs. No emotional connection. Most young escorts have too many rules. I'm tired of these unappreciative escorts. I've helped out a few of them with barely a thank you.

I noticed this forum on the "Front Page" and it caught my eye. My hat is off to all of you for venturing out into the bowl. It's a fair amount of work to set up with intro letters, finances, emails, pictures, profiles, etc, before the fun even begins, and you have all put forth the effort with some GREAT results. I'm reading through your SD encyclopedia and it is a wealth of knowledge. I'll do my best to learn as much as possible before I start asking questions. I'd hate to be that F. N. G! LOL.

Work has been a bit slow as of late and it's cutting into my discretionary funds. For now I'll set up, learn, and contribute where I can. I'm looking forward to living up to my user name.

Happy Hunting,

HL

[FredMoore]

He had a large territory with IBM. Says his wife used to pack condoms in his suitcase. He said she would always wait till he was not looking and count them when he got home. Luckily it was easy to replace Trojans on the road.

If she only knew, I did not use the things back then.

This woman will likely stay married since she takes care of her man in absentia. If only all wives would understand the male mentality and work with it.

ATF #4 Is my only indulgence. I found I couldn't give her up so we just do a few hrs once / week. She's cool about using each other for sexual release. I think she uses me more than the other way around, and that is fine by me. I am limiting my exposure as best I can but am still out there. It's harder to put money aside under increased scrutiny so I can't prospect any more. I miss the game so much! The chase and nailing of a new SB just can't be beat. I envy you guys who are multifucking.

[Beachesnole02]

He had a large territory with IBM. Says his wife used to pack condoms in his suitcase. He said she would always wait till he was not looking and count them when he got home. Luckily it was easy to replace Trojans on the road. My wife, back when we were dating would go in my bathroom and count them in the box, had a huge sh+atstorm when my 12 year old and a buddy used them to make water balloons to bomb a friend downstairs at the condo.

If she only knew, I did not use the things back then.

[Member #5570]

Congrats HWG. CL is the bomb when it hits. Most, if not all the CL true civil girls have no idea what or how much to ask for. The ones that give you a number / amount, you should move on.

It is I who always make the initiative, offering to pay their bills or get them gifts, etc.

Keep us posted bud.