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[PillowTalk69]

IMO you're absolutely out of line. You pay for their time, regardless of what you two do. I think $50 is a good deal.

NO service no compensation. She asked him to meet her not the other way around. If he had asked for a lunch meeting then fifty is a good deal. If she wants pay to meet first it becomes a free Grant for just looking at each other. I can think of much better ways to spend a Grant than looking across a lunch table. Guys aren't paying for looking. He can meet her at the in / outcall and if they don't like each other no cost to either Maybe a Jackson for no connection. She can call a back up and say she had a cancellation. Sorry and I respect your opinion but men pay for service not sight seeing unless we request the meeting then it is divy up and would agree with you.

[Member #4514]

Posted for this coming weekend for a lady to contact me and got a lady who did. We exchanged likes, and contacts but said she wanted to meet me first in a public place which I am all in favor of. I even offered to buy her lunch. She said she wanted to do it that way to make sure we both were okay with each other. Now I am not going to date or marry her but I said I understand and agreed. THEN BOOM she said it would be a 50 roses fee to meet me since it was her time involved. Ladies I understand some wanting to meet in public but it is not as if you are holding a pass in review. I am clean, polite, do not drink or do drugs, and have very good hygiene. Ladies I would love to meet a lady for an hour or two this weekend but have NO INTENTIONS of paying you 50 for a meet and greet fee without actual fun time and not in advance. Am I out of line on this? I hope not. BMack.

IMO you're absolutely out of line. You pay for their time, regardless of what you two do. I think $50 is a good deal.

[CharmingBlake]

I was only kidding!

Ahaha very funny; p

[TwoPumpChump]

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[Rito1]

If you do not like looking at the photos then do not look.

Just my two cents

As long as they are different pics I don't see the problem. Now if the same provider is in the SAME location and posts and ad every day, that could fill the page up quick, but so far we aren't limited to what we can post. The only time I do is A when I have new pics which I update mine frequently, and B when I am at a new location, as I do not have my own Incall just yet. But trust me when I do, I won't feel the need to post ads every day, but maybe every 3 days. IMHO

I understand what you are saying. However I like to look at all the different Photos in the Photo gallery. There are more of the same pictures of the same women from Cincinnati then any other place. If you did post different pictures I would not mind. Smoetimes it 2-4 pages straight of it. Anyone can hit the Photo gallery button and go back 3-4 days and see what I mean.

Thanks for reading.

[TheDaytimer]

Originally Posted by Nday Guy- I charge the ladies a small meet-fee what I rebate on the first BCD meeting.

That makes sense to me, however, as a provider, I myself find it inappropriate being that is in her job description. Furthermore, that is only my take on the "meet fee."

I was only kidding!

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[CharmingBlake]

I want to express my gratitude to D. N, and, give him recognition for a job well done on this board yesterday. A provider can never be flawless nor finished, being, the amount of growth in this position is unlimited! You have to have the drive inside you, furthermore, the adoration, not limited to the bad, exceeding the good as well. It's a give and take effort, and by you awardingessential element's as you did, allows each and every one of us to prosper. With this being said, I promise oneself to copy, paste and utilize it. Thanks again!

Love Blake*Stay Safe

[CharmingBlake]

I don't post on this board so other mongers can give me their seal of approval. Maybe Sassy has changed her ways. The point is that I wasted my time in meeting this girl. Time is one thing that I don't have a lot of. I was greeted by what seemed to be a classless lady and treated rudely. My post was direct, not rude in my opinion. Since then I've seen positive reviews on sassy so hopefully she is learning.

I can empathize with both of you. DHD, has an unpretended, and bona fide opinion of his experience, where as DN put forth an implausible guide, better yet a guiding light for me, to reflect on daily. Whereas one was constructive criticism and the other was contributive. She did ask for honesty as well as inspiring. ; p.

Stay safe Love you,

Blake

[CharmingBlake]

I charge the ladies a small meet-fee what I rebate on the first BCD meeting.

That makes sense to me, however, as a provider, I myself find it inappropriate being that is in her job description. Furthermore, that is only my take on the "meet fee."

[Bubbly2]

Here's a clue: when a client opens your door, you're first words should not be "get completely comfortable and give me the donation". What a huge turn off you were. Not only does that set off the Leo radar, but it's also completely rude and robotic. Why don't you practice that for a while.

I actually tried to contact her yesterday before I saw this post, but her phone demeanor was actually so rude that I decided that it just wasn't worth it. She sounded sort of spacey in the morning when I called, didn't acknowledge our discussion earlier in the week about a Friday morning meet up, and then basically hung up on me for no reason. I was very polite and didn't say anything leading, incriminating, or inappropriate. Then she responds today to the text that I sent her yesterday and seems totally sporadic. To be fair, I have not met her in person, but I think it is telling that these are the impressions that I have before I have even met her.

[TheDaytimer]

"Meet Fee"? Count your blessing's, being, the contribution was clearly her principal focus.

Love, Blake

I charge the ladies a small meet-fee what I rebate on the first BCD meeting.

[DickHerDown]

D,

Regardless of your obvious beef with her, this is the kind of attitude that works to reduce honesty in this hobby. I imagine you've posted a report of your encounter already, or will sometime soon, based on your experience. Your complaints are valid. Taking a savage bite out of someone when they are asking for helpful critique, isn't.

Providers being open to input of this kind is a good thing. It's good for her, and good for the guys who see her now or will see her in the future. It's even good for other providers because it gives them insight and they can (hopefully) reflect upon their own customer service, etc. If a girl recognizes she needs to get better, and asks publicly for honest input, that doesn't mean it's an opportunity to take her to task. Certainly not in a rude or aggressive way.

When you've got something hard to tell someone, especially a personal criticism, you will effect a more positive response if you do not use aggressive language. Even if your complaints are valid, she won't react positively because of the way you've chosen to address them. Worse, it might mean that no providers ask for this kind of input again, because they'll see that it opens them up to harsh and embarrassing criticism.

So Sassy, I've not seen you and can't give you tailored feedback. But to DhD's point: if you look into the Octagon, you will see that another provider was stiffed recently. You'll note that some expressed concern about her modifying her behavior to be more "donation-centric". The donation is the last thing we want to think about. It is the aspect which makes our fun illegal, and is thus the focus of LEO. It throws up red flags, makes us nervous, etc.

I don't post on this board so other mongers can give me their seal of approval. Maybe Sassy has changed her ways. The point is that I wasted my time in meeting this girl. Time is one thing that I don't have a lot of. I was greeted by what seemed to be a classless lady and treated rudely. My post was direct, not rude in my opinion. Since then I've seen positive reviews on sassy so hopefully she is learning.

[CMan5911]

You are right on on this one D Nut. I must agree with you.

In the many years since I've been on the board, I think this is the first time a provider has actually asked that question. It's really very simple, and you've already said the word,"Honesty".

The guys on the board care about 3 things when it comes to providers; that the provider they meet is the provider they are expecting to meet (No bain-and-switch) , that the rate we pay is the rate we expected to pay (no upselling) , and we get the services we expect for the duration we expect (No clockwatching / rushing). That's it. If you can guarantee your customers that with your transactions, you will have met your obligations to them,

Now, for what would make a satisfied one time client into a loyal repeat customer, those are a little more on the finese side of the business:

1) Hygiene- be impeccable with your hygiene. Make sure that you schedule enough time between clients to thoroughly wash up. There is almost nothing a gent hates more than smelling another gent on you. Hygiene goes for not only your body, but your place of work if you do incall. No cigarette butt filled ashtrays, no piles of empty soda / beer cans, no dirty clothing strewn on all over the place.

2) Feign interest. Not all clients would want you to "fake it". Some actually want an honest reaction. However, regardless of whether or not you're faking, you need to be involved in the event and put in an effort. Don't just lie there. Push back, make the effort to guide and even take charge a bit. Whether you're playing the young naive lolita, or the mistress of the dungeon, you need to be involved.

3) Punctuality. I cannot stress how important it is. Just because you are flexible with your time doesn't mean the guy is. If you're scheduled for 3:00-4:00, don't expect that he will always be available to re-schedule to 3:30-4:30 just because you couldn't get your act together that morning. Odds are, he was planning on being done by 4:00 so he has something going on already at 4:30.

4) Don't call us, we'll call you. Calling a client out of the blue is not cool, EVER.

5) Invest in yourself. Get your hair done, a manicure is nice. Some lacy lingerie and stockings. Lashes and mascara. You don't have to go all out, but put in some effort. Get some decent photos of yourself taken. Camera phone pics are fine to start, but eventually, you'll want to get some decent clear shots taken. Men are very visual, and the more visual appetizers your can provide, the more we would want the main course.

[Nwtthhbby]

Here's a clue: when a client opens your door, you're first words should not be "get completely comfortable and give me the donation". What a huge turn off you were. Not only does that set off the Leo radar, but it's also completely rude and robotic. Why don't you practice that for a while.

Demanding payment via first sentence out of a providers mouth does not exactly say hello and welcome.