"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**MJehl** · 08-08-13 17:08

I am a noob monger and have been reading the forum for about a month now. First, I would like to say "thank you" to all different those who have posted. I will try to learn from your past errors but cannot guarantee that I still won't screw up at times.

I have sent out about 20 emails and got back about 7 replies. After trimming off the fat, I have the following.

POT#1 is a reply to a CL post. She is a SWF 21yrs 5'6" 125lbs blonde with blue eyes. Her picture is plain but she does have potential to be a beauty. I think she is a Nando1? She has just moved into the area recently and is pushing to meet soon. She agreed to $ per visit 1-2 times a week. I think she is hard up for funds at the moment. But don't know what her story ia yet. Set a MnG for tomorrow lunch. She has asked for $30 for gas money when we meet. Face body attitude skills 8/9/6?

POT#2 is a SWF 21yrs 5'5" slim brunette / blonde. She is a dead ringer for BlakeLively. Sultry smile and flowing hair. I am a sucker for long hair. From her profile she seems to want a mentor / gf type of relationship. She is currently a waitress but would like to move up in life. I have set up a MnG for Monday coffee. She is 1hr away but I have many cousins and friends scattered throughout the area. I have to be careful. I am a noob but I have high hopes for this one. I already broke code and have started texting her with my phone. I know. I need to get a disposable. First on my list after I aquire more funds. 9/9/9?

POT#3 is a SWF HCB 22yrs curvy (chubby?) Redhead Irish / Sicilian mix. She goes to college in my city so I need to be extra careful of where we go. We are just emailing at this point but she seems friendly and willing. I hope to set up a meeting in a few days. 7/7/8?

That is all for now. Critique anyone?

MoJo

**FredMoore** · 08-08-13 10:36

Well, all of a sudden Pots are coming out of the woodwork! It is good and bad. I know we all are looking for that new taste of honey different from the same-ole-same.ole, but I have a comfort level ($$) with 2 regulars who are a good little drive out of town. I feel safe going out in public 1 1/2 hrs away and they take care of business.

Now just this week I have 3 very realistic Pots who seem motivated and one new SB. Both my regulars flaked on me this week for ostensibly good reasons. The problem is one I prepaid so she owes me a session before I move on to greener pastures. I know, we all advise against it but I "trust" her to make good. Stay tuned.

SB#3 (formerly Pot # whatever, I lose track)

She is my first AA 23 yr old 10/9/8/10. Wow! Now I get what Hollywood is talking about. She is quiet, shy at first, sweet, and doesn't have sex on the 1st date. Bottom line, we ended up working the sheets and she was very vocal, appreciative, and can't wait for an encore. What a body! What a kisser! She is definitely in the rotation and I may let one go.

Pot #1

Is a 20 something pregnant girl 8/8? We have a M&G for next week. I am turned on by Pregnant girls, especially if they can give up a little breast milk during the exercise portion of the session. We will see if this bears fruit.

Pot #2

Was #1 a 10/10 Asian HCG who is looking like she won't be available when I need her to be. Too Bad because I could see her as an ATF candidate.

Pot #3

Is a beautiful 28 yr old blonde in my area, so it's a little sketchy having one so close to ground zero. Plus she would be the 4th in an active rotation of 3. Preg Pot would make 5 and I definitely can't sustain that long term $ wise.

So life is good for the moment. A good reason to keep extras on tap is that they seem to flake on moments notice so you always have someone to take up the slack.

The take home message for guys having a dry spell is that we all do, then it rains. It is the nature of the business.

**HollywoodGuy** · 08-08-13 01:08

Originally Posted by HappyHunter44 [View Original Post]

I have not got that far yet, but will do the same. Thanks.

You will. LOL. And then tell us all about it. Actually I have done a few m&g's in the parking lot. Only been turned down once that I can remember. I remember because she had agreed to the $ and then said it was $$$. So I passed after driving 37 miles. Next she talks her way into my house a few weeks later. Says its $$. I did some making out and it was dead. Nothing worse than a hot girl with awesome lips that can't kiss. Sent her on her way. Next a few more weeks go by and she says ok to the $. But the lackluster kissing killed it for me. She looked like Beyonce. No shit.

**HappyHunter44** · 08-07-13 22:58

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I never pay for the motel until we are in agreement in the parking lot outside.

I have not got that far yet, but will do the same. Thanks.

**GeorgeRichmond** · 08-07-13 22:08

Qn: Should I ask SB what they want as allowance or should I set my offer upfront?

I had a nice meet-and-greet with a good SB today. Lunch went well. There was no plan afterward as it was just M&G. At the end I asked the POT to send me expectation via email. It was double my offering. Didn't realize in my local area, comparatively small town, allowances are going upto 1k per meet. Uhh. I am either earning less or something is wrong with the market. Well. Even in DC, the asking are not that level. Anyway, I said thank you and putforward my offering. That's it.

Not many POTs. But still looking. My old pot is there as backup but want to see non MILF for once. Will keep posted. I need to learn about allowance offering and making attractive.

**HollywoodGuy** · 08-07-13 17:10

Originally Posted by HappyHunter44 [View Original Post]

Ditto. My POT life in a nutshell. I must thank all the seniors who posted before in getting me ready for such behavior. I made sure I sent confirmation emails, no sugar before FC, and held a serious deep cover. The confirmation email is key because it does save a trip and paying for the FC. A big money-saver!

I never pay for the motel until we are in agreement in the parking lot outside.

**EasyGoingJ** · 08-07-13 14:46

Hello brothers, I'm afraid I fall into the category of lurker, I read here regularly but haven't posted much because I haven't felt I had anything useful to add. I'm in " C'ville " and am happy to exchange or share any info or perspective, long time in the bowl, just not very active now. Anybody in the area please get in touch and hopefully something good will come along to share.

Thanks

**HappyHunter44** · 08-07-13 14:13

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

So the theme of this board the past couple of days is 'flake'. In the interest of keeping my post on topic, I am happy to report that this Pot turns out to be a flake.

We were supposed to meet today at noon. Yesterday morning we were still texting like crazy. By late afternoon, she stopped responding to texts. This morning, no response whatsoever from my texts and voicemail. She went completely silence about 18 hours before our date.

I will lay low and check back with her in a week to see what happened to her.

Ditto. My POT life in a nutshell. I must thank all the seniors who posted before in getting me ready for such behavior. I made sure I sent confirmation emails, no sugar before FC, and held a serious deep cover. The confirmation email is key because it does save a trip and paying for the FC. A big money-saver!

**Member #5570** · 08-07-13 13:25

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

I am not a lurker, so do I qualify to post? .

Finally a none HYM. Guess it's my luck that I've meeting with 3 HYMs the past couple months.

I am not a big fan of AA girls, but this cutie seems to have lots of potentials. 24, went to college, work, and has her own place.

Needs help with her $1500 rent.

Agreed on $175 weekly allowance for 2 FC visits per week. I'll update in a couple of days after our first FC date.

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So the theme of this board the past couple of days is 'flake'. In the interest of keeping my post on topic, I am happy to report that this Pot turns out to be a flake.

We were supposed to meet today at noon. Yesterday morning we were still texting like crazy. By late afternoon, she stopped responding to texts. This morning, no response whatsoever from my texts and voicemail. She went completely silence about 18 hours before our date.

I will lay low and check back with her in a week to see what happened to her.

**Dsprdo** · 08-07-13 12:23

Originally Posted by John G Smith [View Original Post]

Anyway, it's nice having all these residual babies. It's just too bad I don't really have the time or money to explore all of them. Just always remember that even if a potential arrangement breaks down in negotiations due to disagreements on allowance, just remain a gentleman and move on. Don't get huffy and pushy. Chances are she might contact you again after she's encountered numerous fakes, flakes, and creepers.

I have also had several residuals pop up of late. I'm on SA and have a generic pic up as a private photo. When a SB asks for a pic I grant permission for them to view it, or sometimes I just include permission with my initial email (haven't really seen a difference in response rates one way or another). Recently I went in and revoked permission to review the private photo to a bunch of girls that I never heard back from. When you do that the system sends them an email notifying them that the permission was revoked. That email has piqued some interest. Since then I have been contacted by two of the girls that had not previously responded, and one more has reviewed my profile. Trying to set up a M&G with one of those two now. I also just got a response to an email I sent out two months ago. You just never know what drives the girls to contact you when they do.

**FredMoore** · 08-07-13 11:50

Originally Posted by KingGreg [View Original Post]

Mr. Strict

Thanks for letting me know. I was supposed to meet SA #1651878. I am glad to know as she stopped replying when I asked for place. One down.

I wish I can find the same pot #2 like you found. We are in the same area.

I like to share flakes or fake one profiles. I think this way we can save time and money.

KG

I also had many texts / emails with her and got to the details about the M&G. She flaked the day of the M&G and went dark. I see she is back on line. Either she (this type) is a fake baby or is extremely conflicted about doing this. Her pics show "her" to be my type of HCB. Maybe she is a frat bro or even a SD with a fake SB profile trying to get some research

**Member #5055** · 08-07-13 07:51

Will improve as college starts!

Originally Posted by KingGreg [View Original Post]

I did renew my SA membership and trying to find POTs. Met 1 at see-ville and little more out of my taste. After meet-and-greet, I was debating to go to next level but decided not to pursue. Reason, there are 2-3 potential pots.

I am supposed to meet someone. 2 hours drive but awaiting to get clearance. (received last message on Sunday). It's been challenging with new SBs (young) to get good reply. Sometimes, I feel cryptic message or never sure if I will ever see them.

Ohh well. Let's see have 1 more POT. Will see where I go.

Lot's in DC area. But just hate that much drive and traffic. Local crowd in Richmond is evaporating.

**John G Smith** · 08-07-13 07:05

The last several weeks have been interesting in that I haven't really gone on any of the SD sites that much, yet I have more pots that I can handle right now. I'm trying to keep my stable to just 2-3 SBs, but I've had several SB pots from out of the woodwork contact me in recent weeks.

Collegiate SB. This was my failed experiment from the late winter. I invested a lot and basically got nothing in return. I already mentioned she contacted me recently just "to chat". I played it cool and friendly, but made no effort to start anything up again. A week or two went by and then she contacts me in the middle of the night saying we can finally have sex if I give her x amount. It was short notice and the middle of the night, so it was a no-go. I followed up a couple of days later and offered her a lower amount. She declined for now, but in a 6 month period she went from NEVER willing to have sex to willing to give it up for the right price. Though she said she returned to me because I was a gentleman and not a creeper. A few months ago, I probably would have paid x amount to sleep with her, but since then I've found girls who I have much better chemistry with. So I have a take it or leave it attitude with her now. But with the current trajectory of things I imagine I'll sleep with her by the end of the year. She seems to be having more and more money issues while at the same time she's seems to be getting more willing to put out.

I've had several other pots txt or email me who saved my info from correspondences many months ago. I even did a OKCupid experiment 6 months ago and a little college hottie finally responded out of the blue the other day. I already made the sugar daddy pitch to her and she seems intrigued but wants to talk more for a while before deciding to forward or not. The nice thing about her is that she's fresh and hasn't officially joined the Sugar World. Depending how this goes I might revisit the OKCupid experiment.

Anyway, it's nice having all these residual babies. It's just too bad I don't really have the time or money to explore all of them. Just always remember that even if a potential arrangement breaks down in negotiations due to disagreements on allowance, just remain a gentleman and move on. Don't get huffy and pushy. Chances are she might contact you again after she's encountered numerous fakes, flakes, and creepers.

**BigTigger** · 08-06-13 22:58

I'm still around. Life and work have been rather overwhelming. Fortunately I have my ATF back in the saddle, so life is good. I do have MsNurseBooty still in the harem, but seeing her less and less. After the extortionist, I've decided I'm never breaking up with another SB. I'll just be undependable and cheap and they will eventually leave me, LOL.

I do see both sides of the picture discussion. My own selfish reason for showing is to one, put some meat behind my stories and two since you guys are the only one that I share this lifestyle with, I look for the high-fives from my fellow brothers when I get a good score (Hey I can admit I have an ego). This can be hit or miss as not always do people actually comment on the photos.

I'll still say hello every now and then and by all means keep the stories cumming!

BT

**HollywoodGuy** · 08-06-13 22:23

Another quick story. Last year I met another 21 year old AA girl, about a 7/8/9/10. We met about 6 times and banged like porn stars every-time. Suddenly she went MIA. I txted her a couple weeks ago and she told me she had some fond memories and then begged off. These things happen.