"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**HappyHunter44** · 08-06-13 18:03

Originally Posted by Mr Strict [View Original Post]

Another candidate for the list of flakes and game players: SA #1651878.

Been working her for a few weeks, everything was going very well and she was very anxious to meet. A time and place was agreed upon and everything was a go till just before the time I arrived. Did not answer the "I'm here" text, did not show and have not heard anything since. So why is this different than many of the other young flakes? She was much to willing and anxious to meet. All week she was anxious. And the place I picked to meet was not crowded at all so she was never there and left. She had no intent on showing.

Red flags? In hindsight, she was very talkative and open but would never send any current pics other than the first emailed, very vanilla photos. One was the same she has in the ad. A good chance it's not even her, although I could find nothing out of the ordinary in my research. She said her phone was terrible but she would try. Even the crappiest phones take pretty good pics. And if I pushed, she ignored it. Oh well.

On the plus side, the #2 POT I had scheduled after her was outstanding! Texted her I was early, we met and it was a great M&G! 23 year old college girl that looked way better than her pics and wants to please daddy for not a lot of sugar. Life is good!

I guess I should thank the Ms. Flake, since I would not have met #2 if she had not agreed on a M&G and played her silly game! Would flowers be appropriate? Ha ha!

Be Safe.

Strict

I just went through the same thing with two POTs from SD4M. Worked on them for weeks. They seem all excited to meet, even asking me about when and where. Then when the week comes to meet. Zilch. All goes quiet. I think too many play in the waters until they realize "oh no, he wants to really get in my pants" and freak out. Been through this 4 times now and it clearly is not the money, they simply cannot follow through giving up the goods.

**Mr Strict** · 08-06-13 17:23

Another candidate for the list of flakes and game players: SA #1651878.

Been working her for a few weeks, everything was going very well and she was very anxious to meet. A time and place was agreed upon and everything was a go till just before the time I arrived. Did not answer the "I'm here" text, did not show and have not heard anything since. So why is this different than many of the other young flakes? She was much to willing and anxious to meet. All week she was anxious. And the place I picked to meet was not crowded at all so she was never there and left. She had no intent on showing.

Red flags? In hindsight, she was very talkative and open but would never send any current pics other than the first emailed, very vanilla photos. One was the same she has in the ad. A good chance it's not even her, although I could find nothing out of the ordinary in my research. She said her phone was terrible but she would try. Even the crappiest phones take pretty good pics. And if I pushed, she ignored it. Oh well.

On the plus side, the #2 POT I had scheduled after her was outstanding! Texted her I was early, we met and it was a great M&G! 23 year old college girl that looked way better than her pics and wants to please daddy for not a lot of sugar. Life is good!

I guess I should thank the Ms. Flake, since I would not have met #2 if she had not agreed on a M&G and played her silly game! Would flowers be appropriate? Ha ha!

Be Safe.

Strict

**Member #5570** · 08-06-13 12:39

I asked politely after the first or second FC date. Saying something along the line of 'our meeting had been so much fun, may I capture those moments next time me meet'.

So far, I haven't been rejected.

**GeorgeRichmond** · 08-06-13 11:07

I did renew my SA membership and trying to find POTs. Met 1 at see-ville and little more out of my taste. After meet-and-greet, I was debating to go to next level but decided not to pursue. Reason, there are 2-3 potential pots.

I am supposed to meet someone. 2 hours drive but awaiting to get clearance. (received last message on Sunday). It's been challenging with new SBs (young) to get good reply. Sometimes, I feel cryptic message or never sure if I will ever see them.

Ohh well. Let's see have 1 more POT. Will see where I go.

Lot's in DC area. But just hate that much drive and traffic. Local crowd in Richmond is evaporating.

**GeorgeRichmond** · 08-06-13 00:15

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

I see some very solid reasons not to post pics.

I'll refrain myself from posting additional pics of the babies.

With most of my babies, I have no problem getting pics and videos of our FC sessions. But those are for my private collection. LOL

SM bro.

How are you able to get videos and even get pics? I never asked but I thought / felt SB will say no due to privacy. Also, I don't intend to. As you never know. What could get us in trouble. No evidence is better.

But still wondering.

KG

**Member #5570** · 08-05-13 22:56

I see some very solid reasons not to post pics.

I'll refrain myself from posting additional pics of the babies.

With most of my babies, I have no problem getting pics and videos of our FC sessions. But those are for my private collection. LOL

**Zomby** · 08-05-13 20:28

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

Am I the only guy to post pics of babies and pots here?

I notice guys are keeping their babies pretty well hidden. What give?

Personally, I like to see the qualities of fine babies you gents are pulling in.

So, consider this an invitation to post away.

No for me, too. I told her I wouldn't share them, and that's pretty much that.

In general, I don't think I would anyway, for reasons others have stated. Unless somebody was to give explicit permission, that is.

**FredMoore** · 08-05-13 19:22

I'm with Scotty on this one. If I like the girls I don't want to disrespect them, if I don't I don't want them to disrespect me.

Hey? I just realized I'm a SENIOR now WooHoo.

SB #1

Is collapsing into Nando 1 territory. She is a hot number but is getting unreliable and a prepayment has resulted in a cancelled appointment. Now, she has a really good reason and if it is true I feel bad for even thinking it. But, I've been there before. We'll see.

SB #2

Is a very reliable performer. She is bright and cute albeit a little chunky. She is a good BFD (body fluid depository)

Pot #1.

Is an exotic (Asian / AA) looking AA 23 yr old with a drop dead body I'd call her a 9/10? She will call me later so I can see if she is educated or ghetto. I'm going for it in a few days.

Pot #2.

Is a 10/10? Asian who is 22 and tickles my fancy. I am hot on Asians. She is open to a M&G.

Pot #3

Is also Asian and is a 8/8?

She is experienced and says all the right things for an ideal SB.

5 Pots were interviewed the past two days and there is a lot of GPS going around. I don't mind because they all appeal to me and I can't handle the ones on the slate already.

**HollywoodGuy** · 08-05-13 18:22

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

Am I the only guy to post pics of babies and pots here?

I notice guys are keeping their babies pretty well hidden. What give?

Personally, I like to see the qualities of fine babies you gents are pulling in.

So, consider this an invitation to post away.

Understandable most guys dont post. If i was married I dont think I would either

**John G Smith** · 08-05-13 18:18

This subject came up a couple of months ago, so I'll just repost what I said then:

Originally Posted by John G Smith [View Original Post]

Nice to see pictures here.

And I don't want to discourage people from posting pics, but I'll give you guys my reasons for not posting pics just so you can evaluate both sides of it.

The people who post in this forum I think are mostly honorable men / mongers / SDs. Unfortunately, for every poster in this thread there are 10 lurkers who read this board many of which don't even have an account on the site. They're not bound by the ethics of our little brotherhood here. For example, if some lurker recognizes a girl from a picture I post, he could be a jerk and contact her on the SD site / email / txt and point her to this topic. Now this SB knows my full diary of activities and it's a big breach in my cover because someone can now connect my face to my forum account. Even if she doesn't know my full identity, having her know my forum account is a risk because she could cause havoc if she ever did find out my identity.

Also, the vast majority of us are using the same three sites to find SBs and fish in the same ponds as many of the lurkers. The more pictures you post, just increases the odds that someone will recognize a baby you're seeing.

Again I'm not trying to discourage people from posting pics, but you should just be aware of the risks involved. If you're married or have a high-profile job, you probably should refrain from posting pics. If you're single and own your own business then the risks probably aren't that bad.

**F Scott** · 08-05-13 17:39

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

Am I the only guy to post pics of babies and pots here?

I notice guys are keeping their babies pretty well hidden. What give?

Personally, I like to see the qualities of fine babies you gents are pulling in.

So, consider this an invitation to post away.

Smoke,

Hollywood, Tigg and a few others have been more than generous with sharing, but I, for one, have never felt comfortable asking my babies if I could take pics, and in fact I can't even conceive of a way to broach the subject without having them immediately jump up, slap me, get dressed, and head out the door. This may be my own hang-up, but there it is.

The one time I did post pics, which were sent to me by a POT, I immediately regretted it, so I'm not going to be a good source for you, sadly. I agree though, I think it's nice to put a face to a name, but I would hope the clubhouse journal would not become overrun with slide shows, since one member's ATF could easily be another's WTF, and I would hate for this beautiful thread to become another pitched battlefield!

Just my opinion,

Scott

**Member #5570** · 08-05-13 11:45

Am I the only guy to post pics of babies and pots here?

I notice guys are keeping their babies pretty well hidden. What give?

Personally, I like to see the qualities of fine babies you gents are pulling in.

So, consider this an invitation to post away.

**Magic Rat** · 08-05-13 11:24

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

I am not a lurker, so do I qualify to post? .

Finally a none HYM. Guess it's my luck that I've meeting with 3 HYMs the past couple months.

I am not a big fan of AA girls, but this cutie seems to have lots of potentials. 24, went to college, work, and has her own place.

Needs help with her $1500 rent.

Agreed on $175 weekly allowance for 2 FC visits per week. I'll update in a couple of days after our first FC date.

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I live in a resort town with very little to no decent jobs outside of waiting tables, working in hotels, government or healthcare. The joke here is that it's a great place to live but BYOJ. Bring your own job. A decent 2 bedroom apartment here costs at least $1, 000 a month. Sorry if I seem a little down here, but my last two Pots quoted me prices of $500 and $1, 000 PER VISIT! $175 for 2 visits per week? Maybe I should consider moving!

**Member #5570** · 08-05-13 11:13

Am I the only guy to post pics of babies and pots here?

I notice guys are keeping their babies pretty well hidden. What give?

Personally, I like to see the qualities of fine babies you gents are pulling in.

So, consider this an invitation to post away.

**Member #5570** · 08-05-13 11:09

Scott. I am not surprised if her rent is 1500 a month, again do I really care if it is? .

A decent downtown 2BR apartment in my area can easily command at least 1200. She used to have a roommate, but the roommie moved out. Or so she said.

She's asking for help with her rent, not pay it for her. This girl got a job. LOL.

Like you said Scott, I proposed a weekly allowance so we can test things out, which she gladly accepted. I am having her come to the FC to see me this Weds so will see.