"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

Yes and no. Should I tell her about it? What if it was just an isolated incident? Maybe we should do it in the shower instead.

Showering is not going to help as this is an internal problem stemming mostly from poor PH balance I. E. Poor diet. So it is correctable. Also an hour long salt bath once a week could help (very kosher). No douching, ever. This only makes the problem worse. Probiotics are also helpful.

[Flirting Guy]

Is this a rhetorical question?

Yes and no. Should I tell her about it? What if it was just an isolated incident? Maybe we should do it in the shower instead.

[HollywoodGuy]

Set my expectations too high and made too many assumptions. The HOT 27yo bartender chick from SA that I met up with this afternoon was late (took an extra 40min to get to the hotel) , did not want to be eaten and to top it off smelled EXTREMELY fishy (only after the deed not before). Damage was $1, and she still wants to hook up after her shift tonight. What to do? I should just call up another SB for the room I have booked.

*sigh*

Is this a rhetorical question?

[Dog Rice]

Some of these SBs do not care about their Hygiene. I had a SBs (24 yrs old). In the first couple of visit, she took shower and got ready for me. Love to fuck a fresh young gal. In the last 2 times, she smelled. Arm pit, fishy down there. Big turn off. I called her out. And I was done with her.

Set my expectations too high and made too many assumptions. The HOT 27yo bartender chick from SA that I met up with this afternoon was late (took an extra 40min to get to the hotel) , did not want to be eaten and to top it off smelled EXTREMELY fishy (only after the deed not before). Damage was $1, and she still wants to hook up after her shift tonight. What to do? I should just call up another SB for the room I have booked.

*sigh*

[F Scott]

Well I guess the SDs on this forum are too busy scouring for that next POT SB to read some of the other categories that are here.

Anyone seen this in the News and Media thread? Go there and read about this. Very interesting.

http://www.timesdispatch.com/news/lo...a4bcf6878.html

Goes to show you the necessity of fiercely protecting ones identity when dabbling in the bowl. So for those who like texting your SBs, remember that there is the potential of gleaning a lot of info from just a phone number. You single guys, not so much to loose. You married or attached guys, the world to loose.

ASL

Not to be too harsh, as I'm sure she has many other sterling qualities, but who in their right mind would pay money for a BJ from her? Especially where there are so, so many HYBs out there.

On another note, I'm not worried about cell phone info, since I have a burner, bought with cash, and refilled with cash. My only fear is my SO finding it if I leave it lying around one day.

[HollywoodGuy]

Well I guess the SDs on this forum are too busy scouring for that next POT SB to read some of the other categories that are here.

Anyone seen this in the News and Media thread? Go there and read about this. Very interesting.

http://www.timesdispatch.com/news/lo...a4bcf6878.html

Goes to show you the necessity of fiercely protecting ones identity when dabbling in the bowl. So for those who like texting your SBs, remember that there is the potential of gleaning a lot of info from just a phone number. You single guys, not so much to loose. You married or attached guys, the world to loose.

ASL

Or maybe you just lose being in a bad marriage you shouldn't be in anyway. Only my experience. All I know is once I started dabbling outside of my marriage it became very clear to me what I was missing.

[Flirting Guy]

Set my expectations too high and made too many assumptions. The HOT 27yo bartender chick from SA that I met up with this afternoon was late (took an extra 40min to get to the hotel) , did not want to be eaten and to top it off smelled EXTREMELY fishy (only after the deed not before). Damage was $1, and she still wants to hook up after her shift tonight. What to do? I should just call up another SB for the room I have booked.

*sigh*

[AllSeasonLv]

Well I guess the SDs on this forum are too busy scouring for that next POT SB to read some of the other categories that are here.

Anyone seen this in the News and Media thread? Go there and read about this. Very interesting.

http://www.timesdispatch.com/news/lo...a4bcf6878.html

Goes to show you the necessity of fiercely protecting ones identity when dabbling in the bowl. So for those who like texting your SBs, remember that there is the potential of gleaning a lot of info from just a phone number. You single guys, not so much to loose. You married or attached guys, the world to loose.

ASL

[AllSeasonLv]

Gentlemen,

Well, there seems to be 100% consensus on the foolishness of contacting my daughter's ex-roommate, but I will keep thinking about her nonetheless, and it will be interesting to talk to her the next time she comes to town to visit, knowing in the back of my head that she is in The Bowl.

Thanks for the advice, even though it was not what I wanted to hear,

Scott

Glad you're heeding the advice of SDs in this forum who have a lot more experience then I do in the bowl. I, too, have a daughter who has / had many friends in high school and college that I would have given my eye teeth to nail. She has probably more friends now in that category, even though she's 33 and has three kids! But even given the opportunity, one HAS to think with the big head and not the little one.

[HollywoodGuy]

I have read many a tale on this site of guys saying "OMG that was best sex, BBBJ, whatever". My question is, was it the best for her?

I will never put an SB on allowance unless I am convinced she needs my dick more than the money. Of course it is the total package. But if you can't control her with dick, hands and tongue no amount of money is going to keep her in line. I have learned this the hard way (so to speak) more than once.

Anything less than this will keep them on a pay per date arrangement.

[HollywoodGuy]

Gentlemen,

Well, there seems to be 100% consensus on the foolishness of contacting my daughter's ex-roommate, but I will keep thinking about her nonetheless, and it will be interesting to talk to her the next time she comes to town to visit, knowing in the back of my head that she is in The Bowl.

Thanks for the advice, even though it was not what I wanted to hear,

Scott

My 30 year old daughter who lives with me has to see a parade of girls (much younger than her) streaming through the house, no problem.

One of her guy friends once banged one of my x SB's, no problem.

What you are / were considering. Thats a problem.

Something about shitting where you eat? Whatever the quote is

[F Scott]

Gentlemen,

Well, there seems to be 100% consensus on the foolishness of contacting my daughter's ex-roommate, but I will keep thinking about her nonetheless, and it will be interesting to talk to her the next time she comes to town to visit, knowing in the back of my head that she is in The Bowl.

Thanks for the advice, even though it was not what I wanted to hear,

Scott

[FredMoore]

Gentlemen,

Well, given the law of averages, it had to happen sooner or later. I was browsing the recent babies in New Orleans on SA this morning in anticipation of a possible trip at the end of the month to visit my youngest daughter, and I ran across a profile of one of my older daughter's college roommates! Now this is a girl I have had a huge and entirely inappropriate thing for since I first met her almost 6 years ago when visiting my daughter at college for parent's weekend. I mean it was chemical, at least for me, to the point that I had to put a little distance between us if we hugged so she wouldn't feel Scottie at full attention. I spent many a happy afternoon fantasizing about fucking her, and I have to be honest in saying that this latest discovery does not help matters at all.

I await your advice on the NOLA roommate.

Scott

The brothers have spoken. Suicide

My perspective is this. My daughter is the target age for most of us and she constantly harasses me about my "inappropriate attention I give her hot friends."

You would lose your daughter in a flash if this exploded.even forgetting the wife.

[Dsprdo]

I thought I would provide an update on my progress in dipping into the bowl. This spring I was out of town for an extended period for work. I decided to try the Sugar world out for amusement while I was gone. I had minor success there, but was really to busy with work to devote much time to it. I had signed up for three months on SA, so it seemed like the only thing to do was to try and set up some potentials for when I returned home for the summer. I discovered that the attention span of many of these babies is not long. I thought that a month before I was back in town would be a reasonable period to email or chat and build a rapport, but that was way too long. Most of the girls I started out chatting up drifted off to other daddies or decided to give this up altogether. So, as time approached for me to get back home I started on a new wave. I am subscribing to the strength in numbers approach that HG and others have recommended. I have sent out about 60 opening salutations in the past couple of weeks. My response rate has been lower than I would like. I confess I didn't put a lot of effort into my profile when I signed up, so my next step is to overhaul it. I am also experimenting with different versions of my greeting letter. I have a private photo on SA that I allow access to when asked for a pic. It is not a very good one, taken myself, need to do something about that as well. I think I am also going to put together a simple spreadsheet to track my efforts and results (I've already found that it's hard to remember every SB's profile that I reached out to). Anyway, here are the results to date.

NavyBrat: 27 yo AA (7/5/9) She is a nursing student & single mom, had newly signed up on the recommendation of a friend of hers. I contacted her on her first day and she responded right away. We emailed back and forth a few times, then texted, and finally agreed to lunch the same day. Total time from first contact till panties on floor 6 hours. She had no clue as to what kind of arrangement she wanted. I ended up giving her $ when I dropped her off. She's a sweet girl with a pretty smile, but the body was post baby and a little heavier than I expected (I hate those deceptive pics!). She has already texted me about a repeat, but probably not a keeper.

Amazon: 21 yo redhead. 6' tall, voluptuous (8/7/7). I generally go for the tiny little spinners, so this is another one that's not right up my alley, but I am intrigued by the legs. We have a M&G set for this evening, and all indications are that we will go directly from drinks to BCD. She has been pretty up front that she is ready for that, and also has not mentioned dollars, other than to say that she likes presents from time to time. She is employed, lives at home, is close by. If things go well she may be in the rotation for a while.

MedStudent: 27 yo Latina (7/7/8) , very bright, was upfront about wanting a NSA relationship, too busy with school for much else. Thought she was locked in. Then got a text when I got home saying she had started to feel bad about having casual sex. Wasn't going to do it anymore.

Cali Blond: 23 yo white hardbody (8/9/6). Had a previous SD. Has agreed to a M&G. Probable serious case of GPS, but she is awfully hot. Not sure if I can get her in the budget, but hey, its worth a try.

I have 3-4 others that are in the exploratory stages, hope to firm something up this week. I appreciate all the great info on this thread, I think I have found the area of this sport that I need to be in.

[Flirting Guy]

I think you don't out yourself via SA but casually hit on her IRL and test the waters. If she responds take it from there. But use SA to dialog with her and find out her limits. Don't use your real pic of course.

I'd add if you're married and want to remain so then don't touch. I was suggesting under the premise that you are divorced and your daughter is ok w / you dating girls her age. Unlikely I guess. LOL