"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Llhacara]

Recently I decided to check out the SD websites to see how it was, and so far I am enjoying it. I've yet to meet an SB.

I received some interest from the ladies, some I was interested in others not so much. I responded back to a few who sent me.

A message and I responded back letting them know that the interest was mutual. I included my contact number and suggested.

That we could chat via texting or phone. I want to know was it to quick and early to send my contact info or should I have sent.

Messages back and forth first?

Newbie here

[FredMoore]

I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works

HW, I am 60, look 48 to 52 according to females, tall, slim and muscular, attractive, personality very good in a one on one, educated, blah, blah, blah.

Negatives :

Separated but still hiding from public disclosure.

60 (to a 20 yr old 60 might as well be 80)

No picture on SA, fake pic on SDFM.

Very picky.

Budget limited by separation scrutiny.

Probably uninspiring profile.

[Flirting Guy]

I have a cute 18yo that I am done with from SA. PM for details and line up for an exchange.

[Flirting Guy]

Your experience parallels mine. It's funny how that in life the harder you work the luckier you get.

This is exactly what we do in sales. We're just converting leads into sales and then you have to keep the customer happy with ongoing support. More leads = more sales. I've hit the 400 mark for ladies I've contacted at SA in the last 2. 5 weeks since I've joined.

[PartyTimeGuy]

I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works

Both are important but I couldn't agree with you more that personality trumps looks with most females. I am in my 40s and average looking. No 6 pack. Have love handles. It is my confidence and charm that is the most attractive bait as far as I can tell. Not that losing some weight, dressing sharper and getting a new haircut wouldn't help. Maybe even a better cologne. I have no SO to be suspicious about such improvements.

[PartyTimeGuy]

I just checked my stats on SD4me and I messaged 592 girls in the last 6 months. I got one new regular for my efforts. That works out to about 3 messages a day. And damn is she worth it. And I did do maybe 20+ face to face interviews. Rejection doesn't mean shit. Every no just puts you one step closer to a yes.

Your experience parallels mine. It's funny how that in life the harder you work the luckier you get.

[LikeMike1963]

She is HOTT. But what I can't stand with many babies is. They are F'nd slobs. My current baby is not, hell....she even cleans my house sometimes. DAMN I am going to miss her when she moves back home.

I just checked my stats on SD4me and I messaged 592 girls in the last 6 months. I got one new regular for my efforts. That works out to about 3 messages a day. And damn is she worth it. And I did do maybe 20+ face to face interviews. Rejection doesn't mean shit. Every no just puts you one step closer to a yes.

[PartyTimeGuy]

I reported on this excellent new find earlier. Usually strippers do not make good SBs for all sorts of reasons we know about. This one is the exception that proves the rule. She is compactly cute, sweet, sexually worships me and is happy with $ a visit. Plus I get to hear all about the guys she encounters stripping. That is entertaining between cups. It doesn't get too much better than this my brothers!

[John G Smith]

My Advantages.

- I'm a relatively young SD (mid 30s). This makes it easier to attract and somewhat relate to 18-21 year-olds because I'm more or less still in their generation.

- I'm in good shape. While I don't have a six pack, I have a good athletic physic. Unless the girl is used to dating Calvin Kline models, my body won't be turning anyone off.

- Nice persona. I naturally give off a nice vibe whether it's digital communication or face-to-face. I never give girls an aggressive or creeper vibe.

- Decent income. I'm not rolling in it. But I make enough where I can treat a low middle income girl to nice things and she'll be very appreciative.

My Disadvantages.

- I'm a relatively young SD (mid 30s). This makes it difficult for me to attract girls over the age of 27. In fact, I've never had a SB older than 24. So there's a large segment of SBs (the MILF SBs) that I simply don't have access to. Not until another 10 years or so.

- I'm African American, so it makes it almost impossible to get Asian SBs. I don't have too much problems with other races, but Asians have been very difficult just to get conversations going. They tend to want white SDs almost exclusively. This wouldn't be such a big deal if Asian girls weren't one of my favorites.

- I'm married. This is probably the biggest hindrance. I just don't have a lot of free time to go on a ton of meet and greets. I also have very few slots available in the week for SBs, so I have to plan very carefully. Also flying in SBs is not really an option.

- I don't travel. My business does not have any travel, so I don't get to enjoy the out of town excursions that many you guys get to enjoy. My range of SBs is pretty much limited to a 2 hour radius of where I live.

[HollywoodGuy]

Shame to me comparing to you, HG. I am 38 and in good shape (flat stomach, muscle). Still getting shit.

Well then just try the haircut. But don't change your aftershave. Your SO might get suspicious. LOL

[HollywoodGuy]

I just checked my stats on SD4me and I messaged 592 girls in the last 6 months. I got one new regular for my efforts. That works out to about 3 messages a day. And damn is she worth it. And I did do maybe 20+ face to face interviews. Rejection doesn't mean shit. Every no just puts you one step closer to a yes.

[Dog Rice]

Shame to me comparing to you, HG. I am 38 and in good shape (flat stomach, muscle). Still getting shit.

I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works

[HollywoodGuy]

SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.

I don't know your age. But as far as I can tell at 59 I am attracting more girls than ever. And its not the dollars, because I got less of them than before. Way less. Confidence is a huge factor. I lost 20 lbs, started working out and got a better haircut. It works

[Dog Rice]

Can't agree more about presentation. Also, my status, married, does reduce chances. Search continues.

SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.

[FredMoore]

SBs are attracted 1st to the best looking guys in their proper designated age group who have the most intriguing profile. We do the same thing with them except we men are more equal opportunity carousers. Have pussy will travel.

So Dog Rice, the difference between you and Hollywood for example, might be appearance or profile writing style. There's nothing you can do about your looks other than present your visage in the best possible light. (I'm nor saying you aren't dashing and debonaire, but it's presentation that counts.

For me personally I know my age is a huge limiting factor and accept it. Usually if I can get to the meet I can overwhelm her with my $incerity.