"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

HCB =Hot College Baby'

Well that certainly is more complimentary than Hard Core *itch

[F Scott]

Due to some unexpected write downs at work (which are coming straight out of my pay) I told all my girls that they have to take a 50% pay cut for the months of May and maybe June, except for the newest one because I am still in the process of locking her in.

No one is bitching and one of my part timers even did me a big favor today by introducing me to one of her daddies that can help with something I need resulting in a net gain of maybe $500 a month. As I am pretty content with the current lineup I don't see myself doing more than 1 or 2 interviews this month and only did one last month.

Also, I see you all using the acronym HCB even with girls you like? So I am not totally getting the real meaning of that phrase. Any nuanced responses are appreciated. This is not a phrase used in my area. Just like I doubt people use the phrase "bitchin" in yours.

HCB = Hot College Baby.

HYM = Hot Young Mom; or HSM = Hot Single Mom

[FredMoore]

I see you all using the acronym HCB even with girls you like? So I am not totally getting the real meaning of that phrase. Any nuanced responses are appreciated. This is not a phrase used in my area. Just like I doubt people use the phrase "bitchin" in yours.

HCB =Hot College Baby A most flattering acronym in my book. Bitchin '

[HollywoodGuy]

Due to some unexpected write downs at work (which are coming straight out of my pay) I told all my girls that they have to take a 50% pay cut for the months of May and maybe June, except for the newest one because I am still in the process of locking her in.

No one is bitching and one of my part timers even did me a big favor today by introducing me to one of her daddies that can help with something I need resulting in a net gain of maybe $500 a month. As I am pretty content with the current lineup I don't see myself doing more than 1 or 2 interviews this month and only did one last month.

Also, I see you all using the acronym HCB even with girls you like? So I am not totally getting the real meaning of that phrase. Any nuanced responses are appreciated. This is not a phrase used in my area. Just like I doubt people use the phrase "bitchin" in yours.

[HollywoodGuy]

So. We've all shared a lot on this board, am wondering if we take it to another level.

I travel a lot for work, am sure others do as well. How do you guys feel about making recommendations of specific SA profile numbers that might be a good contact (e. G. Gives up the goods quickly at a fair price) for a traveling man? I get it, noone wants to give out their favorites, no problem with that. But perhaps some recommendations on who to see, or who to avoid.

Probably best done by PM so we don't swamp the board. I've got contacts in Miami, Chicago, New Orleans, Dallas. Note that its only the girls I actually saw, so not a huge number. And some were disasters, but there is info there.

In return, I've got a trip coming up to Chicago in late May. FScott was gracious enough to give me a couple pointers, if any of the rest of you have anything I'd greatly appreciate it!

HC

If they are in the L. A area, ask, and ye shall receive, if I have any info. As I chat up a lot of girls (mixed and AA) that I never meet. And also can surmise by their frequency of visits and length of membership their possible motives. Sort of a demographic modeling algorithm.

[Member #4103]

Was wondering if any of you guys in our little Richmond sugar bowl have met up with "Virginia", mid-30s white milky type, profile number 1429968 on SA? Any intel?

She saw my profile and is going after me pretty hard with some great rates, right down to business etc. Etc. Almost makes me wonder if LEO has decided to play in our bowl? Would be shocked, our city barely functions as is, but who knows.

Anybody met her? Shoot me a PM if you have any intel.

Thanks!

HC

[Member #4103]

So. We've all shared a lot on this board, am wondering if we take it to another level.

I travel a lot for work, am sure others do as well. How do you guys feel about making recommendations of specific SA profile numbers that might be a good contact (e. G. Gives up the goods quickly at a fair price) for a traveling man? I get it, noone wants to give out their favorites, no problem with that. But perhaps some recommendations on who to see, or who to avoid.

Probably best done by PM so we don't swamp the board. I've got contacts in Miami, Chicago, New Orleans, Dallas. Note that its only the girls I actually saw, so not a huge number. And some were disasters, but there is info there.

In return, I've got a trip coming up to Chicago in late May. FScott was gracious enough to give me a couple pointers, if any of the rest of you have anything I'd greatly appreciate it!

HC

[HollywoodGuy]

Fred,

You've put a voice to what I, and probably many others, have been thinking about that site ever since I first got on it. Everything from the known escorts to the contact by eastern Euros and pot SBs from the west coast who are looking for a SD! In fact, I was in contact with that same cutie who wanted an appointment application filled out and 100% up-front sugar. I told her she was crazy and that no sane SD would agree to that. She still IMs me from time to time. Guess she doesn't know what "no" means! But like you said, there are some gems to be found. Just takes time.

ASL

I kind of like the grittyness of it all. Like you say, everything from pimps to gems. Kind of like the walmart of sugar dating. You really have to shop to find what you want.

[AllSeasonLv]

SDFM has been entertaining for me Scott. My ATF came from there and was a HCB, highly educated, and a long term win. However, the site is replete with Nando1s, escorts, and dingbats. Also, the hotties mostly seem to want "sugar brothers " instead of Daddies. If you look at the age desired feature they rarely check the 35 to 80 box. In fact many check the 22 to 30. What? How many 20 yr olds can afford the sugar life? I guess we could ask the Facebook and Google CEOs LOL.

The other annoying fact are the out of towners and foreign nationals who inbox you. What? I am going to call some chick from Monrovia, Chech Republic and fly her and her "brother " over for a date?

Pros work that site heavily. One of my ATF escorts is on there regularly. And I wrote a cute youngster and got an email address for her pimp to send prepaid funds to secure an appointment.

In short, it is a skankier population but there are some jewels to be found there.

Good luck!

Fred,

You've put a voice to what I, and probably many others, have been thinking about that site ever since I first got on it. Everything from the known escorts to the contact by eastern Euros and pot SBs from the west coast who are looking for a SD! In fact, I was in contact with that same cutie who wanted an appointment application filled out and 100% up-front sugar. I told her she was crazy and that no sane SD would agree to that. She still IMs me from time to time. Guess she doesn't know what "no" means! But like you said, there are some gems to be found. Just takes time.

ASL

[FredMoore]

Gentlemen,

Interstingly enough, there have only been about 4 overlaps of babies with SA. I don't know what that means.

Thank you for any intel you supply. I'm sure it will be helpful to more than me.

Waiting,

Scott

SDFM has been entertaining for me Scott. My ATF came from there and was a HCB, highly educated, and a long term win. However, the site is replete with Nando1s, escorts, and dingbats. Also, the hotties mostly seem to want "sugar brothers " instead of Daddies. If you look at the age desired feature they rarely check the 35 to 80 box. In fact many check the 22 to 30. What? How many 20 yr olds can afford the sugar life? I guess we could ask the Facebook and Google CEOs LOL.

The other annoying fact are the out of towners and foreign nationals who inbox you. What? I am going to call some chick from Monrovia, Chech Republic and fly her and her "brother " over for a date?

Pros work that site heavily. One of my ATF escorts is on there regularly. And I wrote a cute youngster and got an email address for her pimp to send prepaid funds to secure an appointment.

In short, it is a skankier population but there are some jewels to be found there.

Good luck!

[F Scott]

The best advice has already been given. But let me reiterate a few things.

1. Read the entire thread from beginning to end. It will help tremendously and it is very very entertaining. There were times when I could not put it down.

2. This hobby is work. This is not like picking up a phone and ordering an escort like a bucket of chicken. These babies do cost money, but there are many hoops you need to go through before you land a SB. Especially a good one.

3. Be ready to look at this like dating to a certain extent. I would even say this is more difficult than regular dating. In fact if I wasnt married I would not be doing this. I would go the conventional dating route.

4. Be very careful. You can run into some really crazy people out there. They can fuck your life up. Read the posts on security carefully. These are hard won lessons.

5. But when it is good. It is awesome. The connection, the sex, the non controlling with the right baby, can rock your world. No risk no reward.

Lets be careful out there.

Revvo

Well said, Rev.
Even for some of us veterans, it's good to have things spelled out simply and succinctly from time to time. Thanks!

Good luck, newbie, and don't forget to write!

Scott

[HollywoodGuy]

Hollywood,

I appreciate the info. I have a green dot card for just such contingencies, so I will sign up as a paying member, and see what happens. My card only has $50 on it, as I have learned my lesson with SD4Me before and how hard it is to cancel their ongoing billing.

I will, of course, report back with anything of value that I learn.

Scott

Just remembered. Only a gold member girl can reply to a non member guy

[Mr Strict]

Sentance / sentence.

Puncuation / punctuation

I hate those tiny buttons and being blind. Sucks.

(Thanks Hollywood)

Strict

[F Scott]

Also, you have to do the 'total access' thing if you want women who are non-members to have the ability to contact you.

Good grief, who knew it was so complicated!

Thank you, Spit! If only the babies were so prompt!

Scott

[Spitfire]

Hollywood,

I appreciate the info. I have a green dot card for just such contingencies, so I will sign up as a paying member, and see what happens. My card only has $50 on it, as I have learned my lesson with SD4Me before and how hard it is to cancel their ongoing billing.

I will, of course, report back with anything of value that I learn.

Scott

Also, you have to do the 'total access' thing if you want women who are non-members to have the ability to contact you.