Sugar Daddy Sites

**Dog Rice** · 04-18-13 11:35

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

Kind of makes me regret being married even more. Wonder if I could have a profile. That shows that I am married and looking for a woman anyway. How many responses would I get?

Revvo

Revvo,

I am on the similar boat as you do. I was on some normal dating sites (in profile, saying single) before, and scored some nice gals. However, being married is tough since I can't take gals home. Normal gals questioned why we have to go to hotel. After giving some lame reasons, it usually ends up nowhere. So, I end up quitting the normal dating route. (Too much work and too much hazard!)

I did put "married" in my SDFM and SA profile, and did get some gals. But not as much as HollywoodGuy got. Probably due to San Diego area or myself.

**John G Smith** · 04-18-13 07:38

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

What do you do to address the flaking issue? It seems that I get a lot of flakes no shows, flaky responses to emails and texts. I always try to give them time to respond. I also give them reminders when we are supposed to do a M&G. I never get mad at them or scold them. But still a lot of flakes.

What are some tips?

Anyone else I am all ears. If you guys have any suggestions.

Revvo

I specialize in the younger babies since I'm too close to the other older ones and they don't want me, LOL. But anyway, I've had a few flakes here and there, but not many at all. I agree with Hollywood, you might have a problem with your pre-qualification process. The younger and inexperienced babies are always going to be a little nervous. If it's just a M&G, then I don't try to push any FC expectations on them. I just act like a gentleman so I don't spook them. I do however make it clear before we meet that I'm looking for a physically intimate arrangement, so they at least know where it's going to lead on subsequent dates. But I keep the M&G light with no expectations.

When the first meet is directly at the FC (I'm actually pretty good at arranging this, maybe 30-40% of the time) , then I don't discuss any graphic details of what we might do. If we're going to the FC on the first date, then we both know what is going to happen. I don't need to be pushy or weird and ask if she's going to do XYZ. Maybe it's fine for a UTR, but that's the perfect way to come off as a creep with a SB.

Also I don't do sexting with the younger babies until after we've actually been in the FC. There's some debate about this, but in my experience, flirty texts are okay, but sexting will often make the girl nervous about doing those things in reality or she feels there's high expectations for both parties to live up to the fantasy. Plus most women like to at least have the allusion of choice and spontaneity even when it's not there. When a girl agrees to go to a hotel, part of her knows she's there's to fuck, but there's another part of her that tries to convince that she might just hang out and talk. It's a mental defensive mechanism for some girls to not feel like a **** or prostitute. So I would go light on the sex chat and fantasies until after the first FC visit. After you've banged her once, then have at it.

Finally, if communication in general is sparse, then there's a very high likelihood of flakiness. I mentioned this on another forum, but if a girl takes longer than 4 hours to respond to a fairly important text without a good excuse, then I pass on her. If she takes a half day to respond or ignores a lot of txt, then it's going to be a huge headache trying to arrange meets. I'm sure I'm missing out on some good SBs but since I'm also married with a tight schedule I just don't have the time for flakes.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 04-18-13 07:29

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

This is interesting PartyTimeGuy. Do you actually put in your offer letter that you are looking for an SB? Do you make a dollar offer with the amount? Or are you being real subtle?

On a side note. I have a couple of friends that are not that old. Low forties and not particularly good looking. They have good jobs, not wealthy at all. Good personalities not big time players by any means. But they are well mannered and can carry on a conversation. Good sense of humor. And they were on just the main dating sites like match. Com. And they were killing the pussy.

They both had so many that they were double booking them to come over to their house and fuck them. One in the morning and one in the evening, kind of thing. I could not believe it. And this is no bullshit. I know it for a fact. Some of the girls were just normal women. Some were pretty cute.

They attribute it to just having a personality and being normal. They say there is so much human garbage out there that women get a hold of a normal man. And I emphasize the word MAN. They are just dying to fuck them. And it actually became a competitive thing with some of the women. Because my buddies started to let them know that there were other women dating them.

And this cost a minimum. Per date. Women still want you to pay. And don't be cheap or creepy about it.

Kind of makes me regret being married even more. Wonder if I could have a profile. That shows that I am married and looking for a woman anyway. How many responses would I get?

Revvo

I am very subtle about it when I first contact someone. I ask if they ever thought about having a Sugar Daddy and being spoiled like a sugar baby and if so would they like more details. The communication goes from there.

I totally agree with your friend's" experience. If you are single and younger than 50 and have a good personality you can attract just about all the pussy you want If I spend enough time in bars or clubs or even on the internet I can find pussy. I am not the most handsome guy on the planet and am packing a few extra pounds like most of us are but I have a decent personality. That is what you need most of all to attract women. They don't seem to be as hung up on looks as most of us males seem to be as long as you are not butt ugly. But just getting pussy is not the issue for me. I want something with no strings attached and much younger if possible but some mature females can be a lot of fun too. I was already married and I don't intend to do that again. I don't want anything serious. I don't even want anything with any type of emotional commitment. A SB relationship right up front communicates exactly what you want and the expectations are very clear. : you be nice to me and I will be nice to you and we get together occasionally for some fun and lead our separate lives without any drama.

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-18-13 05:23

Originally Posted by FunTrust [View Original Post]

If she was and my area and full GFE I would do her. But Victorville is a bit out of the way. Tell her to move to civilization. Must be at least a tank of gas.

Actually not a bad suggestion. Tell her $$ but you really got to pay. 4 for the gas. If she likes you who knows. But after hittin it over 200 times its time for me to move on.

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-18-13 05:17

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

Hollywood. I am addressing you in particular on this one since you have been so successful with the really young ones.

What do you do to address the flaking issue? It seems that I get a lot of flakes no shows, flaky responses to emails and texts. I always try to give them time to respond. I also give them reminders when we are supposed to do a M&G. I never get mad at them or scold them. But still a lot of flakes.

What are some tips?

Anyone else I am all ears. If you guys have any suggestions.

Revvo

Flaking is so rare for me I can't even comment. There must be something in your pre-qualifying that is lacking. A yes can easily mean a no when someone just wants you to go away. Sorry. Forget responses to emails and txts. Although even that seems a little weird. Don't sprinkle any pixie dust on your presentation. Be brutally honest and then make them repeat back to you with no uncertainty what they are agreeing to. This may seem harsh but until you get a feel for the nuances involved its a good place to start.

If you have to "talk them into something" which I do on occasion just for the hell of it you are going out on a limb and thats where the flaking begins. Look for a friendly handshake right from the top.

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-18-13 05:09

Originally Posted by Revvo [View Original Post]

Kind of makes me regret being married even more. Wonder if I could have a profile. That shows that I am married and looking for a woman anyway. How many responses would I get?

Revvo

You would get a lot less normal girls and a lot mo low hanging fruit.

**Revvo** · 04-17-13 14:35

Hollywood. I am addressing you in particular on this one since you have been so successful with the really young ones.

What do you do to address the flaking issue? It seems that I get a lot of flakes no shows, flaky responses to emails and texts. I always try to give them time to respond. I also give them reminders when we are supposed to do a M&G. I never get mad at them or scold them. But still a lot of flakes.

What are some tips?

Anyone else I am all ears. If you guys have any suggestions.

Revvo

**Revvo** · 04-17-13 14:30

This is interesting PartyTimeGuy. Do you actually put in your offer letter that you are looking for an SB? Do you make a dollar offer with the amount? Or are you being real subtle?

On a side note. I have a couple of friends that are not that old. Low forties and not particularly good looking. They have good jobs, not wealthy at all. Good personalities not big time players by any means. But they are well mannered and can carry on a conversation. Good sense of humor. And they were on just the main dating sites like match. Com. And they were killing the pussy.

They both had so many that they were double booking them to come over to their house and fuck them. One in the morning and one in the evening, kind of thing. I could not believe it. And this is no bullshit. I know it for a fact. Some of the girls were just normal women. Some were pretty cute.

They attribute it to just having a personality and being normal. They say there is so much human garbage out there that women get a hold of a normal man. And I emphasize the word MAN. They are just dying to fuck them. And it actually became a competitive thing with some of the women. Because my buddies started to let them know that there were other women dating them.

And this cost a minimum. Per date. Women still want you to pay. And don't be cheap or creepy about it.

Kind of makes me regret being married even more. Wonder if I could have a profile. That shows that I am married and looking for a woman anyway. How many responses would I get?

Revvo

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-17-13 02:50

Originally Posted by FunTrust [View Original Post]

If she was and my area and full GFE I would do her. But Victorville is a bit out of the way. Tell her to move to civilization. Must be at least a tank of gas.

She is a full GFE. If she likes you. So YMMV

**FunTrust** · 04-17-13 02:18

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/?page...y&mid=3487385.

Told her to ecpect calls from nice guy sugar daddies. $$. PM for digits. No flakes or lowballers. She is a friend in need. She is a 9 and even a 10 in the sack. But YMMV depending on chemistry. You wil have to drive to her and right now her time is open

If she was and my area and full GFE I would do her. But Victorville is a bit out of the way. Tell her to move to civilization. Must be at least a tank of gas.

**PartyTimeGuy** · 04-16-13 14:28

Originally Posted by HollywoodGuy [View Original Post]

I like your idea. But with a 35 or 40 year age spread (in my case) I could see that being a lot of work. Please try to post a couple stories with age included

I see your point and it can be a lot of work. It's tough enough on a regular dating site to get a female to respond for a regular date. Adding a large age spread and SB relationship in mind makes it more difficult. I am in my 40s so that makes it easier than if I was a lot older. It's a numbers game like anything worthwhile. You send a lot of email inquiries and get a few replies. I get one reply per 10 emails sent. That is enough SB potential for me even though I get bored with them very quickly no matter how good they are.

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-16-13 11:29

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

I am not yet ordering my SBs on line but I have found dating sites to be an interesting way to find them. They haven't yet even thought about it so you are in un-jaded, unspoiled territory. Once they start advertising you are dealing with a pro if not at least a semi-pro. Developing your own is one way to go.

I like your idea. But with a 35 or 40 year age spread (in my case) I could see that being a lot of work. Please try to post a couple stories with age included

**PartyTimeGuy** · 04-16-13 08:00

Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]

Mr. PartyTimeGuy,

Any particular sites working out for you? I've often wondered about that. Tell us more my man!

SubCmdr out!

I have had some success on Zoosk and Datehookup. You have to be very creative and persuasive. You might send out dozens of emails before one works. But it is worth finding a SB who is new to this and unspoiled. The SBs who advertise tend to be picky and demanding.

**SubCmdr** · 04-16-13 06:38

Originally Posted by PartyTimeGuy [View Original Post]

I am not yet ordering my SBs on line but I have found dating sites to be an interesting way to find them. They haven't yet even thought about it so you are in un-jaded, unspoiled territory. Once they start advertising you are dealing with a pro if not at least a semi-pro. Developing your own is one way to go.

Mr. PartyTimeGuy,

Any particular sites working out for you? I've often wondered about that. Tell us more my man!

SubCmdr out!

**HollywoodGuy** · 04-16-13 03:33

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/?page...y&mid=3487385.

Told her to ecpect calls from nice guy sugar daddies. $$. PM for digits. No flakes or lowballers. She is a friend in need. She is a 9 and even a 10 in the sack. But YMMV depending on chemistry. You wil have to drive to her and right now her time is open