"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Ky Man629** · 03-19-13 13:01

" $150 each meeting."

Ky Man, if you can get a hot SB to spend quality time with you for that it is reasonable. Escort rates are a kind of bell weather for SB fees, and an OK local escort in most markets would charge $$ to $$$/hour. If a SB will spend several hours to all night for the same price you have got a deal.

Hernando my man I agree with your quote above except that in her pic which I will not post because it is mainly her face she is def not hot. Average at best with dark circles around her eyes. I sent her the $100. 00 per month number just to see her reaction and really find out what she wanted. I agree 100 to 150 per meeting for nice looking young lady is a deal but not this one.

Kyman

**Literal2** · 03-19-13 12:09

Originally Posted by FredMoore [View Original Post]

Former Pot # whatever

Is an AA spinner HYCB at 21 with a killer body has returned after rejecting me twice and requested an arrangement as of last PM, which I gracefully accepted. She will be my first AA and I am very excited to sample this tasty little delicacy. She has flaked twice before so she could certainly do it again. She is a 10/9/unknown.

I think many non-pros reject the first FC invitation because it makes them feel less like a pro. As long as you don't burn them off, quite a few will come back for another opportunity.

**FredMoore** · 03-19-13 10:13

It is funny how fortunes wax and wane in this delicious sport of ours!

I have undergone so many rejections here so far I feel like an auto inspection shop in the Barrio. If you might recall?

SB #1

My exSB, a sexually inhibited but lovely 23 yr old who broke it off with me because of scheduling difficulties is now back and misses me (my Sugar?) She is excited to have me return to the FC after a month off. We will see if her ardor is more forth cumming. I will engage in more foreplay before dipping into the deep end. It is not always greener in this world, and I think if you are nice and generous these ladies learn that many SDs on the sites are rude, crude, and socially unacceptable. She is an 8/8/7

SB #2

Currently my new and ATF HYCB is on the weekly schedule and is very loving. She is a 10/10/10 in almost anyone's book. She has the romantic nature that I am looking for.

Former Pot # whatever

Is an AA spinner HYCB at 21 with a killer body has returned after rejecting me twice and requested an arrangement as of last PM, which I gracefully accepted. She will be my first AA and I am very excited to sample this tasty little delicacy. She has flaked twice before so she could certainly do it again. She is a 10/9/unknown.

Pot #1 is still in the wind after our sexting overexposure, but she could possibly resurface.

I have filled up my budget for the moment, actually overfull, but I expect some attrition. I now do not want miss Sexting to reappear until I see how these others will play out.

**Varoom** · 03-19-13 08:33

Originally Posted by Ky Man629 [View Original Post]

Me.

$100. 00 A month to share time every other week.

Her.

Yea ok you are never going to find a woman willing to do that for so little. The norm is at least 100 every time you meet. If you are that broke you do NOT need to be on here looking for a baby. The only woman you are going to find is some junkie looking for a fix. I will never do it for less than 150 each meeting. The daddy I had a lonng time ago would give me 200 every time and then throw me a little extra every so often

Well KyMan, $ for a couple of times a month to take the monster for a dip in the pool is either bottom fishing or being extremely optimistic (and thrifty). This is not to say that you won't find an inexperienced baby who is hard up for the coin to open the pool for this meager entry fee, but experience tells them that they can escape with far more of most Daddy's resources. Your respondent is telling you exactly this, and if this is truely your budget expect to hear lots more of this same response, but I wouldn't give up either. However, what is interestging with her is she seemed to go from $$ down to $ minimum each swim, then retreated to say min for her is $.5 per dive. Still reasonable though compared to the avg baby visit out there.

You may have a pro or semi-pro here since she responded as she did, but since you are communicating with her I would go back to her with exactly what you are willing to offer but suggest that you do a meet and greet to see if either of you spark the others interest. If she declines then she is likely a pro. Also the urgency that she mentioned of getting together asap is a give away too. Most baby's aren't quite so eager to hit the pool, as they approach with more caution as a general rule. It is still fun to play the game even if you don't get to swim as often as you might like to. Good luck at the pool.

**Hernando** · 03-19-13 06:30

" $150 each meeting."

Ky Man, if you can get a hot SB to spend quality time with you for that it is reasonable. Escort rates are a kind of bell weather for SB fees, and an OK local escort in most markets would charge $$ to $$$/hour. If a SB will spend several hours to all night for the same price you have got a deal.

" If you need that much a month____ maybe you should post on Backpage or get a real job times have changed. BABY.""Ok was I too harsh?"

Yes. Her comments were pretty typical and she does not qualify for GPS status at that level. There are only a few guys here who seem to be able to attract girls for next to nothing (Big Tigg comes to mind) Most of us don't have that degree of chutzpa or appeal. If you are a hot 30 to 40 something the panties might fall off for the joy of it. If you are a 60 something, hot or not, the 20 yr olds are going to want a little more inducement to do the same. Perhaps a gentler way to say the same thing would be " I have a budget of $xxx / week and would love to see if we can make this work for us." Lecturing these girls, as tempting as it can be, will only bring out the Nando 1 in some of them.

" If you are that broke you do NOT need to be on here looking for a baby."

That is insulting but there is a little truth there. Each of us has a budget and we have to be realistic about what we can afford or are willing to pay. Tell her you would consider something in that general price range just to get her to meet you. If you are appealing enough to her she might be willing to take you on for less.

**Ky Man629** · 03-19-13 00:57

Hi Guys:

I was bored and posted an add on craigslist. Here is a conversaton I had from a response from a supposed Baby.

Her.

Saw your ad and had to respond. I am 28 5'5 140 sexy hourglass figure medium length brown hair and beautiful brown eyes. I am a college student at UK.

I am looking for a daddy I can meet several times a month. What kind of allowance are willing to give a month? I have enclosed a picture if you like what you see email me back so we can meet asap. I would love to meet tomorrow if possible.

Me.

Would consider that. How much do you need a month? Do you have a certain bill you need help with?

Her.

How much are you willing to give for an allowance?

Me.

I think we are getting the cart befor the horse here. Before I could answer that realistically I would have to talk to someone in person, and get to know them a little. You interested in meeting sometime tomarrow a coffee or tea?

Her.

Look I have done this before and it is standard to tell the baby how much of an allowance she is going to get up front. That's how this works. I am going to assume that you have never done this before.

Me.

$100. 00 A month to share time every other week.

Her.

Yea ok you are never going to find a woman willing to do that for so little. The norm is at least 100 every time you meet. If you are that broke you do NOT need to be on here looking for a baby. The only woman you are going to find is some junkie looking for a fix. I will never do it for less than 150 each meeting. The daddy I had a lonng time ago would give me 200 every time and then throw me a little extra every so often

Me.

Ok Just a few things to point out.

#1. I did not post this on a Sugar Baby site. You answeered my post on Craigslist. I was looking for a one time thing which your responded to.

#2. You say you had a Daddy a Long time ago which means you were a lot younger and the economy was a lot better.

#3. In the true Sugar Daddy world the ones that want to know the amount up front before the first meeting are called Professionals not babies.

#4. If you need that much a month, say $150. 00 per week would be $600. 00 a month maybe you should post on Backpage or get a real job times have changed. BABY.

Ok was I too harsh?

What do you think?

Kyman

**Literal2** · 03-17-13 19:05

Originally Posted by Golfcart [View Original Post]

Growing tired of her, so another one can come along, so we can have that first time again.

Yes, you're right.

I remember one time I put my hand inside wife # 1's panties and rubbed her clit. It was long ago.

I thought, this is nothing like the first time. Won't I ever again have the rush of a new female allowing access to her pussy?

I had no idea of the original penetrations ahead.

**FredMoore** · 03-17-13 15:46

So I was perusing SA and encountered a gorgeous Asian who has a twin. She said that she wanted to be spoiled, AND her sister as well, but don't expect a hookup. My question is this. Should I take her at her word and fugeddaboudit? Or do you gents find that the panties loosen up with good feelings engendered by spoilage? Perhaps she is just trying to discourage the creeps (like me LOL)

My SB of 1 week from Nova is totally on board now and we are making all kinds of plans together. SO fun! There is no thrill better than penetrating a new pussy for the first time / bar none! The juices just flow! She has been on sabbatical for a long time too so she was ready Freddy.

Sexting Bust who I had extremely high hopes for has bailed from the SDFM site. Perhaps the reality of what she is doing put her off. Or maybe she found another SD. In this business you never know.

**Kyowa** · 03-17-13 13:21

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

What do you guys use to help get your tool up into the shit hole?

What you can use depends on whether you're using LATEX (or any?) Condoms: did you know that anything that contains mineral-oil/petroleum-based-oil will degrade LATEX (rubber) to the point where it will break or tear quite easily? So whether you use any of the expensive lubes, available at "adult"stores or in the "family-planning"/birth-control section of the drug-store or the pharmacy-dep't of the "big-box"store, you need to read the ingredients-labels very carefully: or else use non-latex (either urethane condoms, or "natural" products: such as "lambskin"s) for protection! If you use non-latex condoms then an incredibly inexpensive lube is "Fruit_of_the_Earth"-brand vitamin-E skin-care-cream: two-pack of four-ounce (each) jars for under four-dollars at "wally-world"stores around here; if you use latex-condoms: I highly recommend the very inexpensive oil-free Corn_Huskers_Lotion[T' M'] at less-than one-dollar-per-ounce for the seven-ounce bottle at the aforementioned local "wally-world" body_&_hand-lotions aisle; Corn_Huskers will also work well for both "bare-back" & masturbation: it is non"greasy" but it absorbs rapidly into bare skin so you'd probably have to keep re-applying it, although at the price you could use an entire seven-ounce bottle for about seven-dollars which is negligible compared to what you'd spend for "specialty"lubes from an "adult"store or on any sex-aids website! Also the fact that they aren't labeled as "sex-lubes" means that they aren't suspicious to buy or keep around!

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

This is not my thing, but a girl told me once "that's where all the nerve endings come together." My impression is this is an American practice, at least in non-violent forms. Don't see it much elsewhere. But what do I know?

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

Not my thing either, but I haven't done it in a long while. It's time for a revisit to the dark dungeon.

**Mr Strict** · 03-17-13 08:53

Originally Posted by Smokarz_XO [View Original Post]

I agreed! But at the same time, there are many UTRs and semi pros that hang around these sites. A direct approach might work better / faster for guys (married especially) that don't have a lot of times available on their hands.

Yes, for those with time restraints, getting to the point sooner rather than later is important. What I am referring to are guys being vulgar jackasses and blowing their wad, almost literally, in the introduction letter! If the ladies are UTR or semi pro, it has been my experience that they show their hand very quickly. They have shit they got to do too! LOL.

Sounds like you manage your game well and are getting great results, Smoke.

Stay Safe.

Strict

**Golfcart** · 03-16-13 22:45

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

A stripper / semi pro / pro / wannabe sugarbaby who orgasms easily, what could be better?

Growing tired of her, so another one can come along, so we can have that first time again.

**Literal2** · 03-16-13 22:03

[QUOTE=Kyowa; 1707368* so "your" gal probably has perfectly valid reasons for her preference: at least it sounds like she might be willing to do "out-dates" with guys, like you, that she's "pre-screened" in the club & feels safer with![/QUOTE]

Yeah, I think this is about right.

You can't stop nature, my man. The penis is going to find a vagina.

**Literal2** · 03-16-13 21:48

She is very sexual. Wild, abandoned, lascivious. Whatever. I think she loves me.

Or maybe its my wallet.

**Literal2** · 03-16-13 21:43

She wants to meet tomorrow. I was drained by this pretty girl yesterday, I'm too old for this shit.

**Member #5570** · 03-16-13 17:07

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

This is not my thing, but a girl told me once "that's where all the nerve endings come together."

My impression is this is an American practice, at least in non-violent forms. Don't see it much elsewhere.

But what do I know?

Not my thing either, but I haven't done it in a long while. It's time for a revisit to the dark dungeon.