"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Revvo]

I have to agree with FredMoore on this one. I have done a lot of reading on here. From front to back and I have jumped into the sugar bowl with very mixed results so far.

But one thing I have noticed. Is if you get into one of these steamy R rated or X Rated text or email exchanges at the beginning before you fuck them. It appears that this gives the POT a very strong sexually charged rush and many times for whatever reason replaces her need to go through with the entire act.

Be careful. If all you are after is some phone or text sex then go for it. If you really want them in the FC. I would recommend keeping it suggestive and interesting building up the emotional tension until you get to the final act, and the panties hit the floor.

But hey what to I know. I am currently on a new streak and about to set the world record for number of flakes in a row. I cannot tell you what it is. It has been HCB, HYB, and MILFs all flaking, and even to the point of getting right to minutes before we are supposed to meet. And then all of a sudden poof. They vanish into the flake bowl. Maybe I am too honest up front? A string of bad luck? Don't know.

Oh well it is a good test of my patience and my fortitude to continue on. What is it that Shakespeare said Scott? Once more into the breach?

Be careful out there and keep an eye out for the crazies.

[F Scott]

My Brothers,

I totally agree with Golf on this. Did Superman ever invite anyone to his Fortress of Solitude? Has any baby seen the inside of the Bat Cave? Has anyone, ever, seen James Bond's apartment? I think not. We are secret agents, under deep cover, whether single or attached. Whether the baby is of nefarious intent or not, no good comes out of her knowing our real identity. We need to be able to vanish at will.

Hotels or their places are the only options for FC activities. Well, and backseats, I suppose.

Hunter, there is hotel wisdon scattered throughout the journal. Most of us use a prepaid gift card when booking online, then switch to cash in person. Or, ask the baby to make the arrangements and then add it to her sugar. At least this is how I handle it. If you have a sugar email set up, you can have Hotwire or Priceline or whoever send your confirmation and any followup contacts there. I have never had a hotel contact me directly if I have booked through one of these sites. I'm not sure they even have your contact info, but just in case, I request at check in that nothing be sent in the mail.

Some of us have PO boxes for sugar activity as a back-up precaution, and give that as an address at check-in.

Good luck, and don't forget to write.

Scott

[Wnde8]

I'm sure what you speak of has happened to some poor guy somewhere, but a home invasion is a rather large step up from sugaring around. If that's the kind of thing you're afraid of, you should also be afraid being held up in a secluded spot from a sugar baby.

[Golfcart]

Hello Gentlemen and Lady,

I'm a single man from Los Angeles, CA. I've been dabbling in the SD world for a few months now, starting with reading this forum from page one. Although I'm a single man I'm not to keen on the idea of bringing a new baby back to my house after the first meet until she's been vetted and bedded. (edit delete)

The convenience of having girls in our home. We think we know them. We know more about the cable guy. The gable guy isn't hiding his identity. The typical risks of pay for play are on steroids the minute we bring those risks into our home. We give her knowledge we cannot take back. Our address allows her to learn our identity. That leads to our workplace. Being single is no defense. Nobody can stand our participation in pay for play getting out. She has the power to find us any time, even years later. A problem during the encounter someplace else allows us to walk away. At home we are limited to fighting or giving in. Girls who sell their bodies have pressures we cannot imagine. We never know what is behind that smile.

Pay for play in whatever form never works for a girl the way she envisioned. Many have burned bridges making it harder to return to her life of before. She feels cornered and feels trapped. Women are emotional and reactive creatures by nature prone to fly off the handle anyway. Everything is our fault it happened and our fault we didn't fix it. We carry the rap-sheet of every man that came before us. With a woman everything goes south sooner or later. We never know when that point will be reached. We don't want that point to be reached when she is in our home.

Then there is the riskiest encounter of all. She has decided this time will be our last time. Something about that encounter will turn out differently and we are unaware. We don't want that to happen at home.

Talk to a friend on the police department about home invasions. Many burglaries are inside jobs by people who have been there by invitation. Home invasions often result in a fire being set out of anger or to hide evidence of the burglary. That leaves evidence of arson. Arson is obvious to a trained investigator. The suspects are the homeowner and all who have been there by invitation. The homeowner is required to make statements under oath about this. Even though she may not be involved, even though someone she bragged to about what she saw in our home was not involved, nonetheless we are in a box whether we tell the authorities and insurance investigators about the women we were having over to pay to have sex with us, or leave them out of our statement under oath. Good luck with that decision made either way. There simply is no upside to pay for play at home other than temporary convenience. At the core this is boundary crossing. Boundary crossing however it happens leads to problems. My opinion only (revised from a prior post).

[FredMoore]

Well, I have learned my lesson after two blown newbies (not in a good way ).

I've got really good news out of 3 high pots only one bit, but looks like she is a keeper.

If you remember the lineup from my last post:

1) Pot #1 Nando! 75 %FC odds busted She has a high baseline cost with long travel and babysitter needs, so I would be $$ in the hole before covering her nut

2) Pot #2 23 yr old hottie engaging in lots of suggestive talk and exchange of R rated pics ran after a session of text sex.light porn grade. Not too specific. All talk and no action She says she would never have sex on the 1st or even 2nd date. WTF? Why are they here except to get an ATM #.

3) Pot # 3 Bingo! Several days ago had a M&G with this mid 20s 10/10/10 and we had a wonderful overnight and it looks like the game is on. The damage was very reasonable (not Big Tigg grade though) She is slim with B + cups and a 22 inch waist. And smart as hell.

4) 23 yr old hottie who I lost after sexting session with her (at her request ).

So the bottom line is twofold.

1) Do not engage in sexting with them. You give too much away too early, and it might scare them with the reality of what they are getting ready to do (ie sell themselves) and;

2) I've got a super hot SB Yay for me!

[Graham111]

Central Ohio

[TreasureHunter]

Hello Gentlemen and Lady,

I'm a single man from Los Angeles, CA. I've been dabbling in the SD world for a few months now, starting with reading this forum from page one. Although I'm a single man I'm not to keen on the idea of bringing a new baby back to my house after the first meet until she's been vetted and bedded. Can you guys provides tips and tricks you use when it comes to getting hotel rooms? Some of this has been touched on already but I wanted to know more about protecting your identity, getting the best deals, early checkout, best ways to pay, etc. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Treasure Hunter

Seeking the Booty Out Wherever It May Be!

[Blak Casper]

That was funny my friend.

I have had 50% drop panties at home. The one who did not stayed 3-4 hrs and gave me an HJ, but would go no further. I gave her 100. I think still too much bu heck, this is not a perfect world.

That's way to much to give. A HJ would fall into the for free category for me.

[LoriTruck]

North and South Carolina area here.

Been fishing in the NC, SC, GA pond. Got a few nibbles but thats about it. Found one in Atlanta that doesn't do meet and greets. They are asking for a transfer of $500 up front before a cup of coffee. This has scam written all over it. Pm me and we can trade info on potential prospects.

[Magic Rat]

North and South Carolina area here.

[AliasSM]

Baltimore and points north. I just hang out in this forum because I like you guys. Feels like one big happy family (well most of the time). What a great place to meet and compare notes on the SB life.

Alias

[Kyowa]

I'm in far-western-Kentucky, west of the twin-Lakes + the Land-Between-the-Lakes National Recreation Area, & just north of the Kentucky / Tennessee State-line; I'm also 62years old, with arthritis & diabetes.

[Hercules78]

Thats assuming they are wearing panties

That was funny my friend.

I have had 50% drop panties at home. The one who did not stayed 3-4 hrs and gave me an HJ, but would go no further. I gave her 100. I think still too much bu heck, this is not a perfect world.

[TravelinSD]

Hi Guys! I know I made a splash in the pool last spring and then submerged, but I've resurfaced to post on my experiences again. I'll post more over the following days, but let's just say it's been the roller coaster ride that all of the veterans are familiar with. Looking forward to reconnecting with the group!

Drummer

[Golfcart]

I'll give it a few more posts then hit it up with the tally.

Tally me Indiana.