"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Pats Fan1** · 03-12-13 16:10

Well this last couple of weeks have been a learning experience. It definitely is a different type of hunt then what I'm used to. I've had some mixed results and defintely takes more time investment upfront than I'm used to. We'll see if it pays off in a more satisfying fun time.

Updates;

Pot 1: Shay a 23 yr old babe. She missed our first coffee meeting (not good). Then she texted me a few more times and gave her a second chance. Met her for lunch. She is a solid 8. I've had better looking escorts before and GF when I was a younger guy but she is pretty hot. Lunch went well we are scheduled for an FC meeting at a hotel on Thurs. She works at a restaurant (low end) and is a dancer / stripper. She claims she does not ever even entertain take out. She was really nervous when we had lunch. So I'm kinda buying her story. I find myself getting wood with anticipation of that. Hopefully it clicks in the FC. She wants help paying some bills. Doesn't seem greedy which is good. Wish she could host. Thing is at lunch we talked around what was going on and so forth. Do you guys get really direct with them? We talked about going to a hotel for some adult fun but I didn't ask what was on the menu. We also never talked specifically about how much per visit. We talked about 3-4 times per month because that is all that will work for me with the distance she is from me. I said I give some money towards her bills. I also said since I'm paying for a hotel it would be less going to her and she said she understood. Looking for feedback on how direct you guys are. I like to think my results are going to be pretty good. I'm a decent looking guy. I look younger than my age and I'm a decent talker. My wifes friends (divorced and married) are always hitting on me once they get a few drinks in them. Some are pretty hot too. But I just don't want the drama and problems that could arise.

Pot 2: 39 yr old (really more like 45) who I had coffee with. She keeps texting and emailing me to come over and bang her. I haven't yet. She is pretty good looking for her age and her pics she emailed me confirmed that she has a really nice bod. Face is decent not great. She has a good personality and seems like she probably knows what she is doing in the sack. Right now I'm more intrigued for these younger girls. But I'll keep being nice and keeping the window open. I doubt I would make her a long term sb but she might be good for an occasional romp in the sack.

Pot 3: girl that lives 90 min away. I haven't tried to do logistics with her yet.

Pot 4: I met with she seemed like a pro or semi pro. She is 22 yr old latina. Good looking with a nice bod. She wanted money fast. Met her for coffee. She suggested we go for a ride. She pointed to a quiet spot and said go over there. She gave a good BBBJCIM I gave her 80. Meanwhile I had my finger in her puss and my thumb buried up her ass she seemed to like that. On the ride back she wanted to set up another time and do a hotel. She said all three holes were available for at least a couple of hrs for $100. I may be back.

Pot 5. Good looking 24 yr old single mom. Has a job needs some extra cash to keep up. Pics look outstanding. Body is incredible face is nice too. Coffee meeting scheduled with her for tomorrow. Was scheduled for last week but we got a big storm.

Take care,

PF

**FredMoore** · 03-12-13 10:28

Washington, DC with Charlotte, NC to Bethesda, MD and points in between as my travel territory.

I have gone from total bust of late to flush with Pots with one on deck tonight. All of my previous pots from AM, SDFM, and SA are gone, in the wind. Only one I had a relationship with and she was the SA HCB who was not very sexual. But she checked on me the other day so maybe she'll see the error of her ways. It's always greener on the other side is it not.

Pot #1 tonight! (SDFM)

25 Yr old HYCB 8/8? Just like I like them. Slim with B cup breasts and needing money. She could be a little Nando 1 ish so I will see. So far she hasn't flaked on tonight. She asked for gas money so that's a bad sign. Her donation request was reasonable though and I made it clear that we would visit the FC before releasing the funds. $25 for gas and dinner if she balks on the FC. I give it a 75% probability for dinner and coitus noninteruptus. Stay tuned.

Pot #2 (SA)

23 yr old Asian beauty HCB Divorcee who lives alone and will entertain me overnight if we hit it off at the M&G dinner later this week. She is a 9/9/9 in the prelims and the Sugar negotiation went well as a weekly arrangement. I give it an 80% probability for dinner and 70% for her taking me home.

Pot #3 (SDFM)

24 yr old HCB lives at home with parent as a convenience but very excited about a meet in the FC. She is a 9/9/10 and we have corresponded extensively and had text sex earlier. She has shared R.Rated pics and she is a beauty. 9/9/10 I give this a 95% probability of a home run. We haven't discussed allowance yet so that is the one? In this deal. She isn't talking the talk yet to suggest that she is a money grubber. She needs pretty lingerie from her pics so I think I can open her up to some serious adult activities.

Busted Text sex # 1.

An amusing story none the less. 23 yr old HCB 9/9/9 in prelim chat and phone convo. A total newbie and I believe out of her league. She and I chatted and talked by phone. She lives alone and was sounding good for a hookup. We hung up and she texted that she was "touching herself" and would I have phone sex with her. I said "absolutely" and did by text. She apparently was busy rubbing one out. I texted asking her if she wanted me to cum over to help her out and she said yesssss. Well you don't have to tell me twice so I hitthe road to the address she gave me. Well long story short she flaked at 330 AM with me driving around a strange neighborhood with my dick in my hand literally. She texted that she was real but that was it. She was either jerking me around or just didn't have the nerve for this.

So I have too much on my plate right now and if these three all pay off I am going to need a night job to finance it all. My experience is that several will flake, so we will see.

**BigTigger** · 03-12-13 08:58

So MsSuccessful is having problems at home that are causing dramatic changes in her life. Wow and things were going so good. I really didn't feel like hitting the SD sites just yet. So I hit up TheTeacher, she's done with her relationship and is willing to give this another try. She's looking for a husband, so I'll never really be a priority, but she has her own place and live in the right location, so I'm going to keep at it.

I put my CL ad back up (they keep getting flagged) , I've had some good hits, but one unbelievable hit. 22 year old. 5'2 100lbs, Dcups and absolutely beautiful. She seems like she's a mix of Spanish / Italian. She's never done this before and taking it real slow. Right now everything is email. I checked her out online and she's 100% legit. I was floored when I saw her fb, ******* and other pages chronicling her life. Here pics were so nice that initially I thought it was a scam and almost didn't reply. She doesn't have money requirements per say, but likes the way I approach things. So following the established practice, I asked what does she need help with and primarily has one bill that she needs help with. Rent. $800. I'm sure I can contribute at least 1/2 towards that and combined with the dating, this should work out great. I'll keep you informed.

By the way, thanks to those who responded to the location request.

BigTigg

**John G Smith** · 03-12-13 03:39

It's been a while since I posted an update. Things have been in flux, so I was waiting for some of the dust to settle before submitting a new report. The dust still hasn't settled but I figured it was time anyway.

Backseat SB

We are officially on hiatus (again) after a scare in our last encounter. We were getting it on when the neighborhood security patrol "interrupted" us. I was able to talk us out of it but initially he was threatening to arrest me for trespassing on private property. Apparently my car was parked on some HOA private property or something. It just looked like an empty parking lot to me. We had been using that spot without incident for 7-8 months, but clearly that spot was a no-go going forward. She also was getting annoyed at meeting late at night because she had classes in the morning and I didn't like almost getting arrested. So we called it quits (for the third time). I could see us resuming again at some point, but for now we both need a break.

Collegiate Athlete SB

We've also had our ups and downs the past month. Problems started when I got the vibe that I should test her if she's fully on board with the "physical" aspect of the arrangement. She gave hints that she was, but I thought I needed to put it into action to find out for sure. Good thing I did because when I suggested we meet together for some boom boom, she balked and acted all offended and said "I thought you were different!". So I had on my hands a SB that didn't want to put out. I was ready to move on, but she still kept contacting me. I decided to treat her as a long term project. Besides, she's smoking hot and one of the more "normal" girls I met. She's a full-time student and recently went to Nationals in her sport. This isn't some unemployed no-direction SB who's high half the time. Nor is this girl going to go UTR and then semi-Pro within the next 6-12 months. My Collegiate Athlete SB is actually in the local newspaper, so it's a nice ego-stroke knowing this girl is texting me everyday and that we're gradually building up toward the FC. As FScott put it, this SB actually feels like a notch on the belt and not just shooting fish in a barrel, so I'm willing to be patient with this one. So right now, I told her I'm fine if she wants to take things slow, but I'm going to take things slow on my end as well. She's cool with that, so I'm helping with very small things (groceries and such) while we talk regularly. Her school & sport schedule and my work schedule has made it difficult for us to meet regularly to progress things. But lately she's been the one pushing for us to get together, so that's promising. I honestly I have no idea if I'll ever get to the FC with her, it's a total crap shoot. I did make out with her and her lips were so soft it was almost like sex itself. So I'm going to enjoy the chase on this one. I'm not spending a lot of money on her at the moment, so it's primarily a time investment.

Doublemint SBs

Okay they're not exactly twins, but they're two 18 year-old brunettes that live together. I had been corresponding with one of them off and on for the past couple of weeks. We'd make some progress on negotiations then she'd disappear for a few days, then make more progress, and repeat. We finally agreed on a rough amount for the monthly allowance and I made it clear sugar begot sugar. She was onboard, so we started planning to meetup. She mentioned her roommate is also looking for a SD and I told her I could cover some of her needs too if we could all "share" in the fun. I'm rarely this forward and I thought for sure she would give me a verbal lashing but she was up for it! To be honest, I'm not sure if I could sustain the needs of two SBs under one roof long-term, but at the minimum I'll give the allusion that I can for one night or two. A threesome with two willing petite 18 year-olds (Did I mention they were cheerleaders in high school)? No way I'm passing that up, I have to experience it at least the once. However contact hasn't always been consistent with them, so there's a high chance of "flaking out" in any of the remaining steps, so we'll see.

So overall, I'm down to one long-term SB project (Collegiate Athlete SB) and pot SBs (Doublemint SBs) involving a possible threesome. But I don't have any SBs that I'm actively banging right now sadly. So I'm actually having to dip my toes into the escort world to take care of my base needs while I work on these projects.

**John G Smith** · 03-12-13 02:34

Hollywood Guy touched on something that I've been meaning to bring up for a while. About 60-70% of the sugar babies I spent meaningful time with had an "experience" with another girl or considered themselves bisexual. Unfortunately for me, every one of them was strongly oppose to "combining" the experience. They wanted to keep their male and female sex activities completely separate. So I haven't come close to experiencing a threesome until recently (more on this in another report).

But I just find it interesting at such the high percentage of bi-curious sugar babies compared to the rest of the dating population. And I think Hollywood Guy nailed it, these girls are inherently wired different and more adventurous. Even some of the "shy" SBs, have the "kinky" gene, it's just dormant.

Anybody else want to put forward a theory on the high percentage of bi-curioius babies?

**Joesouncool** · 03-11-13 13:51

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

For those who are willing, I'd like to go back to my old AOL chat room days and do a location check. It might be fun to see where everyone is. So if you are game reply with your "general" area.

BigTigg. DMV (Washington DC, Maryland & Northern Virginia)

I'm in the GA / TN area. I primarily lurk in this forum and read. I don't have an SB and just live vicariously through you guys.

**Member #5570** · 03-11-13 13:15

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

For those who are willing, I'd like to go back to my old AOL chat room days and do a location check. It might be fun to see where everyone is. So if you are game reply with your "general" area.

BigTigg. DMV (Washington DC, Maryland & Northern Virginia)

Hartford, CT

**Ky Man629** · 03-10-13 23:06

Central Kentucky to Southern Ohio and Southern Indiana.

**Hernando** · 03-10-13 21:33

Richmond, Va to Washington, DC is my playground

**DantaKarma** · 03-10-13 20:49

DMV area, Nova, DC, Southern Md.

**DantaKarma** · 03-10-13 20:45

Well I m not hung like a horse I am 5 1/2 and get no complaints so I think I'm good.

Originally Posted by EuroInCincy [View Original Post]

Well I am not that small as you. I have had them run away and get PTSD after I dropped my pants a few times.

**BigTigger** · 03-10-13 20:30

Now this is what I'm talking about! Once you get a taste of these type of SBs, it's hard to go back. I see SubCmdr has made it down the yellow brick road of CPO happiness! Welcome my brother!

Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]

Was with a MILF gone wild (36) and busted twice in her mouth and twice in her pussy (covered). Good oral skills but really couldn't take dick. Damage: just expenses. (Hotel room, dinner and breakfast). Time on station: 18 hours. CPO =37. 5. One of my best CPO's ever. Best part: received a text the next day thanking me for the evening, dinner and breakfast. Just got to love it!

Go deep, go HAM & prosper,

SubCmdr out!

**SubCmdr** · 03-10-13 19:49

Was with a MILF gone wild (36) and busted twice in her mouth and twice in her pussy (covered). Good oral skills but really couldn't take dick. Damage: just expenses. (Hotel room, dinner and breakfast). Time on station: 18 hours. CPO =37. 5. One of my best CPO's ever. Best part: received a text the next day thanking me for the evening, dinner and breakfast. Just got to love it!

Go deep, go HAM & prosper,

SubCmdr out!

**Donwhite** · 03-10-13 16:30

I'm in Nashville. I have a 23 yr old from Springfield, Illinois driving down to see me today. Hopefully tonight will end in a hotel room.

**Member #4103** · 03-10-13 09:08

Originally Posted by BigTigger [View Original Post]

For those who are willing, I'd like to go back to my old AOL chat room days and do a location check. It might be fun to see where everyone is. So if you are game reply with your "general" area.

BigTigg. DMV (Washington DC, Maryland & Northern Virginia)

HC. Richmond, VA, though most of my SB activity has happened during business trips.