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[JZLizard]

Even if we know how to stay safe (until LEO comes up with a new trick, that is) , the hobby is still pretty dreary in this climate. Instead of going to a totally safe bar / club-type brothel where I can hang around and enjoy myself, make contact, check for chemistry, and then take out, I have no choice but to surf through crappy ads or escort sites and order sight unseen, hoping for the best or at least not the worst, which is LEO. So in addition to the real danger, the pleasant, exciting aspect of safe live interaction allowing one to choose from a number of girls before the deed is completely missing here, and all that makes the whole thing quite depressing for me. Who's to blame? Historically, the WCTU perhaps, or Calvinism, or Martin Luther (not King). Today, all mainstream politicians and a large (perhaps dominant) part of the general population. What you write sounds utterly sane, and is in fact what Germany does, but I have to wonder whether more than, say. 10% would be willing to sign off on it.

I'm always surprised at how many people I talk to (folks that are not involved in the hobby at all I mean) that believe it should be legalized, but yet there doesn't seem to be much traction on making it so. One thing I wanted to convey that I probably didn't do a good job of. When I was discussing technology backfiring on those seeking to eliminate the worlds oldest profession, I was talking about what happens currently in the sugarbaby online scene (or at least using that as a baseline example). Technically there is nothing illegal at all about SB / SD arrangements, and while I know that's probably not quite on topic in a BP ad discussion, I think the politicians and LEOs who unknowingly have daughters involved in this would be horrified to discover how ineffective their tactics of eliminating prostitution really are. I'm sure the runaway teen streetwalker thing still happens in some areas, and certainly if they are minors then the law IMO has every right to intervene in that situation. But many girls simply wait until they are 18 and start putting out for cash, whether it's officially sugar daddying or not. Prostitution is not going away, it is simply reinventing itself in ways that will make it much harder for LE to truly enforce anything. At least if they legalized it, for example they could pass a law that requires 21 as a minimum age, which would actually give them more legal control than they have now. Right now they can set up stings for BP girls trying to make ends meet but for every one they get there are probably 50 more they don't, and I don't think I've ever heard of any sort of legal intervention into the sugarbaby scene.

[LexintonLuther]

Long time lurker, infrequent poster. Just a few more words of advice to those of you out there who haven't been in this hobby for too long.

- When having a dream, do not take ANYTHING with you which you aren't readily prepared to lose. I've been robbed twice (years ago) , and I had no one to blame but myself. I turned my back for even the briefest opportunity, and my wallet was cleaned out. Lesson learned. Don't take your whole wallet in. If your dream has already been screened, you may not even need to take I'd (but I still do anyway). Even in an outcall situation, be mindful of what you have laying about in your own space which could disappear. I once had a stack of games and DVD's disappear, and the person who did this was someone who. Up until then. I trusted implicitly and had been dreaming about for months.

- Lock and password protect your damn phone. You probably don't want information on it being compromised. I also had this happen to me a long time ago. Thankfully, the phone and its info were expendable.

- Turn your ringer off! If you don't want hers going off during your dream, then have the courtesy to turn yours off.

- Be very, very subtle. Don't do anything to stand out too much. I was recently told an interesting story about a very observant hotel employee, and it made me realize that a little misdirection can be a very useful thing.

- If possible, do not park in the most convenient place. I have taken to parking and walking a bit to where I need to go.

- And finally, this one made me really angry this past week. (If you read this and realize that you did this, then you should go straight to the mirror and punch yourself in the face repeatedly.) Do not EVER even JOKE with a lady using words like "you're under arrest." That shit is NOT FUNNY AT ALL and I think it should result in an automatic blacklist with that lady / agency. That someone would even do this jokingly indicates a serious lack of common sense to me.

Finally, I will add one last thing. I have recently had a very pleasant dream about Claire at BKS. She's quite a conversationalist.

Sir PS,

(If you read this and realize that you did this, then you should go straight to the mirror and punch yourself in the face repeatedly.) LMAO! Very good info.

Lex

[LexintonLuther]

Gentlemen, I experienced an amazing dream about this incredible MILF. She is 47 and has the most amazing body I have ever seen on a woman in her 40's and most in their 30's (much better in person than her pics). She is with bestknownsecrets, first time using them and it was very easy to setup an appointment, if you have posted on another other board or used another agency.

She lives in another state and comes here for 10 days to work her magic. If you have ever been with a mature lady that loves sex and is the type you see in a public place and say to your self,"I would love to have her in bed", then Tonii is the one you should try. Amazing BBBJ skill and is cool with about anything other than Greek or DATY. Basically, a 47 year old spinner. If you like large natural breasts and enjoy watching them move from different angles, then she is the one for you.

She is very easy to talk to, a natural beauty (does not need makeup) and has done this before, but took a 15 year break to raise a family and recently started back in the business. Investment was $$ and next time will leave more. I plan to dream about her again before she leaves.

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...er-47/10502091

Sir S. Guy,

At your best guess, when do you think she would return?

Lex

[LexintonLuther]

Name: Maya.

Ad:

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...at-20/11283701

Number: (336) 687-4803.

After my last experience I was a bit hesitant to hop back on the backpage saddle, but saw the ad for this girl and decided to give it a shot. I knew she would not be GFE, but it looked like her pricing was fair considering she would probably be at best a somewhat interactive pump and dump.

Setting up the appointment was pretty easy. I called she answered and I told her what time I would be there (I was a bit late due to rush hour traffic and she never once mentioned my tardiness). On the phone she did mention and two girl special and said that the other girl would be there. This is usually a red flag, but she was pretty sweet about it so I let it slide. She opened the door dressed pretty close to what she is wearing in her pictures. There was no enthusiastic hello and when I asked for her prices she said. 8 for half hour and $.5 for the hour. I thought the title of the ad indicated the hour was 80, but who knows and I only wanted a half hour anyway. As is my standard I used the bathroom (a quasi cleanliness check) before proceeding and it was very clean.

When I returned from the bathroom she was sitting on the bed fully clothed watching tv so I told her that she could go ahead and get undressed. She is very slim, unshaved (not too bushy) and has a cute face. After I undressed she handed me a condom with the expectation that I would work myself up while she watched a bit more tv. I joked with her a bit about how I don't expect to pay for sex and then have to masturbate (I get the impression that maybe some guys come in ready to go). She indicated that the half hour is usually just straight sex, IMO p4p from an "escort" and not a SW should always be half and half but that's another story. I tried for a while and then got on the bed semi-erect. She then sweetly asked if I still needed some help to which I replied that I would appreciate it and she proceeded to give me a good CBJ until I stopped her.

I spent my entire time with her in missionary and on the overall it was enjoyable. She let out a few moans from time to time and her pussy stayed moist without having to add lube. I know that I ran over time but she never rushed me or even looked at the clock once. The only real awkward part was that the other girl took a customer into the bathroom while we were together, but that's one of the biggest downsides to doing an incall with girls who travel together.

I was considering seeing her again so after I found out how often she comes to Raleigh I inquired about how the hour is different. She told me that for the hour she sucks and fucks and that you can go as many times as your hour allows. She did mention that she does not kiss, but a lot of them have that rule. I've found that for some providers it is pretty easy to get around if you can joke a bit with them to throw them off guard. I think it mainly depends on how far removed they are from primarily having sex only while in a relationship. I did not ask about DATY because that's not my thing but there was a bit of an odor that seemed familiar. I didn't figure it out until I was leaving and remembered a bottle of feminine hygiene product in the bathroom, I can't remember the name but it's the stuff that helps to balance the ph in women's vaginas.

If she comes back next month I will probably repeat. The choice between the hour and half hour will probably hinge on her willingness to do an outcall or her being in the room alone.

Sir Joe Looking,

Very nice read. I enjoy the detail you put into your work. I try to do the same with the interviews I post. I am planning on doing a little traveling so I am checking out your neck of the woods.

Lex

[LexintonLuther]

Name: Alana.

Tel No: 919-514-7589.

Ad:

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...ht-26/11016309

So tonight I was in the mood for greek and also hoping to start my month off with a good GFE. After a couple of calls that resulted in nothing I looked at Alana's ad. I am not too much into white chicks, but her "yes to everything attitude" and rear entry special stood out. I made the call and when I asked if she was GFE she said yes and quoted me $$10 for the hour. Before hanging up I asked about multiples and she waffled a bit but agreed to multiples if I bought access to all three holes, this should have been the first warning but I let it slide. When I got to the area I called and she told me that she was not in the hotel and was caught in traffic. I could accept that because I was coming from Durham and got to Raleigh pretty quickly. She then called back to say she was in the room but I accidentally went to the hotel down the road. Since I not at the right hotel, she asked if it was okay for her friend to do a quick visit and if I got there before she finished to just wait. This should have been warning number two because if one is into the quick visits they both do it. I only let it slide because in December I was actually able to get a pretty sensual GFE from a quick visit girl once I got her comfortable so I know the conversion is possible.

I got to the room and she started going on and on about how she needed to raise bond money after being arrested or some tripe. When we got naked I laid on the bed and she took out a condom. She then said,"You want bareback, right?" I said yes assuming she meant the blow job. After a pretty weak blow job she asked how I wanted it so I had her lay on her back, after making her get another condom since she thought I would be sticking it in without one (with 99% of SPs I draw the line at a BBBJ). I went straight for the butt and less than 2 minutes in she was wincing in pain and asking if I was going to cum soon. Not being one to want to put someone in physical pain I switched to the pussy. After going at it for a bit in missionary she asked to get on top and dove in at a fast pace. I wanted to get the first nut out of the way and wanted to cum on her pussy with maximum volume (something I enjoy doing) so I had her lick my nipples while I jacked off finally finishing with it dripping down her clit.

During the deed the phone had rang and she went to check the message during what I believed to be an interlude. When I mentioned that I planned to go again she launched into a speech about how her daughter is with the babysitter a few doors down and her daughter is more important than me and so forth. She then jetted in the bathroom with the phone. When she came out she went into a speech about how she does this because $8 / hour does not pay the bills (it won't make you rich but I know people who get by on it) and that I was asking for a lot. Apparently a BBBJ and wanting multiples is no longer a part of the GFE. Considering I paid that * what it probably usually takes 3-4 guys for her to get I was not asking for a lot. Then there was a knock on the door and some guy came in. He was not physically intimidating nor did he act tough, but it was clear that I could leave or beat the shit out of both of them and take my money, but the money does not mean that much to me. Not to mention the fact that between this review and what I'll put on the other site her business will hopefully take a hit.

I advise that anyone thinking of seeing her don't. I'm partially to blame because there were tons of red flags, at the very least I should have switched from an hour to 1/2 hour once I realized that she was probably a qv girl.

Sir Joe Looking,

You are a very patient man. I think I would have walked once the blah blah blah started. I do prefer GFE at times and I always do the hour interviews as long as multi pops are allowed even if it doesn't happen for me, I still always want the option.

Lex

[Mintcond40]

Does anyone have any info on Devine? Her pics are quite a turn-on but my instincts say she probably doesn't deliver good service. Thanks in advance.

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...als-24/9992255

[Joe Looking]

Name: Maya.

Ad: http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...at-20/11283701

Number: (336) 687-4803.

After my last experience I was a bit hesitant to hop back on the backpage saddle, but saw the ad for this girl and decided to give it a shot. I knew she would not be GFE, but it looked like her pricing was fair considering she would probably be at best a somewhat interactive pump and dump.

Setting up the appointment was pretty easy. I called she answered and I told her what time I would be there (I was a bit late due to rush hour traffic and she never once mentioned my tardiness). On the phone she did mention and two girl special and said that the other girl would be there. This is usually a red flag, but she was pretty sweet about it so I let it slide. She opened the door dressed pretty close to what she is wearing in her pictures. There was no enthusiastic hello and when I asked for her prices she said. 8 for half hour and $.5 for the hour. I thought the title of the ad indicated the hour was 80, but who knows and I only wanted a half hour anyway. As is my standard I used the bathroom (a quasi cleanliness check) before proceeding and it was very clean.

When I returned from the bathroom she was sitting on the bed fully clothed watching tv so I told her that she could go ahead and get undressed. She is very slim, unshaved (not too bushy) and has a cute face. After I undressed she handed me a condom with the expectation that I would work myself up while she watched a bit more tv. I joked with her a bit about how I don't expect to pay for sex and then have to masturbate (I get the impression that maybe some guys come in ready to go). She indicated that the half hour is usually just straight sex, IMO p4p from an "escort" and not a SW should always be half and half but that's another story. I tried for a while and then got on the bed semi-erect. She then sweetly asked if I still needed some help to which I replied that I would appreciate it and she proceeded to give me a good CBJ until I stopped her.

I spent my entire time with her in missionary and on the overall it was enjoyable. She let out a few moans from time to time and her pussy stayed moist without having to add lube. I know that I ran over time but she never rushed me or even looked at the clock once. The only real awkward part was that the other girl took a customer into the bathroom while we were together, but that's one of the biggest downsides to doing an incall with girls who travel together.

I was considering seeing her again so after I found out how often she comes to Raleigh I inquired about how the hour is different. She told me that for the hour she sucks and fucks and that you can go as many times as your hour allows. She did mention that she does not kiss, but a lot of them have that rule. I've found that for some providers it is pretty easy to get around if you can joke a bit with them to throw them off guard. I think it mainly depends on how far removed they are from primarily having sex only while in a relationship. I did not ask about DATY because that's not my thing but there was a bit of an odor that seemed familiar. I didn't figure it out until I was leaving and remembered a bottle of feminine hygiene product in the bathroom, I can't remember the name but it's the stuff that helps to balance the ph in women's vaginas.

If she comes back next month I will probably repeat. The choice between the hour and half hour will probably hinge on her willingness to do an outcall or her being in the room alone.

[Prurient6]

I noticed that the phone number Jumpman2010 referred to in post #2735 from 1/25 in connection with a LEO sting has re-appeared in an ad just this morning:

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...ut-20/11172498

Furthermore, yesterday morning it was in a Fayetteville BP ad:

http://fayettevillenc.backpage.com/F...ed-20/11306085

Here's a photo that even clearly shows the face of the girl in the ad:

http://images.escortads.xxx/cities/2...11172498-1.jpg

I could not find any other hits for this photo.

So what is likely going on here? I see the following possibilities:

(a) formerly legit provider, jumped ship / forced by LEO to play along.

(be) legit provider, there was no sting but Jumpman2010 has some beef with her.

Any other options?

Sorry for the suspicions if unfounded; someone please enlighten me if I'm missing something.

[Prurient6]

Prurient,

I tend to agree with you. Do you mind if I ask if you have any daughters? I don't either. Maybe if I did my perspective would be different, but at this point yes I think the hobby should be legalized, regulated, and taxed like any other profession. I should at least be able to list my barely legal SBs as dependts on my tax returns shouldn't I? The Internet has changed a lot of things including parent's control over their daughter and the types of girls that put out for cash. Even on regular (non-SD, non-Hobby) dating websites (actually those are some of the best hunting ground) , it's relatively easy to find someone who just registered because she's recently entered adulthood and got tired of mom and dad telling her what she could not do while under their thumb. No need to convince her to try the SB / SD thing, she's been ready for a couple of years already. Sorry but its the new way and one reason I don't care to be a parent. The plans the fundie politicians had to protect family values backfired in their face the moment the technology they didn't understand facilitated more efficient hookups. That's the bottom line. So the industry is thriving in ways that neither politics nor law nor parental strategies can possibly intervene. It's for this very reason that the government needs to either learn that they can no longer fight the world's oldest profession, and even trying to is truly moronic. It would be much smarter to legalize and tax it. Not only is the money better (politicians themselves are working girls and that's the bottom line they care about anyway) , but it's much easier to regulate something and to attempt some level of control at the bookkeeping level than to ban it outright. Especially something as natural as pussy for payment.

Hi JeezLizard, no, I have no daughters, but I hope that my thinking about this issue would be consequent if I did. Even in a socially advanced country with full legal protection for prostitutes (e. G. Germany) , I would not want them to become call girls, not because there's anything fundamentally wrong with it, but simply because it's not such a great profession, even if all customers were as gentlemanly as I am. I mean, after all, I wouldn't want them to become janitors (no offense) or politicians (indeed, the other kinds of wh*res, as you write) either.

Regarding the whole hooking up through the internet thing, that is of course another issue. I would hope to teach my kids how to engage in safe behavior regardless of the legal climate. Alas, the legal climate forces us to use this medium as well; you write that the technological advances "backfired" in the faces of fundamentalist politicians (and that seems to be all of them when it comes to this issue, WTF?) , but I don't quite agree here. We are seeing that politicians and their LEO enforcement arm have intruded into this technological territory and have arrogantly given themselves the right to police it-just like they want to police every aspect of our lives and all our money exchanges, whether for nookie, booze, bread or anything else. That compels us to either give up on our amusement, or play with the danger of being caught, fined, embarrassed, or sent to the idiotic "john school"-where they want to brainwash us with the preposterous notion that prostitution, trafficking and child abuse are all one and the same thing.

Even if we know how to stay safe (until LEO comes up with a new trick, that is) , the hobby is still pretty dreary in this climate. Instead of going to a totally safe bar / club-type brothel where I can hang around and enjoy myself, make contact, check for chemistry, and then take out, I have no choice but to surf through crappy ads or escort sites and order sight unseen, hoping for the best or at least not the worst, which is LEO. So in addition to the real danger, the pleasant, exciting aspect of safe live interaction allowing one to choose from a number of girls before the deed is completely missing here, and all that makes the whole thing quite depressing for me. Who's to blame? Historically, the WCTU perhaps, or Calvinism, or Martin Luther (not King). Today, all mainstream politicians and a large (perhaps dominant) part of the general population. What you write sounds utterly sane, and is in fact what Germany does, but I have to wonder whether more than, say. 10% would be willing to sign off on it.

[JZLizard]

Prurient,

I tend to agree with you. Do you mind if I ask if you have any daughters? I don't either. Maybe if I did my perspective would be different, but at this point yes I think the hobby should be legalized, regulated, and taxed like any other profession. I should at least be able to list my barely legal SBs as dependts on my tax returns shouldn't I? The Internet has changed a lot of things including parent's control over their daughter and the types of girls that put out for cash. Even on regular (non-SD, non-Hobby) dating websites (actually those are some of the best hunting ground) , it's relatively easy to find someone who just registered because she's recently entered adulthood and got tired of mom and dad telling her what she could not do while under their thumb. No need to convince her to try the SB / SD thing, she's been ready for a couple of years already. Sorry but its the new way and one reason I don't care to be a parent. The plans the fundie politicians had to protect family values backfired in their face the moment the technology they didn't understand facilitated more efficient hookups. That's the bottom line. So the industry is thriving in ways that neither politics nor law nor parental strategies can possibly intervene. It's for this very reason that the government needs to either learn that they can no longer fight the world's oldest profession, and even trying to is truly moronic. It would be much smarter to legalize and tax it. Not only is the money better (politicians themselves are working girls and that's the bottom line they care about anyway) , but it's much easier to regulate something and to attempt some level of control at the bookkeeping level than to ban it outright. Especially something as natural as pussy for payment.

So sorry you had to experience such aggravation in this "land of the free," Jumpman2010. As a foreigner, I am simply stunned that American men continue to put up with this crap in their own country-and yes, I am affected by it during the time I spend here. It seems that the other half of the population essentially dominates us men completely when it comes to this. Doesn't that make you guys mad at all? I mean, what does it take to vote out of the office all politicians who refuse to fully legalize the hobby? Sorry for the rant but I grew up with John Wayne and all these other larger-than-life American movie heroes-watch John Ford's "Stagecoach" (made in 1939!) to see what I mean specifically about our topic here.

Anyway, here is some info on a recent dream: Ms. Passion, advertises on BP almost daily. Pics are real, body is indeed fabulously slender-athletic if you like model-shaped AA girls like I do. Experience good though not great (does not like missionary, not shaved though I realize some of us like that) , but trying to accommodate, fair enough for the HH payment. Downside: pimp hanging around in incall location hallway, and she even mentioned her "homeboy" in conversation. BTW, these guys are of course an almost necessary by-product of the criminalization, as we all know.

Good luck to all, stay safe, and vote these p-whipped politicians the hell out of their offices.

[JZLizard]

Then I stand corrected then on the stance that "nobody who has lived here for a while would call it that". I've lived here 15+ yrs and never heard the term used, but I fully understand what you're saying when people confusingly refer to anything north of the beltline, like Crabtree or North Hills area for example, as "North Raleigh". I think a lot of folks who have lived here for a while almost forget the North Hills area exists until we have a specific reason to be in the area, even though it's alive and well and seems to attract folks new to the area more than long-timers.

Anyway my prior comment was really to the poster who seemed to feel the use of "midtown" in a BP ad would be a sign of a scam. I actually think the opposite is true especially when the phone area code is non-local. Someone new to that area, even if they landed there somewhat randomly, could look at where they are on their smartphone maps and easily label their location as midtown if they were used to doing same in other cities.

When they tore down the old North Hills Mall and Kane rebuilt the area, his advertising and marketing people started calling the area "Midtown." It actually makes a LOT more sense than calling the area "North Raleigh." It was "North Raleigh" 30 years ago but for people who have come here in the last 15 years, it doesn't make much sense considering you drive another 15 minutes north to get to 540 and the true 2013 "North Raleigh."

The N&O has a "Midtown Raleigh News" section, there is a restaurant N. Hills Mall called Midtowne Grill, etc.

http://www.midtownraleighnews.com/

People and businesses in the Midtown Area use the term but I can see if it has not spread to the whole county.

It's no Midtown Atlanta, but it is what we got. And it would not surprise me that visiting dream girls would use the term if they were staying at a motel in "Midtown" of which there are many, especially over near DukeRaleigh Hosp.

Now, Midtown is real. That ad- well, that looks way TGTBT!

[Prurient6]

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...0-20/10991020.

Avoid at all costs, it will save you bail money and embarrasment.

So sorry you had to experience such aggravation in this "land of the free," Jumpman2010. As a foreigner, I am simply stunned that American men continue to put up with this crap in their own country-and yes, I am affected by it during the time I spend here. It seems that the other half of the population essentially dominates us men completely when it comes to this. Doesn't that make you guys mad at all? I mean, what does it take to vote out of the office all politicians who refuse to fully legalize the hobby? Sorry for the rant but I grew up with John Wayne and all these other larger-than-life American movie heroes-watch John Ford's "Stagecoach" (made in 1939!) to see what I mean specifically about our topic here.

Anyway, here is some info on a recent dream: Ms. Passion, advertises on BP almost daily. Pics are real, body is indeed fabulously slender-athletic if you like model-shaped AA girls like I do. Experience good though not great (does not like missionary, not shaved though I realize some of us like that) , but trying to accommodate, fair enough for the HH payment. Downside: pimp hanging around in incall location hallway, and she even mentioned her "homeboy" in conversation. BTW, these guys are of course an almost necessary by-product of the criminalization, as we all know.

Good luck to all, stay safe, and vote these p-whipped politicians the hell out of their offices.

[Rduguy]

I have never heard the term "midtown" used by anyone anywhere here, and I have lived in the area for almost 20 years. I would look elsewhere. Where the fuck in midtown? Very funny!

When they tore down the old North Hills Mall and Kane rebuilt the area, his advertising and marketing people started calling the area "Midtown." It actually makes a LOT more sense than calling the area "North Raleigh." It was "North Raleigh" 30 years ago but for people who have come here in the last 15 years, it doesn't make much sense considering you drive another 15 minutes north to get to 540 and the true 2013 "North Raleigh."

The N&O has a "Midtown Raleigh News" section, there is a restaurant N. Hills Mall called Midtowne Grill, etc. http://www.midtownraleighnews.com/ People and businesses in the Midtown Area use the term but I can see if it has not spread to the whole county.

It's no Midtown Atlanta, but it is what we got. And it would not surprise me that visiting dream girls would use the term if they were staying at a motel in "Midtown" of which there are many, especially over near DukeRaleigh Hosp.

Now, Midtown is real. That ad- well, that looks way TGTBT!

[Jimjim77]

The real Katie spells her name with one "t".

I need to know. Any 411 on Kattie.

http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs...it-25/11308101

[Vossen]

Midtown is Glenwood / Crabtree Area. I've heard the term used a lot.

I have never heard the term "midtown" used by anyone anywhere here, and I have lived in the area for almost 20 years. I would look elsewhere. Where the fuck in midtown? Very funny!