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[Member #4247]

Just wanted to give a little refresher on how we all need to be much more careful and aware of the risks of this hobby. Lately there seems to be a big influx of "New" girls in the area, just a quick search on BP will bring up dozens of girls who are unfamiliar to our area, they may have out of town phone numbers or even local numbers. After researching on google (which you should always do) you find little to no information, no reviews or anything else on this girl. Its almost as if she suddenly appeared from the heavens! Usually the pics are of a very attractive woman and the pics are professionally done. I always wonder how such an attractive woman who has Pro pictures displayed can exist in this profession without at least having some verifiable info online or have reviews on the review sites. To me this is a HUGE red flag, if I can't find anything online other then the girls BP ads and she seems TGTBT then I stay away, no matter how much little muffy wants to run to see her! I'm seeing most of these mystery girls working out of the Warwick hotels, so just be ultra aware of whom you decide to see!

I'm only brining this information up due to the fact that our little fucked up state has decided to go after our beloved hobby with a passion, not only are they closing the AMPs but they will be also working hard to slow the BP and escort trade. There will be stings coming, could even be a real working girl working for LE, just be careful out there, times have changed here in RI, its not the wild west it use to be! (you've been warned!)

Muffy

Muffy can you recommend any security checks one can do not to fall into such a trap.

I had one provider show me her breast in the hallway before we went into her room, I did that because I had noticed a black&white sitting next door.

[MuffyTheDiver]

Just wanted to give a little refresher on how we all need to be much more careful and aware of the risks of this hobby. Lately there seems to be a big influx of "New" girls in the area, just a quick search on BP will bring up dozens of girls who are unfamiliar to our area, they may have out of town phone numbers or even local numbers. After researching on google (which you should always do) you find little to no information, no reviews or anything else on this girl. Its almost as if she suddenly appeared from the heavens! Usually the pics are of a very attractive woman and the pics are professionally done. I always wonder how such an attractive woman who has Pro pictures displayed can exist in this profession without at least having some verifiable info online or have reviews on the review sites. To me this is a HUGE red flag, if I can't find anything online other then the girls BP ads and she seems TGTBT then I stay away, no matter how much little muffy wants to run to see her! I'm seeing most of these mystery girls working out of the Warwick hotels, so just be ultra aware of whom you decide to see!

I'm only brining this information up due to the fact that our little fucked up state has decided to go after our beloved hobby with a passion, not only are they closing the AMPs but they will be also working hard to slow the BP and escort trade. There will be stings coming, could even be a real working girl working for LE, just be careful out there, times have changed here in RI, its not the wild west it use to be! (you've been warned!)

Muffy

[Member #4442]

And that attitude is exactly why I have been enjoying your company for the past few years. Most guys are into it for the sex act and not the companionship. Just look at the reviews a lot of guys post. I got covered instead of BB. She only liked one position. She didn't swallow. I couldn't touch this or that. She didn't do this or didn't like that. Yadiyadiya. And that isn't to say that there is anything wrong with that. Some girls just don't have the predisposition, skill or apptitude to be anything other than cockpits. As you posted they need to feed a habit or something else money driven. The issue with these ladies is when they promise something and they don't do it but accept the money. If your not going to do it then just don't promise it.

Maybe it is just age. Maybe it is being jaded as you said but as you very well know when we get together it is all about the conversation, pillow talk and cuddle time. As 'dumb and farfetched' as this will sound to many out there. We have spent many a time just talking and cuddling and when we kiss goodbye that is about as close as we get to the 'act'. But it is time well spent. SO

Many of these girls are high volume providers, and this is why they have low rates and do not even bother to get references or screen. Many will agree to anything on the phone and then they disappoint and rush the client out the door. If a girl is going to scam you, don't you think she will lie to you first, just to lure you in. When a provider does not ask for references nor does she require screening, this means she tells every guy that calls her, exactly where she is located and says "come right over". So don't be surprised when the cops are waiting and detain you as you are leaving one of these locations. If a women does not care about her own personal safety, do you really think she cares about yours, or the service she provides.

I have been told by clients that they love mature women, they are treated with respect, they enjoy pillow talk and cuddling and the non rush service, but its real hard to get this type of service with a 1/2 hr appointment, or a girl that has low rates.

Escorts spend 200 to 300 a day, between hotels, gas, and advertising, so when a girl only charges 100 bucks, she has to see at least 2 or 3 clients just to break even, most of these girls will see 10 clients a day, and then you guys wonder why they won't give you their full attention and why they rush you out the door.

Quality companionship usually comes from a provider who only see's a few clients a week, and while all of us have our own personal boundaries and may we willing to do somethings with some people and not with others, and while some clients like to complaint hat she wouldn't do this or that, sometimes its because the man has bad hygiene. We are not blow up dolls, you paid for our TIME not for a specific sex act.

[Smoke Screen]

I do miss the Korean girls though there was just something about them.

Could it be their tight thin bodies, or their willingness to please, or their tight thin bodies, or their beautiful faces, or their tight thin bodies, or their flirty language, or maybe just their tight thin bodies. At any rate, I agree, there is something about them.

[Knight62]

And that attitude is exactly why I have been enjoying your company for the past few years. Most guys are into it for the sex act and not the companionship. Just look at the reviews a lot of guys post. I got covered instead of BB. She only liked one position. She didn't swallow. I couldn't touch this or that. She didn't do this or didn't like that. Yadiyadiya. And that isn't to say that there is anything wrong with that. Some girls just don't have the predisposition, skill or apptitude to be anything other than cockpits. As you posted they need to feed a habit or something else money driven. The issue with these ladies is when they promise something and they don't do it but accept the money. If your not going to do it then just don't promise it.

Maybe it is just age. Maybe it is being jaded as you said but as you very well know when we get together it is all about the conversation, pillow talk and cuddle time. As 'dumb and farfetched' as this will sound to many out there. We have spent many a time just talking and cuddling and when we kiss goodbye that is about as close as we get to the 'act'. But it is time well spent. SO

1000 posts, wow. I'll be in my 80's before I reach that mark. Congratualtions Gansett.

S. O. I'm with you on this one. I'm also one who likes to cuddle and talk. Always have and always will. I was an AMP guy and I have to say I was with some great girls who also liked to cuddle, kiss, talk. I always stayed with the same one until they were gone. Most of the one's I met were usually referrals. I haven't been with a lot of different providers over the last 5 years because of reading about guys getting ripped off, or girls not being what they advertised as. I can't get away from SO as much as I like or have that extra cash to get burned. I'm with a provider now that is in MY estimation the best GFE experience I've had. I just like being with her. I see her every couple weeks and look forward to it.

I do miss the Korean girls though there was just something about them.

[Stressed Out]

To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have. BTW, I like to cuddle and talk. I think escorting and meeting the guys is fun, but then I only provide part-time, because I have a full-time career and have only been doing it on and off since 2008, so maybe I'm not burnt out yet. Actually as time goes on I like it more and more. Sex work isn't exactly new to me, because I used to be a stripper, so you think I'd be burnt out by now LOL.

And that attitude is exactly why I have been enjoying your company for the past few years. Most guys are into it for the sex act and not the companionship. Just look at the reviews a lot of guys post. I got covered instead of BB. She only liked one position. She didn't swallow. I couldn't touch this or that. She didn't do this or didn't like that. Yadiyadiya. And that isn't to say that there is anything wrong with that. Some girls just don't have the predisposition, skill or apptitude to be anything other than cockpits. As you posted they need to feed a habit or something else money driven. The issue with these ladies is when they promise something and they don't do it but accept the money. If your not going to do it then just don't promise it.

Maybe it is just age. Maybe it is being jaded as you said but as you very well know when we get together it is all about the conversation, pillow talk and cuddle time. As 'dumb and farfetched' as this will sound to many out there. We have spent many a time just talking and cuddling and when we kiss goodbye that is about as close as we get to the 'act'. But it is time well spent. SO

[Stressed Out]

You're right Deb, but unfortunately the business model has become get'them in, get'them off, get'them out NEXT as there will always be another to take the place of a client who leaves feeling they were short changed.

I'm not a fan of tats but a small butterfly or flower doesn't bother me too much. But when a beautiful breast has a former (?) boyfriends name,"sleeves" and legs, back and belly covered in them it's a turn off for me.

Wait until they get the tramp stamp they have in Chinese translated and find it's 'beef w / brocoli' or my favorite 'thank you, cum again' [grin]

Hey G. Congrats on hitting the 1000 mark. Glad to be a fiend of yours and thanks for all the tips, info and help all these years. SO

[Stressed Out]

I had an appointment set up with a gentleman I haven't met yet. He texted me that he insisted I send him a "kitty shot" so it would protect him from being stung by LE. He claimed this is a full proof method he uses to prevent himself from being arrested. Hmm, funny because he mentioned what he planned to do with my "kitty" which he claimes he doesn't remember doing. Now this guy claims he is a hobbiest and has seen two well reviewed providers who sent him kitty shots before their first meeting, among others. He said it's standard procedure LOL. WTF!

Oh my love. You really find the good ones don't you. A 'kitty' pic is not going to 'protect' him from anything and can only be bad news for you. It isn't the fact that you and / or he would be neeked in the room that is going to protect either of you as the last time I checked being naked wasn't against the law (yet). It is the paying of said sum of $$ for you to do the act. And if he is trying to protect himself from a sting. How would that do it? Le could send anything to him saying it was you. After all they ARE pretending to be an escort when they place the sting ad so what is an extra step of faking a pic. As far as the other providers sending him pics. Ask him who they were and contact the providers. Betcha he changes his mind quickly.

And as G suggested it could be just a collector of pics or someone with a grudge. I would assume that the pic would have to show more than the kitty for him to 'know' it was you. Then he could use that pic for whatever he wanted.

On the other hand. Having had the opportunity to be a friend of yours these past few years and having enjoyed your love and affection on more than a few occasions I certainly know why he would want the pics LOL. As I've said before to you. Be overly safe in where you go and who you see. It is a very scary place out there with everything going on. You don't need the aggravation or the hassle of getting yourself into a bad situation. Besides I thought the handcuffs were reserved for me! Lots of love. SO

[NY Monger]

Agree with Gansett. Sounds like an odd fellow, maybe a pic collector. Not worth pursuing. LE can engage in a wide variety of investigative techniques, so, not sure how photos, or other stuff guys think is a defense would work in court.

[Gansett]

I was thinking he was a pic collector when he gave the reason that a kitty pic would protect him from a sting. That's a pretty lame reason IMHO.

Have you connected with the two others that supposedly provided him with kitty pics?

Here we are living our lives, going out in public thinking all the whack jobs are locked up.

[Deb4512]

I had an appointment set up with a gentleman I haven't met yet. He texted me that he insisted I send him a "kitty shot" so it would protect him from being stung by LE. He claimed this is a full proof method he uses to prevent himself from being arrested. Hmm, funny because he mentioned what he planned to do with my "kitty" which he claimes he doesn't remember doing. Now this guy claims he is a hobbiest and has seen two well reviewed providers who sent him kitty shots before their first meeting, among others. He said it's standard procedure LOL. WTF!

[Gansett]

To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have.

You're right Deb, but unfortunately the business model has become get'them in, get'them off, get'them out NEXT as there will always be another to take the place of a client who leaves feeling they were short changed.

I'm not a fan of tats but a small butterfly or flower doesn't bother me too much. But when a beautiful breast has a former (?) boyfriends name,"sleeves" and legs, back and belly covered in them it's a turn off for me.

Wait until they get the tramp stamp they have in Chinese translated and find it's 'beef w / brocoli' or my favorite 'thank you, cum again' [grin]

[Skatar018]

I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. We spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider?

The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up.

While all the advise & opinions here are very good, it's really up to you to go out & apply the information to real life situations.

There is no teacher better than the school of hard knocks.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes, they can be a great learning tool, in time hopefully you will learn to minimize mistakes.
However it's one thing to be beat out of some money or sevice, it's quite another to have a run-in with LE so be ever vigilant.

IMO all you can do is learn from your experiences & make the best you can out of each encounter.
There are no standard hard fast rules, & the only ones that apply are the ones you make at that moment, & please NOTE they are suject to change without notice!
Communication about specific services, time, availability, etc. can be a challenge, this is also part of the learning curve & is best done between you & the provider, not always but mostly face to face.

You may find that this applies to most situations when you are wanting something specific:
Now some they do and some they don't.
And some you just can't tell.
And some they will and some they won't.
For some it's just as well.

Just asking the questions you did shows the ability & capacity to learn from opinions & advise.
Now all you need do is go & apply that to the real world.
Remember to trust your guts, instincts, & judgement, they should serve you well over time.

Have fun stay safe

[LoveLatin05]

I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?

The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.

This is actually a good topic. I have a few that I use as repeats. From my experience, the time thing will always vary. What does it vary on?

1. Girl: I have a few that I generally use, sometimes she will let me sit there for minutes and talk before she even starts. Other time she tries to get me in and out be / see she has some other mong coming. (I use a girl that partners up w / another girl, and if the other girl has someone else coming, then I'm in and out no less then 15min)

2. How busy they are: goes back to 1.

3. Mood: sometimes it depends how their feeling.

4. Location: If I coming into a residential area its always IN and OUT, hotels I've been able to stay longer.

Cups of tea / coffee. Never asked to pop more than 1x. Think I will be using more of the incalls going forward VS street, so I will definitely be asking for tips and posting.

If anyone has any good ebony or latin w / a big bodonkadonk PM me.

[Deb4512]

To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have. Unfortunately the one's I've met off of BP and tried to help have a negative opinion of men, most of the older ladies I've met have been in the business starting in their late teens, early 20's, come from dysfunctional families, have drug issues, are not good with money. Live out of hotels. Unstable lives. I think they see the business as a way to earn quick cash and then spend every bit of it quickly. I doubt they think about retirement, savings, being responsible, I find many being self-centered. I haven't met many of the younger ladies, but I'm not too impressed with our educational system when reading the ads as they are not creative, can't spell, call themselves Italian Stallions. And what's up with the younger generation with all those tatoos? They will regret it later on, but I probably sound like an old fart,.which I am in comparison. BTW, I like to cuddle and talk. I think escorting and meeting the guys is fun, but then I only provide part-time, because I have a full-time career and have only been doing it on and off since 2008, so maybe I'm not burnt out yet. Actually as time goes on I like it more and more. Sex work isn't exactly new to me, because I used to be a stripper, so you think I'd be burnt out by now LOL.