Escort Reports

[Stressed Out]

To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have. BTW, I like to cuddle and talk. I think escorting and meeting the guys is fun, but then I only provide part-time, because I have a full-time career and have only been doing it on and off since 2008, so maybe I'm not burnt out yet. Actually as time goes on I like it more and more. Sex work isn't exactly new to me, because I used to be a stripper, so you think I'd be burnt out by now LOL.

And that attitude is exactly why I have been enjoying your company for the past few years. Most guys are into it for the sex act and not the companionship. Just look at the reviews a lot of guys post. I got covered instead of BB. She only liked one position. She didn't swallow. I couldn't touch this or that. She didn't do this or didn't like that. Yadiyadiya. And that isn't to say that there is anything wrong with that. Some girls just don't have the predisposition, skill or apptitude to be anything other than cockpits. As you posted they need to feed a habit or something else money driven. The issue with these ladies is when they promise something and they don't do it but accept the money. If your not going to do it then just don't promise it.

Maybe it is just age. Maybe it is being jaded as you said but as you very well know when we get together it is all about the conversation, pillow talk and cuddle time. As 'dumb and farfetched' as this will sound to many out there. We have spent many a time just talking and cuddling and when we kiss goodbye that is about as close as we get to the 'act'. But it is time well spent. SO

[Stressed Out]

You're right Deb, but unfortunately the business model has become get'them in, get'them off, get'them out NEXT as there will always be another to take the place of a client who leaves feeling they were short changed.

I'm not a fan of tats but a small butterfly or flower doesn't bother me too much. But when a beautiful breast has a former (?) boyfriends name,"sleeves" and legs, back and belly covered in them it's a turn off for me.

Wait until they get the tramp stamp they have in Chinese translated and find it's 'beef w / brocoli' or my favorite 'thank you, cum again' [grin]

Hey G. Congrats on hitting the 1000 mark. Glad to be a fiend of yours and thanks for all the tips, info and help all these years. SO

[Stressed Out]

I had an appointment set up with a gentleman I haven't met yet. He texted me that he insisted I send him a "kitty shot" so it would protect him from being stung by LE. He claimed this is a full proof method he uses to prevent himself from being arrested. Hmm, funny because he mentioned what he planned to do with my "kitty" which he claimes he doesn't remember doing. Now this guy claims he is a hobbiest and has seen two well reviewed providers who sent him kitty shots before their first meeting, among others. He said it's standard procedure LOL. WTF!

Oh my love. You really find the good ones don't you. A 'kitty' pic is not going to 'protect' him from anything and can only be bad news for you. It isn't the fact that you and / or he would be neeked in the room that is going to protect either of you as the last time I checked being naked wasn't against the law (yet). It is the paying of said sum of $$ for you to do the act. And if he is trying to protect himself from a sting. How would that do it? Le could send anything to him saying it was you. After all they ARE pretending to be an escort when they place the sting ad so what is an extra step of faking a pic. As far as the other providers sending him pics. Ask him who they were and contact the providers. Betcha he changes his mind quickly.

And as G suggested it could be just a collector of pics or someone with a grudge. I would assume that the pic would have to show more than the kitty for him to 'know' it was you. Then he could use that pic for whatever he wanted.

On the other hand. Having had the opportunity to be a friend of yours these past few years and having enjoyed your love and affection on more than a few occasions I certainly know why he would want the pics LOL. As I've said before to you. Be overly safe in where you go and who you see. It is a very scary place out there with everything going on. You don't need the aggravation or the hassle of getting yourself into a bad situation. Besides I thought the handcuffs were reserved for me! Lots of love. SO

[NY Monger]

Agree with Gansett. Sounds like an odd fellow, maybe a pic collector. Not worth pursuing. LE can engage in a wide variety of investigative techniques, so, not sure how photos, or other stuff guys think is a defense would work in court.

[Gansett]

I was thinking he was a pic collector when he gave the reason that a kitty pic would protect him from a sting. That's a pretty lame reason IMHO.

Have you connected with the two others that supposedly provided him with kitty pics?

Here we are living our lives, going out in public thinking all the whack jobs are locked up.

[Deb4512]

I had an appointment set up with a gentleman I haven't met yet. He texted me that he insisted I send him a "kitty shot" so it would protect him from being stung by LE. He claimed this is a full proof method he uses to prevent himself from being arrested. Hmm, funny because he mentioned what he planned to do with my "kitty" which he claimes he doesn't remember doing. Now this guy claims he is a hobbiest and has seen two well reviewed providers who sent him kitty shots before their first meeting, among others. He said it's standard procedure LOL. WTF!

[Gansett]

To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have.

You're right Deb, but unfortunately the business model has become get'them in, get'them off, get'them out NEXT as there will always be another to take the place of a client who leaves feeling they were short changed.

I'm not a fan of tats but a small butterfly or flower doesn't bother me too much. But when a beautiful breast has a former (?) boyfriends name,"sleeves" and legs, back and belly covered in them it's a turn off for me.

Wait until they get the tramp stamp they have in Chinese translated and find it's 'beef w / brocoli' or my favorite 'thank you, cum again' [grin]

[Skatar018]

I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. We spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider?

The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up.

While all the advise & opinions here are very good, it's really up to you to go out & apply the information to real life situations.

There is no teacher better than the school of hard knocks.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes, they can be a great learning tool, in time hopefully you will learn to minimize mistakes.
However it's one thing to be beat out of some money or sevice, it's quite another to have a run-in with LE so be ever vigilant.

IMO all you can do is learn from your experiences & make the best you can out of each encounter.
There are no standard hard fast rules, & the only ones that apply are the ones you make at that moment, & please NOTE they are suject to change without notice!
Communication about specific services, time, availability, etc. can be a challenge, this is also part of the learning curve & is best done between you & the provider, not always but mostly face to face.

You may find that this applies to most situations when you are wanting something specific:
Now some they do and some they don't.
And some you just can't tell.
And some they will and some they won't.
For some it's just as well.

Just asking the questions you did shows the ability & capacity to learn from opinions & advise.
Now all you need do is go & apply that to the real world.
Remember to trust your guts, instincts, & judgement, they should serve you well over time.

Have fun stay safe

[LoveLatin05]

I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?

The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.

This is actually a good topic. I have a few that I use as repeats. From my experience, the time thing will always vary. What does it vary on?

1. Girl: I have a few that I generally use, sometimes she will let me sit there for minutes and talk before she even starts. Other time she tries to get me in and out be / see she has some other mong coming. (I use a girl that partners up w / another girl, and if the other girl has someone else coming, then I'm in and out no less then 15min)

2. How busy they are: goes back to 1.

3. Mood: sometimes it depends how their feeling.

4. Location: If I coming into a residential area its always IN and OUT, hotels I've been able to stay longer.

Cups of tea / coffee. Never asked to pop more than 1x. Think I will be using more of the incalls going forward VS street, so I will definitely be asking for tips and posting.

If anyone has any good ebony or latin w / a big bodonkadonk PM me.

[Deb4512]

To me an hour is an hour. This is supposed to be a customer service based business and if providers looked at it that way, they would get lots of repeat clientele like I have. Unfortunately the one's I've met off of BP and tried to help have a negative opinion of men, most of the older ladies I've met have been in the business starting in their late teens, early 20's, come from dysfunctional families, have drug issues, are not good with money. Live out of hotels. Unstable lives. I think they see the business as a way to earn quick cash and then spend every bit of it quickly. I doubt they think about retirement, savings, being responsible, I find many being self-centered. I haven't met many of the younger ladies, but I'm not too impressed with our educational system when reading the ads as they are not creative, can't spell, call themselves Italian Stallions. And what's up with the younger generation with all those tatoos? They will regret it later on, but I probably sound like an old fart,.which I am in comparison. BTW, I like to cuddle and talk. I think escorting and meeting the guys is fun, but then I only provide part-time, because I have a full-time career and have only been doing it on and off since 2008, so maybe I'm not burnt out yet. Actually as time goes on I like it more and more. Sex work isn't exactly new to me, because I used to be a stripper, so you think I'd be burnt out by now LOL.

[Member #4247]

Hey M's,

When I was contemplating who to see on beerfest I thougt about seeing this lovely lady http://providence.backpage.com/Femal...x-y-23/3166489

I called and we talked and sent me a text on her general local, but I am not that familiar with providence and my GPS was running low. I didn't get a chance to visit because the GPs had died on me, so I am asking if anyone has seen her and what are their thoughts. No explicet details, only if she's worth the 140 hh and 200 hr. I will not give out her general area so no pm asking for it.

Tap

[Tp1701]

NO EXPLICIT QUESTIONS. I see that quite a bit lately. So if I don't ask how do I know what worthy cause I'm donating too? 200 bucks to watch her dance in bra and panties while I rub one out isn't a deal in my book. It is a valid question.

If you get to know a provider well most will say guys are in and out, no pun intended, in under a half. As for 'cups' or 'shots on goal' that is something best negociated face to face. Be warned, your excellant negociation skills may result in a sub standard experience.

I think the reason for no explicit questions is to avoid LE. If they don't say anything over the phone, they're safe. Just like the women who ask "Are you LE?" I keep wanting to tell them that question won't save them.

[Benzz101]

I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?

The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.

I am with you on this because of this I never do hour sessions anymore I did one and timed my self and I was in and out in 20 mins felt really pissed off. I now usually do 15 mins sessions then talk my way into getting the provider to extend the session for 10 more minutes so now I kind of get half hour session at the 15 min rate. I am a nice guy but unlike others here I don't take getting ripped off lightly. If your like me and don't take getting ripped off lightly then you got to do a lot of research always start off with the 15 min session if the girl is good at what she does then you can pay to extend the time or come back for a longer period. Since I like to do 15 sessions I always have to make sure what is offered and whats not because some girls only do BJ on 15 min sessions, so I get hanged up on sometimes but you have to be as respectful as you can. I am one of the type that feels we are the ones in control since we are the ones paying so if your charging 200 a hour I should be able to ask whats included and she needs to make me feel like she is worth 200 a hour. I normally have a back up provider and a exit strategy incase I get to the door and the person does not look anything like their picture or the place don't seem safe or right. I always walk away please do the same it encourages these girls to stop using fake pics and most the time the service might not be good if she has to use fake pictures and it stops girls who live in the slums and provide below average service to be charging high end prices. I see some of these girls and they not living that much better then the SW but want to be charging 150 for a half hour. We need some low end providers who can get you off quickly and cheaply I am still looking for a provider that will take like 30 for quick BJ when I don't feel like or can't afford to drop a 100 for half. I at the end of the day feel what your saying and if more guys took a stand it would force these girls to change, mostly talking about the low end providers trying to come off as high end providers. Higher end providers like joi love can ask what she wants because she put in the extra work taking care of her body, putting out videos, having photoshoots and dressing up her incall location etc

[MuffyTheDiver]

I am probably going to open up a can of worms with this post, and I really want the opinion of the more experienced guys in this room to respond to it, good or bad. I was going to toftt and meet destiny the last for digits are 5576 from BP. She asked for 200 for the hour and 150 for the half. In my mind I was cool with that, but for some reason I had mentioned is it unlimited cups of coffee, or is it the one cup rule. She told me I can have two cups for the hour, and one cup for the half. But if you drink the coffee before the time is up the meeting is over. I told her I will get back to you, and never called back. What brought all this on was, after giving this thought, we spend 200 an hour, why can't we we enjoy the company for the whole hour? Yes ok some providers have unlimited coffee in the hour, but shouldn't that be the standard rule? If I we book an hour, should we get the whole hour with the provider? What happens of I guy is thirsty and finishes in 10 minutes, when he booked an hour?

The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.

If your going to be an "experienced guy" then you also need to set some rules and guidelines that you follow, just like these girls do! If your going to decide to TOFTT then also be prepared to have a bad time, possibly not get what you came for or get booted earlier then you had planned. That just comes with the territory when your seeing a girl who is not well reviewed. Some of the excitement of seeing a girl like this is the chance you strike gold and have a great time and didn't expect it.

Now on the other hand, if you the type who wants to insure he has a great time and gets his full allotted time and cups then you need to do your research, read all the reviews on the girl, google the girl, look for info on her here and only choose girls who meet your requirements per there reviews and what you find online. I rarely ever see a girl that I can't verify she is my type. I do tons of research sometimes over the course of weeks to months to insure that what I want is what I get. By doing this I rarely ever get disappointed, shorted on time of not getting what you paid for. After the research I do on a girl I don't need to verify anything with her because I already know what I'm getting. I'm the type who will find a great girl and see her often once we hit it off.

Bottom line is if your the type who is a spur of the moment type always need to see a different girl each time then be prepared to TOFTT

Muffy

[Gansett]

The other thing that I can't figure out is if you cannot asked any question when calling the provider then how do you know this? You mention the code words, and they don't know what they mean, you ask them if they provide a service they hang up. Just my two cents guys, please respond, I can take criticism, so let it on me.

NO EXPLICIT QUESTIONS. I see that quite a bit lately. So if I don't ask how do I know what worthy cause I'm donating too? 200 bucks to watch her dance in bra and panties while I rub one out isn't a deal in my book. It is a valid question.

If you get to know a provider well most will say guys are in and out, no pun intended, in under a half. As for 'cups' or 'shots on goal' that is something best negociated face to face. Be warned, your excellant negociation skills may result in a sub standard experience.