"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Coolhand2]

I went back through your posts to see if you wrote this one up, but I didn't find it. Did I miss it? It sounds like a good story.

No Lit you didn't miss it. I'm going to try andget it out today. I have four I need to report on. Life is good.

[F Scott]

So 95% of the profiles on SA write about travel and fun and on and on. But looks like the experience here is the travelis to the FC to pound their brains out. So do you avoid all the syrup and go for the NSA ones (not many) or is it all just a "front"?

Bondo,

My experience with what a baby writes on her profile page is that this is her "ideal" situation, the "Prince Charming" scenario, and while you can't just ignore it, I have always proceeded with the assumption that the most important first goal is to get a reply, and not to make sure that their description matches me to a tee. Once you engage in dialogue, you have a chance to plead your case, so to speak, and the seduction begins.

A very hot baby that I successfully bedded told me something that I always think of when communicating with these little fish: "A man falls in love with through his eyes, a woman falls in love through her ears." Something like that; it sounded much better the way she said it, actually, but the point I think she was trying to make is that we men can never forget that the primary channel of communication preferred by these babies is vocal.

Just hitting the NSA ones is tempting, but I have not found them any easier to bed than the "Prince Charming" ones; you still got to talk to them and work your game that way.

Good luck, and don't forget to write,

Scott

[Literal2]

When you're my age and you've had the cum of a 18 year old run down your thighs, the universe is a wonderful place.

I went back through your posts to see if you wrote this one up, but I didn't find it. Did I miss it? It sounds like a good story.

[Graham111]

So 95% of the profiles on SA write about travel and fun and on and on. But looks like the experience here is the travelis to the FC to pound their brains out. So do you avoid all the syrup and go for the NSA ones (not many) or is it all just a "front"?

[Spitfire]

I like to take beautiful women to dinner and I would have taken her to dinner. That is what she said she needed to be comfortable. I would have let her pick out the restaurants.

P. S. She would have paid very close attention to how I treated the wait staff.

Golf, I'm glad you mentioned treatment of the wait staff. That's a good explanation for me as to why I like to take potential SBs to lunch / dinner to determine chemistry. I completely walked away from a potential SB once when she was abusive to our waiter for no reason when we first met. It was insane how she acted. I was convinced the waiter went back to the kitchen and told the chef to spit in our food. It was that bad and very embarrassing.

As I've posted before, what I'm looking for is a bit different than most - I think. I'm looking for a long-term SB for more than just the bedroom activities, so chemistry and the ability to adapt to varied settings is important for me. I like to know that when we go out, her behavior is appropriate for whatever situation we're in.

[Golfcart]

(Edit Delete) I had been communicating with a drop dead gorgeous Indian woman. (Edit Delete) (A)nyway after several back and forth I was clear that she required a couple of dinners before the thighs would open. As gorgeous as she was (and I have not fucked a woman of Indian descent) I had to let it go. For me two dinner dates would mean at least 3 weeks without SB pussy. To high a price to pay

I like to take beautiful women to dinner and I would have taken her to dinner. That is what she said she needed to be comfortable. I would have let her pick out the restaurants.

P. S. She would have paid very close attention to how I treated the wait staff.

[Literal2]

This made me think of a situation I had over the holidays. I went to the wardens work Christmas party at which were numerous researchers, residents, young Drs and clerical staff. Having attended previous years, I knew there would be numerous HYB's in attendance. In the past I skulked around secretly drooling and depressed over what I could not have. This year was totally different. When the sweet blonde reached for a drink and her dressed hugged that body I smiled and thought "I just had one like that last month." When the hot Hispanic intern with the wonderful ass bent over to pick fom the sandwich table I smiled and thought "My hispanic SB was built just like you. Crazy as hell but boy could she fuck." When the tall, with legs-to-die-for, African American Dr crossed her legs as she sat down at the bar and I glimsped those wonderful thighs I smiled and thought "I have a AA SB whose taller then you whose thighs were wrapped around my ears last week." No depression; no drooling; no skulking. Just the sweet inner satisfaction that can only come from banging SB's. When you're my age and you've had the cum of a 18 year old run down your thighs, the universe is a wonderful place.

It's a wonderful place because females are in it. When I meet an attractive, nicely dressed woman, I look in her eyes while she's talking and think about what's between her legs.

[Literal2]

With my new SB their were other signs."I am a waitress and part time dancer". So now Big head says where is the upsale. After 30 minutes small talk she says what are you doing later and I should have pounced. Oh well. Live and learn.

Bondo, I think if you read through the posts on this thread you will find some good ideas for handling different situations with sbs as well as the answer to your question why we like them better than escorts.

[Literal2]

My position on pre discussions of sugar has evolved over time. In the beginning I wouldn't discuss it. If they insisted I was out of there. Now I try not to but I will if pushed. Since going to SA I find the pickings are better but they all seem to insist on it. ***Where I'm at now is if it helps them to open their thighs, why not.

This sounds sensible. My point was you often don't have to talk about the sugar. As for SA, my recollection is that you are supposed to put how much you can pay every month in your profile, so that encourages sugar talk. I'm not a purist. My atf sb4 talks about it all the time, my other atf sb18 never mentioned it.

[Literal2]

Lit,

If it were me, I would let her know you're still interested, but that you have considerably more experience than when she left in March, and while you may have agreed to 1K then,"x" is the going sugar amount, and is what you are comfortable with now. My guess is that she will acquiesce if you are firm (no pun intended) with her, but as has been stated earlier, you must be prepared to walk away, no matter how loudly Mr J protests. Remind him there's always another baby just around the corner who can be had within your target zone.

Let us know as things develop.

Scott

Yeah I like this approach. Thanks.

[Coolhand2]

This whole SB thing has caused me to look at HYBs in a different manner. Before I would ogle them discretely and think for a second or two how fun it would be to bang them. Now, as I have come to understand how broad the SB world is, I wonder to myself when I see an HYB if she might be on SA, and I could find her profile. It lends a greater sense of concreteness to my musings, making them a lot more fun. Not an earth-shattering observation, but more of an added perk kind of thing.

Scott

This made me think of a situation I had over the holidays. I went to the wardens work Christmas party at which were numerous researchers, residents, young Drs and clerical staff. Having attended previous years, I knew there would be numerous HYB's in attendance. In the past I skulked around secretly drooling and depressed over what I could not have. This year was totally different. When the sweet blonde reached for a drink and her dressed hugged that body I smiled and thought "I just had one like that last month." When the hot Hispanic intern with the wonderful ass bent over to pick fom the sandwich table I smiled and thought "My hispanic SB was built just like you. Crazy as hell but boy could she fuck." When the tall, with legs-to-die-for, African American Dr crossed her legs as she sat down at the bar and I glimsped those wonderful thighs I smiled and thought "I have a AA SB whose taller then you whose thighs were wrapped around my ears last week." No depression; no drooling; no skulking. Just the sweet inner satisfaction that can only come from banging SB's. When you're my age and you've had the cum of a 18 year old run down your thighs, the universe is a wonderful place.

[Graham111]

With my new SB their were other signs."I am a waitress and part time dancer". So now Big head says where is the upsale. After 30 minutes small talk she says what are you doing later and I should have pounced. Oh well. Live and learn.

[SubCmdr]

As gorgeous as she was (and I have not fucked a woman of Indian descent) I had to let it go. For me two dinner dates would mean at least 3 weeks without SB pussy. To high a price to pay

And there ends the lesson. You the man!

Cmdr out

[Coolhand2]

Gentlemen,

Perhaps I was being too literal in my description of "meet and greet." I have met several babies for ten minutes or so, mostly when I'm on the road, either at a bar in the hotel or nearby, and then gone straight to the room. Cool, apparently you would not characterize this as an m&g, but I guess I had been.

Scott

I think you have been to literal. The definition of a meet and greet is a meeting with no expectation of pussy to immediately follow. Key word there is "No Pussy." Meeting in FC bar; coffee followed by trip to FC; meeting in parking lot of FC, are not M&G's to me. I had been communicating with a drop dead gorgeous Indian woman. Get this; she tells me that her pics on SA are not her and gives me a link to her pics. The pics on SA were a solid 8; her real pics were 10+. Go figure. Anyway after several back and forth I was clear that she required a couple of dinners before the thighs would open. As gorgeous as she was (and I have not fucked a woman of Indian descent) I had to let it go. For me two dinner dates would mean at least 3 weeks without SB pussy. To high a price to pay

[F Scott]

Where I'm at now is if it helps them to open their thighs, why not.

Right on, my brother!