"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Hernando]

All good advice Varoom, but the little head speaks with great authority. I envy you Mongers who have the emotional fortitude to keep your eye on the prize instead of getting sloppy about emotion. It must be the Latino in me. I am a very emotional guy.

I am only 40 years older than my SB. I don't see any reason why she wouldn't be passionately in love with me. LOL How many 60 yr olds get to bang 20 somethings? I'm glad I can still get it up, much less have a HYB ride it and seem to enjoy it. It is a pretty heady thing my friends, isn't it? I know most of us here are doing the same thing.

If my SB stops respecting me then I will move on. After all, her shamelessly kissing my ass and acting like she adores me is why I have stuck with only her for so long. For her part she has earned a years tuition in grad school already. It's like any business. Good customer service keeps the customer happy and returning for more. She is behaving exactly as a SB should if she wants to acquire and keep a Daddy. I see from the SD Site that there are a lot of fresh candidates just waiting to open their pussies for a new Daddy. Sadly, most of those I have met and that many of you have reported on are only good for a few fucks before they get greedy, start acting stupid, or are just incapable of any long term relationship.

I will keep riding down this slippery slop until it bottoms out. I would rather have loved and lost than never loved at all.

[Varoom]

Jeez Nando, you mean you are actually having strong emotions for a lovely young woman you are having fabulous sex with all night long, multiple nights a week when you can, and spending all your extra cash on, because she makes you feel wonderful? I AM SHOCKED!

Sounds like a slippery slope to me, getting emotionally involved with a sb. I don't care how good looking she is or how great the snatch is, it is merely setting up the ole SD. No way the HYB is going to have the same feelings for the old geezer that you might garner for her. She has feelings for 1) your wallet and 2) the results that the wallet can bring her way. Any other illusion on the part of a SD is just that, an illusion and a bad one at that. Keeping this in perspective will keep ole Dad from taking a BIG fall some day; (emotionally).

Plus, once a SB realizes that she has you right where she wants you, you then you become prey for her to manipulate you in ways that a clear thinking head would not permit. Not all SB's would do this, just most of them. So beware, this is a Slippery Slope and it only goes one way D-O-W-N.

[Literal2]

The potential SB that stood me up Sunday texted me last evening. Apparently she had gotten canned at her job and kicked out / bailed out of the place she was living with an abusive boyfriend, was broke and needed help. (I was right, by the way. She's a stripper who's been waitressing lately.) I decided to see just how bad off this girl was, so I met her and her female friend at a cheap eatery on Broad to discuss options. We eventually ended up in a cheap motel nearby (I covered the room for them) where the friend left for a while and she attempted to express her gratitude. Apparently, her gratitude wasn't that great. It was as dead a fuck as I've experienced in years.

I probably should have gone for the friend instead. But she too was a stripper.

I'm too damn nice a guy. She had her first impression, but I gave her a second. And she failed that one too.

You've got a bad run of luck going, CWL. Doesn't sound like you're having fun. I hope things turn around for you. Maybe this is just the law of averages catching up with you after all those babes you had when you were a kid.

[CantWinLosin]

The potential SB that stood me up Sunday texted me last evening. Apparently she had gotten canned at her job and kicked out / bailed out of the place she was living with an abusive boyfriend, was broke and needed help. (I was right, by the way. She's a stripper who's been waitressing lately.) I decided to see just how bad off this girl was, so I met her and her female friend at a cheap eatery on Broad to discuss options. We eventually ended up in a cheap motel nearby (I covered the room for them) where the friend left for a while and she attempted to express her gratitude. Apparently, her gratitude wasn't that great - it was as dead a fuck as I've experienced in years.

I probably should have gone for the friend instead. But she too was a stripper.

I'm too damn nice a guy. She had her first impression, but I gave her a second. And she failed that one too.

[Literal2]

We all know that a pro is a pro is a pro. Whether she is an active, full time practitioner of the sexly arts or a dabbler.

However, I agree with your feelings Cool. I have become enamoured with the lover on the side aspect that I am happily enjoying at present. I like the exclusiveness that comes with a true SB, and one gets to know the ebb and flow of her sexual needs.

The down side is caring too much about how the SB feels about you.

I am feeling a little waning of excitement on her part of late. Not very much. But knowing her pretty well I am worried that the bloom is off the rose. Normally I wouldn't care as a multifucker but now I do regarding her since I have become a monofucker. Mind you, her attitude is still over the top and if I can get by the need for her to "love me back " I am still getting 110% performance.

I have a list of my ATF escorts who I enjoy being with when the action ebbs with my SB. I have just been so busy with SB I have no funds left over for strange.

Jeez Nando, you mean you are actually having strong emotions for a lovely young woman you are having fabulous sex with all night long, multiple nights a week when you can, and spending all your extra cash on, because she makes you feel wonderful? I AM SHOCKED!

[Hernando]

We all know that a pro is a pro is a pro.whether she is an active, full time practitioner of the sexly arts or a dabbler.

However, I agree with your feelings Cool. I have become enamoured with the lover on the side aspect that I am happily enjoying at present. I like the exclusiveness that comes with a true SB, and one gets to know the ebb and flow of her sexual needs.

The down side is caring too much about how the SB feels about you.

I am feeling a little waning of excitement on her part of late.not very much. But knowing her pretty well I am worried that the bloom is off the rose. Normally I wouldn't care as a multifucker but now I do regarding her since I have become a monofucker. Mind you, her attitude is still over the top and if I can get by the need for her to "love me back " I am still getting 110% performance.

I have a list of my ATF escorts who I enjoy being with when the action ebbs with my SB. I have just been so busy with SB I have no funds left over for strange.

[Varoom]

MILF or HYB, I don't much care, as long as GPS is not the problem. I see all of you referring to sb numbers. May I ask where the numbers come from? How can I see there info or profiles. Sb is PROBABLY the safest way for me to go at this point.

NiceGuy:

If you really want to get the flavor of what has and does transpire on this topic my suggestion is to spend some time going back to, or near, the beginning of this enitre thread.

You will be amused and educated by what is discussed and in turn grasp the sb numbers and much, much more.

This is truly once of the best reads on all of the usasg site. And that is saying something.

Absolutely a great group of contributors here who are no doubt having the whopping times of their quite expansives lives. (Most / all in their 50's and 60's and been around the block a few times; moi included, and getting some very young pu$$why on a regular basis).

Varoom

[Literal2]

Golf let me tell you where I'm coming from. If she is a pro or semi-pro I can not count her as a SB. That means she does not qualify for one of my SB sYour lots. It does not mean she can't be on my provider list (who I still see on occasion) , she just can't be counted as a SB. I have encountered two other semi-pro / pro via the SD site. It happens in spite of my best efforts. After I was converted to the pursuit of SB's by Lit, I became a purist. Like all converts I may be over zealous in my interpretation of the dogma, but I try to follow the true path to the Holy Grail of UTR pussy.

Cool you are a true believer. Your reward will be the juiciest pussies, the squirmiest babes, the girls with the most violent orgasms. Perhaps you will have obstacles to achieving your goals. Perseverance and a cool head will see you through.

Bless you, my son. Your reward is not in heaven, it is on Earth, inside the vaginas of sexy women.

[Coolhand2]

One of the top 5 BJ's ever and sliding into home plate with a hot woman is not exactly a kick in the nuts. CSB11 was only playing the cards God gave her. I would hang onto this one. I like strong women if they are holding real cards. All relationships involve sharing power.

Golf let me tell you where I'm coming from. If she is a pro or semi-pro I can not count her as a SB. That means she does not qualify for one of my SB slots. It does not mean she can't be on my provider list (who I still see on occasion) , she just can't be counted as a SB. I have encountered two other semi-pro / pro via the SD site. It happens in spite of my best efforts. After I was converted to the pursuit of SB's by Lit, I became a purist. Like all converts I may be over zealous in my interpretation of the dogma, but I try to follow the true path to the Holy Grail of UTR pussy.

[Literal2]

Rock on, brother. Great reports.

[Literal2]

One of the top 5 BJ's ever and sliding into home plate with a hot woman is not exactly a kick in the nuts. CSB11 was only playing the cards God gave her. I would hang onto this one. I like strong women if they are holding real cards.

Amen, Golf.

All relationships involve sharing power.

Not sure what this means in Cool's context.

[Literal2]

As suspected, the meeting yesterday was a bust. We were to meet at 2pm at a public venue; I arrived at the meeting place about 5 minutes early and texted her that I was there and what I was wearing, and got no response. About 2:15 I texted again asking if I had missed her or was she running late, again with no response. At 2:40 I left. She called a little before 3, mumbling an apology about tied up with personal stuff. I told her to forget it.

You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.

A bummer. This has happened to me too, though mainly with escorts, and not many sbs so far. One sb stood me up after I paid for a hotel room in Short Pump. I posted about this a while ago.

CWL, you've been with many more girls than I have but the least reliable, most unpunctual girl I ever knew was a sometime stripper sometime escort in LA. She drove me nuts with never showing up on time. But she was way up on my atf list because she was so beautiful, voluptuous and passionate. She's the last girl I ever fell for actually. Eventually she was too wacky, expensive and hysterical for me and I finally dropped her after four mind bending fucks over three months.

[Literal2]

MILF or HYB, I don't much care, as long as GPS is not the problem. I see all of you referring to sb numbers. May I ask where the numbers come from? How can I see there info or profiles. Sb is PROBABLY the safest way for me to go at this point.

The numbers are just the sb mongers way of referring to their sbs. Mongers make up their own numbers. You can't find them by the sb numbers except in each mongers posts, they're utrs.

[NiceGuy804]

MILF or HYB, I don't much care, as long as GPS is not the problem. I see all of you referring to sb numbers. May I ask where the numbers come from? How can I see there info or profiles. Sb is PROBABLY the safest way for me to go at this point.

[CantWinLosin]

As suspected, the meeting yesterday was a bust. We were to meet at 2pm at a public venue; I arrived at the meeting place about 5 minutes early and texted her that I was there and what I was wearing, and got no response. About 2:15 I texted again asking if I had missed her or was she running late, again with no response. At 2:40 I left. She called a little before 3, mumbling an apology about tied up with personal stuff. I told her to forget it.

You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.