"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**CantWinLosin** · 07-27-11 13:37

The potential SB that stood me up Sunday texted me last evening. Apparently she had gotten canned at her job and kicked out / bailed out of the place she was living with an abusive boyfriend, was broke and needed help. (I was right, by the way. She's a stripper who's been waitressing lately.) I decided to see just how bad off this girl was, so I met her and her female friend at a cheap eatery on Broad to discuss options. We eventually ended up in a cheap motel nearby (I covered the room for them) where the friend left for a while and she attempted to express her gratitude. Apparently, her gratitude wasn't that great - it was as dead a fuck as I've experienced in years.

I probably should have gone for the friend instead. But she too was a stripper.

I'm too damn nice a guy. She had her first impression, but I gave her a second. And she failed that one too.

**Literal2** · 07-27-11 12:59

Originally Posted by Hernando [View Original Post]

We all know that a pro is a pro is a pro. Whether she is an active, full time practitioner of the sexly arts or a dabbler.

However, I agree with your feelings Cool. I have become enamoured with the lover on the side aspect that I am happily enjoying at present. I like the exclusiveness that comes with a true SB, and one gets to know the ebb and flow of her sexual needs.

The down side is caring too much about how the SB feels about you.

I am feeling a little waning of excitement on her part of late. Not very much. But knowing her pretty well I am worried that the bloom is off the rose. Normally I wouldn't care as a multifucker but now I do regarding her since I have become a monofucker. Mind you, her attitude is still over the top and if I can get by the need for her to "love me back " I am still getting 110% performance.

I have a list of my ATF escorts who I enjoy being with when the action ebbs with my SB. I have just been so busy with SB I have no funds left over for strange.

Jeez Nando, you mean you are actually having strong emotions for a lovely young woman you are having fabulous sex with all night long, multiple nights a week when you can, and spending all your extra cash on, because she makes you feel wonderful? I AM SHOCKED!

**Hernando** · 07-27-11 10:27

We all know that a pro is a pro is a pro.whether she is an active, full time practitioner of the sexly arts or a dabbler.

However, I agree with your feelings Cool. I have become enamoured with the lover on the side aspect that I am happily enjoying at present. I like the exclusiveness that comes with a true SB, and one gets to know the ebb and flow of her sexual needs.

The down side is caring too much about how the SB feels about you.

I am feeling a little waning of excitement on her part of late.not very much. But knowing her pretty well I am worried that the bloom is off the rose. Normally I wouldn't care as a multifucker but now I do regarding her since I have become a monofucker. Mind you, her attitude is still over the top and if I can get by the need for her to "love me back " I am still getting 110% performance.

I have a list of my ATF escorts who I enjoy being with when the action ebbs with my SB. I have just been so busy with SB I have no funds left over for strange.

**Varoom** · 07-27-11 08:12

Originally Posted by NiceGuy804 [View Original Post]

MILF or HYB, I don't much care, as long as GPS is not the problem. I see all of you referring to sb numbers. May I ask where the numbers come from? How can I see there info or profiles. Sb is PROBABLY the safest way for me to go at this point.

NiceGuy:

If you really want to get the flavor of what has and does transpire on this topic my suggestion is to spend some time going back to, or near, the beginning of this enitre thread.

You will be amused and educated by what is discussed and in turn grasp the sb numbers and much, much more.

This is truly once of the best reads on all of the usasg site. And that is saying something.

Absolutely a great group of contributors here who are no doubt having the whopping times of their quite expansives lives. (Most / all in their 50's and 60's and been around the block a few times; moi included, and getting some very young pu$$why on a regular basis).

Varoom

**Literal2** · 07-26-11 20:22

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

Golf let me tell you where I'm coming from. If she is a pro or semi-pro I can not count her as a SB. That means she does not qualify for one of my SB sYour lots. It does not mean she can't be on my provider list (who I still see on occasion) , she just can't be counted as a SB. I have encountered two other semi-pro / pro via the SD site. It happens in spite of my best efforts. After I was converted to the pursuit of SB's by Lit, I became a purist. Like all converts I may be over zealous in my interpretation of the dogma, but I try to follow the true path to the Holy Grail of UTR pussy.

Cool you are a true believer. Your reward will be the juiciest pussies, the squirmiest babes, the girls with the most violent orgasms. Perhaps you will have obstacles to achieving your goals. Perseverance and a cool head will see you through.

Bless you, my son. Your reward is not in heaven, it is on Earth, inside the vaginas of sexy women.

**Coolhand2** · 07-26-11 17:56

Originally Posted by Golfcart [View Original Post]

One of the top 5 BJ's ever and sliding into home plate with a hot woman is not exactly a kick in the nuts. CSB11 was only playing the cards God gave her. I would hang onto this one. I like strong women if they are holding real cards. All relationships involve sharing power.

Golf let me tell you where I'm coming from. If she is a pro or semi-pro I can not count her as a SB. That means she does not qualify for one of my SB slots. It does not mean she can't be on my provider list (who I still see on occasion) , she just can't be counted as a SB. I have encountered two other semi-pro / pro via the SD site. It happens in spite of my best efforts. After I was converted to the pursuit of SB's by Lit, I became a purist. Like all converts I may be over zealous in my interpretation of the dogma, but I try to follow the true path to the Holy Grail of UTR pussy.

**Literal2** · 07-26-11 15:35

Rock on, brother. Great reports.

**Literal2** · 07-26-11 15:33

Originally Posted by Golfcart [View Original Post]

One of the top 5 BJ's ever and sliding into home plate with a hot woman is not exactly a kick in the nuts. CSB11 was only playing the cards God gave her. I would hang onto this one. I like strong women if they are holding real cards.

Amen, Golf.

All relationships involve sharing power.

Not sure what this means in Cool's context.

**Literal2** · 07-26-11 15:31

Originally Posted by Cantwinlosin [View Original Post]

As suspected, the meeting yesterday was a bust. We were to meet at 2pm at a public venue; I arrived at the meeting place about 5 minutes early and texted her that I was there and what I was wearing, and got no response. About 2:15 I texted again asking if I had missed her or was she running late, again with no response. At 2:40 I left. She called a little before 3, mumbling an apology about tied up with personal stuff. I told her to forget it.

You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.

A bummer. This has happened to me too, though mainly with escorts, and not many sbs so far. One sb stood me up after I paid for a hotel room in Short Pump. I posted about this a while ago.

CWL, you've been with many more girls than I have but the least reliable, most unpunctual girl I ever knew was a sometime stripper sometime escort in LA. She drove me nuts with never showing up on time. But she was way up on my atf list because she was so beautiful, voluptuous and passionate. She's the last girl I ever fell for actually. Eventually she was too wacky, expensive and hysterical for me and I finally dropped her after four mind bending fucks over three months.

**Literal2** · 07-26-11 15:21

Originally Posted by NiceGuy804 [View Original Post]

MILF or HYB, I don't much care, as long as GPS is not the problem. I see all of you referring to sb numbers. May I ask where the numbers come from? How can I see there info or profiles. Sb is PROBABLY the safest way for me to go at this point.

The numbers are just the sb mongers way of referring to their sbs. Mongers make up their own numbers. You can't find them by the sb numbers except in each mongers posts, they're utrs.

**NiceGuy804** · 07-26-11 13:25

MILF or HYB, I don't much care, as long as GPS is not the problem. I see all of you referring to sb numbers. May I ask where the numbers come from? How can I see there info or profiles. Sb is PROBABLY the safest way for me to go at this point.

**CantWinLosin** · 07-25-11 21:03

As suspected, the meeting yesterday was a bust. We were to meet at 2pm at a public venue; I arrived at the meeting place about 5 minutes early and texted her that I was there and what I was wearing, and got no response. About 2:15 I texted again asking if I had missed her or was she running late, again with no response. At 2:40 I left. She called a little before 3, mumbling an apology about tied up with personal stuff. I told her to forget it.

You never get a second chance to make a good first impression.

**Golfcart** · 07-25-11 19:34

One of the top 5 BJ's ever and sliding into home plate with a hot woman is not exactly a kick in the nuts. CSB11 was only playing the cards God gave her. I would hang onto this one. I like strong women if they are holding real cards. All relationships involve sharing power.

**Coolhand2** · 07-25-11 16:51

Time for an update. Still seeing my MILF (CSB8). Sex is still great, but she did make one request for extra sugar between visits. It was not excessive but still substantial. I complied and there have not been any subsequent requests. CSB10 (25 yr old HYB) had to go to NY for a couple of months so I had a opening in my 2 person (HYB slot) rotation which brings me to CSB11,

CSB11, (22 yr old' 5'4, HYB) and I exchanged email for a couple of months. Some on the SD site but most private. Her pictures on the site were gorgeous, definetly model quality, professionally done. She sent me other pics through email, more of the pro pics but most were private, family style pictures. I could see what she really looked like. The body was real, and even without makeup she looked great. No discussion of sugar ever took place. We met in the fucking chamber and almost immediately the discussion turned to sugar. We negotiated a amount but I was starting to feel uneasy. Proceeded to get to the task at hand where she informed me that all activities would be covered. I've never had a SB insist on a covered BJ before so I was a little taken a back (unease #2). I don't like CBJ's and have not seen providers who insisted on it. Now in her defense she proceeded to give me one of the top 5 BJ's I have ever had. Not top 5 CBJ, but top 5 ever. I have to add that she knew what to do with that pussy. All positions, very accommodating, and great skills. All in all a good experience but I could not shake the feeling that I was dealing with a pro, or semi-pro at best. Based on that I decided to keep the spot open in the rotation. Which brings me to CSB12. I'll make that a separate post.

**BigTigger** · 07-25-11 01:29

TB2 has been flaky and cannot seem to make the times work. Had a date setup for Saturday, first hotel date. She cancelled the day of. Just think, I had just moved her to the #1 position. I never got to taste the goodies. Bummer!

TB3 had another meet and greet with her. We are on to have a ride on the wild side this weekend. She seems to be the most dependable.

TB4, she was backup to TB2, she also fizzed out. This was a typical low-rent move on her part. Sent 1/2 of sugar for gas and sitter. She never showed. Offered some lame excuses via email. (car. Accident. Cell phone. Yada yada). When will they learn, you can get away with the little, but you lose out on the bigger paydays. This is twice now I've paid some upfront, both times were a waste. That practice is over.

TB5 has purchased her roundtrip ticket for August. So that weekend seems to be ready to roll.

TB6 (I listed wrong as TB7) had some drama in her life, still wants to cum, but cannot seem to get her act together to coordinate getting the plane ticket. So I'm moving on from her. Very disappointed in this one. She was a nice HYB.

TB7 Young 25 year old African American. Great thick body, shorty, with nice assets all around. She's scheduled to get the Tigger Bounce in the TiggerChamber in a couple of weeks. We have the date time and location picked out. She's not specific with the sugar she wants, so I'll be able to provide assistance accordingly.

TB8 Smoking hot HYB. 25 year old African American. Will have first meet-and-greet this week. Sugar has only been discussed vaguely, will update you after the meet-and-greet.

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So lost 3, but gained 2 more. Lost some upfront money and wasted a hotel night. Best TiggerBounce opportunity should cum this weekend with TB3. I don't think I confirmed, so will need to work on that.

BigTigg