"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Varoom]

The old Coolhand would not have considered such a thing. (No pussy, no sugar) The new kindlier gentler Coolhand figured that a small amount of sugar might reap future benefits. But remember I had never actually seen her. I told her I would give her what she needed and we agreed to meet this afternoon.

When I got home there was a message that said that she now knew she could trust me and she wanted to make me happy. She said that if I come Thursday to just get a room because she was going to make sure that I would "fall head over heels.

The moral of this story is that there maybe something to this kindlier, gentler shit.

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Wow CH2, you must have mellowed in your SD old age; fronting gals sugar with no guarantee of penetration. This doesn't usually work but maybe you have found the one in 10, 000 that will actually deliver. I for one have had NO luck with advancing sugar even with gals that there has been a long standing track record of seeing them. Once they seem to be ahead of the game on you there is rarely ever a catch up provision issued. Hoping your situation with this SB is different. I guess a little bit of sugar isn't going to break you if it doesn't pan out. Good luck on it.

[Literal2]

CSB6, is a 5'7, 23 year old Hispanic SB that I had been communicating with a few months back. She had emailed me some pics and was very nice to look at. We were on the verge of meeting and sealing the deal when she got a job and kicked me to the curb. I noticed last week she was back on the site so I messaged her. She responded how glad she was to hear from me. To make a long story short she had lost her job and was on the verge of losing her car and would do anything I wanted if I would help her out. The amount she needed was less than a $ and after more back and forth I felt she was sincere. It so happened that I was going to be in her area today but no time for an extended visit. The old Coolhand would not have considered such a thing. (No pussy, no sugar) The new kindlier gentler Coolhand figured that a small amount of sugar might reap future benefits. But remember I had never actually seen her. I told her I would give her what she needed and we agreed to meet this afternoon.

She should destroy what ever camera took the pictures she sent because to say she looked better than the pictures is the understatement of the year. She was stunning. Tall, built like the proverbial brick house, with long black curly hair that went down her back. I gave her the sugar and said I might be able to get back for a few hours on Thursday. She told me that she would like that very much and no additional sugar would be necessary. When I got home there was a message that said that she now knew she could trust me and she wanted to make me happy. She said that if I come Thursday to just get a room because she was going to make sure that I would "fall head over heels." The thing is I had already lined up two SBs for Thursday that I was going to have to decide between. A 22 and a 34 year old who are basically 5'3/5'4 carbon copies of each other. The 22 year old just sent me a message about how much fun we're going to have. To top that off, I got a message yesterday from a 28 year old that now wants to meet.

The moral of this story is that there maybe something to this kindlier, gentler shit.

Ha ha.

Let us know how you sort this out. It's a nice problem to have if you like pussy.

[Coolhand2]

CSB6, is a 5'7, 23 year old Hispanic SB that I had been communicating with a few months back. She had emailed me some pics and was very nice to look at. We were on the verge of meeting and sealing the deal when she got a job and kicked me to the curb. I noticed last week she was back on the site so I messaged her. She responded how glad she was to hear from me. To make a long story short she had lost her job and was on the verge of losing her car and would do anything I wanted if I would help her out. The amount she needed was less than a $ and after more back and forth I felt she was sincere. It so happened that I was going to be in her area today but no time for an extended visit. The old Coolhand would not have considered such a thing. (No pussy, no sugar) The new kindlier gentler Coolhand figured that a small amount of sugar might reap future benefits. But remember I had never actually seen her. I told her I would give her what she needed and we agreed to meet this afternoon.

She should destroy what ever camera took the pictures she sent because to say she looked better than the pictures is the understatement of the year. She was stunning. Tall, built like the proverbial brick house, with long black curly hair that went down her back. I gave her the sugar and said I might be able to get back for a few hours on Thursday. She told me that she would like that very much and no additional sugar would be necessary. When I got home there was a message that said that she now knew she could trust me and she wanted to make me happy. She said that if I come Thursday to just get a room because she was going to make sure that I would "fall head over heels." The thing is I had already lined up two SBs for Thursday that I was going to have to decide between. A 22 and a 34 year old who are basically 5'3/5'4 carbon copies of each other. The 22 year old just sent me a message about how much fun we're going to have. To top that off, I got a message yesterday from a 28 year old that now wants to meet.

The moral of this story is that there maybe something to this kindlier, gentler shit.

[Literal2]

SMs pm me for contact info of Va Beach sbs I'm thru with.

[Literal2]

After many months waiting, today Mr Johnson finally had his way with sb3. She's put on weight since the pix, but she is another squirter. Satisfying but too demanding sexually.

SB17 and I had lunch, she's older than her pix. Nice woman and now she is clearly ready to be fucked. Unfortunately for her, I'm no longer interested. She should have agreed to meeting at the hotel where she could have appealed directly to Mr Johnson.

SB18 confirmed by cell today she will come to my hotel in short pump tomorrow. Can she really be so easy with her gorgeous 23 year old body and cute face. She says she is a college student. We will see. I still don't believe it. It would be great if she does though.

[Literal2]

Anybody try BeNaughty?

I haven't tried this, Zman.

It's a UK website, right?

I don't usually register for a site unless I know more. Are hot utr females from the US available on this site?

[Literal2]

Thanks for reminding us of this scam Spit. Condolences. Better luck next time.

It's more a "classic" situation than a "rookie" one I think. I try to take only what I need into the fucking chamber itself and keep it in my pocket until Mr Johnson releases in the woman.

I did give one sb full sugar in advance and she denied FS. I walked out. She pleaded for me to return (I think this was sb5) and I did. I gave her sugar again but only after I fucked her pretty well. She was young cute and slim but dirty, drunk and smoked. She had a baby though and was broke broke broke. So I guess I helped her out some.

The girls have tales of guys who cheat them too. It's rough out there.

It is so much better to be a male than a female though inmo.

Interesting weekend coming up with three previously unfucked sbs, including two from the five I contacted early in the week. Chances of my fucking all three are maybe 20 percent. Two. 50 percent. At least one. 90 percent.

[Biggers]

I made an embarrassing mistake, but since we're on this forum to help each other out I will share. I had been emailing with a potential SB and we agreed to meet at the bar of a hotel. I got a room at the hotel, met her at the bar, had a couple of drinks and chatted more about what we were both seeking. Everything seemed great. We went to the room and began kissing and chatting some more. She asked about the sugar which I gave her. She got up to use the restroom and bolted. Rookie mistake that I should have known better.

Care to Out her so us fellow SD's don't make the same mistake with her. Or at least say what site you contacted her from and what city. We can probably figure it out from there.

[Spitfire]

I made an embarrassing mistake, but since we're on this forum to help each other out I will share. I had been emailing with a potential SB and we agreed to meet at the bar of a hotel. I got a room at the hotel, met her at the bar, had a couple of drinks and chatted more about what we were both seeking. Everything seemed great. We went to the room and began kissing and chatting some more. She asked about the sugar which I gave her. She got up to use the restroom and bolted. Rookie mistake that I should have known better.

[Zman429]

Anybody try BeNaughty?

[Literal2]

Thank you to the mongers who have offered to assist me find utrs in exchange for some referrals to my sbs. At the moment I don't need assistance. But I appreciate the offer.

[Literal2]

Mr Johnson is so close to fucking sb3 at last he is getting hard to control in public. Full penetration of this sexy little in heat female will finally take place within the next few days.

SB16 won't say anything about her friend coming along but confirms she wants to get fucked again next weekend.

SB17 wants lunch. I'll do it, but she needs a sd badly and I want to fuck the girl quickly so lunch will come with just a little sugar, enough I hope to get her to open her pussy before Tuesday.

SB18 confirms she will see me at my hotel this weekend. I have my doubts. Too young. Too easy. But she is a hottie.

SB11 has disappeared again. She may be a fake.

[Literal2]

I changed my initial email that I sent to each candidate based on your tips. I soften it to make it less direct and added a portion that used words directly from her profile. I also starting sending follow up emails even if I did not get a initial response. I can report that I have increased my response rate and seems to be getting a better quality of response. Also some SB's that did not answer my initial email have answered my follow-up. Still can't say if it will help me close the deal but it has increased the pool of candidates which I'm hoping leads to more pussy.

There you go. I'm glad to hear this.

[Coolhand2]

Go through the set and find the girls you like best and contact them by email. Try to figure out what will appeal to them. It's ok to use a generic email but its best to add some words that show you have actually read the girl's profile. Send out a bunch of them at the same time so you don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Don't be afraid to follow up if you get no response at first.

Where your profile or "ad" comes in is that when the girls get your email they will look at it. It has to make them at least willing to communicate with you and not turn them off. How you do that is up to you but I've found shorter is better. Girls don't usually like direct talk about sex, body parts, etc. Inmo, at least not at first.

Most girls will ask for a photo in their first response if they have any interest after looking at your profile. I tried to avoid this but I eventually uploaded a couple of pix that I altered to make unrecognizable but which clearly show my age and general body type. The pix are in a private gallery that can only be accessed with a password.

When I give the girl a password I usually ask her a question that challenges her determination to enter into an sb / sd relationship. I find this makes her more likely to respond after looking at the photos.

I changed my initial email that I sent to each candidate based on your tips. I soften it to make it less direct and added a portion that used words directly from her profile. I also starting sending follow up emails even if I did not get a initial response. I can report that I have increased my response rate and seems to be getting a better quality of response. Also some SB's that did not answer my initial email have answered my follow-up. Still can't say if it will help me close the deal but it has increased the pool of candidates which I'm hoping leads to more pussy.

[Varoom]

She says she wants to meet again. So I asked was she serious about bringing along her blond girlfriend. We'll see.

SB16 may have just needed the liquid courage for round 1. Hopefully this isn't a pattern for her.

I'd say her contacting you seems quite encouraging that she is serious about bringing along her blonde friend.

You lucky devil. Bang them hard and often, Lit. Will be awaiting the tantalizing report.

Cheers,

Varoom