"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Spitfire]

Things have been sort of quiet on the SB front but I have something I wanted to pass on. It's been mentioned how you really have to work at sorting through the SB's. Here's an example. I had been messaging back and forth with what seemed to be a very interesting prospect. Mid 20's. 5'7, and a nice body based on her pics. She gave me her number and asked me to call. In our conversation she proceeds to tell me about her recent divorce and she's only on the site because she needs financial help with her 5 year old son. She wants to have a dinner meeting so we can see if we will hit it off. After the call I decided to google the phone number and what should turn up; a BP ad. Not only a BP ad but the ad used the same pictures as she used on the SB site. Hell, she looked good enough that with a couple of good reviews I would have seen her as an escort. It's not only the men who misrepresent themselves on the SB / SD site.

Everything she said could still be true. I know of one escort in my area who used the SD / SB approach to ease her way out of the 'business' but still have a way to support herself while getting her act together. But it's always good to investigate, it's interesting to see what can turn up.

[Richmond Mas]

Things have been sort of quiet on the SB front but I have something I wanted to pass on. It's been mentioned how you really have to work at sorting through the SB's. Here's an example. I had been messaging back and forth with what seemed to be a very interesting prospect. Mid 20's. 5'7, and a nice body based on her pics. She gave me her number and asked me to call. In our conversation she proceeds to tell me about her recent divorce and she's only on the site because she needs financial help with her 5 year old son. She wants to have a dinner meeting so we can see if we will hit it off. After the call I decided to google the phone number and what should turn up; a BP ad. Not only a BP ad but the ad used the same pictures as she used on the SB site. Hell, she looked good enough that with a couple of good reviews I would have seen her as an escort. It's not only the men who misrepresent themselves on the SB / SD site.

Cool, I joined a site suggarbabbies4you, but could do much they wanted me to join to view any profile. What is your recommendation. I know I got to pay to be in the game, but I do want to join a good site and not just any site.

New starting out on this sugarbabies thing. Any info is appreciated to get me started.

[Literal2]

CH, I personally would rather have a SB=fresh pussy than a BP pro. I was looking at the SB site and found that you have to invest a lot of time in these things. With an escort you call pay and bang that's it. With the sugar babies, one have to wine and dine these babies. I don't really know. I am big, fat and not the best looking guy around may be even boring. What is the chance that a real SB would pick me?

With Escort Benjamen does the trick. I might give it a try. I had several mails, but don't know enough to deal.

I agree CH's information is good to have. There are all kinds of girls on these sites.

RM, for sure it is more certain if you book a pro.

You say you are big and fat and how likely is it an sb will pick you. I don't know. The sb site lists over 600 girls within 25 miles of Richmond whose profile says they are ample, cuddly or very cuddly. Also, many of the girls who describe themselves as average are really overweight. So you could target heavy girls as one option. Another thing is that dating sbs is not like a regular date with wining and dining at least I haven't done it that way. Sometimes the girl wants to see you somewhere other than alone before she agrees to see you alone but that doesn't have to be wine and dine. It could be coffee at Burger King or even a parking lot. Or meet at a bar for a drink. I don't take them out on a date for a discussion. If they want I meet them briefly some place public so they can see what I look like but they understand that if they don't walk away we are going to go to a room to be alone and get it on.

A big difference with regular dating is that you both know the girl wants sugar and you both understand you aren't Prince Charming. Sex is a matter of whether she can stand you, not a matter of whether she would pick you out of a crowd.

So I don't think you have to be negative about the way you think you look etc. There's never any harm in trying. You might get lucky. With thousands of girls to choose from you probably will get lucky. If you want to improve the odds, target the heavy girls and see what happens. Or if you don't like the game with sbs and you want a more sure thing, go for the pros.

Just my views. No offense intended to anyone with different views.

[Richmond Mas]

She wants to have a dinner meeting so we can see if we will hit it off. After the call I decided to google the phone number and what should turn up; a BP ad. Not only a BP ad but the ad used the same pictures as she used on the SB site. Hell, she looked good enough that with a couple of good reviews I would have seen her as an escort. It's not only the men who misrepresent themselves on the SB / SD site.

CH, I personally would rather have a SB=fresh pussy than a BP pro. I was looking at the SB site and found that you have to invest a lot of time in these things. With an escort you call pay and bang that's it. With the sugar babies, one have to wine and dine these babies. I don't really know. I am big, fat and not the best looking guy around may be even boring. What is the chance that a real SB would pick me?

With Escort Benjamen does the trick. I might give it a try. I had several mails, but don't know enough to deal.

[Literal2]

Cool, I know there are some pros on the sb sites. But hey, if the girl is hot, you may want to fuck her just for sport.

I'm having trouble with the damn sb numbers. I think the following are the right sb numbers.

I'm getting some more blue fuel Monday and the warden is going to be away for a few days next week. I immediatey lined up my keeper beauty sb utrs sb4 and sb9 for consecutive days. I know these two will open their giners, ooze girlcum, invite my penetration, thrust their lttle clits out and squrim and moan before cumming hard to try to acquire my semen. That can be satsifying. But this will be 4th time for sb4 and 3rd time for sb9 so for me the anticipation isn't there.

However, I re-contacted a woman outside the age group I like (23-29) who previously wanted commitment plus a ridiculous amount of allowance. She says she is 39 but looks younger and her pix are hot. I think she may ready for penetration now. I'll call her sb12. I've scheduled her the day before the other two. We haven't discussed allowance.

I'm excited to be closing in on fresh pussy with backups in case of misfire.

Meanwhile I sent sb11 a little sugar just to keep her interested. She's 21 she says and I can't get to her for another few weeks. I wasn't going to do this because sb3 never met me after I gave her some sugar, but guess what? Sb3 is back on my radar and we are sending sexy emails. She clearly wants more sugar, and I clearly want penetration. No agreement yet. A perfect match? We shall see what happens when I next try to see her which will be next month.

[Coolhand2]

Seems like a hit or miss kind of deal.

Things have been sort of quiet on the SB front but I have something I wanted to pass on. It's been mentioned how you really have to work at sorting through the SB's. Here's an example. I had been messaging back and forth with what seemed to be a very interesting prospect. Mid 20's. 5'7, and a nice body based on her pics. She gave me her number and asked me to call. In our conversation she proceeds to tell me about her recent divorce and she's only on the site because she needs financial help with her 5 year old son. She wants to have a dinner meeting so we can see if we will hit it off. After the call I decided to google the phone number and what should turn up; a BP ad. Not only a BP ad but the ad used the same pictures as she used on the SB site. Hell, she looked good enough that with a couple of good reviews I would have seen her as an escort. It's not only the men who misrepresent themselves on the SB / SD site.

[Literal2]

I recently joined this one.

www.sugardaddyforme.com

Has a lot of potential. I've gotton a lot of e-mails from the sugar-babies. I'm filtering through them and replying to the one's I think have the potential to be something. I'll keep you posted if anything good happens.

There are lots of phonies and flakes plus a whole lot of girls who don't really seem to know what they want. Plus chemistry is much more important than it is with an escort. If she doesn't like the way you look or talk or describe yourself or your pix she isn't going to see you (unless she really is a pro and there are a few of these on the site). I find the most exciting part to be sorting through the different girls and wondering whether this one or that one is going to really take off her panties for me, just like dating except that the girls don't expect a permanent relationship. You can have a lot of fun with these girls. I have settled on two for now and I fuck them both whenever I can, which is about every two weeks. This is very satisfying for me, but I miss the chase and I will resume trolling for new girls in a few more weeks I think.

[Spitfire]

It's very hit or miss. Another site I frequent has women who list themselves as having 'modeled' for these sites, so I believe the sites load some 'fakes' or 'ringers'. Whatever you want to call it to generate interest. With that said, there are genuine women worth meeting. It's just effort to wade through the scams and time wasters.

[Mrjlg10]

Yes it's hit or miss. Try googling sugardaddy / sugarbaby or seeking arrangements.

I recently joined this one. www.sugardaddyforme.com Has a lot of potential. I've gotton a lot of e-mails from the sugar-babies. I'm filtering through them and replying to the one's I think have the potential to be something. I'll keep you posted if anything good happens.

[Literal2]

How do you go about finding these sugar babies? Seems like a hit or miss kind of deal.

Yes it's hit or miss. Try googling sugardaddy / sugarbaby or seeking arrangements.

[Richmond Mas]

How do you go about finding these sugar babies? Seems like a hit or miss kind of deal.

[Literal2]

You may be aware of all this but here goes. First of all my Doc writes the script for double the dosage that I need. I split the pills so they go twice as far. I discovered a little while back that the script was for ten but my insurance would only pay for six. I started paying for the other four which gives me eight more doses. This has helped me from running out. The downside is I noticed it now takes 3/4 of a pill for the same effect so they're not going as far. (Getting old sucks!).

Hope this helps.

Thanks. I know what you mean about using more over time. I used up my supply faster than I anticipated.

[Literal2]

Your question is a valid one. What was stopping me was the 30 minutes and I had no leeway. I was afraid that if I started something and she was receptive the little head would take control from the big head and I would have a lot of explaining to do. Trust me, I more then you wish I had an answer. It would help me decide if I want to pursue this further. Come on April!

Yeah, that probably made sense. I still think about girls I nearly fucked but didn't. A long time ago a beauty I didn't know asked me over to her place to put suntan lotion on her back and took off her blouse. I just did what she asked and then left.

[Literal2]

I've had 1 nice sb before but lost her. Went to meet one tonight and I'm in a wheelchair which makes it tough. 30 min drive I find STEPS! She came out and was sexy as hell. My luck!

Bad luck JW! Damn steps! Oh well, there are plenty more girls to try. Never give up. It's great that you're in the game.

[Coolhand2]

Now I am totally out of my little blue pills and have to get the prescription renewed, which will take some time, so I doubt much is going to happen for a while. This is a shame because in addition to SB4 and SB9 another girl who looks hot and is a college student keeps trying to get together with me. She tried calling me through the sb website's anonymous calling service about 10 times yesterday. I have asked her for a more revealing photo though and she hasn't given me one yet. So I'm worried she's chunky or something.

You may be aware of all this but here goes. First of all my Doc writes the script for double the dosage that I need. I split the pills so they go twice as far. I discovered a little while back that the script was for ten but my insurance would only pay for six. I started paying for the other four which gives me eight more doses. This has helped me from running out. The downside is I noticed it now takes 3/4 of a pill for the same effect so they're not going as far. (Getting old sucks!).

Hope this helps.