"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Spitfire]

I don't have a significant other so I haven't give this a lot of thought, but with that said, here are a few ideas:

Purchase a pre-paid credit card with enough of a balance for a hotel to reserve a room. Not sure if that will work with reserving a hotel, but worth a try. If it does work, and if they don't ask for ID, then give a fake name & address when you register since a pre-paid card isn't tied to your name or address.

Purchase a pre-paid cell phone to use only for sugar baby activities. Always turn it off when not expecting contact. It also shields you somewhat from unwanted contact if they turn out to be crazy, flaky or clingy.

[Poorboy95]

And the only one worse than your SO to question your notel bill on the CC is your SO's divorce lawyer! Always use cash and destroy the paid receipt. Just my two cents worth. Play safe. Pb

[Literal2]

Yes, but if you pay with cash the room doesn't show up on your credit card statement for the SO to see.

That's right. I hadn't thought of that. It's a good idea if the SO reviews your cc bill, that's for sure.

[KC Questor]

Interesting concept. But I wonder if it will raise suspicion. Also not sure if you gain anything because they have your I. D. Info anyway. Usually I pay for the room in advance with a credit card and the bill shows up under the door in the morning marked paid.

Yes, but if you pay with cash the room doesn't show up on your credit card statement for the SO to see.

[Literal2]

Of the seven sb's who have actually opened their pussy for me in the last couple months, four did so in their own homes and three were at a hotel. FYI.

[Literal2]

Some of the girls may not be able to get the room, it seems many of them lack, or have maxed out, credit cards. You could try reserving the room on a credit card, then settling up with cash when you check out.

Interesting concept. But I wonder if it will raise suspicion. Also not sure if you gain anything because they have your I. D. Info anyway. Usually I pay for the room in advance with a credit card and the bill shows up under the door in the morning marked paid.

[Literal2]

I always tell them,"use my work address so I can expense it" and then give them some bogus address. If you use any decent motel (Holiday Inn Express, Days Inn or better) there's a not-insignificant chance you will receive crap in the mail from them. Which can be damn difficult to explain to the Warden. .

This is a good idea. Thanks. I'll try it.

[Coolhand2]

I don't know any way to get a room without some kind of I'd. I've thought about asking the girl to get the room and then reimburse her but I haven't tried it. I just try to be careful with who sees the bill for the room. Let me know if you come up with something else. Good luck Monday. You have to be patient in this business.

My issue is the leaving of a paper trail. In pursuing this hobby I try to avoid anything that puts me someplace at a specific date and time. It puts a damper on deniability. This is my first meeting with CSB4 so I don't know if she has a credit card or is comfortable with her getting the room. I'm going to pay cash for the room so CC is not an issue. I've had escorts get the room and I cover it with no problem. Just another issue to work through with SB's.

[Spitfire]

I don't know any way to get a room without some kind of I'd. I've thought about asking the girl to get the room and then reimburse her but I haven't tried it. I just try to be careful with who sees the bill for the room. Let me know if you come up with something else. Good luck Monday. You have to be patient in this business.

Some of the girls may not be able to get the room, it seems many of them lack, or have maxed out, credit cards. You could try reserving the room on a credit card, then settling up with cash when you check out.

[CantWinLosin]

I always tell them,"use my work address so I can expense it" and then give them some bogus address. If you use any decent motel (Holiday Inn Express, Days Inn or better) there's a not-insignificant chance you will receive crap in the mail from them. Which can be damn difficult to explain to the Warden. .

[Literal2]

I don't know any way to get a room without some kind of I'd. I've thought about asking the girl to get the room and then reimburse her but I haven't tried it. I just try to be careful with who sees the bill for the room. Let me know if you come up with something else. Good luck Monday. You have to be patient in this business.

[Coolhand2]

I ask if they have a place we can meet privately or do I need to get a room. Even if we meet in a public place first, that way she'll know where I'm headed. This usually brings on a discussion of intimacy, timing, etc. Just my experience.

Is it possible to get a room without registering a I'd? I'm facing this, with some nervousness, on Monday. Feel free to PM the answer.

Yeah, well, thanks but I'm running out of vitamin V, which could be embarrassing, and I'm also having problems getting free to see my two sweetheart sb's. Frustrating.

Funny you should mention that. I'm starring at the bottom of my pill bottle but I have a refill at the pharmacy. I'm going to pick it up on the way to my "coffee" with CSB4 on Monday. That's cutting it to close.

[Literal2]

I'm going to take your advice on CSB1 and totally back off for awhile. I'll see if she contacts me. I tried to see CSB3 on Friday but she turned me down because of another "dude." I haven't a clue where this is going, if any where, but as you said "she is 21." I'm not going to hold my breath but it would be nice.

On a happier note CSB4 has burst on the scene. We've been communicating back and forth for about three weeks and finally have a date set for Monday. She's a 31 year old single mother of two. She seemed very unsure about the whole SB / SD relationship, although she stated right upfront she needed financial help. She seemed real shy and then she goes and post a picture of her bare breasts (which look marvelous.) It was password protected but I have to admit it threw me for a loop. It wasn't what I was expecting at all. We're meeting for coffee but as usual, I have been clear on what my expectations are. We'll see what happens.

The great thing about this hobby is that there are always, always more girls. Good luck.

[Literal2]

When it comes to SB, Literal2 is the MAN!

Yeah, well, thanks but I'm running out of vitamin V, which could be embarrassing, and I'm also having problems getting free to see my two sweetheart sb's. Frustrating.

[Coolhand2]

I think I'd back off for a while and see what happens with CSB1, but good luck!

CSB3 sounds positive but she is 21 so don't bank on it yet. Good luck with her also!

I'm going to take your advice on CSB1 and totally back off for awhile. I'll see if she contacts me. I tried to see CSB3 on Friday but she turned me down because of another "dude." I haven't a clue where this is going, if any where, but as you said "she is 21." I'm not going to hold my breath but it would be nice.

On a happier note CSB4 has burst on the scene. We've been communicating back and forth for about three weeks and finally have a date set for Monday. She's a 31 year old single mother of two. She seemed very unsure about the whole SB / SD relationship, although she stated right upfront she needed financial help. She seemed real shy and then she goes and post a picture of her bare breasts (which look marvelous.) It was password protected but I have to admit it threw me for a loop. It wasn't what I was expecting at all. We're meeting for coffee but as usual, I have been clear on what my expectations are. We'll see what happens.