"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Spitfire** · 03-20-11 15:35

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

I don't know any way to get a room without some kind of I'd. I've thought about asking the girl to get the room and then reimburse her but I haven't tried it. I just try to be careful with who sees the bill for the room. Let me know if you come up with something else. Good luck Monday. You have to be patient in this business.

Some of the girls may not be able to get the room, it seems many of them lack, or have maxed out, credit cards. You could try reserving the room on a credit card, then settling up with cash when you check out.

**CantWinLosin** · 03-20-11 14:39

I always tell them,"use my work address so I can expense it" and then give them some bogus address. If you use any decent motel (Holiday Inn Express, Days Inn or better) there's a not-insignificant chance you will receive crap in the mail from them. Which can be damn difficult to explain to the Warden. .

**Literal2** · 03-20-11 08:41

I don't know any way to get a room without some kind of I'd. I've thought about asking the girl to get the room and then reimburse her but I haven't tried it. I just try to be careful with who sees the bill for the room. Let me know if you come up with something else. Good luck Monday. You have to be patient in this business.

**Coolhand2** · 03-19-11 19:26

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

I ask if they have a place we can meet privately or do I need to get a room. Even if we meet in a public place first, that way she'll know where I'm headed. This usually brings on a discussion of intimacy, timing, etc. Just my experience.

Is it possible to get a room without registering a I'd? I'm facing this, with some nervousness, on Monday. Feel free to PM the answer.

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

Yeah, well, thanks but I'm running out of vitamin V, which could be embarrassing, and I'm also having problems getting free to see my two sweetheart sb's. Frustrating.

Funny you should mention that. I'm starring at the bottom of my pill bottle but I have a refill at the pharmacy. I'm going to pick it up on the way to my "coffee" with CSB4 on Monday. That's cutting it to close.

**Literal2** · 03-19-11 09:23

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

I'm going to take your advice on CSB1 and totally back off for awhile. I'll see if she contacts me. I tried to see CSB3 on Friday but she turned me down because of another "dude." I haven't a clue where this is going, if any where, but as you said "she is 21." I'm not going to hold my breath but it would be nice.

On a happier note CSB4 has burst on the scene. We've been communicating back and forth for about three weeks and finally have a date set for Monday. She's a 31 year old single mother of two. She seemed very unsure about the whole SB / SD relationship, although she stated right upfront she needed financial help. She seemed real shy and then she goes and post a picture of her bare breasts (which look marvelous.) It was password protected but I have to admit it threw me for a loop. It wasn't what I was expecting at all. We're meeting for coffee but as usual, I have been clear on what my expectations are. We'll see what happens.

The great thing about this hobby is that there are always, always more girls. Good luck.

**Literal2** · 03-19-11 09:21

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

When it comes to SB, Literal2 is the MAN!

Yeah, well, thanks but I'm running out of vitamin V, which could be embarrassing, and I'm also having problems getting free to see my two sweetheart sb's. Frustrating.

**Coolhand2** · 03-18-11 02:02

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

I think I'd back off for a while and see what happens with CSB1, but good luck!

CSB3 sounds positive but she is 21 so don't bank on it yet. Good luck with her also!

I'm going to take your advice on CSB1 and totally back off for awhile. I'll see if she contacts me. I tried to see CSB3 on Friday but she turned me down because of another "dude." I haven't a clue where this is going, if any where, but as you said "she is 21." I'm not going to hold my breath but it would be nice.

On a happier note CSB4 has burst on the scene. We've been communicating back and forth for about three weeks and finally have a date set for Monday. She's a 31 year old single mother of two. She seemed very unsure about the whole SB / SD relationship, although she stated right upfront she needed financial help. She seemed real shy and then she goes and post a picture of her bare breasts (which look marvelous.) It was password protected but I have to admit it threw me for a loop. It wasn't what I was expecting at all. We're meeting for coffee but as usual, I have been clear on what my expectations are. We'll see what happens.

**Coolhand2** · 03-16-11 19:50

Originally Posted by Spitfire [View Original Post]

That sounds like a good way to handle things up front, thanks!

When it comes to SB, Literal2 is the MAN!

**Spitfire** · 03-16-11 14:07

Originally Posted by Literal2 [View Original Post]

I ask if they have a place we can meet privately or do I need to get a room. Even if we meet in a public place first, that way she'll know where I'm headed. This usually brings on a discussion of intimacy, timing, etc. Just my experience.

That sounds like a good way to handle things up front, thanks!

**Literal2** · 03-16-11 13:53

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

Yesterday had it's ups and downs. CSB1 canceled on me as I was en route to her location. Sick child was the reason given. This is her second straight cancellation so I'm not sure what is going on. I haven't made up my mind if I should just let this go. The good news is I heard back from the 21year old (CSB3) that she's ready to meet based on the arrangement that I had spelled out. I'm going to try to move on this as soon as I can before her resolve waivers.

I think I'd back off for a while and see what happens with CSB1, but good luck!

CSB3 sounds positive but she is 21 so don't bank on it yet. Good luck with her also!

**Literal2** · 03-16-11 13:51

Originally Posted by Spitfire [View Original Post]

I've experienced quite a few who it seems will hint at intimacy, but are reluctant to deliver. What have you guys found to be the best way to quickly separate those time wasters from the ones who are serious about getting down to business? I enjoy the whole 'dating' concept. Going out to dinner, shopping, etc. And I like good company, but I'm also looking for playtime too. What's the best way you've found? Do you bluntly ask or simply drop hints and gauge the response?

It's especially important for me as my area is lacking in the population of potential SBs and if I'm going to travel, I want to make sure my time is spent well.

I ask if they have a place we can meet privately or do I need to get a room. Even if we meet in a public place first, that way she'll know where I'm headed. This usually brings on a discussion of intimacy, timing, etc. Just my experience.

**Spitfire** · 03-16-11 12:00

Originally Posted by Coolhand2 [View Original Post]

. As has been pointed out in this thread, it does take work to separate them out.

I don't mind the work but am always looking for ways to work smarter

**Coolhand2** · 03-16-11 11:15

Yesterday had it's ups and downs. CSB1 canceled on me as I was en route to her location. Sick child was the reason given. This is her second straight cancellation so I'm not sure what is going on. I haven't made up my mind if I should just let this go. The good news is I heard back from the 21year old (CSB3) that she's ready to meet based on the arrangement that I had spelled out. I'm going to try to move on this as soon as I can before her resolve waivers.

**Coolhand2** · 03-16-11 10:55

Originally Posted by Spitfire [View Original Post]

I've experienced quite a few who it seems will hint at intimacy, but are reluctant to deliver. What have you guys found to be the best way to quickly separate those time wasters from the ones who are serious about getting down to business? I enjoy the whole 'dating' concept. Going out to dinner, shopping, etc. And I like good company, but I'm also looking for playtime too. What's the best way you've found? Do you bluntly ask or simply drop hints and gauge the response?

It's especially important for me as my area is lacking in the population of potential SBs and if I'm going to travel, I want to make sure my time is spent well.

I have the same issues that you are facing. I travel also to meet SB's and I don't like wasting a trip. I've found that bluntness, delivered in a nice way, is the best way to go. After the initial contact, I try to spell out what I mean by "companionship". I've used some of the pointers that Literal2 has given such as staying away from the ones who are looking for relationships or husbands. As has been pointed out in this thread, it does take work to separate them out.

**Spitfire** · 03-16-11 09:41

I've experienced quite a few who it seems will hint at intimacy, but are reluctant to deliver. What have you guys found to be the best way to quickly separate those time wasters from the ones who are serious about getting down to business? I enjoy the whole 'dating' concept. Going out to dinner, shopping, etc. And I like good company, but I'm also looking for playtime too. What's the best way you've found? Do you bluntly ask or simply drop hints and gauge the response?

It's especially important for me as my area is lacking in the population of potential SBs and if I'm going to travel, I want to make sure my time is spent well.