The Morality of Prostitution

**Selena Bebtley** · 08-16-12 19:22

Originally Posted by The Good Doctor [View Original Post]

Many people sell their bodies in a variety of different ways. Sex sells, so it is everywhere. Men do the physical jobs from construction to being drafted for war. I don't see prostitution as any different.

I 100 percent agree with you. There are so many examples of 'legal' acts world-wide that I can literally RANT about that involve 'prostitution', which has numerous similar definitions as this one:

Pros·ti·tu·tion/&716; präst&601; &712; t (why) o&862; oSH&601; and/

Noun:

The practice or occupation of engaging in sex with someone for payment.

The corrupt use of one's talents for personal or financial gain.

I won't bother you with all my ideas but this is one particularly good and quite obvious example (and in my opinion a well-debated argument) : Porn. Read the link below.

http://articles.cnn.com/2005-08-12/j...aphy?_s=PM:LAW

**SmileyScout** · 08-12-12 17:56

Originally Posted by SoCalMonger [View Original Post]

Can one be a christian and see SW's?

Even though I see a lot of SW's I still consider myself to be a christian. I don't attend church on regular basis, but I still believe in god. But I still find myself torn about my hobby. I don't feel guilty about the SW's, because in end it is their choice as I have always maintained. How they spend the money that we pay them is again their choice.

Short answer: Yes.

Long answer: Although both the Old Testament and New Testament repeatedly condemn prostitutes, they don't really have much to say about the men who solicit them. What makes this somewhat confusing is that the Bible tends to equate prostitution with adultery (the most common word used in the Hebrew Bible to describe this is "znh", which refers to anyone who has sex outside of marriage). So it could be argued that it's no more sinful to solicit a SW than to have sex with your girlfriend before marriage.

Realistically though, you have already sinned many, many times. You sin on a regular basis without even realizing it. You sin if you eat shellfish or pork (Leviticus 11:7-10) , if you wear any kind of gold jewelry or expensive clothes (1 Peter 3:3-4) , if you argue with anyone (2 Timothy 2:23-24) , if you gamble (Proverbs 13:11) , if you gossip (Proverbs 16:28) , if you get drunk (Ephesians 5:18) , if you pray in public (Matthew 6:5) , if you get divorced (Luke 16:18) , if you have long hair (1 Corinthians 11:14) , if you read horoscopes (Leviticus 19:31) , if you don't exercise (1 Corinthians 6:19-20) , if you get piercings or tattoos (Leviticus 19:28) , if you cross-dress (Deuteronomy 22:5) , if you tell crude jokes (Ephesians 5:4) , and so on. So long as you acknowledge your sins and pray for forgiveness, I don't see any reason why someone can't continue to be a Christian while seeing SW's. Human beings are not meant to be perfect, even by Biblical standards.

**SausageMeet** · 04-12-12 08:26

Originally Posted by Hargow20 [View Original Post]

Is prostitution a greater sin than adultery?

Personally I have always believed that paying for sex and adultery are the same. The difference is that we get type of girl we want regardless of our age.

One is in the Ten Commandments. The other is not.

**SoCalMonger** · 10-05-11 12:39

Can one be a christian and see SW's?

Even though I see a lot of SW's I still consider myself to be a christian. I don't attend church on regular basis, but I still believe in god. But I still find myself torn about my hobby. I don't feel guilty about the SW's, because in end it is their choice as I have always maintained. How they spend the money that we pay them is again their choice.

**Savvyguy08** · 03-31-11 19:26

Originally Posted by Columbo1492 [View Original Post]

Many people sell their bodies in a variety of different ways. Sex sells, so it is everywhere. Men do the physical jobs from construction to being drafted for war. I don't see prostitution as any different.

I don't see the issue as long as it's consentual and no one gets hurt. What is the difference between paying for sex vs. Paying for an expensive meal, drinks, dancing etc. And hoping she puts out.

Pimps are the issue in my mind.

**The Good Doctor** · 03-24-11 14:41

Many people sell their bodies in a variety of different ways. Sex sells, so it is everywhere. Men do the physical jobs from construction to being drafted for war. I don't see prostitution as any different.

**Chamber** · 03-05-11 01:38

Originally Posted by Lurker X [View Original Post]

Obvious answer: don't get married!

I was with my ex-wife for 15 years, and frankly, at this point in my life, the whole idea of being shackled to some one till death do us part just doesn't seem very appealing.

My 2 cents.

It may be a cliche, but it doesn't make it any less true: It's cheaper to keep her.

**Barond** · 12-22-10 14:36

It sounds like Fred is engaging in ethically impermissable conduct. He is attempting to 'buy' his emotional and sexual pleasure from someone who just wants his money. The BBFSCIP is another problem that may give rise to a gift that keeps on giving.

Fred's real problem is the endulging pervasive lust that infiltrates a healthy life that involves a prohibition of erotic transactions with any female who wants money.

**Beady** · 12-22-10 13:27

Originally Posted by Gigabyte40 [View Original Post]

Does this story sound familiar?

Fred, a 50 yr old bald headed fat guy meets a stripper, Cassie, in a strip club. She is 21, hot, thin, and the best dancer in the club. He buys dances from her and asks if she does private parties. She says yes and goes to his house. And the fun begins.

That was 7 months ago and he is still seeing her, sometimes twice a week. She dances, poses for photos, and provides full service GFE, bareback, wide open anything, anytime, any way he wants it. She has incredible oral skills which has him completely addicted.

Fred seems to have it made with Cassie, a women less than half his age. He buys her clothes, shoes, panties, dinner, and anything else she wants. He gives her money which she uses to buy pills for herself and her boyfriend. (Who is a convicted felon and out of prison now.) Of course she says the money is not for pills, it's for food and bills. Whatever.

Well Fred starts thinking the Cassie actually likes him. He thinks there might be something more than just a business transaction. He has become attached to her and cares for her. But she is just in it for the money. Fred thinks he can save her from her life of trailer trash friends and family. He thinks he can persuade her to stop doing pain pills and clean up her life. He shows her the "good" life. But he is getting frustrated when she keeps saying one thing and doing another.

Fred should just enjoy what he has, and that is great sex with a hot 21 year old stripper. Nothing more.

Is there any hope for Fred?

I met my wife when she was a provider and I a monger. We had 15 wonderful years together bringing 2 great kids into the world until she sadly died nearly 7 years ago of the big C. I monger again now. I have no wish for another partner but do have regulars who mostly know my circumstances and we have a great 'relationship' which is rewarding for both of us.

If you don't try, you don't get. Just be prepared for the worst and you can't be dissappointed.

Best of luck Fred, enjoy it whilst it lasts.

Beady. A 63 year old bald headed fat guy.

**Member #7201** · 12-22-10 12:43

Does this story sound familiar?

Fred, a 50 yr old bald headed fat guy meets a stripper, Cassie, in a strip club. She is 21, hot, thin, and the best dancer in the club. He buys dances from her and asks if she does private parties. She says yes and goes to his house. And the fun begins.

That was 7 months ago and he is still seeing her, sometimes twice a week. She dances, poses for photos, and provides full service GFE, bareback, wide open anything, anytime, any way he wants it. She has incredible oral skills which has him completely addicted.

Fred seems to have it made with Cassie, a women less than half his age. He buys her clothes, shoes, panties, dinner, and anything else she wants. He gives her money which she uses to buy pills for herself and her boyfriend. (Who is a convicted felon and out of prison now.) Of course she says the money is not for pills, it's for food and bills. Whatever.

Well Fred starts thinking the Cassie actually likes him. He thinks there might be something more than just a business transaction. He has become attached to her and cares for her. But she is just in it for the money. Fred thinks he can save her from her life of trailer trash friends and family. He thinks he can persuade her to stop doing pain pills and clean up her life. He shows her the "good" life. But he is getting frustrated when she keeps saying one thing and doing another.

Fred should just enjoy what he has, and that is great sex with a hot 21 year old stripper. Nothing more.

Is there any hope for Fred?

**Lurker X** · 11-04-10 07:27

Originally Posted by Technicalone [View Original Post]

I once heard a Pastor say that the greater sin is when both people are married and fornicate. His logic for this is you are affecting more than just yourselves. The other spouses and potentially any children we be adversely affected. Therefore, you are distroying several lives by the act.

I am not perfect and I do not judge because it is not my battle. Just my 2 cents.

Obvious answer: don't get married!

I was with my ex-wife for 15 years, and frankly, at this point in my life, the whole idea of being shackled to some one till death do us part just doesn't seem very appealing.

My 2 cents.

**Technicalone** · 11-01-10 17:34

Originally Posted by Studly77 [View Original Post]

No, I don't think so although if it were me and I had a choice of a very good looking married women or an average hooker I would pick the hooker every time. I don't mess with married women no matter how good looking they are. If I know she is married it is "hi and bye". Yes, hooker will leave you broke but I feel less guilty..if there is such a thing, than I would if I knowing hooked up with a married women.

I once heard a Pastor say that the greater sin is when both people are married and fornicate. His logic for this is you are affecting more than just yourselves. The other spouses and potentially any children we be adversely affected. Therefore, you are distroying several lives by the act.

I am not perfect and I do not judge because it is not my battle. Just my 2 cents.

**Hargow20** · 08-25-10 06:10

I meant having sex outside of marriage or with a unmarried girl. Personally I don't believe it's right to have sex with a married woman as well.

**Member #4064** · 08-25-10 00:37

Originally Posted by Hargow20

Is prostitution a greater sin than adultery....?

Personally I have always believed that paying for sex and adultery are the same. The difference is that we get type of girl we want regardless of our age.

No, I don't think so although if it were me and I had a choice of a very good looking married women or an average hooker I would pick the hooker every time. I don't mess with married women no matter how good looking they are. If I know she is married it is "hi and bye". Yes, hooker will leave you broke but I feel less guilty..if there is such a thing, than I would if I knowing hooked up with a married women.

**Member #4064** · 08-24-10 23:51

What's the difference between the US and other countries? I see the other countries all have the "erotic" section in craigslist but this country forced a change to the "adult section" and now is looking to ban it. I know I am just the average guy and probably don't have a clue but are all these things they claim really that bad in our country? Or it is better here because of the moral majority?

http://www.google.com/hostednews/can...MeYWcEESBSJM_w