"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Christian Troy** · 08-25-25 19:52

Originally Posted by TallGuy3000 [View Original Post]

I know I've seen some reports about SB gals on here. Looked around the site, saw some interesting ladies and thought I'd give it a try. Purchased the generic VISA from Publix (it always worked for me on SA), and submitted my purchase. Declined. Payment is processed off shore in Dublin, but then SA is off shore also. Told by the processor that my "bank" refused the charge. Several back and forth texts with both Secret Benefits and their processor. Finally said try a new card. I was hesitant but gave it a try. This time a vanilla VISA from Walmart. Same result.

Any advice on next steps. Or is it even worth trying to get on SB, before I go back to SA.

TG.

So unfortunately, it's pretty common for SB to set off alerts for the processor. I don't have a warden so I use my CC and I almost always get a notification from my CC app like "This you? You sure? I don't have any advice about getting around it other than heresey. I remember reading a thread where the OP was having trouble with SA's processor and was recommended a "global enabled" prepaid visa / mastercard gift card. I don't see how it's different than a regular visa / mastercard gift card but it's potentially something to look into.

As for whether Secret Benefits is worth it. I think it's worth it as a complement to SA or SDM, but is generally inferior to the two. I'll give you a good reason to have a free account and a good reason to have credits:

A free account is well worth the minimal sign up effort, simply because of the video verification for ladies. Hilariously, the site doesn't tell the ladies that these are on their profile, so you get to see what they look like sans makeup and filters. Since there's a lot of crossover on the sites, it makes for a valuable research tool. If you're considering an SA lady and can find her on SB, you can see what she really looks like if she's got a verification video up.

I know I just pointed out the abundant crossover on the sugar sites, but Secret Benefits must be doing something different with their marketing because I'll see girls on there that aren't on any other site. They also get a lot of girls who are dipping their toe into the sugar bowl. I'd love to get more data on this, but they're doing something right in terms of marketing. I wouldn't maintain a constant supply of credits, but for me it's well worth it to buy a stash of credits every so often and work my way through SB.

As others have pointed out in previous posts, SB has a lot of zombie profiles and bots that send messages. A good rule of thumb is to only message girls that have actually looked at your profile (the bots will just send you a message but it'll usually be something like 'hey' If you want to get a girls attention, favorite her and share your private pics. If she's real, she'll look at your profile. If she's a bot, it'll just share her private pics without looking at your profile.

**2me4Looking2** · 08-25-25 17:27

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I use Google images for reverse image search. That's not what facecheck.id is though. It is facial recognition search, not reverse image.

I wonder if AI can help to mask some of our pics from the facial recognition. I used lmarena. Ai to change some of my clothing and it sometimes will slightly modify your face as well. I know that Fawkes app can work too.

But I took a casual pic of myself and had it put a suit on me and looks absolutely real, so going to use that with SBs now. And it's free on lmarena although you have to "re-roll" a few times periodically to get the best model to give you the output that works.

I can tell you from experience that Fawkes does not work anymore. It did originally but the AI's are able to get past that now. If you have something to lose by someone finding out I would find a good AI tool to completely change your face. You can have it keep similar characteristics but if it looks like you facial recognition can find you. I have a set of pictures I use but I wish I could find a tool to reliably recreate the same face each time.

**TallGuy3000** · 08-25-25 16:50

I know I've seen some reports about SB gals on here. Looked around the site, saw some interesting ladies and thought I'd give it a try. Purchased the generic VISA from Publix (it always worked for me on SA), and submitted my purchase. Declined. Payment is processed off shore in Dublin, but then SA is off shore also. Told by the processor that my "bank" refused the charge. Several back and forth texts with both Secret Benefits and their processor. Finally said try a new card. I was hesitant but gave it a try. This time a vanilla VISA from Walmart. Same result.

Any advice on next steps. Or is it even worth trying to get on SB, before I go back to SA.

TG.

**Peter Johnson** · 08-22-25 17:35

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

What are y'all using for reverse image search that's effective? Facecheck dot id was awesome when it was free. I don't think it even works very well now, possible due to legal issues.

I use Google images for reverse image search. That's not what facecheck.id is though. It is facial recognition search, not reverse image.

I wonder if AI can help to mask some of our pics from the facial recognition. I used lmarena. Ai to change some of my clothing and it sometimes will slightly modify your face as well. I know that Fawkes app can work too.

But I took a casual pic of myself and had it put a suit on me and looks absolutely real, so going to use that with SBs now. And it's free on lmarena although you have to "re-roll" a few times periodically to get the best model to give you the output that works.

**Lewdity** · 08-22-25 17:27

Any luck with this one I'm Buckhead? Hesitant to pull the trigger.

**Airmantroy** · 08-21-25 19:55

Priscilla,25-https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-3acde6d3fe32.

Little backstory, I met her and her sister for lunch. They were claiming to do doubles, (sis is hotter, and they are twins) I was interested, things went ok but they were going out of the country before I'd be free to meet and things happened so never had that bucket list checkmark. She popped back up and I sent her a message she's sporaticly on and she along with a couple of other girls on there travel all the time to music festivals, we finally connect and she's asking for $800 ppm, we all know you never bite at the first offer no matter how much they claim is going to happen. Got her down significantly and set a day to rekindle the relationship from the previous meeting, (minus sis who has landed a whale aparently). First time at 2 am the before we were supposed to meet at 11 am, she claims she had to cancel because she got called into to work, no problem. Rescheduled for this morning same time. Last night around 11:30 she cancels again due to a personal commitment, ok heard this story before, let her know I was disappointed but no problem. The next reply is where she set the bridge on fire with a LEAVE ME ALONE. As you wish, you like wasting peoples time apparently. Number is available if you want to try your luck, I get more ass than a toilet seat already I don't have time for games or bidding wars.

Next we have this beautiful specimen of GPS.

Victoria, 28-https://members.seeking.com/member/9...2-070cd24c9ac5.

Messaged her yesterday and she gets back to me today wanting to get together, no pic request mind you. We go to text and after 2-3 messages she says she wants to know if 1 K ppm is doable. LMFAO, it is but not for her. Hit her with the I could do $400 if she hosted and she said her minimum is 1 K. Wished her luck and prosperity. Number available if you think you can swim in that pond.

Then theres the one real one who was my mid day snack Monday on a trip to St. Pete Beach.

Annie-https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-5d9d03ecae71.

Just great GFE fun, yes she is a pro with an ad on Tryst down there, with an ask of $700. I got her for half that and she got her own Uber to my resort. I highly recommend her if you're going to be in the Tampa-St Pete area. She said she comes thru Atlanta on ocassion, so keep and eye out for that profile pic.

**ElMongler** · 08-21-25 14:41

Originally Posted by Muffin6655 [View Original Post]

Did she say it was too little? Why did she deny?

Her reply had no substance other than "No. " Didn't even try to counter. Considering her lack of comms and how far she was I didn't pursue any further.

**LouisHernandez** · 08-21-25 13:20

What are y'all using for reverse image search that's effective? Facecheck dot id was awesome when it was free. I don't think it even works very well now, possible due to legal issues.

**Muffin6655** · 08-21-25 07:39

Originally Posted by ElMongler [View Original Post]

Talked with her a week ago. Very slow to reply and not the brightest, got tired of waiting a day for a reply so I offered her PPM of $300 and she denied. Stays in forest / college park forgot which one, lost our messages.

Did she say it was too little? Why did she deny?

**ElMongler** · 08-20-25 17:10

Originally Posted by Muffin6655 [View Original Post]

She doesn't respond to me and when she does she wants $100 upfront to meetup. She does sell nudes for $40, I'm wondering if any of you guys have managed to see her in person and if the experience was good.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-c0c6e492b07c

Talked with her a week ago. Very slow to reply and not the brightest, got tired of waiting a day for a reply so I offered her PPM of $300 and she denied. Stays in forest / college park forgot which one, lost our messages.

**GoneForGood97** · 08-20-25 13:33

Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-76260bcda73a

She said she wants $1,000.00 for a date.

Why would a man pay that for a simple date? She's got a great body and pretty face, but $1,000?

If you're going to be anything in this world, be for fucking real!

You can find TWO OF HER for that same amount of money.

Its one thing to pay for quality, it's something totally different to just throw money away.

My guess is she's a stripper who is used to milking simps, so she's just bumping up her OTC ask on the SB site. She just has that stripper or ex stripper look.

**JMAbacus** · 08-20-25 11:56

Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-76260bcda73a

She said she wants $1,000.00 for a date.

Why would a man pay that for a simple date? She's got a great body and pretty face, but $1,000?

If you're going to be anything in this world, be for fucking real!

You can find TWO OF HER for that same amount of money.

Its one thing to pay for quality, it's something totally different to just throw money away.

Yeah, she must be reading that Sugar Lifestyle forum on Reddit. Plenty of ladies saying 1 K is a minimum for PPM type arrangements. If you don't pay that your a Splenda Daddy. If your paying less than. 5 K your called a Salt Daddy. They applaud simps that stack money into a pile and burn it with 5 figure monthly allowances. Doesn't seem like that ask gets a lot of traction in ATL. I love to spend money. I hate to burn money for nothing.

**MadDog1746** · 08-20-25 11:55

About to see this one and wanted to know if anyone seen her before. Will update you all afterwards.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=71433443

**Muffin6655** · 08-20-25 11:28

She doesn't respond to me and when she does she wants $100 upfront to meetup. She does sell nudes for $40, I'm wondering if any of you guys have managed to see her in person and if the experience was good.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-c0c6e492b07c

**Verdit** · 08-19-25 23:02

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...f-76260bcda73a

She said she wants $1,000.00 for a date.

Why would a man pay that for a simple date? She's got a great body and pretty face, but $1,000?

If you're going to be anything in this world, be for fucking real!

You can find TWO OF HER for that same amount of money.

Its one thing to pay for quality, it's something totally different to just throw money away.