Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**SugarLifeNow** · 07-08-25 00:36

New SLN Girl Alessandra 24.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Alessandra/

**ScTraveler92** · 07-07-25 00:14

Originally Posted by NewToC [View Original Post]

I see the monthly cost for Seeking is like $109. Ouch. How does it work?

Do you just message the women, find out the price that suits them and then go on a date that typically ends with circling the bases? Or is it purely a dating site and it's really a competition for everyone and sex is the furthest thing from a given?

I just subscribed at a discounted rate of 85 bucks this month. Imo its worth it for the month if you want to communicate with as most chicks as possible and then subscribe again in a few months FWIW.

**Bachelor1234** · 07-05-25 12:24

Originally Posted by NewToC [View Original Post]

I see the monthly cost for Seeking is like $109. Ouch. How does it work?

Do you just message the women, find out the price that suits them and then go on a date that typically ends with circling the bases? Or is it purely a dating site and it's really a competition for everyone and sex is the furthest thing from a given?

People's thoughts about Seeking differs. Some hate it. Some think it used to be great but has gone downhill. Some swear by it. I've been on and off it for 6 years, so I feel more positively about it than most. It pretends to be a dating site, and some people use it that way, but most use it for other purposes.

You create a profile (new members now have to verify their face with a selfie) and have access to ladies who have created a profile. Some ladies will want to date you. Some ladies will invite you over for sex.

It works well for me for a couple of reasons: I like to get to know the ladies and go out to dinner. I don't want to be with someone who is watching the clock and getting ready for their next appointment with a guy. When it works well, I see them regularly and we sometimes travel together. On the site, I've found very hot college and grad students who are looking for a thrill on the side. There are also pros on the site too.

Never discuss $ on the site. Good luck finding a gem.

**NewToC** · 07-04-25 21:28

I see the monthly cost for Seeking is like $109. Ouch. How does it work?

Do you just message the women, find out the price that suits them and then go on a date that typically ends with circling the bases? Or is it purely a dating site and it's really a competition for everyone and sex is the furthest thing from a given?

**DriveHard** · 06-30-25 15:04

Originally Posted by DrSugarD [View Original Post]

I didn't exactly get my hand slapped but I got a notice when I sent a message that it may contain questionable terms and that I might want to rephrase. I used the term SB so not sure if that's what did it or not.

Yep, I tried a few keywords after reading your post. SugarDaddy, Sugarbaby, SD, and SB all set off the alarm. Guess they are really trying hard to be a mainstream dating site. It might end up easier to find dates without GPS, who knows.

**DriveHard** · 06-30-25 07:03

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-79cc155c70d1

https://escortalligator.com.listcraw...otte/189337161

Traveling visitor, have not met. I noticed the pic across sites. Contact info on 2nd link.

**Dr SugarD** · 06-29-25 20:08

Originally Posted by DriveHard [View Original Post]

Same. Arrangement and Allowance are new buzzwords for the seeking's big brother hall monitor.

I didn't exactly get my hand slapped but I got a notice when I sent a message that it may contain questionable terms and that I might want to rephrase. I used the term SB so not sure if that's what did it or not. I've also noticed a slight delay between when you send a message and when it's posted in the conversation. I assume it's to give their system time to analyze the message for undesirable wording. The women seem to have freedom to say or do what they want. SA continues its downhill spiral.

**DriveHard** · 06-29-25 09:10

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

I've been on Seeking for 9 years and this is the first time I've gotten warning about violation of their terms and policies. Had to watch a quick video and vouch that I understand their rules.

I am always very careful about what I say to the SBs.

And I don't think I was reported. Probably seeking scanned the messages looking for keywords. The only think I said that could cause this was mentioning about seeking a long-term arrangement. I suspect seeking doesn't like the word arrangement. So just be very very cautious.

Same. Arrangement and Allowance are new buzzwords for the seeking's big brother hall monitor.

**Grasshopping** · 06-27-25 15:41

I've been on Seeking for 9 years and this is the first time I've gotten warning about violation of their terms and policies. Had to watch a quick video and vouch that I understand their rules.

I am always very careful about what I say to the SBs.

And I don't think I was reported. Probably seeking scanned the messages looking for keywords. The only think I said that could cause this was mentioning about seeking a long-term arrangement. I suspect seeking doesn't like the word arrangement. So just be very very cautious.

**RichardonSon** · 06-24-25 22:05

Would appreciate any knowledge on this SA member. TIA.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-432dfdaf0a08

**SimonJonesUK** · 06-23-25 17:39

Originally Posted by LolBoat [View Original Post]

I was talking to an old friend and she was saying that doing this isn't really worth it anymore. It's a good profession to be when the economys good, not so much when things are bad.

I don't get that--you would think it would be the opposite, unless you mean when the economy's bad, there aren't enough guys out there waving around $ to make it sustainable.

**LoriTruck** · 06-23-25 17:34

So there's a little birdy on here that will take screenshots and share with the girls. Someone always finds a way to ruin it for the rest because they can't hold water. It of course does not come as a surprise so just be cautious on the details you share. Moving forward there will be minimal info shared.

**Grasshopping** · 06-21-25 23:14

Baby.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-3e3bbb151eb5

I actually interacted with her 2 or 3 years ago on SecretBenefits. She had no intention to meet and was just trying to get 20/30 bucks here and there from people. She was inactive for a while and now popped up in SA so I reached out to her to see if she's game now. Short answer is no. She has no intention to meet. She would only communicate on snap or telegram now because she claimed her phone service was cutoff. You're right. (I deleted her phone number from couple years ago or else i would have texted her to prove her lies). Never asked to see my pics. Striked up a friendly conversation but said she won't meet until she gets her phone service back for safety concern (she only needed another 25 to pay for phone bill). Obviously it was a lie. However, she'd be happy to sell some pics and vids for 25.

Don't waste your time on her. She's a real person and real profile pics as I got her social media pages before. But she just wants to make some small cash and and not meeting in person.

**Member #6975** · 06-12-25 16:19

Originally Posted by BerolLoz [View Original Post]

Thanks for the warning. Too bad she looks good. I wonder if the burner number was used by someone else before and she googled the number, got previous owner?

The body isn't great though. She lost a lot of weight.

**Member #6906** · 06-12-25 09:50

Originally Posted by BerolLoz [View Original Post]

Thanks for the warning. Too bad she looks good. I wonder if the burner number was used by someone else before and she googled the number, got previous owner?

No. I use an app called 'Burner' for texting and I can set up my own caller I'd. I used 'Maynard G Krebs' as my name. Hardly anyone under 40 gets the reference.