The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**ChrisDela381** · 05-07-25 17:38

Originally Posted by ChrisDela381 [View Original Post]

Anya Blonde from seeking:

I've been on here for a while and don't usually post, but felt like I should say something to give a heads-up. I'd post her link, but I've already blocked her at this point.

We met up once, I was in sort of a rush and she just wanted to meet and talk real quick to feel things out. It was her in the pics, but she looked about 30 lbs heavier. We were supposed to grab coffee but didn't even go inside. She started talking really explicit right away, and nothing had even been discussed, no terms, time, or anything. I wasn't really into it, to be honest I'm NOT attracted to overweight women, but she got super forward and things got physical briefly (a 2/10 BJ that lasted for about 45 seconds before I stopped her). It was honestly pretty awkward and not something I was expecting. I cut it short, said thanks for meeting, and me just being nice told her to send a way for me to help her out so I could send a little something over for her time and meeting.

The next morning, she sent her Cash App as I was arriving at the airport, by the time I landed, I had 20+ messages: long paragraphs threatening to find my wife (I'm not married), contact my boss (I own my own business), and a bunch of stuff that didn't even make sense. I told her to stop messaging me, sent her $2, and blocked her..

Sorry about the typo's but I fixed them here LOL.

**South215** · 05-07-25 17:30

Originally Posted by ChrisDela381 [View Original Post]

Anya Blonde from seeking:

I've been on here for a while and don't usually post, but felt like I should say something to give a heads-up. I'd post her link, but I've already blocked her at this point.

We met up onceI was in sort of a rush and she just wanted to meet and talk real quick to feel things out. It was her in the pics, but she looked about 30 lbs heavier. We were supposed to grab coffee but didn't even go inside. She started talking really explicit right away, and nothing had even been discussedno terms, time, or anything. I wasn't really into it, to be honest I'm attracted to overweight women, but she got super forward and things got physical briefly (a 2/10 BJ that lasted for about 45 seconds before I stopped her). It was honestly pretty awkward and not something I was expecting. I cut it short, said thanks for meeting, and me just being nice told her to send a way for me to help her out so I could send a little something over for her time and meeting.

The next morning, she sent her Cash App as I was arriving at the airport, by the time I landed, I had 20+ messagesparagraphs threatening to find my wife (I'm not married), contact my boss (I own my own business), and a bunch of stuff that didn't even make sense. I told her to stop messaging me, sent her $2, and blocked her.

She kept reaching out from random numbers and apps saying we had sex (not even close), that she needed a Plan B, and if she's pregnant, she's keeping it, and it got wilder than that. In my almost 40 years on the earth I've never experienced someone that acted this way. I told her if it didn't stop, I'd be filing a no contact order for harassment, and would contact the police if she violated it.

I've had several great experiences on seeking with real, respectful girlsbut this was next-level crazy. Just wanted to share in case it helps someone else avoid the headache.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-cf379a28bbb7

**ChrisDela381** · 05-07-25 16:13

Anya Blonde from seeking:

I've been on here for a while and don't usually post, but felt like I should say something to give a heads-up. I'd post her link, but I've already blocked her at this point.

We met up once—I was in sort of a rush and she just wanted to meet and talk real quick to feel things out. It was her in the pics, but she looked about 30 lbs heavier. We were supposed to grab coffee but didn't even go inside. She started talking really explicit right away, and nothing had even been discussed—no terms, time, or anything. I wasn't really into it, to be honest I'm attracted to overweight women, but she got super forward and things got physical briefly (a 2/10 BJ that lasted for about 45 seconds before I stopped her). It was honestly pretty awkward and not something I was expecting. I cut it short, said thanks for meeting, and me just being nice told her to send a way for me to help her out so I could send a little something over for her time and meeting.

The next morning, she sent her Cash App as I was arriving at the airport, by the time I landed, I had 20+ messages—paragraphs threatening to find my wife (I'm not married), contact my boss (I own my own business), and a bunch of stuff that didn't even make sense. I told her to stop messaging me, sent her $2, and blocked her.

She kept reaching out from random numbers and apps saying we had sex (not even close), that she needed a Plan B, and if she's pregnant, she's keeping it, and it got wilder than that. In my almost 40 years on the earth I've never experienced someone that acted this way. I told her if it didn't stop, I'd be filing a no contact order for harassment, and would contact the police if she violated it.

I've had several great experiences on seeking with real, respectful girls—but this was next-level crazy. Just wanted to share in case it helps someone else avoid the headache.

**YourCCPimp** · 05-06-25 08:03

Originally Posted by GentleGiant78 [View Original Post]

I saw her about 7 or 8 years ago and I doubt she's gotten any better. She's still one of the worst experiences I've had on seeking. She's mostly nice, that's the only good thing I can say about her. Her attitude / enthusiasm is lacking, she doesn't really care about you or your happiness. She looks much worse with her clothes off, puts in no effort, rushes and still charges more than many others are asking for. Go with someone else and give your money to someone who at least potentially deserves it.

Yeah, same here. I saw her a year ago. Very flattering pics for sure. The real body is quite saggy and she is far too businesslike for my tastes. Overall nice but disappointing.

**GentleGiant78** · 05-05-25 23:03

Originally Posted by Bh400 [View Original Post]

She was under Southern Belle on seeking but I'm not sure if she is still active there. See post #4128.

Total waste of time and money in my opinion. Pics are very flattering and she has terrible skills.

I saw her about 7 or 8 years ago and I doubt she's gotten any better. She's still one of the worst experiences I've had on seeking. She's mostly nice, that's the only good thing I can say about her. Her attitude / enthusiasm is lacking, she doesn't really care about you or your happiness. She looks much worse with her clothes off, puts in no effort, rushes and still charges more than many others are asking for. Go with someone else and give your money to someone who at least potentially deserves it.

**Raider887** · 05-05-25 13:58

Which sb forums do they use where they get peer advice. They do discuss mongers from what I heard there and other things. Anyone heard anything from your regulars. If so please share any intel.

**Bh400** · 05-05-25 12:06

Originally Posted by Bachelor1234 [View Original Post]

Hey, does anyone have any intel on Happygolucky111?

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...a76a8c79e782b1

She was under Southern Belle on seeking but I'm not sure if she is still active there. See post #4128.

Total waste of time and money in my opinion. Pics are very flattering and she has terrible skills.

**Jm1312** · 05-05-25 10:05

Originally Posted by Bachelor1234 [View Original Post]

Hey, does anyone have any intel on Happygolucky111?

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...a76a8c79e782b1

I have chatted with her and she was ready to go but schedules didn't work. If I remember correctly she couldn't host but occasionally.

**Raider887** · 05-05-25 08:17

Originally Posted by Bachelor1234 [View Original Post]

Hey, does anyone have any intel on Happygolucky111?

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...a76a8c79e782b1

Have seen on other place but just can't recall. Looks quite senior though. A whole new wave of sb's are coming through. Probably its the season.

**Bachelor1234** · 05-04-25 21:18

Hey, does anyone have any intel on Happygolucky111?

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...a76a8c79e782b1

**SavageThing** · 05-04-25 02:41

"9. London.

She has been on seeking for years. Things always fell apart when it came to setting up dates or meet ups. Vets here will definetly have seen her profile before.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-592fd96a84dd "

Definitely right about meetups. Very spotty. She wants you to pay her mortgage. She lives with her ex. She's flaky. Everything is covered. Her vagina is flappy and looks like a roast beef sandwich. Nice man mades though. She's not worth seeing. She has a bad attitude. Like most of these women. Not remotely sweet. A c word.

**CuriousVaMan** · 05-04-25 01:07

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

10. Sloan (2).

Looks cute. Seems athletic. "Naughty in your dms" "digital first" "make your phone light up in the best way". Hmmmm. Hopefully someone has seen her for a meet up?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...1-b3b5f969e0ee

Her message to me in Northern Virginia: Hey youu!! I'm all about skipping the small talk and getting to the good stuff. If you're into real, fun vibes with a little spice, add me on Snap: SloanMartin25 Let's see if you can keep up. 😉128293;.

Not interested.

**SaintMan3500** · 05-03-25 13:50

Has anyone talked to, seen, had a convo or arrangement with any of these women? Website, Text and/or IRL? If so, any positive or negative experiences? Looks like a decent set of women in terms of looks+profiles.

1. Sloan.

She's very. Very attractive. Good profile. More pics are privated. Also seems forward with what she wants (not here to play games, no penpals, etc).

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-8db111c22cfd

2. Rachel.

Decent amount of pics. Decent sized bio. Joined in late April.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...e-4326d99dff2c

3. Eva.

40 years old. But not bad. Bio is very basic, but says she's looking for something casual.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-42852892b62a

4. Nataly.

She's been on the site since December of 2024 and she has a few pics. Bad bio, though.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-a2a659c17baa

5. Arianna.

Looks cute. Basic bio, but I currently don't have "scammer" vibes.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-f12e40583a12

6. Reese.

In her 50's. Says she's looking only for one person.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-86e8a76937b8

7. Sunny.

Early 30's. TALL! Her profile says she's looking for men over 45, but that may not be a hard limit? Profile itself seems pretty down to earth.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-6c23ea7cb369

8. Emma.

Pretty indepth Bio. Looks cute. Also says to please have photos and complete background check.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-ae8033802e24

9. London.

She has been on seeking for years. Things always fell apart when it came to setting up dates or meet ups. Vets here will definetly have seen her profile before.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-592fd96a84dd

10. Sloan (2).

Looks cute. Seems athletic. "Naughty in your dms" "digital first" "make your phone light up in the best way". Hmmmm. Hopefully someone has seen her for a meet up?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...1-b3b5f969e0ee

**ForceOfNature** · 05-02-25 01:34

I've posted about her in another forum but wanted to mention Summer Bae here since she could use a good regular friend or two. You'll find lots of reviews--all good--on the Escorts forum, but I think she's deserving of someone who's looking for an attractive spinner-type to see on a regular basis for extended periods of time. I just don't have the resources personally else I'd claim her for myself. She's a sweet girl with a good heart who's overcome a lot lately and needs a break. She currently has a single room and bath in a shared Air BNB in a safe low-key location out in Morrisville. She has no current ads (long story there) and is very much UTR, so she gave me some pics to share here. If you're a senior member you can dm me for her number. Her requested donation for an hour is 300, and she is looking for regulars. I think she'd be in the market for a special arrangement with benefits. Please treat her nice, guys.

**Swimback** · 04-28-25 17:41

Promote me to senior already, been dropping knowledge since my first message. She has a red flag I warned about a while back. We were going to text and she simply said " it's not iMessage".

When a girl says this she's aware you are using an app and doesn't like that because she wants to be able to dox you. She wanted me to text pics, over iMessage. Meaning my personal number. Pics with personal number can I'd a person. Do not ever use your personal number unless you have serious trust and history with an SB. Reasonable ones understand and don't have a problem with it.