"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**CrazyRocket** · 02-19-25 16:54

As a long time SDM free lurker, past SA subscriber, I have come to seek opinions of experienced members.

How much do you trust that selfie verification mark?

I usually search around 20-25 range but the devil nudged me and I looked around 30-40 last night. Found an old college friend to my surprise because she is married happily, at least seemingly.

I also used to want to bend her over and make her say ah back in the day. Seeing that profile rekindled some, let's say, desires.

This chick is super introverted, coming from a conservative family so I'm thinking there is no way that would be actually her but to entertain my curiosity, I will attempt to get a prepaid visa to start an SDM subscription in the coming days to discover the truth. Her SDM profile is green every time I check it.

The problem is. I tied the knot as well and my wife knows her. The college friend could reach out to my wife easily if things go bad. Not sure if it is worth the risk. My only leverage would be that she is also married and she knows I know. That's about it.

**Peter Pan** · 02-17-25 20:47

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

Oh, I agree, that could also explain it. I am certainly not niave enough to believe it outright. However, to me, there were a couple of red flags with the profile. First, it was a few months old and was logged into about the same amount of time from when it was created. So basically, it was created and then not logged into. Mostly inactive.

The next were the pictures, which included a lot of her friends. I know a lot of girls have pics with friends, but this seemed over-the-top to me. Also, none of the friends' faces were blurred. Again, not a guarantee.

Finally, when I said I contacted her I didn't tell her I knew of her. I just contacted her outside of SA. I didn't want her to know my profile there.

There are girls who post with their friends pics in there. Especially 18-24 range, some are not as discreet when posting pics. But now we are curious.

Do you have any of those pics? Because sometimes her friends are on seeking too.

**Peter Johnson** · 02-17-25 14:59

Originally Posted by RunTheRabbit [View Original Post]

Thought I would refresh a thread on prepaid visas or other ways to pay for subscriptions. Seems pathward doesn't work now that giftcardmall is a part of giftcarddotcom? Anyone successfully signing up recently with prepaid cards?

There is prepaid VISA card you can buy at Kroger that works. I think you load it with $20 to $500, and then you register name and address.

If you have crypto, you can also buy a VISA digital prepaid card on Bitrefill.com and then you just have to register a name. But it worked on Seeking recently and can just make up the address.

So both of those have worked in the last few days.

**Modukolo123** · 02-17-25 08:05

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

I guess I'll have to toftt on this one and report back.

What was the experience. I am talking to her and everything seems ok for now.

**Modukolo123** · 02-17-25 08:03

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...isExtendUser=0

Chatting with this one as well. She has a female friend that can tag along. Any info would be greatly appreciated.

So did you get to meet this one and what was your experience?

**AdmirerSecret** · 02-16-25 22:11

It sounds like you had a bad experience. Here's a clearer and more neutral way to express your concerns:

"I met a girl who goes by the name Prettynpinkk (Hailee) at her place. She appeared slim and attractive but turned out to be a scammer. She invited me to her house at 185 Bivins Road, Villa Rica, took my money, and went out to get some water and then suddenly, a man claiming to be her boyfriend showed up. He started yelling, saying it was his house, and demanded that I leave.

It seems like they are running a scam together in Villa Rica. I got caught up in it today—has anyone else experienced something similar?

+14044225XXX.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72873632

**FreudFro** · 02-15-25 12:07

Originally Posted by BunnerySgt [View Original Post]

It was her and you caught her period. I've seen chicks using their real names and pictures with their friends on there plenty of times and usually they were just green because they truly are not pros at selling it.

Only she will ever know the truth.

**Bunnery Sgt** · 02-15-25 10:21

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

It's what she thought it could be, nothing more. I am not saying she was lying or honest.

Personally I think it was more likely a jealous woman / girl friend. Women are far more likely to pull something of this magnitude.

If you think it's too much work, I will beg to differ. I have seen this done many times on platforms like Facebook and Instagram. Digital age kids are a different kind of ruthless.

Anyway, not going to argue the truth as we will never really know. Unless she posts a new account. .

It was her and you caught her period. I've seen chicks using their real names and pictures with their friends on there plenty of times and usually they were just green because they truly are not pros at selling it.

**FreudFro** · 02-15-25 08:14

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

Too much work for a "vengeful boyfriend". She got busted and used a stupid excuse is where my money is.

It's what she thought it could be, nothing more. I am not saying she was lying or honest.

Personally I think it was more likely a jealous woman / girl friend. Women are far more likely to pull something of this magnitude.

If you think it's too much work, I will beg to differ. I have seen this done many times on platforms like Facebook and Instagram. Digital age kids are a different kind of ruthless.

Anyway, not going to argue the truth as we will never really know. Unless she posts a new account. .

**FreudFro** · 02-15-25 08:10

Originally Posted by TooHotForYou [View Original Post]

So what did you do when you contacted her? To me this sounds like stalking. Tell us the whole situation if it is something helpful for us.

I also considered that. But reaching out once is no way stalking. I knew her name, so tracking her down was simple. I contacted her out of curiosity as it didn't seem right. By ultimate result, whether she was truthful or not, I was right.

Was I honest in who I was? Hell no, LOL. That's part of this whole game.

**LouisHernandez** · 02-14-25 15:23

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Or...she didn't want to admit to someone she knows that she fucks strangers for $ LOL. I find that more likely than a vengeful ex bf going through all the trouble to setup an account on the site, especially since she pulled it right after someone she knows asked about it (whereas a vengeful ex likely wouldn't, but instead deny knowing about it while leaving it up). Not saying vengeful ex boyfriends won't do shit, but there's a lot other options that are less effort and / or higher impact than "make a fake dating profile on a p2 p site".

Too much work for a "vengeful boyfriend". She got busted and used a stupid excuse is where my money is.

**TooHotForYou** · 02-14-25 14:27

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

Oh, I agree, that could also explain it. I am certainly not niave enough to believe it outright. However, to me, there were a couple of red flags with the profile. First, it was a few months old and was logged into about the same amount of time from when it was created. So basically, it was created and then not logged into. Mostly inactive.

The next were the pictures, which included a lot of her friends. I know a lot of girls have pics with friends, but this seemed over-the-top to me. Also, none of the friends' faces were blurred. Again, not a guarantee.

Finally, when I said I contacted her I didn't tell her I knew of her. I just contacted her outside of SA. I didn't want her to know my profile there.

So what did you do when you contacted her? To me this sounds like stalking. Tell us the whole situation if it is something helpful for us.

**FreudFro** · 02-14-25 08:41

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Or...she didn't want to admit to someone she knows that she fucks strangers for $ LOL. I find that more likely than a vengeful ex bf going through all the trouble to setup an account on the site, especially since she pulled it right after someone she knows asked about it (whereas a vengeful ex likely wouldn't, but instead deny knowing about it while leaving it up). Not saying vengeful ex boyfriends won't do shit, but there's a lot other options that are less effort and / or higher impact than "make a fake dating profile on a p2 p site".

Oh, I agree, that could also explain it. I am certainly not niave enough to believe it outright. However, to me, there were a couple of red flags with the profile. First, it was a few months old and was logged into about the same amount of time from when it was created. So basically, it was created and then not logged into. Mostly inactive.

The next were the pictures, which included a lot of her friends. I know a lot of girls have pics with friends, but this seemed over-the-top to me. Also, none of the friends' faces were blurred. Again, not a guarantee.

Finally, when I said I contacted her I didn't tell her I knew of her. I just contacted her outside of SA. I didn't want her to know my profile there.

**GoneForGood97** · 02-13-25 22:23

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

I recently saw a profile for a girl that went to High School with my kids on SA. Through a round-about way I contacted her because it didn't seem right. It wasn't. She thinks a jilted ex-boyfriend created the profile. It's not longer on SA.

Or...she didn't want to admit to someone she knows that she fucks strangers for $ LOL. I find that more likely than a vengeful ex bf going through all the trouble to setup an account on the site, especially since she pulled it right after someone she knows asked about it (whereas a vengeful ex likely wouldn't, but instead deny knowing about it while leaving it up). Not saying vengeful ex boyfriends won't do shit, but there's a lot other options that are less effort and / or higher impact than "make a fake dating profile on a p2 p site".

**LDSlanger** · 02-13-25 13:32

Originally Posted by JohnnyMapalo [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...c-a82f690dbb2d

Anybody seen this disgusting hood rat. She text me out of the blue on seeking asking me if I want to get sucked up. LOL. She's in Kennesaw, per her ads location. Anyone seen this girl? Looks like a Listcrawler chic.

I love trashy sluts send her my way I'm banned on seeking LOL.