"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[FreudFro]

And if they removed all those fake profiles of hot girls, then there wouldn't be that many left and then the site then seems less worthwhile to men who haven't subscribed yet (and talked to the fakes/scammers). It's better for Seeking to have fake profiles than no profiles, for a certain town or city or region.

And no I seriously doubt the girls will have to do selfie verification.

I don't know how to fool it with the selfie step. Maybe have to go downtown and pay some random homeless dude to let you "take his photo". Or I wonder if this could be done online at one of those "fiverr" type sites.

There are fake accounts everywhere. Either from the site owners or others. Ashley Madison was full of fake accounts.

I recently saw a profile for a girl that went to High School with my kids on SA. Through a round-about way I contacted her because it didn't seem right. It wasn't. She thinks a jilted ex-boyfriend created the profile. It's not longer on SA.

Another great way to weed out possible fakes is check to see how long it's been since they have logged in. If they haven't logged in since they created the account, they are most likely fake.

[Peter Johnson]

I have to sort through 100's of profiles to find a few real girls.

And if they removed all those fake profiles of hot girls, then there wouldn't be that many left and then the site then seems less worthwhile to men who haven't subscribed yet (and talked to the fakes/scammers). It's better for Seeking to have fake profiles than no profiles, for a certain town or city or region.

And no I seriously doubt the girls will have to do selfie verification.

I don't know how to fool it with the selfie step. Maybe have to go downtown and pay some random homeless dude to let you "take his photo". Or I wonder if this could be done online at one of those "fiverr" type sites.

[Johnny Mapalo]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...c-a82f690dbb2d

Anybody seen this disgusting hood rat. She text me out of the blue on seeking asking me if I want to get sucked up. LOL. She's in Kennesaw, per her ads location. Anyone seen this girl? Looks like a Listcrawler chic.

[MacLuvin]

The one good thing about this, it ought to mean that any new profiles of girls that show up have been verified in the same way, meaning they will be real people too.

It also motivates guys to keep their behavior in check, since old, grandfathered (no pun intended) profiles that didn't require this verification take on added value.

I have posted recently about old profiles that are clearly fake but have been resurrected, I am sure that is a scammer play.

But seeing as SA makes money off us mongers and not the girls, I bet they don't have to play by the same rules. But I really would like them to clean up the site with all those fake women / profiles. Luckily you can sense a bot / scammer profile form a mile a way, but it makes the search that much harder when I have to sort through 100's of profiles to find a few real girls.

[LouisHernandez]

Yeah this is new as of fall this year, had you renewed in summer would have been able to do it the old way. It's not just Seeking, SDM is doing the same thing, but I think it's still optional there.

Here's the announcement: https://blog.seeking.com/seekings-co...-online-dating.

I figured seeking would finally change policy since the site has been completely overrun with fake accounts and scammers.

[Airmantroy]

The one good thing about this, it ought to mean that any new profiles of girls that show up have been verified in the same way, meaning they will be real people too.

It also motivates guys to keep their behavior in check, since old, grandfathered (no pun intended) profiles that didn't require this verification take on added value.

I have posted recently about old profiles that are clearly fake but have been resurrected, I am sure that is a scammer play.

I have my doubts about the girls having to pass this, I've already blocked several obvious scammers, all with recent profiles. But we can hope.

[FarFarAway]

The one good thing about this, it ought to mean that any new profiles of girls that show up have been verified in the same way, meaning they will be real people too.

It also motivates guys to keep their behavior in check, since old, grandfathered (no pun intended) profiles that didn't require this verification take on added value.

I have posted recently about old profiles that are clearly fake but have been resurrected, I am sure that is a scammer play.

[MacLuvin]

That seems to be the case. Optional with old acct, but mandatory when creating new account.

I tried to see if I could just use some photos online to pass the selfie verification but after a few attempts, it failed and locked the account.

Here's where face rec comes in handy. Use your real photo to find pix online that look a lot like you, but aren't. Search for them w / tineye and the face rec software to be certain they don't show you as someone pulling pics off the web for this purpose.

Problem is like Peter Johnson said, it can detect that it's not a real selfie. Basically if you try it on the computer it makes you scan a QR code to open the app in your phone to allow camera access for a selfie. So you can't get around it having to be a selfie. Tried using a filtered pic that looks similar to me and it failed too, and it's a pic that previously had passed on my old SA account that I'd used as a profile pic. It was basically as you said, found a pic that looks like me using a real pic and it's some random guy but the AI can tell it's not an actual selfie. This is unfortunate.

Edit to add - if you try to open new account on your mobile device it automatically opens your camera, you can't upload the selfie. If you do it on a computer it requires a mobile device to scan a QR code that also opens your camera. So you'd have to snap the pic on your phone and hope it thinks it's a selfie, which it seems smart enough to tell you're taking a pic of a pic

[FarFarAway]

That seems to be the case. Optional with old acct, but mandatory when creating new account.

I tried to see if I could just use some photos online to pass the selfie verification but after a few attempts, it failed and locked the account.

Here's where face rec comes in handy. Use your real photo to find pix online that look a lot like you, but aren't. Search for them w / tineye and the face rec software to be certain they don't show you as someone pulling pics off the web for this purpose.

[Peter Johnson]

They just added that verification picture thing it keeps asking me if I would like to I just X out of it. So I'm thinking if you are just opening a account its a must if you have a old account its optional.

That seems to be the case. Optional with old acct, but mandatory when creating new account.

I tried to see if I could just use some photos online to pass the selfie verification but after a few attempts, it failed and locked the account.

[JohnnyKash]

I tend to not completely delete thankfully, I usually just cancel for a while and renew when I get the urge. If my account is ever deleted though I won't be joining again if I have to take a selfie. The less identifying info the better because it's only a matter of time one of these sites has another data breach like AM did. I don't use real photos ever, no real CC info, and only hand out fake text app numbers when I talk to girls there.

They just added that verification picture thing it keeps asking me if I would like to I just X out of it. So I'm thinking if you are just opening a account its a must if you have a old account its optional.

[Peter Johnson]

If that girl is truly pregnant from your buddy! And she keeps the baby, hypothetically, there are ways to trace back. Especially if she enlists someone to help.

Why not talk to her? And pay for abortion? But say you need to be with her?

Yeah if any girl says I knocked her up, I'm going to just offer to drive her to another state if necessary, and pay for the abortion, in person, with cash. It's just not worth the risk of 18 years of child support, even if she is trying to scam you.

And if she gets an actual abortion, then the scam could only go so far, because she really pregnant (by someone). And if you banged her and she is pregnant, then certainly could be yours. So yeah, I would not run and hide from that and would just try to get it taken care of, asap.

[Peter Johnson]

I tend to not completely delete thankfully, I usually just cancel for a while and renew when I get the urge. If my account is ever deleted though I won't be joining again if I have to take a selfie. The less identifying info the better because it's only a matter of time one of these sites has another data breach like AM did. I don't use real photos ever, no real CC info, and only hand out fake text app numbers when I talk to girls there.

I just like to periodically make a new account, especially if my current one has a "strike" on it (from a girl reporting me for nonsense) and if it gets another one, could be shut down at any time.

Well I'm going to do some tests and figure out how difficult it is to pass this selfie test. You don't even need to have a profile pic uploaded, if you subscribe, so it's not like the selfie is even going to be checked against that. Maybe can just show it a picture of anyone and would pass.

I doubt it is that easy, but I will play around with it and report back.

[MacLuvin]

I am trying to make a new account and won't let me even create a password to login, or even subscribe, without going through a final step in the profile, to take a selfie. I am not going to do this and wonder if it's something they added recently, or maybe it was triggered by the way I created my account, or who knows. I didn't use a VPN, just public wifi.

Anyway, maybe a way to just pull up some video on my phone or laptop and fake it that way. I don't know how rigid they are, with approving it. I doubt it would work, but may have to try.

And I know many of you have no problems giving your credit card, full legal name, SS#, and DNA sample to Seeking. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that, but personally, just prefer a bit more privacy, if possible.

I just wanted to start over with a new account, but of course everything has to be difficult. I do have a backup acct that I never really used. It's just for checking profiles that my main acct is showing as blocked. It looks like it isn't forcing me to make a selfie with that one, perhaps because the account has existed since 2019.

Anyway this is frustrating and I truly hate the people who run Seeking. They are such f**king a$$holes, as we all know. I really need to try some of their competition and this could prompt me to do so. I still have my old acct and hopefully I can renew it, if I have to, but more difficult to find a prepaid credit card that works too, so who know.

I tend to not completely delete thankfully, I usually just cancel for a while and renew when I get the urge. If my account is ever deleted though I won't be joining again if I have to take a selfie. The less identifying info the better because it's only a matter of time one of these sites has another data breach like AM did. I don't use real photos ever, no real CC info, and only hand out fake text app numbers when I talk to girls there.

[Peter Pan]

One of my buddy mongers who is not on this site is a little worried about his SB who vanished for couple of months and all of a sudden started blowing up his phone with texts and phone calls saying she is pregnant because of him. Out of panic all he did is blocked her number changed his google voice number. She doesn't have any personal details of him other than just an alias name and google voice number. She used to drive from somewhere in NC which is around 90 miles and 1. 5 hours drive. He used to get room and she used to meet him directly inside the room. She sees other daddies as per him, not sure she is sending similar messages to other daddies or just him. After changing his number obviously she has no more contact with him and he believes she can't trace him. She is also a small town girl who is not that smart. If she is really pregnant because of him, what should he do.

I believe there is a discussion before related to this kind (sugar baby threatening a daddy about pregnancy).

Daddies from this groups insights will be helpful.

If that girl is truly pregnant from your buddy! And she keeps the baby, hypothetically, there are ways to trace back. Especially if she enlists someone to help.

Why not talk to her? And pay for abortion? But say you need to be with her?