The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**SaintMan3500** · 02-18-25 23:11

Originally Posted by South215 [View Original Post]

I could have sworn I saw something about this one recently. Any info out there?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-049544924884

The only thing I know is that she's been on seeking for several years, and was one of the worst communicators. Very dry, boring, vague. No matter what happened or what the convo was about. Even when it got to a point where we messaged via text, her responses usually happened 2-3 days after. Waste of time.

The fact that she, at 30, in 2025 still has "I have absolutely no idea what it is I'm seeking here" tells me all about her. If this is a YMMV situation, then she's looking for a unicorn.

**South215** · 02-18-25 22:04

I could have sworn I saw something about this one recently. Any info out there?

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-049544924884

**YourCCPimp** · 02-18-25 07:55

Originally Posted by RayWashington [View Original Post]

Never played this game before, where can I go to read about and learn the ropes and what to expect?

How does quality and return on investment align with other options.

I'm getting tired of all the low quality providers and "catfishing" that we get elsewhere.

Any advice is appreciated, just trying to see if this is a viable option for me.

Personally, this is the only game I play. There is still a huge problem with scammers and fakes so you always have to watch out (don't send money until you see someone face to face). I like the quality of girls better though. You get fewer meth heads and lot more college girls trying to pay tuition. The cost is generally higher and girls are often pickier but you can actually have a conversation and go on real dates. There is less law enforcement risk.

Sugardaddymeet and Seeking to me are the only worthwhile sites. Find girls that are verified and don't have glossy photos that look like supermodels.

In terms of investment, I consider everything here to be a poor "investment" but a guy has needs LOL.

**Ray Washington** · 02-17-25 15:18

Never played this game before, where can I go to read about and learn the ropes and what to expect?

How does quality and return on investment align with other options.

I'm getting tired of all the low quality providers and "catfishing" that we get elsewhere.

Any advice is appreciated, just trying to see if this is a viable option for me.

**YourCCPimp** · 02-17-25 12:58

Originally Posted by Gatttaca [View Original Post]

Mostly agree. Always one or the other hassle with Seeking.

I have had most luck with WYP.

I have had couple of nice short arrangements with SB and SDM.

Just wondering what can and cannot be discussed on SB without getting banned or reported. Can we talk numbers or is it better to take that offline. There is one I am in touch with but she won't give her number and wants 350 for a lunch / dinner date..

I signed up for WYP but it looks like scam central to me. It seems like every profile is the typical Asian looking model or the city they are from is Kentucky, Georgia or something. Plus, it seems they can send offers over and over and over even after you decline. It's too much to sift through for me. Plus, I just avoid the sites using credits altogether.

**SaintMan3500** · 02-17-25 11:18

Has anyone here talked to, met and / or been in an arrangement with any of these women from Seeking or any other website? If so, any positive or negative experiences?

1. desseybaby.

Bio aside, looks very attractive.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-0bb41e341395

2. Savannah.

Short & Positive Bio. Very cute.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-4812dafa3157

3. Victoria.

Early 20's, attractive. Decent sized bio. Decent pics. Says she's never been in an arrangement (join in early Feb.), but has also dated wealthier men.

One of those "I prefer to build an online arrangement and then meet in person". Oh lawd. The red flags are there, but has anyone here entertained her, regardless?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-4fb118270f37

4. Sunny.

Early 30's. Decent bio. Verified. Pics seem interesting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-6c23ea7cb369

5. Rene.

Late 20's. Cute, decent body. Small bio, but says she's open minded.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-cc8bd078582c

6. Nicole.

20 years old, cute and has the exact profile you'd expect from someone in their early 20's. I messaged her around a few months ago, but no response.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-493ec8f8dae8

7. Bella.

Early 20's. Attracted, says she's a free spirt and wants something mutually beneficial with NSA.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-638e1c52a04e

8. Pepper.

Late 20's. Mentions that she has a husband who is completely fine with this. Has been on SA for years and looking for NSA.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...7-9da458cacda8

9. Sara.

Decent looking, Tatoo enthusiast. Joined a few days ago. Says her time is precious and she's looking for a long term arrangement. Bio definitely has more put into it more than most other women.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-03092d876dc1

10. Evelyn.

Tall! Early 20's and has a cute look about her. No negativity, etc.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...c-2a548c4f0947

**Coast To Peaks** · 02-17-25 10:58

Originally Posted by Gatttaca [View Original Post]

Mostly agree. Always one or the other hassle with Seeking.

I have had most luck with WYP.

I have had couple of nice short arrangements with SB and SDM.

Just wondering what can and cannot be discussed on SB without getting banned or reported. Can we talk numbers or is it better to take that offline. There is one I am in touch with but she won't give her number and wants 350 for a lunch / dinner date.

Sri Liv.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...96304d0c35e51b

Tia.

I have never been warned by SB or SDM but I avoid discussing gift $ on the sites.

Sri Liv wants to have lunch wih me on Thursday but I will pass.

WYP is part of seeking so I never rejoined it.

**Berol Loz** · 02-16-25 17:39

Originally Posted by Rgfct4 [View Original Post]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/

I agree with you there. It's like a lower-cost Seeking without all the "Banned for saying money on a freeking sugar dating site!".

**Gatttaca** · 02-16-25 12:41

Originally Posted by CoastToPeaks [View Original Post]

I stopped using Seeking for the same reasons. I have found SDM to be good (improved over the last 2 yrs), The newest female members often work out.

Secret Benefits is ok- the newer members often respond. The most recent members are not for real or seldom respond.

Ashley Madison is a waste.

I truly do not miss Seeking and all their rules for men.

Mostly agree. Always one or the other hassle with Seeking.

I have had most luck with WYP.

I have had couple of nice short arrangements with SB and SDM.

Just wondering what can and cannot be discussed on SB without getting banned or reported. Can we talk numbers or is it better to take that offline. There is one I am in touch with but she won't give her number and wants 350 for a lunch / dinner date.

Sri Liv.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...96304d0c35e51b

Tia.

**Coast To Peaks** · 02-16-25 08:00

I stopped using Seeking for the same reasons. I have found SDM to be good (improved over the last 2 yrs), The newest female members often work out.

Secret Benefits is ok- the newer members often respond. The most recent members are not for real or seldom respond.

Ashley Madison is a waste.

I truly do not miss Seeking and all their rules for men.

**GentleGiant78** · 02-15-25 12:30

Originally Posted by Rgfct4 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...2-2dfc619e4cc6

She's been around off and on since the craigslist / BP days. I haven't seen her in years but my recollection is that scheduling was difficult and the experience was meh, but she's real and a nice person and probably a YMMV kind of thing. I remember her having good stories about her wild youth LOL. I see her sometimes at the bar where she bartends and I can never tell if she recognizes me or not, but she never says anything so I'd bet on her being able to maintain discretion for those who need it.

**Rgfct4** · 02-14-25 21:17

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...2-2dfc619e4cc6

**Rgfct4** · 02-12-25 18:33

Originally Posted by Smokey1986 [View Original Post]

I got suspended on seeking while trying to renew my membership and I don't know why.

Would like to know if there's any other options beside seeking.

Thanks and stay safe.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/

**Smokey1986** · 02-12-25 15:11

I got suspended on seeking while trying to renew my membership and I don't know why.

Would like to know if there's any other options beside seeking.

Thanks and stay safe.