"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Atlvoy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-e88a9876f499

Has anyone seen Stacy? If so, shoot me a dm. About to meet her this week.

[CrimpShrine]

She claims to be married and cool with married men.

Some dude shows up at your door with a bat, think fast.

[Member #6718]

I found out the other day some fake chick account from another African country has also followed a pretty defunct account of mine. There is no possibility that I could get a natural follower from that country on that platform out of blue so it must be 100% related to the scammer. I don't have many followers / following there so they couldn't have gotten an easy list of contacts. Same goes for Linkedin. Those bast*rds are going after all of the social profiles that they can find. It's been a good exercise of privacy and information security on social media / internet. Bad actors have a lot of opportunities to create a profile of someone in order to approach via social engineering / smishing techniques.

Meanwhile, I returned to SA because some other gent here posted about a MILF (ClassyFun) I had my eyes on being legit. I contacted her and she gave me some BS about me being single (I don't disclose it on my profile anymore) not working for her. I figured she was not interested but pushed my luck to no avail. I have a weakness against blonde women. It's difficult to find a sane SB these days.

I am much more secretive due to my previous experience and it doesn't work well with most of those girls. My only success from SA so far from a few months ago:

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-e4267496ed5e

She was in her period and I was looking for BBBJCIM w / swallow around that time. We made it happen. She looked better in person. She put on the lipstick and the necklace I liked, bonus points. She claims to be married and cool with married men. I've been trying to meet her again but she keeps evading. Either she found a better paying SB, or I was too rough on her. (CIM and swallow after 1. 5 hrs of BBBJ. She took it like champ, though).

1. 5 hrs?

Dude I would get bored as the reciever, never mind the lock jaw she would get as the donor.

[CrazyRocket]

Thanks for sharing. It's just a reminder for all of us. I had a crazy SB that demanded money after getting into my hotel room and was going to make a nuisance and I ended up paying her to leave essentially. So not only be safe with pics and phone info! But vet them before directly seeing them at the hotel.

I found out the other day some fake chick account from another African country has also followed a pretty defunct account of mine. There is no possibility that I could get a natural follower from that country on that platform out of blue so it must be 100% related to the scammer. I don't have many followers / following there so they couldn't have gotten an easy list of contacts. Same goes for Linkedin. Those bast*rds are going after all of the social profiles that they can find. It's been a good exercise of privacy and information security on social media / internet. Bad actors have a lot of opportunities to create a profile of someone in order to approach via social engineering / smishing techniques.

Meanwhile, I returned to SA because some other gent here posted about a MILF (ClassyFun) I had my eyes on being legit. I contacted her and she gave me some BS about me being single (I don't disclose it on my profile anymore) not working for her. I figured she was not interested but pushed my luck to no avail. I have a weakness against blonde women. It's difficult to find a sane SB these days.

I am much more secretive due to my previous experience and it doesn't work well with most of those girls. My only success from SA so far from a few months ago:

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-e4267496ed5e

She was in her period and I was looking for BBBJCIM w / swallow around that time. We made it happen. She looked better in person. She put on the lipstick and the necklace I liked, bonus points. She claims to be married and cool with married men. I've been trying to meet her again but she keeps evading. Either she found a better paying SB, or I was too rough on her. (CIM and swallow after 1. 5 hrs of BBBJ. She took it like champ, though).

[Apollo007]

Any info on this baby would be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...c-e48a0778a67f

I think she's a pro, but don't know. I negotiated her down to 350 but didn't follow thru. , she may have gone lower, if she had I would have taken her up on it. This was about 5 months ago.

[2me4Looking2]

Here is one I saw a while back and overall had a good time, but her body has some very noticeable baby damage. Her face is very attractive and I actually love all the tattoos, but any of the pics showing her body are older. She isn't really big, just a lot of flab. She was very easy to communicate with and was fun to be with, but the body was definitely a let down. We had a quick lunch and then went to a hotel and I believe I gave her $300. She did BBBJ and allowed dining at the why, but said it wasn't normally her thing. The main act was covered, but that's not an issue for me. She wanted a repeat, but I never did go back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...0-80393c498d94

[HawkJock]

So, this is probably my 6th or 7th time on SA. I have had good success in the past and have met some wonderful ladies. I usually join for a month and get loads of contacts and work them for the next several months. If I find a good one we stay connected for a while till it fizzles out and I rejoin to start over.

This time I did the usual of sending tons of PMs and waiting to see what comes back. Literally dozens. No response period. Not even opening my messages. I even responded to the scam girls who contacted me first and the messages go as "unread".

I think something is broken. I can't believe all my messages have gone "delivered" amd none of them have been read! Every single one. Even to the scammers who contacted me first.

Anyone else had this happen? I have game and.

Why messages are usually what a girl wants to hear on first contact. I swear it's broken.

Not broken. But the site has become about 90% scam, bots, and providers seeking 30/60 minute transactions. After you weed thru all of that, it leaves very few left. But they are out there. Especially if you travel international.

[Peter Pan]

Recent posts about getting caught by scammers made me wanted to share my experience:

I got sloppy once and gave my actual phone number to a "girl. " I got a text message one morning asking how I am. I usually don't reply to unknown numbers, but I think it was supposed to happen. As soon as I reply, I got some screenshots of our conversation in SA, me and my spouse's social profiles, and sextortion started shortly after. I won't discuss the details here but I figured out to defuse it temporarily to this date.

To the fellow SD who got hit by sextortion and paid: They won't stop. I say this by experience because I still get suspicious messages to this date. The latest I got was from a country known to be a host of such scammer networks. I fear if I reply, there will be another set of "hey I got these screenshots of you, guess what?" Be 100% sure that your info is out there, especially if you already paid them some $$ and they will once in a while attempt to come after you again. And if possible, keep the number. I'm keeping my busted number the same in order to be informed of future attacks. God forbid if someone else picks my number and plays it wrong.

I panicked and deleted my SA altogether shortly after I got the messages. I regret doing that. I sent my actual number to only a few. I could figure out which one "she" was, but I couldn't think straight.

Shortly after this experience, I began minimizing my digital footprint relating to my actual identity. I had any results reaching to my identity in identity brokerage sites removed. There are a handful of services who do that for you. I signed up for one, they deleted half of the crap while leaving other half "ongoing" state. That's another form of scam to be honest LOL. I now vet my photos through face search engines. I blocked all my social profiles from revealing my profile photo to public search. Kudos to Facebook for f'ing this up. My profile was extreme locked up before this incident. I excluded myself from being found both in internal Facebook search and search engine results years ago. Even if they could get a hold of my actual name, I didn't think they could find my Facebook profile. Somehow, they could reach to my and my spouse's Facebook profiles so I'm guessing these scammers has some ties to some Facebook partners who can search beyond regular users' capabilities.

It's a pretty rough experience if you have things to lose like a spouse or a job. You can always argue screenshots are fake, but it's better to be safe from the start.

Thanks for sharing. It's just a reminder for all of us. I had a crazy SB that demanded money after getting into my hotel room and was going to make a nuisance and I ended up paying her to leave essentially. So not only be safe with pics and phone info! But vet them before directly seeing them at the hotel.

[MariettaJoe]

I stumbled upon a reverse image technique that's been working for me. The tech savvy among you probably have this trick in your bag, but for those that don't here it is: the free search options can be weak by themselves but pretty useful when used together.

Steps:

1) Use Facecheck I'd on the target picture.

2) Facecheck should return a grid of results. While it won't tell you the exact link of the results without paying (like it used to), it will tell you the websites it came from. You want to look for social media sites (Linkedin seems to work particularly well for this). Take a screenshot and cut out the pictures it gives you from the social media sites.

3) Take your new pictures from the social media sites and put them into Google Reverse Image Search. Be sure to put the whole thing and not just the face. Googles revers image search doesn't do well with just parts of pictures, like the face, but it does very well matching the entire picture.

4) This should give you the results that Facecheck I'd was trying to get you to pay for. If it doesn't work, try it with another social media picture.

I've been trying to find a good free alternative since Facecheck I'd went to a pay model and this has been working fairly well. It's not 100% and takes a few extra clicks, but it can definitely find people. Besides Facecheck I'd I like to also check out what some of the other pay sites, like Pimeyes and Social Catfish, are returning for results. Then I use the same method of screenshotting those pic previews and plugging them into a free tool like google image search.

If anyone has any good techniques or knows any good free resources please post them. I know this topic gets brought up at least monthly, but with as frequently as search AI changes I think it's a topic worth revisiting frequently.

I have a browser extension / add-on named "Search by image" that will make this even easier. Keep steps one and two except ignore the screenshot part. You'll be able to right-click the picture, "search by image" will be an option and you can run it through several reverse-image searching sites. Google images does the best job overall of them ones listed, but others may pick up a hit too on occasion that help. Still faster too.

Side note: I'm doing this on a PC, unsure how this would do on a mobile device. It's a chromium-browser extension, so it should work on Chrome, Brave, and others that are based on it.

[LovePunnany]

She's been around for several years and is based out of Greensboro, NC. She is DTF and will go straight to fuck chamber if you got game. She is more professional now.

Is she worth $3, I was not trying to get with any professional?

[MajMilkDuds]

Hey I had this girls number but I lost it when a recent update to my play number. If anyone has info on her can you please pass it along. I gave her my number but I don't have hers anymore. Very sweet girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-8dd7acd12d72

[SeekingHead]

So, this is probably my 6th or 7th time on SA. I have had good success in the past and have met some wonderful ladies. I usually join for a month and get loads of contacts and work them for the next several months. If I find a good one we stay connected for a while till it fizzles out and I rejoin to start over.

This time I did the usual of sending tons of PMs and waiting to see what comes back. Literally dozens. No response period. Not even opening my messages. I even responded to the scam girls who contacted me first and the messages go as "unread".

I think something is broken. I can't believe all my messages have gone "delivered" amd none of them have been read! Every single one. Even to the scammers who contacted me first.

Anyone else had this happen? I have game and.

Why messages are usually what a girl wants to hear on first contact. I swear it's broken.

Was my last experience as well, first week received responses & messages were read, then nothing until the last 3 days of the monthly membership.

[MSmith3034]

Have been doing exactly this already with mixed results. You can also run through Pimeyes for hits on photos, screenshot those and run through Google (or Tineye). At minimum, if you aren't paying for the searches, the results can at least give you an idea if you may be working with a scammer or not (ie, are the pictures found on IG vs. Port sites and how many hits are there.).

I stumbled upon a reverse image technique that's been working for me. The tech savvy among you probably have this trick in your bag, but for those that don't here it is: the free search options can be weak by themselves but pretty useful when used together.

Steps:

1) Use Facecheck I'd on the target picture.

2) Facecheck should return a grid of results. While it won't tell you the exact link of the results without paying (like it used to), it will tell you the websites it came from. You want to look for social media sites (Linkedin seems to work particularly well for this). Take a screenshot and cut out the pictures it gives you from the social media sites.

3) Take your new pictures from the social media sites and put them into Google Reverse Image Search. Be sure to put the whole thing and not just the face. Googles revers image search doesn't do well with just parts of pictures, like the face, but it does very well matching the entire picture.

4) This should give you the results that Facecheck I'd was trying to get you to pay for. If it doesn't work, try it with another social media picture.

I've been trying to find a good free alternative since Facecheck I'd went to a pay model and this has been working fairly well. It's not 100% and takes a few extra clicks, but it can definitely find people. Besides Facecheck I'd I like to also check out what some of the other pay sites, like Pimeyes and Social Catfish, are returning for results. Then I use the same method of screenshotting those pic previews and plugging them into a free tool like google image search.

If anyone has any good techniques or knows any good free resources please post them. I know this topic gets brought up at least monthly, but with as frequently as search AI changes I think it's a topic worth revisiting frequently.

[CrazyRocket]

Recent posts about getting caught by scammers made me wanted to share my experience:

I got sloppy once and gave my actual phone number to a "girl. " I got a text message one morning asking how I am. I usually don't reply to unknown numbers, but I think it was supposed to happen. As soon as I reply, I got some screenshots of our conversation in SA, me and my spouse's social profiles, and sextortion started shortly after. I won't discuss the details here but I figured out to defuse it temporarily to this date.

To the fellow SD who got hit by sextortion and paid: They won't stop. I say this by experience because I still get suspicious messages to this date. The latest I got was from a country known to be a host of such scammer networks. I fear if I reply, there will be another set of "hey I got these screenshots of you, guess what?" Be 100% sure that your info is out there, especially if you already paid them some $$ and they will once in a while attempt to come after you again. And if possible, keep the number. I'm keeping my busted number the same in order to be informed of future attacks. God forbid if someone else picks my number and plays it wrong.

I panicked and deleted my SA altogether shortly after I got the messages. I regret doing that. I sent my actual number to only a few. I could figure out which one "she" was, but I couldn't think straight.

Shortly after this experience, I began minimizing my digital footprint relating to my actual identity. I had any results reaching to my identity in identity brokerage sites removed. There are a handful of services who do that for you. I signed up for one, they deleted half of the crap while leaving other half "ongoing" state. That's another form of scam to be honest LOL. I now vet my photos through face search engines. I blocked all my social profiles from revealing my profile photo to public search. Kudos to Facebook for f'ing this up. My profile was extreme locked up before this incident. I excluded myself from being found both in internal Facebook search and search engine results years ago. Even if they could get a hold of my actual name, I didn't think they could find my Facebook profile. Somehow, they could reach to my and my spouse's Facebook profiles so I'm guessing these scammers has some ties to some Facebook partners who can search beyond regular users' capabilities.

It's a pretty rough experience if you have things to lose like a spouse or a job. You can always argue screenshots are fake, but it's better to be safe from the start.

[Christian Troy]

I stumbled upon a reverse image technique that's been working for me. The tech savvy among you probably have this trick in your bag, but for those that don't here it is: the free search options can be weak by themselves but pretty useful when used together.

Steps:

1) Use Facecheck I'd on the target picture.

2) Facecheck should return a grid of results. While it won't tell you the exact link of the results without paying (like it used to), it will tell you the websites it came from. You want to look for social media sites (Linkedin seems to work particularly well for this). Take a screenshot and cut out the pictures it gives you from the social media sites.

3) Take your new pictures from the social media sites and put them into Google Reverse Image Search. Be sure to put the whole thing and not just the face. Googles revers image search doesn't do well with just parts of pictures, like the face, but it does very well matching the entire picture.

4) This should give you the results that Facecheck I'd was trying to get you to pay for. If it doesn't work, try it with another social media picture.

I've been trying to find a good free alternative since Facecheck I'd went to a pay model and this has been working fairly well. It's not 100% and takes a few extra clicks, but it can definitely find people. Besides Facecheck I'd I like to also check out what some of the other pay sites, like Pimeyes and Social Catfish, are returning for results. Then I use the same method of screenshotting those pic previews and plugging them into a free tool like google image search.

If anyone has any good techniques or knows any good free resources please post them. I know this topic gets brought up at least monthly, but with as frequently as search AI changes I think it's a topic worth revisiting frequently.