"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Member #6704]

Met her on sugardaddymeet.com. I have used seeking and SDM only so far. Got permanently banned from seeking few months ago. Now SDM is my only option. The major drawback of SDM is much less number of profiles compared to seeking. But both sites have fare share of scammers, time wasters and bots. I have had good luck with SDM so far.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

Also I know seeking have promo codes and I shared one in the past.

Does SDM have any promotions?

[Member #6704]

Met her on sugardaddymeet.com. I have used seeking and SDM only so far. Got permanently banned from seeking few months ago. Now SDM is my only option. The major drawback of SDM is much less number of profiles compared to seeking. But both sites have fare share of scammers, time wasters and bots. I have had good luck with SDM so far.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

Thanks. I used seeking exclusively so far, I did get banned as well! But I created a new profile and so far it's ok.

Good to see you had success at SDM. I heard you purchase credits and use them to talk on SDM? It seems like that's a lot of money.

As I used to send a lot of messages on seeking so seeking might appear cheaper?

[BumbaCloth]

She's super nice. She really liked me too. But her V always had a smell and it just turned me off. She wanted bare but I declined. BBBJ 5/10.

Seems like she has mixed reviews. Someone said she stole from them others say she is somewhat decent. Worth it or Not Worth it?

[DrSummer]

Met her on sugardaddymeet.com. I have used seeking and SDM only so far. Got permanently banned from seeking few months ago. Now SDM is my only option. The major drawback of SDM is much less number of profiles compared to seeking. But both sites have fare share of scammers, time wasters and bots. I have had good luck with SDM so far.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

Dr. S. did you meet this girl from seeking or another site? I always used seeking but curious if any other sites are worth it?

[DrSummer]

100% agree. If you post or send someone else's photos to them, you can't complain them catfishing or not representing themselves. It goes both ways. I try to get them to video call before the meet up so that we both have a good idea who we are meeting. You have to make them comfortable and feel safe (at least the type of girls I am after), then the rest is easy.

Dr. S.

Well the harm is that it screws up the lifestyle for those of us that are honest and send real pics. Every time someone catfishes an SB, and shows up looking like someone different, they are guaranteeing the SBs return the favor x10 and waste a lot of our time and money.

You realize they have their forums and reddit threads too right? If you bait-and-switch them with pics, its not good for us.. the true gems will dodge out of the game altogether when they show up for the M&G and realize they've been scammed. The only ones left to meet then are the scammers.

Put into the hobby what you expect to get out of it. This is the kind of thing that's caused this lifestyle to diminish over the years. Girls don't appreciate showing up for a meet being disappointed because you sent a pic of your better looking friend.

[DrSummer]

Thats funny. Yes, not sharing her info (at least not yet). I don't expect her to be exclusive, but don't want to contribute to the competition. LOL.

Dr. S.

Bro, he just informed how picky he is and how much vetting he does to find a chick he likes. And he's just getting started with this new chick.

And you ask if he's "holding this one close or sharing"? What you think?

You funny, bro, but you get an A for asking.

[GokuBoy420]

Met this one in Buckhead.

You can Search her on Seeking. She is just moving into the apt with another Seeking lady. Dunno what the other one name is.

She is very nice. Worth the meet. The apt is reeked of smoke tho. I don't think she smokes. Her other roomie might.

She's super nice. She really liked me too. But her V always had a smell and it just turned me off. She wanted bare but I declined. BBBJ 5/10.

[OliverNP]

It's not easy, I ended up stealing some FB photos from a guy I went to HS with. I figured no harm since we aren't in the same state.

Well the harm is that it screws up the lifestyle for those of us that are honest and send real pics. Every time someone catfishes an SB, and shows up looking like someone different, they are guaranteeing the SBs return the favor x10 and waste a lot of our time and money.

You realize they have their forums and reddit threads too right? If you bait-and-switch them with pics, its not good for us.. the true gems will dodge out of the game altogether when they show up for the M&G and realize they've been scammed. The only ones left to meet then are the scammers.

Put into the hobby what you expect to get out of it. This is the kind of thing that's caused this lifestyle to diminish over the years. Girls don't appreciate showing up for a meet being disappointed because you sent a pic of your better looking friend.

[AnxiousHippo]

I recently signed up for a membership on secretbenefits.com. I want to say it was about $55 for enough credits to message about 10 people. The use some an 'unlock' method where you have to unlock chats with a member once and then you get unlimited chats there-after. As with any dating site, I was expecting a bit of bait / scam, and sure enough within just minutes of opening the account, I had messages waiting to be unlocked, from people not within the range I was looking and from people who had never even visited my profile (you can see recent visitors).

Things went quickly further downhill than that, unfortunately. I would message people who who showing as 'online' only to receive crickets in return. OK, maybe they just aren't talkative or didn't like my profile. But this became a quickly recurring theme. Generic / generated messages coming in; and when I message out to what I had hoped were real members, no responses in return. Reading online, this appeared to be a common issue, and the recurring allegation is that they are pulling in unsuspecting member profiles from their sister site (sugardaddy.com) and pretending as if they are online when they are not. The unsuspecting users probably don't even realize this is happening.

So, fuck it, I confronted them with my allegations and said I had reasonable suspicion that their site was a hoax, and they probably know this as well. Either refund me or I would post negative reviews; and guess what. No apology, no dispute, they deleted my account and refunded my purchase, LOL.

Just a heads up; before you waste your time / money. I spent a week there and had ZERO real-life responses to anything I did.

[Alasp006]

Met this one in Buckhead.

You can Search her on Seeking. She is just moving into the apt with another Seeking lady. Dunno what the other one name is.

She is very nice. Worth the meet. The apt is reeked of smoke tho. I don't think she smokes. Her other roomie might.

[2me4Looking2]

I've seen her a few times over the last year. She's very sweet, very thin with fake boobs but a pretty good lay. When I saw her she hosted at her place which was nice.

How does her looks compare to her pictures and mind sharing what you gave her for the donation?

[Wleakr]

Are you holding this one close or sharing who she is?

Bro, he just informed how picky he is and how much vetting he does to find a chick he likes. And he's just getting started with this new chick.

And you ask if he's "holding this one close or sharing"? What you think?

You funny, bro, but you get an A for asking.

[UninhibitedFla]

Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight. I have been on the sugar hobby for more than 5 years, and have taken closer to 100 girls to FC. Hands down this is the best experience of all. She was all I wanted from a SB. Easy to get alone, clean, and great sex. After 3 rounds, I was so tired I fell asleep. Then 2 rounds in the morning. She left around 10 AM. Never mentioned about the ppm again. But I gave 600. Worth every penny. After 5 minutes I got the text thanking me and and wanting to see me again soon. That tells me she was happy with the allowance. Keep up the hopes, good girls are out there, but I know it is hard to find them.

Play safe.

Dr. S.

Are you holding this one close or sharing who she is?

[Member #6704]

Update on this. I met her on Friday. She looked even better in person and the vibe was so good, I had no hesitation to go for the overnight. I have been on the sugar hobby for more than 5 years, and have taken closer to 100 girls to FC. Hands down this is the best experience of all. She was all I wanted from a SB. Easy to get alone, clean, and great sex. After 3 rounds, I was so tired I fell asleep. Then 2 rounds in the morning. She left around 10 AM. Never mentioned about the ppm again. But I gave 600. Worth every penny. After 5 minutes I got the text thanking me and and wanting to see me again soon. That tells me she was happy with the allowance. Keep up the hopes, good girls are out there, but I know it is hard to find them.

Play safe.

Dr. S.

Dr. S. did you meet this girl from seeking or another site? I always used seeking but curious if any other sites are worth it?

[JMAbacus]

I am in SC, not in Atlanta. I would say, yes I am picky. I can afford to be picky as I always have one or two good girls in my rotation. The two girls I have in my current rotation, I have been seing both of them for more than a year. One is 24 and the other 28. Both are single, white, and no children. My ppm are generally 300 to 400. The highest I have given was 600 for the girl we are talking about here. My previous post has more details. It was an overnight. She is 22, white, a college senior. I rate her 9 on her face and 8 on her body. 8 for the body was because her boobs are bit smaller than my liking but they are perky and playable. She is the friendliest and most sensual girl I have ever dated in this hobby.

Regarding 1 in 100, it goes like this. I cast a wide net (200 mile radius) and message any possible girls (within my preferred age group). I get responses from about 30 for 100 messages. From those, about 10 agree for a meet up. Then after a voice and video call before meet it comes to about 2 to 3 I decide to meet. Out of those I meet, I usually go ahead with 1 out of 3. Again, yes I am picky. But I rarely get disappointed by my picks. Different people play this game differently. They are just different, not good or bad.

Play Safe.

Dr. S.

Thanks, I was very satisfied with the value I was getting for a 3. 5 type PPM in the ATL even though the ladies were generally in the 7 range. They had good attitudes and good skills. The 4. 75 PPM for a non overnight stay just seemed a little high here in the Upstate for an 8. I think you have confirmed that's the case and I can choose to give it a try or shop around to see if I can do better in this area. When your looking for young, black, slender, and attractive SB's in the Upsate then the pool gets very shallow. Thick or fat we have in abundance. Thanks for the insight.