Philly Sugar

[EpicSD]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...5-a0fec561adb0

I generally take it as a red flag when a girl from seeking calls me "dear" or "luv" etc. This girl does that and when we we chatting details she requested 5 and then gave time frames for services. She used the phrase "I don't clock watch" to me that's some STG bullshit and is a step closer to want I want to avoid- ie some chick that's on seeking to keep a heavy drug habit going.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...5-6c32aa9012df She's horny and turned on by this. But she has a big belly. Hard pass.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...a-d1692488ccee Thinks she's a lot hotter than she is. Think she wanted to switch to Signal or Kik or something. Lost interest.

Here's the chubby one https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-9965b6f64fbf.

Here's the average looking one https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-6363d21282b2.

[KCesar68]

First off, if I showed you a picture you could never guess her age.

Maybe not guess what it is but I sure as hell would be able to tell what it ISN'T: young.

Second, best sex is still best sex. I am in it for the enjoyment.

That's cool and everyone enjoys different things. I don't enjoy a woman who is essentially a decade older than me.

Third. She is more experienced than most young bimbos.

So in other words, she's used up more? That sure tastes like a very sour grape.

She can teach you all kinds of new tricks. And new kinks.

That's very doubtful on the former, and for the latter, I'm happy with the kinks I have, thanks.

So keep on missing out.

I'll have to take your word on that.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-a5a51bbba57e

She is not in Philly, like far away in Doylestown and doesn't drive- right now that would be $60 one way. Told me in a passive aggressive way that men are happy to Uber her back and forth. I don't know if she hosts. I think she has gps too, and wanted 7 x $ or something ridiculous for a platonic first meet over dinner. I was thinking 3 tops for the whole shebang at the time and am pretty sure I just laughed at her.

It's worse than that. I KNOW there's been reports about her here before, I just didn't remember how insanely ridiculous they are. Below you can see just how much worse. God, I hate how they don't have to pay anything which means they don't have their time / money wasted. Else she'd never be on the site with how insane she is with her pipe-dream amounts. Actually used the words "buy me a house" Good lord, how I wish she could have her seeking page plastered all over her personal social media. That I would pay 5 benis for.

[EpicSD]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...5-a0fec561adb0

I generally take it as a red flag when a girl from seeking calls me "dear" or "luv" etc. This girl does that and when we we chatting details she requested 5 and then gave time frames for services. She used the phrase "I don't clock watch" to me that's some STG bullshit and is a step closer to want I want to avoid- ie some chick that's on seeking to keep a heavy drug habit going.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...5-6c32aa9012df She's horny and turned on by this. But she has a big belly. Hard pass.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...a-d1692488ccee Thinks she's a lot hotter than she is. Think she wanted to switch to Signal or Kik or something. Lost interest.

[EpicSD]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-a5a51bbba57e

She is not in Philly, like far away in Doylestown and doesn't drive- right now that would be $60 one way. Told me in a passive aggressive way that men are happy to Uber her back and forth. I don't know if she hosts. I think she has gps too, and wanted 7 x $ or something ridiculous for a platonic first meet over dinner. I was thinking 3 tops for the whole shebang at the time and am pretty sure I just laughed at her.

[Holy Sheite]

Wow my guy, this is the woman you were hyping up so much? Mid 40's? WITH KIDS? Sheez. No wonder you're trying to trade her off.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-7e9d4533cf88

This girl was on here before as Jelliebean or something further back in the reports. She's exhausting. The usual "I'm NoT a HoOkEr" nonsense like she's not there for money. Claims she wouldn't do sex for cash no matter how bad her financial state was. Sure. Said she had a medical issue she needed to take care of and all the while kept giving me maybe I'll meet tomorrow this that and the other thing, completely wishy-washy, even saying maybe the site isn't for her anymore. All this just for a meet and greet for lunch before even getting intimate. Doesn't want to share her number either, and since she was stalling without at least moving off the website, I said "Guess you wouldn't want to share your number either?" the well was soured not too long after since she kept saying all I wanted was to just talk about the arrangement. Like no shlt lady, that's the whole point of the site. Wants to have her emotional cake and eat it too. Was a breast cancer survivor too according to her so probably had masectomies and she said her hair wasn't real. Wow, what a catch. Whined about how I didn't say anything about her being a breast cancer survivor when I specifically shared how my mom had malignant tumors and had to have a hysterectomy, so I'm glad they both came out of their ordeals. The selective memory was strong with her so I knew I was going to get nowhere and blocked.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-a5a51bbba57e

Can someone point to another review of her? I think I saw something before just need a link. She's a rinser though. Wants money for meeting for drinks.

See. You assume too much. First off, if I showed you a picture you could never guess her age. Second, best sex is still best sex. I am in it for the enjoyment. Not the statistics. Third. She is more experienced than most young bimbos. She can teach you all kinds of new tricks. And new kinks. So keep on missing out. I have no intention of passing on her. Just looking for new adventures.

If anyone is interested and not biased. Contact me. If not. Your loss, not mine.

[KCesar68]

She is AA, mid 40's. 5'4" 110. Petite, athletic build. Black hair. She is well educated (advanced degree). With a professional career. She is a single mom with kids.

She is located in the Center City area, but meets at convenient places.

Wow my guy, this is the woman you were hyping up so much? Mid 40's? WITH KIDS? Sheez. No wonder you're trying to trade her off.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-7e9d4533cf88

This girl was on here before as Jelliebean or something further back in the reports. She's exhausting. The usual "I'm NoT a HoOkEr" nonsense like she's not there for money. Claims she wouldn't do sex for cash no matter how bad her financial state was. Sure. Said she had a medical issue she needed to take care of and all the while kept giving me maybe I'll meet tomorrow this that and the other thing, completely wishy-washy, even saying maybe the site isn't for her anymore. All this just for a meet and greet for lunch before even getting intimate. Doesn't want to share her number either, and since she was stalling without at least moving off the website, I said "Guess you wouldn't want to share your number either?" the well was soured not too long after since she kept saying all I wanted was to just talk about the arrangement. Like no shlt lady, that's the whole point of the site. Wants to have her emotional cake and eat it too. Was a breast cancer survivor too according to her so probably had masectomies and she said her hair wasn't real. Wow, what a catch. Whined about how I didn't say anything about her being a breast cancer survivor when I specifically shared how my mom had malignant tumors and had to have a hysterectomy, so I'm glad they both came out of their ordeals. The selective memory was strong with her so I knew I was going to get nowhere and blocked.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-a5a51bbba57e

Can someone point to another review of her? I think I saw something before just need a link. She's a rinser though. Wants money for meeting for drinks.

[Holy Sheite]

Many I ask for some details? Age? Height? Weight? Hair color? Endowment? Single / SO? Education? Price Range?

What part of the Philly Area is she located?

She is AA, mid 40's. 5'4" 110. Petite, athletic build. Black hair. She is well educated (advanced degree). With a professional career. She is a single mom with kids.

She is located in the Center City area, but meets at convenient places.

[Holy Sheite]

Many I ask for some details? Age? Height? Weight? Hair color? Endowment? Single / SO? Education? Price Range?

What part of the Philly Area is she located?

My preference is to not publish this info. Will share via private message if you contact me.

[Shampoo55]

I have been in a Sugar relationship for over a year with the most amazing woman I have ever met! A true sex machine!! Friendly, beautiful and intelligent. The one we are all searching for. She is selective and has a very limited space for a new daddy that I have offered to help fill. Trust me, I am constantly looking and doing meet and greets and know the frustration of finding a great one out there. So. Here's the deal. I am looking for another such lovely baby that I can meet from a trusted source as well. So, if you have such a lovely to introduce me to, I will provide the necessary contact and reference for you to meet this amazing Sugar. Kind of an Amazing Sugar Swap. So. If this is you, PM me and we can swap info, contacts and pictures.

This is legitimate, and I look forward to providing my Sugar with a new Daddy (or two). Let's help each other. And please don't just write me asking for a hook up. This is only for those who have a similar amazing Sugar to share!

Many I ask for some details? Age? Height? Weight? Hair color? Endowment? Single / SO? Education? Price Range?

What part of the Philly Area is she located?

[HenryT458]

I was texting with this lady. She wanted to speak on the phone or do a video call. So I called her. (No video) She's Russian. Wants 600 ppm. Says she's beautiful. (Yeah, ok, I'll be the judge of that.).

She wanted a pic from me and said she'd send me one of her. She sent me the one from the site. (the one I uploaded) Wanted to meet at the hotel.

My conclusions are: 1. This lady is a pro. 2. She likely doesn't look like her pics. 3. Too expensive and she insisted on condoms. I'll pass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...1-cca973a99b9d

[Holy Sheite]

I have been in a Sugar relationship for over a year with the most amazing woman I have ever met! A true sex machine!! Friendly, beautiful and intelligent. The one we are all searching for. She is selective and has a very limited space for a new daddy that I have offered to help fill. Trust me, I am constantly looking and doing meet and greets and know the frustration of finding a great one out there. So. Here's the deal. I am looking for another such lovely baby that I can meet from a trusted source as well. So, if you have such a lovely to introduce me to, I will provide the necessary contact and reference for you to meet this amazing Sugar. Kind of an Amazing Sugar Swap. So. If this is you, PM me and we can swap info, contacts and pictures.

This is legitimate, and I look forward to providing my Sugar with a new Daddy (or two). Let's help each other. And please don't just write me asking for a hook up. This is only for those who have a similar amazing Sugar to share!

[HenryT458]

She's real. But, it was a challenge to try and schedule with this lady. Likely talking with multiple gents. Turns out she has a child at home. That's not going to work for me. Too many opportunities to have the scheduled meetings cancel due to child care issues. I'll pass.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...3-76a82338db91

[HenryT458]

This lady knows her worth.

Her Response:

Can you go higher future daddy? 😍 I have a business and time is literally money. I've learned this from the MVPs. No time for a serious relationship here.

No. I won't go higher. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...3-241c478d162e

[HenryT458]

This lady looks like one of my former SBs so I took a shot hoping to strike gold again. But Syd is out of my price range. Wants 3 k a month minimum. Oh well. I figured she'd be pricey. I need more gold to make her happy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-6fb3b7d45c9c

[Shampoo55]

A lot of them popping up.

Easy to spot them too.

- grainy pictures.

- usually only 3 pictures.

- age is like 35,37, 42.

- NO bio at all, just a blank profile. Or if they have a bio it looks like it was copy pasted from somewhere.

- recent join date, like literally joined the site today or yesterday.

You can see many of these profiles these days, didn't use to be like this.

I don't message them, obviously they are not real girls.

Thanks for the warnings and what to look for.

Yeah, Seeking is a mess these days. General confusion as to what is a Sugar Baby. Sugar Daddy RELATIONSHIP. Escorts looking for Johns, Johns looking for naive girls to pump & dump, OF and content sellers looking for subs, scammers looking for "money upfront" scams, etc, etc, etc. Oh and not to mention the few that buy the "marketing" on the requisite rebrand that Seeking is now "just" a dating site.

These days it pays to be selective, sort and screen. I guess there are guys who go with the position that they should message each and every profile that is out there, as it's a numbers game. But that sets one up to be hit up by the content sellers, rinsers and scammers. I guess if one has unlimited time, then that's AN approach. Also, one who does this probably is sending some "generic" cut & paste message to each and every girl out there, messages that are easy to detect and get ignored.

What works for me is this:

1. Setting my profile as private. Thus scammers can't see it and message first. BUT, anyone I approach can see the profile and respond.

2. Set limits on the distance I am willing to travel. After all unless one goes there on bidness, is one really going to drive 2-hours to DC regularly to meet with a girl?

3. State in the profile that you are unwilling to travel over XYZ time or distance.

4. Use the search function and the filters provided. I have certain physical criteria and other filters and set those up for saved searches in several age ranges. Why look at "everything" when certain things are a non-starter.

5. Be different than "most guys" and actually READ THE GIRL's PROFILE. I use that to decide if she's a good fit, sounds like she know what she's doing, etc. So many pretty faces that are as dumb as a doorknob or with an entitled attitude. NEXT!

6. Once someone crosses one of my pre set, personal boundaries, I block the profile and move on. Life is too short to try to convince girls to have a different view, etc. I don't waste any time arguing with them, nor cursing them out or trying to "get even" when they act badly. I Just move on.

7. I do a few "getting to know you" and "introduce myself" emails on Seeking and if things are positive, get offsite to my burner / app number ASAP. I try to avoid any discussion of P2 P, money, sugar or the other "code" words as to avoid getting profile banned by the BOTs.

8. Try to set up a Meet & Greet withing a week or 10-days of offsite chatting. M&G is a platonic, unpaid meeting to see if there is chemistry, evaluate limits and perhaps negotiate PPM. Any girl who insists on a paid M&G is an automatic NEXT! Not going to argue or try to convince someone as this is rinser behavior or entitled stuff a girl learned off of TicTok. Now that said, as a nice gesture, I do provide a "gift" at the end of the M&G for those I wish to continue with. (Usually on the order of 10-50% of agreed PPM.) I never tell them I am gifting and if she asks she doesn't get. I do offer to provide gas money or an Uber / transportation if she needs it.

9. Finally, and this is KEY: I frequently go to CostCo and buy the Jumbo box of patience to nip on while filtering, sorting, scanning profiles on Seeking.

It's a jungle out there! Have a plan and patience and there is a reward at the end!