Safe Sex Information and Advice

[BMax986]

I'm going to take it you tapped that the way you wrote a defense in the name of someone who possibly had an std that made them blind. Nothing is for sure but the board is here for people to give us a heads up, and then we make the decision. But you're right, two junkies that suddenly went blind could possibly be from two different things. But I'm also here to tell you there are plenty of fish in the sea, too many to be caping or tripping off of one. This game is dirty.

Actually I have never met Laura. I'm not into the SW scene, not judging, but the cruising and scooping, higher risk of LEO, and cleanliness (I'm not even talking about std's here) don't appeal to me. I like them freshly showered. Early on, one girl gave me the I'm in the shower excuse, even opened door head wrapped in a towel, LOL. When I went to the bathroom, shower and shower curtain were dry. She showers in my presence ever since then. I have nothing against streetwalkers. I commented on this thread inquiring which Sierra was mentioned as going blind. In turns out the Sierra in question is the one I had met at comfort inn and reviewed here in June 2020. Didn't know or care she was a SW. Thinking back on it, I tried to meetup with her again a few weeks later, but she sent me to an address on 2nd in BP for a cardate. Since it was a cardate I suggested a lower price, which she agreed to, but eventually she ended up ghosting me. I've done a few cardates with a couple of girls I already knew due to circumstances, but personally, I find cardates uncomfortable.

The original poster commented both girls had similar looks to their eyes he could see. There are a couple of more serious std that can cause blindness, but they cause damage inside the eyeball which you cannot see directly from outside, so those conditions are ruled out. So we're probably dealing with trachoma / chlamydia, herpes simplex, herpes zoster. Zoster, if you had chicken pox, you have zoster. Simplex / hsv1, 50-70% of general adult population has herpes simplex. Among Baltimore prostitutes and mongers who do BBFS and BBBJ, it's probably more like 95-100%. Chlamydia, realistically, every girl who does BBFS or BBBJ here for 1,2, or more years has had chlamydia. And it takes years and alot of things going wrong medically before you go blind (but sure, a lot things are going wrong if you are a dope / crack addicted prostitute). Yes, there are many fish in the ocean, and almost ALL the fish have herpes simplex and zoster and history of chlamydia. And probably worse, yah Baltimore, #1 in std's. It is a dirty game.

I'm glad to hear Sierra did seem to get help for her eyes. Laura should seek treatment also.

[WaffleEater]

This forum is like a Reddit page talking about subject specific things with sources that are most likely other guys or things they've heard without peer reviewed research to reference. As I'm also going to spin some knowledge, take what I have to say with a grain of salt and just consult a verified medical professional for this sort of stuff. I'd also like to preface this with that I'm a traveling nurse of 5 years now and all my credentials are up to date. The first things I'd tell you any of you for safe sex practice is CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN. If you share a family practitioner with a wife or child and don't feel comfortable disclosing such information about your hobby, find an alternative provider for this consultation specifically.

You would not believe how open some people are to me regarding substance abuse, sex work frequenting, steroids, etc. There is no judgement and at the end of the day, as medical providers, we truly do not care. I say consult your physician because being predisposed to immune compromised conditions (diabetes, cancer, anti-immune disease etc), weight, age, and many other factors will play into common strategies like daily doxycycline dosing can cause other health risks that you will not see the consequences immediately but will eventually. The only person who can truly advise you on these decisions is your practitioner due to a comprehensive knowledge of your medical background. So in that regard, not I or not a super senior member of this forum will be able to tell you how to minimize the consequences of this risky hobby that we choose to indulge in.

The consequences of not doing this or seeking licensed advise is what we see here. Untested customers AND untested girls spreading the same strain of clap or what have you until it possibly infects individuals with incurable strains of commonly treated STDS. YES, hiv is a big one but there are many cases of gonorrhea and chlamydia mutating until even a series of antibiotics can't even cure. The consequences can be an immune comprised life, impudence, or infertility. Not to mention you'll be contagious for the rest of your life.

Hobby responsibly, be kind to yourself, loved ones, and these women by manning up and taking a test regularly so you can get treated if need be. If you have money to splurge on orgasms, you have money to get tested.

[FaceDownPro]

Is this sierra the attractive blonde that went by little Sierra in Brooklyn Park a couple of years ago? She had really blue eyes and made great eye contact during BJ. I went and checked some video, and I can say her eyes were clear back in 2020. Are you saying Sierra also went blind?

Having stayed at a Holiday Inn last night, let me add that even if Sierra and Laura had eyes that looked alike, it could have been from different things causing scarring of the cornea. Depending on how long they have been blind, it takes a long time for scarring to get bad enough to cause blindness regardless of cause being from an std or non-std. Original exposure could have been from over a year ago. Not enough information to accurately comment on your assertion that it was same thing that killed her boyfriend.

We all have different risk levels. But we can't complain about girls who insist on everything covered and also complain that a streetwalker or escort may have had an std a year or two ago, possibly because she went blind.

Sad thing is, simple early treatment when they had ocular symptoms would have prevented them from going blind. If you know Laura, a cornea transplant may be able to restore vision, but she has to care enough to seek treatment. No one says these girls have the right priorities, but seriously, seeing? Hopefully if Sierra is off the street, she has cared enough to seek treatment.

I'm going to take it you tapped that the way you wrote a defense in the name of someone who possibly had an std that made them blind. Nothing is for sure but the board is here for people to give us a heads up, and then we make the decision. But you're right, two junkies that suddenly went blind could possibly be from two different things. But I'm also here to tell you there are plenty of fish in the sea, too many to be caping or tripping off of one. This game is dirty.

[Member #6571]

You would literally have to have an open sore and have a woman with HIV bleed into it. It is transmitted via blood to blood, or semen to blood. That's it, full stop. Yes it's possible but you're more likely to die in a car accident on the way there. Magic Johnson probably didn't get it from vaginal sex. I know that's the narrative. And I hate conspiracy theories but I don't consider this one. He was likely receiving anal from trans girls or sharing needles. I know a lot of (likely) sex addicts whose sensors get burned out and they up the ante and play with trans. Anyway, we'll never know.

Read the NYT article. Antibiotic resistance is more of a global issue rather than a personal issue. Yes if the whole planet took daily antibiotics we'd be screwed. But they don't. If a high risk group (those reading this) take it right after bare sex, it probably won't affect much, but that is between you and your god. And, Doxy is one that rarely creates a resistance.

Yea, daily doxy dosing seems like a bad idea for several reasons. 1st, you can say goodbye to your healthy gut bacteria, welcome to skid-row city. You won't be able to trust a fart after a few days on doxy. Plus it leads to a host of other GI are / t issues summed up by the phrase "I feel like shit!" (figuratively & literally). 2. While most of the "super-bug" pronouncements by the MSM is hyperbole, there is some truth to it, just like with anything in life, too much of anything ain't good. As for the CDC. Take their "science" with a grain of salt. Better solution is to take a loading dose of Zithromax 1000 mg after symptoms arise or after any sketchy sex. You can take that dose for 3 days vs taking doxy 100 for a minimum of 7-10 days. As for the HIV discussion. HIV prep seems like a reasonable cost-effective preventive measure if you're regularly bb'ng. For bonus points take daily Zovirax or Valtrex to prevent HSV Outbreaks. Anyway, you can source all these meds at a very low cost (including Genuine V, forget the Mexico placebos) from India. It goes w / o saying that the cheapest solution is go glove up!

[MrGeorge]

You would literally have to have an open sore and have a woman with HIV bleed into it. It is transmitted via blood to blood, or semen to blood. That's it, full stop. Yes it's possible but you're more likely to die in a car accident on the way there. Magic Johnson probably didn't get it from vaginal sex. I know that's the narrative. And I hate conspiracy theories but I don't consider this one. He was likely receiving anal from trans girls or sharing needles. I know a lot of (likely) sex addicts whose sensors get burned out and they up the ante and play with trans. Anyway, we'll never know.

Read the NYT article. Antibiotic resistance is more of a global issue rather than a personal issue. Yes if the whole planet took daily antibiotics we'd be screwed. But they don't. If a high risk group (those reading this) take it right after bare sex, it probably won't affect much, but that is between you and your god. And, Doxy is one that rarely creates a resistance.

Wouldn't taking the daily Doxycycline cause antibiotic resistance if you get sick? The antibiotic resistance is on rise for that very reason that you mentioned!

And you can get HIV from women! Just ask Magic Johnson on how he got it and he will tell you! But you are correct in that statement that chances of getting HIV from a vaginal intercourse with women is extremely low (somewhere less than 0.8%) but twice more likely for a woman to get it from infected man with HIV. However, the HIV risk infection increases if you have other untreated STI.

Just check out STD risk calculator at CDC and it will see the lay the land: it is very very very low but you can still get HIV from vaginal intercourse.

[Vulcan1009]

Got my 10 panel results back and tested negative on everything. Just waiting on the trichomoniasis result.

I'm probably still going to play it safe and stick to CFS from now on at least until the reports clear up because it's not worth the worry!

Dude, hopefully all comes back negative!!

At these rate, no one is going to be able to write reviews anymore dropping out like flys.

Can anyone do a count on how many people caught STD since late December that 1st reported from WLA (ground zero) ?

I lost count a while back, focusing on daily life and trying to step away from BB, but I care about everyone here so I'm here to support.

Even though I'm really tempting to visit some BBFS girl, but my health is more important and yours too (also the ladies).

I'm sure by now that bookers and girls are seeing a slow down on traffics with this going around, hopefully they get the memo and starting to care.

More mongers gets STD and dropping out, means less flowers for them and bookings.

We goes hand in hand, you don't run a business just for customers to stop coming.

Let's all get tested and rest then back to business!!

[ZebraZebra]

Got my 10 panel results back and tested negative on everything. Just waiting on the trichomoniasis result.

I'm probably still going to play it safe and stick to CFS from now on at least until the reports clear up because it's not worth the worry!

[SolarisMan]

I'm always surprised at the lack of sophistication and knowledge relating to sexual health. I mean the information is out there. There is no smell from HSV (herpes - which incidentally doesn't hurt you, but it's a social stigma), nor from HIV. Smell comes from a bacterial infection - which may or may not be an STI.

The girls likely take Doxycycline daily while active. I have used this technique for years (And the NYT finally acknowledged it in an article that it's around 80% effective). I just got back from barebacking 25 girls in the Philippines. I do bring an entire pharmacy with me and it definitely works. You aren't getting HIV from a woman. You are getting it if a penis ejaculates into your anal canal. But you can take PreP if you're worried, which is 100% effective in preventing it.

Wouldn't taking the daily Doxycycline cause antibiotic resistance if you get sick? The antibiotic resistance is on rise for that very reason that you mentioned!

And you can get HIV from women! Just ask Magic Johnson on how he got it and he will tell you! But you are correct in that statement that chances of getting HIV from a vaginal intercourse with women is extremely low (somewhere less than 0.8%) but twice more likely for a woman to get it from infected man with HIV. However, the HIV risk infection increases if you have other untreated STI.

Just check out STD risk calculator at CDC and it will see the lay the land: it is very very very low but you can still get HIV from vaginal intercourse.

[CowboysFan]

I provide a lot of detail so people know what they are getting into. I agree, we don't know why Laura and others went blind, or if they have active infections. What we we know is that it happened, and there may be a reason to proceed with caution if you deem it necessary. If you don't think it's a big deal that's okay too. Funny thing, I have a video folder of blind women, and while going through it I discovered Sierra under the name Heather in there. I wrote on her 6 months ago and forgot about it. I have attached some pictures from 8/2023 if you want to see what she looks like now.

Switching gears back to mongering; I have been noticing a lot of talent in Pikesville. I was recently at a motel near Slade Ave and there were a few WSW standing in front but guys were too close to operate. Another WSW was walking down Reisterstown from Slade but she was on a mission to find candy. When I approached her she wanted to pay me to take her to the inner city to find her stuff, but she wasn't trying to fuck because she already had money. When you think about it, a lot of the garrison talent are coming from Pikesville so I going to put this area on my radar.

You mean to tell me Sierra is now blind?

[MrGeorge]

I'm always surprised at the lack of sophistication and knowledge relating to sexual health. I mean the information is out there. There is no smell from HSV (herpes - which incidentally doesn't hurt you, but it's a social stigma), nor from HIV. Smell comes from a bacterial infection - which may or may not be an STI.

The girls likely take Doxycycline daily while active. I have used this technique for years (And the NYT finally acknowledged it in an article that it's around 80% effective). I just got back from barebacking 25 girls in the Philippines. I do bring an entire pharmacy with me and it definitely works. You aren't getting HIV from a woman. You are getting it if a penis ejaculates into your anal canal. But you can take PreP if you're worried, which is 100% effective in preventing it.

[SolarisMan]

More to the point, so many girls offer BBFS now that regular testing just means getting antibiotics multiple times rather than once. It will make her feel sick for a day or two at least. And technically, she should not have sex for 7 days!

Do the math. It is the same reason that teenager at Chipotle is told to come in to work by their boss even if they feel sick. I don't like it, but when people have no choice about making money it is best not to take it personally.

FYI that the rest days is depends on the type of STD! For example: Syphilis is 30 days rest. Just saying!

[Christophe1]

I have a couple K-girls I'm in contact with who are aware of this and say they're being careful, but are still working. Not sure how they can be careful if they're still seeing 5-10 clients BBFSCIP every day.

Everyone stay safe!

I have spoke to more than a few providers, not the usual suspects.

Here is how it goes. Antibiotics are taken as a prophylaxis. In Korea you could get them OTC (Not off the clock, farting Adonis guys!) and they were passed around easily. Now, not so easy, but without an rx a doctor can get a working girl the desired needs for about $100.

As a guy everyone should just go SOB, To Mexico!

Buy your stash, gallop à horse on the beach at sunset, and walk into your appointment with test results stapled on you foreheads.

There is a group of posters who have ruined the LA market by flash ing money to get bare coochie. I feel dirty and cheap paying for what I get for free, but this is LA, and the world of the slowtards.

I will be back in a few weeks, I will depend on my characteristics that win the hearts and minds of free thinking beautiful woman and not fall for the pimped out pussy trap.

Ciao bella.

[BigTruckBob]

I provide a lot of detail so people know what they are getting into. I agree, we don't know why Laura and others went blind, or if they have active infections. What we we know is that it happened, and there may be a reason to proceed with caution if you deem it necessary. If you don't think it's a big deal that's okay too. Funny thing, I have a video folder of blind women, and while going through it I discovered Sierra under the name Heather in there. I wrote on her 6 months ago and forgot about it. I have attached some pictures from 8/2023 if you want to see what she looks like now.

Switching gears back to mongering; I have been noticing a lot of talent in Pikesville. I was recently at a motel near Slade Ave and there were a few WSW standing in front but guys were too close to operate. Another WSW was walking down Reisterstown from Slade but she was on a mission to find candy. When I approached her she wanted to pay me to take her to the inner city to find her stuff, but she wasn't trying to fuck because she already had money. When you think about it, a lot of the garrison talent are coming from Pikesville so I going to put this area on my radar.

[FreeWally]

I tend to believe that there is no testing! Or even care about that topic of Health and Well Being for the workers in this line of work.

It is the exception rather than the norm. Makes perfect sense a girl would get tested after going back to Korea or Japan. It wouldn't help her at all to get tested before. It is an act of charity for her to do more.

More to the point, so many girls offer BBFS now that regular testing just means getting antibiotics multiple times rather than once. It will make her feel sick for a day or two at least. And technically, she should not have sex for 7 days!

Do the math. It is the same reason that teenager at Chipotle is told to come in to work by their boss even if they feel sick. I don't like it, but when people have no choice about making money it is best not to take it personally.

[FreeWally]

If any BOOKER reading this, please have all your girls get tested and treat it, if left untreated it will turn into HIV or worse AIDS? I'm not a doctor but I know it gets really bad if not treating it.

If your concern is HIV that is a very specific virus unrelated to other STDs, and you can get tested for antibodies. Even though it can now be treated, it is a very inconvenient lifelong disease no one wants. If you feel sick, it is very unlikely to be HIV, but again to reassure you you can get tested for it. There are many other more common and much easier STDs to get. Herpes being by far the easiest and most common. But thankfully for many people, it can be mild. Please do not confuse feeling sick for any specific disease without further information, it won't help you.

While PIV unprotected sex can definitely spread HIV if the woman is infected, the chance is still low per exposure (about 1 in 100 for PIV at most). Whereas many more SWs have chlamydia and gonorrohea, and with BBFS the chance per exposure is very high. Most people who engage in risky behavior will catch the latter several times and not catch HIV. So if you get sick, take that as a fair warning.

Unfortunately, bbfs can be hard to quit like smoking or gambling. But if you have the reasons, you can do it. I don't judge anyone for it, I've done it myself, but it also has these real risks.