Rants and Stupid shit in Orange County

**Grimmy23** · 10-31-23 13:40

Originally Posted by JamesD2004 [View Original Post]

They are alive and well. Historically, the rent drove them away to Santa Ana. And if they can afford it, they will behave like Irvine.

Costa Mesa isn't massage friendly either, even for legit massage. There are plenty of legit massage places in CM including national chains. I'm friends with the owner of one of them and talk with owners of others on a regular basis, and they'll all tell you that the city is a gigantic pain in the ass. They harass even the legit places and have a bunch of ludicrous city ordinances in place that the code inspectors try to crack down on all the time. It's all stuff that if you followed the rules to the letter it's literally impossible to run even a legit shop. If you own a franchise of a major local chain you have some ability to flip them the bird to a certain extent, and that's what my friend does. They continue to harass them constantly though.

**James D 2004** · 10-30-23 18:57

Originally Posted by DarkRoomDaddy [View Original Post]

There used to be a lot of HE places near Fountain Valley and HB but they all got cleared out one by one by LE. Costa Mesa is not very HE friendly either. Westminster used to have a bunch of Vietnamese coffee shops that were essentially like topless bars. Maybe not topless but girls in bikinis and high heels serving your coffee. I saw a few on Brookhurst and even in the same plaza as SH. They seem to be all gone now.

They are alive and well. Historically, the rent drove them away to Santa Ana. And if they can afford it, they will behave like Irvine.

**DarkRoomDaddy** · 10-30-23 16:20

Originally Posted by OcAmper [View Original Post]

Going back to the late 1980's, do recall seeing an article in OC Register about strip clubs in Anaheim. Obviously, 1980's is a long time ago, so just can't with clarity recall fine details. Do recall the article mentioning the possibility of the system seeking sex offender registration. IIRC, Anaheim was trying to clear out the strip clubs, which we know was a failure since Flamingo and Saraha are still both in business all these years later. So, at one time, the threat of Sex Offender may have been real, but not today.

There used to be a lot of HE places near Fountain Valley and HB but they all got cleared out one by one by LE. Costa Mesa is not very HE friendly either. Westminster used to have a bunch of Vietnamese coffee shops that were essentially like topless bars. Maybe not topless but girls in bikinis and high heels serving your coffee. I saw a few on Brookhurst and even in the same plaza as SH. They seem to be all gone now.

**DarkRoomDaddy** · 10-30-23 16:06

Originally Posted by MrPlumber [View Original Post]

A well run shop will manage foot traffic sufficiently to ensure two "strangers in the night" don't pass in the hallway or front door. The Korean shops were superb at this. Now my mantra is, "Don't get your meat where you get your bread. " Meaning play in someone else's back yard, not your own.

Unfortunately, there is only one bathroom. And its a good idea to drain the train before the sessions so you don't have to run down the aisle with a sheet around you. And after the deed, its time for clean up, and some good light to count out your tip, lest you give her 3 $100's rather than 3 $20's. So that's where you see your opposite numbers. But its also a chance to see some of the other girls as you pass, and collect a name for the next visit.

**James D 2004** · 10-28-23 18:43

You are absolutely not going to hear my comment on her looks. Not on her age either. I think it is my talent to get hard no matter what. But this ability is all too common after all. Indeed we don't need HX at all.

I brought my bottle of 100-proof disinfectant and asked her to try it. She drank most of the bottle, went to the bathroom with it, and pour on her pussy. She told me to bring the bottle again instead of cleaning it up every time.

She is full of personality. Indeed if I were looking for a wife, she would fit. Whatever I asked her, she did it.

But my criteria for a service of 10 is much easier. If she doesn't dampen down my thrust in any position, she is 10 qualified. If she lets me kiss or lick anywhere from the neck down, she is 10 qualified. If she claims DFK but doesn't do it, marks will be deducted. So she got 10 on service.

Repeat? Does it make any difference? Saigon, Bejing, Manila. Just find a site with a k in it and PSE. The older the better. More experience and more desperate. I don't think you can justify the middleman. You are in the wrong place if you are using HX.

**DanCramerOc** · 10-14-23 01:25

I would love to hear it. Even better I would love to post (actually I might) the messages I got from AsianPussy telling me to delete a post I made that was too real, and if I did not do as she said I would be sorry. Her direct quote, "she does not want anyone to know she does that", and like I said to her. I don't care what you want, I am her to share my experiences so the community can benefit from it. After which she said "I am having you banned from every spa in orange county, I will soon run this town". LOL, I told her to do what she does best, actually I can't think of a single thing she does best!

What I really like about her message was how AsianPussy said "we own RM, we own many forum sites and we will get you banned from all of them". Probably true, since RM has removed ROM a few times already, clearly somebody is protecting that sex shop.

It is clear Voodoo you are working for the shop as you want to post messages for them. I personally feel any person affiliated with a shop with agendas should not be on this site.

Originally Posted by VoodooChile [View Original Post]

LOL, I tried but the post got rejected. I think if you have been following other threads at all, it's pretty obvious who is bitter. Just wish I could explain why he was banned. Oh well.

**James D 2004** · 10-12-23 17:42

Ah, behold the "yuk factor" – that curious sensation that creeps up in the world of dining. In a restaurant, your focus rarely dwells on what others are devouring, even if it's the very same dish. But here, in this culinary hobby, you're not only partaking in the same meal but also sharing the same plate!

When it comes to escorts, it's an intriguing realm where they've become accustomed to the striking diversity of their clients. To them, it's all about the exchange of currency. While some adapt effortlessly to this myriad of appearances, for others, it's a constant, unrelenting hustle. Now, don't get me wrong, but I'm not particularly keen on inspecting how we all appear. One girl resorts to walking the streets. If she doesn't want to be with that person and be locked in the same room, she just rips him off.

**VoodooChile** · 10-12-23 14:21

Doesn't bother me a bit. I am in the final stages of a 30 year marriage, we just grew in different directions and I do not have the time to "date" again. I love the hobby and have no problems admitting it.

**CarGuyF599** · 10-12-23 14:05

Personally, I don't want to see anybody. Even though I only do this on the road.

Idk about the rest of you, but I'm not exactly proud of doing this and there is some shame as a side effect. Seeing another dude, even though we're both there for the same thing, is not what I want. A good agency knows this and will take pains to avoid us seeing eacch other. Whether it's sticking us in a room to wait, or I've even had Mamasan come and hold up a large towel in front of me as another dude was leaving. I for one do not want to see the dude that just CIM, CIP, etc of the lady I'm about to spend time with.

**TheZorak** · 10-11-23 22:50

If I was sure I was passing another guy, I'd have a mini panic attack trying my best not to show it. This is definitely my dirty little secret. I want no acknowledgement from anyone while moving around.

**Mr Plumber** · 10-11-23 10:24

Originally Posted by Sticker [View Original Post]

As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?

A well run shop will manage foot traffic sufficiently to ensure two "strangers in the night" don't pass in the hallway or front door. The Korean shops were superb at this. Now my mantra is, "Don't get your meat where you get your bread. " Meaning play in someone else's back yard, not your own.

**Heartless Jay** · 10-10-23 23:37

Originally Posted by Sticker [View Original Post]

As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?

Reminds me of an experience walking through a touristy area in Thailand with a hot young thai girl on my arm on the way back to my room to fuck, and some hag of a white girl giving me dirty looks. I just met her stare and smiled, thinking to myself and wanting her to read my mind. Yep I'm going to fuck this little hottie, and I wouldn't fuck your sloppy white pussy if your husband paid me to do it. After that I started looking for eye contact, just to let them know there was no shame in my heart. Bring it.

**Taws6** · 10-10-23 19:34

Originally Posted by Maxen [View Original Post]

For me its just guilt, LOL, years ago I was in the waiting room with a kids friend's dad, at the next soccer game he just kept asking me for details.

To further that comment, if either person was a coach on the team, or any other youth volunteer, AB506 comes into play. Background check, fingerprinting etc.

Those that have work security clearances.

Those that might feel they are more in the public eye and if they were seen visiting a place, it wold be harmful to their profession.

Easier to deny and say hey, it wasn't me if it ever comes up, rather than hey, I saw you at XXXX, who did you get & who would you recommend?

Might be good in some circles, not so much in others.

**AlexRodriguez** · 10-10-23 19:02

Originally Posted by OcAmper [View Original Post]

Suppose, walk of shame, LOL. I rarely see any mongers coming / going, so can't really share in that experience. I would probably say something similar, enjoy, good luck, etc.

Rarely is it ever reciprocated, however.

**SCJohn** · 10-10-23 19:02

Originally Posted by Sticker [View Original Post]

As a longtime monger who has frequented hundreds of AMPs, it still surprises me when I see another dude leaving, entering or inside waiting who will not make eye contact when I pass him. The standard reaction I see is to either look away or look down, avoiding eye contact at all costs.

We're all there paying for a good time, so why is so hard to exchange knowing smiles at the very least. Hey, I'm not trying to make friends, just being friendly. If a dude is entering a place as I'm leaving, I might say "Have a blast" or a simple "Enjoy", but more often than not, there is no acknowledgment. It's no big deal to me; more of curiosity.

So who of you feel similarly, and who might like to share your thoughts on why you want no eye contact or brief greetings with fellow customers?

Yep, I feel the same, we all know what we are going there for. No need to be embarrassed. I normally give the guy a high five as he leaves.