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 Originally Posted by NutritionFacts
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I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.
Heck yes do it! I've done this. My issue sometimes was not having enough time to meet up with all the babies I had lined up. I had everything all discussed with them, amounts, what they liked and open to in the sack, etc. Just to much pussy ready to go and literally not enough time to see them.
It's easy just reach out to them and say I'm so and so from Seeking. And just wondering if you might still be interested and needing help. And make up something like your schedule was hectic busy and sorry you couldn't meet up. It's 50/50 whether they are still interested and I've had luck being able to hook up with some. Just don't be surprised if some are married now and have kids. Or some have gained weight and are not as hot as they used to be. That's life. No biggie. So I'd suggest doing some reverse searches on any contact info you have for them. Phone #, reverse face searches, so that maybe you can find them on Facebook or Insta and see where they may be at in life and if you still want to reach out. A lot could have changed since 2015 for them.
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Reaching out to old SBs or potentials
I have a bit of a contact list of SBs I have talked to (but mostly not met) since 2015. Now that I am off SA would it be weird / advisable to reach out to some of them to see if they are still sugaring and dtf? What should I say? Any advice.
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 Originally Posted by NutritionFacts
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Think its a cyclical or pattern that will get better sometime?
Not sure. I stick to trying to find fresh young sugarbabies. And right now that pool is tiny compared to before covid. Even the overall pool is small. If I remember correctly the overall pool without any search filters used to be at 100,000+ before covid. Now it's only 10,000+ for all sugarbabies of any age. So that's a considerable drop. I'm hoping more younger honeys will give it a try but it's going to be a slow climb.
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 Originally Posted by Lexx1
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Covid is what happened and it's still affecting things. And as mentioned it's affecting the pool of available girls in all ethnicities not just Asian. Remember we're dealing in a game that involves super intimate contact. Prostitutes rebounded pretty quick because that's usually their only way to make money. But fresh newbie babies are probably looking for other means for extra cash other than fucking for it. Less risk of getting sick from covid and also the other usual std's. The pool of young fresh newbies is considerably smaller than before covid.
Think its a cyclical or pattern that will get better sometime?
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YES, Arrangements are "Over"
 Originally Posted by NutritionFacts
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What happened to them? Is Sugaring past its peak?
Inevitable. Fashions and social phenomena in general always have an expiry date.
Being an SB was a cool / fun thing for sorority coeds say 6 years ago. That in itself guarantees that it isn't cool today.
That was yesterday's fashion.
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Covid
 Originally Posted by NutritionFacts
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What happened to them? Is Sugaring past its peak?
Covid is what happened and it's still affecting things. And as mentioned it's affecting the pool of available girls in all ethnicities not just Asian. Remember we're dealing in a game that involves super intimate contact. Prostitutes rebounded pretty quick because that's usually their only way to make money. But fresh newbie babies are probably looking for other means for extra cash other than fucking for it. Less risk of getting sick from covid and also the other usual std's. The pool of young fresh newbies is considerably smaller than before covid.
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 Originally Posted by Lexx1
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Sorry man it's not something that's easily teachable. Some things I do have to say is stop going for older babies. Late 20's and above ask for to much. Because they have to many responsibilities. So they usually expect more. You don't want a seasoned vet sugarbaby. Especially the ones that tell you straight out in their profile that they've had previous daddies. That's the first strike for me and I move on to the next profile. Girls that say treat me like a princess or say "generous" in their profile. Another sentence that irks me in their profiles is "don't waste my time". Well fuck you b*tch then! I move on the next profile. When you see that, that's just the tip of the iceberg. If you really read what some of these girls put in their profiles. You can usually easily see the warning signs right away. Fellas just don't look at the pretty pics of these chics. READ what they write in their profiles.
I make really good money in my profession but when it comes to pussy. It really shouldn't be expensive and really should be as free as possible. I still date in regular civie life. But when you're in your 40's it's not that easy to find that hot young 18/19 year old to rock your world. I civie date late 20's, 30's and some early 40's. Once in a while I'll find a young one on sites like okcupid that's curious about dating an older dude. But when I want it fast and guarantee that it's just about dessert getting into those young panties. Then I go on the hunt on Seeking.
Much truth here- beware of a bunch or rules and disclaimers in the profile as well as those POTS are likely not going to be a good time. Someone who starts things off by strafing their applicants is to be avoided. And true, the older they are, the more bills they have.
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 Originally Posted by MacEatBright
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May I ask you how to negotiate? For now, most of them will ask for a ridiculous number and not guarantee for the time they stay together. Some will ask to leave or even vanish with no signs after the first pop. How do you prevent that from happening to you and keep it for a long time?
Sorry man it's not something that's easily teachable. Some things I do have to say is stop going for older babies. Late 20's and above ask for to much. Because they have to many responsibilities. So they usually expect more. You don't want a seasoned vet sugarbaby. Especially the ones that tell you straight out in their profile that they've had previous daddies. That's the first strike for me and I move on to the next profile. Girls that say treat me like a princess or say "generous" in their profile. Another sentence that irks me in their profiles is "don't waste my time". Well fuck you b*tch then! I move on the next profile. When you see that, that's just the tip of the iceberg. If you really read what some of these girls put in their profiles. You can usually easily see the warning signs right away. Fellas just don't look at the pretty pics of these chics. READ what they write in their profiles.
I make really good money in my profession but when it comes to pussy. It really shouldn't be expensive and really should be as free as possible. I still date in regular civie life. But when you're in your 40's it's not that easy to find that hot young 18/19 year old to rock your world. I civie date late 20's, 30's and some early 40's. Once in a while I'll find a young one on sites like okcupid that's curious about dating an older dude. But when I want it fast and guarantee that it's just about dessert getting into those young panties. Then I go on the hunt on Seeking.
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 Originally Posted by Lexx1
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Because for the 300/400 average you're dropping on a kgirl. You can still get lucky and find a younger, just as cute or hotter, Asian girl in other nationalities as a sugarbaby. Not just Korean. And for around the same price if you know how to negotiate. And not be limited to just an hour or less playtime.
Some guys still use the monger mentality when talking to a POT. You don't do that. Don't talk about hourly, or for an hour, or other monger terms such as BBBJ, cim, etc. A true fresh sugarbaby / non-pro shouldn't be talked to in those terms and you shouldn't set a time limit on the meetups. I spend on average 2 sometimes 3 hours with my arrangements. Sometimes overnights. Doing all kinds of naughty things in the sack. Taking pics, videos. Creampies, swallowing, anal. Try doing all that with a kgirl for that same price and for that long. Ain't going to happen and kgirls are high mileage on them.
I've said it before and will say it again. The arrangement game is the best value bang for the buck. If you negotiate and keep the price low.
The only thing that kind of gets close is if you travel to southeast Asian countries. But I don't travel so the sugar game is my dreamland. It used to be even cheaper back in the non-pro days on Craigslist. The same quality of girls on Seeking but at basement prices. I'd spend 100 average for young cute White girls, Asian girls, Latinas, etc. I'd still dabble on Seeking back then too. But even then it was still a little pricier than craigslist and it's personal ads section. And no need to pay a membership fee. Craig's was and always has been free. Fuck Trump and his damn Fosta law! That's what screwed up everything and the gold rush on Craigslist.
May I ask you how to negotiate? For now, most of them will ask for a ridiculous number and not guarantee for the time they stay together. Some will ask to leave or even vanish with no signs after the first pop. How do you prevent that from happening to you and keep it for a long time?
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 Originally Posted by KathmanDouche
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I'm personally not really attracted to Asian women, at all really, so I just don't get that at all. But there are many, many, K-girls and shit all over the region, why seek a conceded ones with GPS on Seeking?
Because for the 300/400 average you're dropping on a kgirl. You can still get lucky and find a younger, just as cute or hotter, Asian girl in other nationalities as a sugarbaby. Not just Korean. And for around the same price if you know how to negotiate. And not be limited to just an hour or less playtime.
Some guys still use the monger mentality when talking to a POT. You don't do that. Don't talk about hourly, or for an hour, or other monger terms such as BBBJ, cim, etc. A true fresh sugarbaby / non-pro shouldn't be talked to in those terms and you shouldn't set a time limit on the meetups. I spend on average 2 sometimes 3 hours with my arrangements. Sometimes overnights. Doing all kinds of naughty things in the sack. Taking pics, videos. Creampies, swallowing, anal. Try doing all that with a kgirl for that same price and for that long. Ain't going to happen and kgirls are high mileage on them.
I've said it before and will say it again. The arrangement game is the best value bang for the buck. If you negotiate and keep the price low.
The only thing that kind of gets close is if you travel to southeast Asian countries. But I don't travel so the sugar game is my dreamland. It used to be even cheaper back in the non-pro days on Craigslist. The same quality of girls on Seeking but at basement prices. I'd spend 100 average for young cute White girls, Asian girls, Latinas, etc. I'd still dabble on Seeking back then too. But even then it was still a little pricier than craigslist and it's personal ads section. And no need to pay a membership fee. Craig's was and always has been free. Fuck Trump and his damn Fosta law! That's what screwed up everything and the gold rush on Craigslist.
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 Originally Posted by NutritionFacts
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What happened to them? Is Sugaring past its peak?
As far as I can see it is. Less girls in general, less young newbies. Higher prices. Not talking about asian girls, just in general.
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Really miss all the college asians
What happened to them? Is Sugaring past its peak?
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I Don't Get Asian GPS
 Originally Posted by BigBear818
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Most of them feel like they are entitled and think they deserve to be put on a pedal stood, but the reality is that they shouldn't even be put on a foot stool. Like the Cherry Sia chic for example think she's a 10, but she's a 5-6 at best with a broke pimp that follows and she reports to. Not worth the hassle of me looking over my shoulder or a risk of me doing something that may put me in legal trouble.
I'm personally not really attracted to Asian women, at all really, so I just don't get that at all. But there are many, many, K-girls and shit all over the region, why seek a conceded ones with GPS on Seeking?
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White and Asian SB GPS
 Originally Posted by LB0562
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Almost all white / asians asking for 1 k+ and they're not even hot. Average at best. I pull hotter chicks on hinge / tinder.
Most of them feel like they are entitled and think they deserve to be put on a pedal stood, but the reality is that they shouldn't even be put on a foot stool. Like the Cherry Sia chic for example think she's a 10, but she's a 5-6 at best with a broke pimp that follows and she reports to. Not worth the hassle of me looking over my shoulder or a risk of me doing something that may put me in legal trouble.
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 Originally Posted by IronClad999
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Hope she's still in good shape and has extras if available, thanks man.
After reading the warnings and shit. You still considering hooking up with this chic? Be careful dude don't get blackmailed. Plenty of other cute young Asian girls on seeking that don't have a pimp boyfriend and are more of a true fresh sugarbaby. Not a prostitute. Seeking is meant to hopefully find a true fresh non-pro / sugarbaby. Not for pros.
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