"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Johnny Mapalo]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-cef1af11430c

She was down to meet but I don't really trust any profile if it's not verified. I don't care how hot your photos are if it's going to be catfish. Thought I'd share it here to see if anyone had experience with her before.

That's Myra thirsty ass. She's been posting on there and Listcrawler for years looking for simps to overpay for nothing. She basically wants $30 for you to buss 1 nut. She got over on some guy on here years ago and she's always messaging on every website she sees me on. Hard pass on her ass.

[Tribeca67]

Not sure if real or fake, instantly sent me her cashapp on seeking and I didn't reply cause you get banned but girls don't.

[Darmour88]

A good strategy is to pay an initial higher amount for a first date, & then a lower rate going forward. Say she wants $400 for a first date, agree but $250-300 going forward.

I've tried that before more than once. They usually always agree. Then most of the time after the first time they ghost. Or they will go back on their word to say they can't do the lower amount and is worth the higher number initially.

[Darmour88]

Sometimes I'll chat with a girl on SA who checks all the boxes, but her ask amount for PPM is too high for what I'm willing to pay.

Normally, I'll just politely decline without a counter. However, a couple of times that I have countered the girl gets offended that I'm not willing to pay the amount she wants.

So what have been SUCCESSFUL negotiation tactics you've used to get a girl down from a high dollar amount to something you're comfortable with paying?

It's a trend nowadays that keeps getting worse. They do the same thing in the regular dating world. They might be very average themselves but want a guy that's over six feet. Six pack abs. Six figures.

[SeekingHead]

Sometimes I'll chat with a girl on SA who checks all the boxes, but her ask amount for PPM is too high for what I'm willing to pay.

Normally, I'll just politely decline without a counter. However, a couple of times that I have countered the girl gets offended that I'm not willing to pay the amount she wants.

So what have been SUCCESSFUL negotiation tactics you've used to get a girl down from a high dollar amount to something you're comfortable with paying?

A good strategy is to pay an initial higher amount for a first date, & then a lower rate going forward. Say she wants $400 for a first date, agree but $250-300 going forward.

[ElSexoChino7]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-cef1af11430c

She was down to meet but I don't really trust any profile if it's not verified. I don't care how hot your photos are if it's going to be catfish. Thought I'd share it here to see if anyone had experience with her before.

[GeneSimmons]

Dipped back into the sugar bowl and exchanged some messages with this one. Couple of bikini pics but none of her face. Whatever maybe just wants privacy. She moved right to text and asked to meet for lunch and if I would be ok with $250. Said I'm not into intimacy but asked if she was ok with just intimacy for $250. She responded by saying I was gross, would fuck anything that moves and should get an escort.

Never progressed far enough to get any sense that she was real but something seemed off. Either a time waster, scammer or pic collector. Wouldn't share additional pic and immediately blocked me after her mini rant. LOL. Ahh seeking, it's good to be back.

[Verdit]

Sometimes I'll chat with a girl on SA who checks all the boxes, but her ask amount for PPM is too high for what I'm willing to pay.

Normally, I'll just politely decline without a counter. However, a couple of times that I have countered the girl gets offended that I'm not willing to pay the amount she wants.

So what have been SUCCESSFUL negotiation tactics you've used to get a girl down from a high dollar amount to something you're comfortable with paying?

[TopGun9]

No, they're not reading the same blog anywhere. The main reason they're not responding after you filled them up with an oatmeal cream pie is mainly because they're probably not on any birth control. They told you condom at first because they're probably fertile as a Mexican senorita. You talked them into bare and they're probably afraid to get pregnant from a total stranger. I've had chic's who gave it to me bare without me asking. Months later they told me condom sex because they weren't on birth control anymore. I respected that and did cover sex and they still answer my text all the time. Not every chic is OK with bare sex if they're not on some type of birth control.

Never assume!

I always ask them if they have birth control, and that I have Plan B if they don't. If they didn't have birth control, I always give them a Plan B to take after I filled them up. And I always make sure they swallow the pill down in front of me in the hotel room before we leave.

And yes, I always ask if they OK with going bare and if they OK with me me giving them a creampie.

I don't ever go bare or creampie them unless they are fully aware and consent to it.

[Atlanta2010]

I saw her last year at her room. Pro-ish and didn't exactly smell fresh but great petite body.

She lives in the room and has a few pets dogs and cats. When I got there, had me lay on the bed and watched tv. No convo, not interested in anything, just bare responses. Had me take off my clothes as she stripped and gave a crap HJ while she kept watching tv. Tried to move her head towards me for a BJ, but she was really interested in whatever show was on😂. Then says ready, and gets into doggy. Tight and felt great for a bit, but once I got a whiff of the funk, I wasn't going to finish. Tried to keep going so I could at least bust, but everything about the evening was a let down and it just wasn't happening.

I'm not demanding or forceful, so YMMV, but she's hit me up after a couple of times and I just stay away rather than throw money away just for an awesome bod.

Interesting, I went back and forth with her at the beginning of Aug. She told me she could host, was looking for mutually beneficial ppm to start and go from there and asked what I was willing to offer gift wise. I HATE giving the first # so responded nicely with a compliment and yes that would work and "What are you looking for giftwise. " She responded "idk I'm usually just offered an amount". So I offered 1. 5. She said that's ok for hanging out but not to be intimate. Since she didn't counter or seem to have a rapport with me so I wished her good luck.

[TopGun9]

Does anyone use Sugardaddyforme?

Sent around 50-60 messages and have yet to receive a single response.

The site seems like it was designed in the 1990's. Pics look low quality, can't see a baby's join date or last active date / time. Can't sort by newest, most recent active, distance, etc.

Is this site still legit, do you hunt on here?

[Atlvoy]

I know this a stretch, but just curious about other's experience with latinas.

Was a wave of newer latinas that came on the scene, went from texting to setting up a date to meet and then literally all of them ghosted?

Anyone have any luck or have any score?

[KingHorama2]

I saw her last year at her room. Pro-ish and didn't exactly smell fresh but great petite body.

She lives in the room and has a few pets dogs and cats. When I got there, had me lay on the bed and watched tv. No convo, not interested in anything, just bare responses. Had me take off my clothes as she stripped and gave a crap HJ while she kept watching tv. Tried to move her head towards me for a BJ, but she was really interested in whatever show was on😂. Then says ready, and gets into doggy. Tight and felt great for a bit, but once I got a whiff of the funk, I wasn't going to finish. Tried to keep going so I could at least bust, but everything about the evening was a let down and it just wasn't happening.

I'm not demanding or forceful, so YMMV, but she's hit me up after a couple of times and I just stay away rather than throw money away just for an awesome bod.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...0-84dc4ad21029

I'm too much in conflict with this one but I'm in favor of listening to my big head and staying safe.

She liked me back a day after I fav'ed her. I have bare minimum information in my profile, and I have no profile pics. We moved to text after I told her I'd like to meet during the same day.

Red flag 1:

She was kind of pushy to meet at her place, a behavior no real girl would display after a few texts. I asked to meet at a hotel of my choosing, then she came back with a "I'm already in an hotel" reply LOL. Some shady looking hotel on Delk Road. She was rushing to meet, a typical scammer vibe where they try to fool you by rushing things.

I asked for a selfie, she sent one. Facecheck revealed her * account. She was on porn too. At this point I'm like whatever. I asked her to give me an invite link to prove she is in fact the account holder. A facetime call would have been easier but I'm too paranoid and cannot take a FT call anyway. She also sent me a message on OF. This feels kind of OK but still, someone else could be managing her profile at the same time.

Red flag 2:

She insisted I visit her room instead of coming to my room. 400 ppm, multiple pops available, probably bare but no CIP.

Too many red flags for me to enjoy a kitty. I did not partake. If you have experience with her, I'd appreciate if you can share some bits. She looks quite petite but also TGTBT.

[Roddee]

First of all. . . Half the ladies I bang where from your post here. Thanks for that.

For the fun of discussion. . . I would agree with you except we agreed to cip before she came over. I would have been fine paying for an abortion, but the ghosting seemed odd to me. If she had responded ever, I probably would have entertained her being pregnant. Even if she responded with ' I don't want to do bare anymore '. . . Which has happened to me too.

Again, thanks for taking a billion for the team. I owe you.

No, they're not reading the same blog anywhere. The main reason they're not responding after you filled them up with an oatmeal cream pie is mainly because they're probably not on any birth control. They told you condom at first because they're probably fertile as a Mexican senorita. You talked them into bare and they're probably afraid to get pregnant from a total stranger. I've had chic's who gave it to me bare without me asking. Months later they told me condom sex because they weren't on birth control anymore. I respected that and did cover sex and they still answer my text all the time. Not every chic is OK with bare sex if they're not on some type of birth control.

[Member #6517]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...0-84dc4ad21029

I'm too much in conflict with this one but I'm in favor of listening to my big head and staying safe.

She liked me back a day after I fav'ed her. I have bare minimum information in my profile, and I have no profile pics. We moved to text after I told her I'd like to meet during the same day.

Red flag 1:

She was kind of pushy to meet at her place, a behavior no real girl would display after a few texts. I asked to meet at a hotel of my choosing, then she came back with a "I'm already in an hotel" reply LOL. Some shady looking hotel on Delk Road. She was rushing to meet, a typical scammer vibe where they try to fool you by rushing things.

I asked for a selfie, she sent one. Facecheck revealed her * account. She was on porn too. At this point I'm like whatever. I asked her to give me an invite link to prove she is in fact the account holder. A facetime call would have been easier but I'm too paranoid and cannot take a FT call anyway. She also sent me a message on OF. This feels kind of OK but still, someone else could be managing her profile at the same time.

Red flag 2:

She insisted I visit her room instead of coming to my room. 400 ppm, multiple pops available, probably bare but no CIP.

Too many red flags for me to enjoy a kitty. I did not partake. If you have experience with her, I'd appreciate if you can share some bits. She looks quite petite but also TGTBT.