Strip Club Reports

[PelicanT99]

What you consider hot might be a 5 to others, just saying, and I'm no rookie.

….A lot of these so called vets are still clueless.

Both true statements, but irrelevant to my posts. I was just sharing my tactics, which I find successful at getting reasonable deals closed, to my fellow mongers reporting less success on pricing. And if xBiker's resume, cred and contributions to the monger community aren't recognized, that's unfortunate (altho I still think he took his hand off the BI tiller when he should have pulled an Alexander Haig haha). Maybe it's the concepts of contributions and sharing that are the issue haha. But "cool story, bro" as you say.

As to Googled Guy, you have now lived my nightmare. I don't have a spouse, but my well-paying job could have been really hurt by stoned strippers blackmailing or texts / pics read over my shoulder. My McAffee report still shows dark web use of my real phone number from an address once occupied by a stripper that had it before I started security measures. I use a burner phone now. I can see how that might be problematic if found by your SO, but then use an app with a different number & contact info. Often your iPhone lets people see your "contact info" unless you adjust some settings. It's just a slippery slope and the consequences of a fall could be dire. This hobby should provide "night sweats" from fun, not worry.

Once upon a time on some monger website, I posted about my whole "never the whole truth" game plan: TLDR I tell them a fake last name, fake but good job, fake city I live in, etc. But the details in stories are true, I just change the names / dates / etc. , but limited to pertinent identity data reduces the risk of getting caught (only a risk with the few smart & attentive girls haha).

And if you ever, ever contemplate taking a sex worker to your actual home address: just DON'T. Or the consequences are on you.

[Nutinyoface323]

Sounds like some MK ultra-esque psychic short circuiting. Most likely it was drugs but I wouldn't rule out some brief mental break, complete disassociating. It's kind of surprising freakouts don't happen more often in the club. The toll it must take to be taking it all day long day after day. You have to have strong compartmentalization abilities.

You forget their favorite drug of choice, cocaine. A lot of these so called vets are still clueless.

[Roland2418]

Sounds like some MK ultra-esque psychic short circuiting. Most likely it was drugs but I wouldn't rule out some brief mental break, complete disassociating. It's kind of surprising freakouts don't happen more often in the club. The toll it must take to be taking it all day long day after day. You have to have strong compartmentalization abilities.

Had one of the weirdest VIP ever a few weeks ago. At least for me it was weird. I ran into a dancer that had come out of retirement. I've only danced with a few times in the past. She was on stage, so I went up, tipped her and agree to a VIP. She didn't act like she remember me, but no biggie. I wasn't a regular of hers. When we got into VIP room, I tried to start some small talk. I ask her how her day was going. She said "fine". As the dance started, her lips sucked in (lack of better way to describe it) and her eyes looked dead. No smile, nothing. Kind of blank stare into space look. She didn't say word. I was kind freaked out. During the whole VIP she didn't say a word, or even make eye contact. It felt like she wasn't there (mentally)) and just going thru the steps. Frist time something like this happened to me and I was shocked into silence. I got a decent VGM dance, there some feeding, SSTP, and good grind. No extras were offered. The only other words she uttered was "Do you have a tip for me? After I tipped a $20, she left without another word. No "Thank you", "Come see me again", or even a "Goodbye". Am I overacting? Is that something anyone else expected? I guess she could have been stoned.

[Roland2418]

Glad for a new report on some reasonable value still to be found out there. She's not the best looker in the club but sounds like her performance more than made up for it.

Went to Synn during the day and seen Kailey on stage. I loved her tattoos and fake tits so tipped her on stage. After her stage performance, she came and sat down, we then went for a $30 dance. The dance was great and I think she could tell I was enjoying it a lot. She then asked if I wanted to go to VIP for $200 for CBJ and CFS. I said lets do it.

Paid for the VIP for 15 minutes at $120 and then tipped Kailey $200. I had a great time and her pussy is so tight! She also offers services out of the clubs too but outcall only for $400.

[Nutinyoface323]

Haven't been on the scene for awhile accept visiting Paradise last week. Per that visit, Nina was looking good and thick and did a nice stage show but I was in the mood to drive something different that night. The same with Cherry (nice stage show and after came down to chat with me. I tipped her and complimented her on her stage dance. She made the bells tingle a bit but, not exactly what I was looking for. I watched Love's stage show next and she was OK but when she got naked her butt jewelry got my attention. She came down from stage and chatted with me. I was close to test driving her from the front and backseat but, again, not exactly what I was in the mood for and I also had a vibe it would be at some exorbitant cost. Please let me know if you know different?

I'm a firm believer in 2 bills for FS and maybe a 20 or 40 tip for the exceptional girl (or) an exceptional performance. I've veered from that twice with that cunning little * Andrea (meant in a positive way). I had to see what the hype was all about. This was pre-boob job too. She got me for 3 bills at Synn one night and a year later for 275 towards the end of a day shift at TL. She must have really needed the money because I've haggled with her many times between and no luck. To me good pussy starts to feel suspiciously the same between 2&3 hundred dollars. I don't get it, my ATF has gotten "THOUSANDS" and a birthday card out of me. , oh well and not my business. Again, which club?.

So she has given you a 25-dollar discount. Cool story.

[Roland2418]

This is unusual. But these girls are not geniuses and aren't getting someone to do a CSI investigation. It's just probably something you said, might have let something extra slip. If you google your first name, los angeles / CA, and whatever generalities about your job, could you find info yourself? How many times had you seen her before? Any chance you dropped something identifiable from your wallet in a prior VIP?

I had just finished a successful VIP with a regular and we started chatting it up afterwards but then she mentioned a specific about my job. It put me off because I never volunteer specifics about me, just vague in-generals. I do use my real first name and mentioned that I'm am engineer which is true but sanitation to aeronautics who knows. I played it normal like I didn't hear it but my mind was like WTF; is she stalking me, did she call into my office, is she and her boyfriend going to rob my house, ect? None of these things are a worry to me because I'm single and my first line of defense are my 2 Rottweilers that love daddy since they were pups. I'm guessing my cel or car plate.? Fucking internet. Anyway, haven't visited her since. I've been screened by an escort but who would have thunk by a dancer, imo.

[XBiker]

Be objective with yourself; if you are:

1. Good-looking, she finds you attractive, you think she'd date you outside the club = she probably just likes you and researched you. You probably gave up more info than you think. In the future chill-out on details from here on out, play dumb, don't take anything she says seriously, don't act shocked or surprised, never discuss how much money you make / how much you have, use a fake name (not in this case but future new dancers. If you end up being cool you can spill the beans and tell them your real name, they'll understand the safety aspect). If you guys are cool I'd just straight up ask her "how'd you know about that stuff?" Hell, I'm assuming she's attractive since you're dropping some pretty coin on her, see what she's like outside the club / ask her out. If you don't like the vibe anymore just keep avoiding her or her shifts entirely. Sounds like she has your cell, don't respond to texts or phone calls.

2. If you look like Quasimodo / she wouldn't look at you twice in public = CHANGE YOUR LOCKS, BUY A SECURITY CAMERA SYSTEM, HIDE A GUN IN EVERY ROOM, YOUR SITUATION IS COMPROMISED.

Just kidding, you'll be fine, just refer to the tips in number 1. Hopefully you live far so they won't be tailing your ass. Jk.

Is your cellphone public? Like if you type it in google will it show up as something? I'd get a burner app on your phone, $10-$20/ month to have a burner number is a good safety net. I don't mind having social media (my line of work it's not critical) but if you can manage it, delete social media or at the very least remove any photos with your face / identifying info it.

edit. Oops, to answer your question, yes it's happened to me. Also if your position is LinkedIn-level make sure that's all nice and stalker-proof.

Here another piece of advice NEVER give out your last name. If you have normal first name, like John or Steve, you should be fine you are using it. Usually, it hard to find someone on the internet with just a first name, especially if a common one.

[Rot9020]

Haven't been on the scene for awhile accept visiting Paradise last week. Per that visit, Nina was looking good and thick and did a nice stage show but I was in the mood to drive something different that night. The same with Cherry (nice stage show and after came down to chat with me. I tipped her and complimented her on her stage dance. She made the bells tingle a bit but, not exactly what I was looking for. I watched Love's stage show next and she was OK but when she got naked her butt jewelry got my attention. She came down from stage and chatted with me. I was close to test driving her from the front and backseat but, again, not exactly what I was in the mood for and I also had a vibe it would be at some exorbitant cost. Please let me know if you know different?

I'm a firm believer in 2 bills for FS and maybe a 20 or 40 tip for the exceptional girl (or) an exceptional performance. I've veered from that twice with that cunning little * Andrea (meant in a positive way). I had to see what the hype was all about. This was pre-boob job too. She got me for 3 bills at Synn one night and a year later for 275 towards the end of a day shift at TL. She must have really needed the money because I've haggled with her many times between and no luck. To me good pussy starts to feel suspiciously the same between 2&3 hundred dollars. I don't get it, my ATF has gotten "THOUSANDS" and a birthday card out of me. , oh well and not my business. Again, which club?

I'll consider 3 bills but pussy is like NFL running backs nowadays, you may find a one year deal but no multi-year deals with an increased salary. - Cheers.

P.S. - The ATF above is not the stalker mention in my other post but was a good 2nd, LOL.

[Rot9020]

Be objective with yourself; if you are:

1. Good-looking, she finds you attractive, you think she'd date you outside the club = she probably just likes you and researched you. You probably gave up more info than you think. In the future chill-out on details from here on out, play dumb, don't take anything she says seriously, don't act shocked or surprised, never discuss how much money you make / how much you have, use a fake name (not in this case but future new dancers. If you end up being cool you can spill the beans and tell them your real name, they'll understand the safety aspect). If you guys are cool I'd just straight up ask her "how'd you know about that stuff?" Hell, I'm assuming she's attractive since you're dropping some pretty coin on her, see what she's like outside the club / ask her out. If you don't like the vibe anymore just keep avoiding her or her shifts entirely. Sounds like she has your cell, don't respond to texts or phone calls.

2. If you look like Quasimodo / she wouldn't look at you twice in public = CHANGE YOUR LOCKS, BUY A SECURITY CAMERA SYSTEM, HIDE A GUN IN EVERY ROOM, YOUR SITUATION IS COMPROMISED.

Just kidding, you'll be fine, just refer to the tips in number 1. Hopefully you live far so they won't be tailing your ass. Jk.

Is your cellphone public? Like if you type it in google will it show up as something? I'd get a burner app on your phone, $10-$20/ month to have a burner number is a good safety net. I don't mind having social media (my line of work it's not critical) but if you can manage it, delete social media or at the very least remove any photos with your face / identifying info it.

edit. Oops, to answer your question, yes it's happened to me. Also if your position is LinkedIn-level make sure that's all nice and stalker-proof.

Wow, you too! That's what I was curious about and if any wild stories from anyone?

Lmao at #2. I do have security cameras but when my two big friends wake me, someone may be also getting a "hello from my little friend", LOL. No serious worries on all of that, it's just like you mentioned though; I have no overt social media or internet presence. I'm hard to find unless you really dig into it. That's what threw me a curve to the effort she went through to get that info.

IMO, I'm no Quasimodo, LOL but as someone else said here, I do dress well, shower and smell good and always-always wear a nice pair of shoes, dress or sneaker. I always park my car further away too.

[Nutinyoface323]

Be objective with yourself; if you are:

1. Good-looking, she finds you attractive, you think she'd date you outside the club = she probably just likes you and researched you. You probably gave up more info than you think. In the future chill-out on details from here on out, play dumb, don't take anything she says seriously, don't act shocked or surprised, never discuss how much money you make / how much you have, use a fake name (not in this case but future new dancers. If you end up being cool you can spill the beans and tell them your real name, they'll understand the safety aspect). If you guys are cool I'd just straight up ask her "how'd you know about that stuff?" Hell, I'm assuming she's attractive since you're dropping some pretty coin on her, see what she's like outside the club / ask her out. If you don't like the vibe anymore just keep avoiding her or her shifts entirely.

2. If you look like Quasimodo / she wouldn't look at you twice in public = CHANGE YOUR LOCKS, BUY A SECURITY CAMERA SYSTEM, HIDE A GUN IN EVERY ROOM, YOUR SITUATION IS COMPROMISED.

Just kidding, you'll be fine, just refer to the tips in number 1. Hopefully you live far so they won't be tailing your ass. Jk.

Is your cellphone public? Like if you type it in google will it show up as something? I'd get a burner app on your phone, $10-$20/ month to have a burner number is a good safety net. I don't mind having social media (my line of work it's not critical) but if you can manage it, delete social media or at the very least remove any photos with your face / identifying info it.

Cool story.

[SuperFreakOMG3]

I had just finished a successful VIP with a regular and we started chatting it up afterwards but then she mentioned a specific about my job. It put me off because I never volunteer specifics about me, just vague in-generals. I do use my real first name and mentioned that I'm am engineer which is true but sanitation to aeronautics who knows. I played it normal like I didn't hear it but my mind was like WTF; is she stalking me, did she call into my office, is she and her boyfriend going to rob my house, ect? None of these things are a worry to me because I'm single and my first line of defense are my 2 Rottweilers that love daddy since they were pups. I'm guessing my cel or car plate.? Fucking internet. Anyway, haven't visited her since. I've been screened by an escort but who would have thunk by a dancer, imo.

Be objective with yourself; if you are:

1. Good-looking, she finds you attractive, you think she'd date you outside the club = she probably just likes you and researched you. You probably gave up more info than you think. In the future chill-out on details from here on out, play dumb, don't take anything she says seriously, don't act shocked or surprised, never discuss how much money you make / how much you have, use a fake name (not in this case but future new dancers. If you end up being cool you can spill the beans and tell them your real name, they'll understand the safety aspect). If you guys are cool I'd just straight up ask her "how'd you know about that stuff?" Hell, I'm assuming she's attractive since you're dropping some pretty coin on her, see what she's like outside the club / ask her out. If you don't like the vibe anymore just keep avoiding her or her shifts entirely. Sounds like she has your cell, don't respond to texts or phone calls.

2. If you look like Quasimodo / she wouldn't look at you twice in public = CHANGE YOUR LOCKS, BUY A SECURITY CAMERA SYSTEM, HIDE A GUN IN EVERY ROOM, YOUR SITUATION IS COMPROMISED.

Just kidding, you'll be fine, just refer to the tips in number 1. Hopefully you live far so they won't be tailing your ass. Jk.

Is your cellphone public? Like if you type it in google will it show up as something? I'd get a burner app on your phone, $10-$20/ month to have a burner number is a good safety net. I don't mind having social media (my line of work it's not critical) but if you can manage it, delete social media or at the very least remove any photos with your face / identifying info it.

edit. Oops, to answer your question, yes it's happened to me. Also if your position is LinkedIn-level make sure that's all nice and stalker-proof.

[Rot9020]

I had just finished a successful VIP with a regular and we started chatting it up afterwards but then she mentioned a specific about my job. It put me off because I never volunteer specifics about me, just vague in-generals. I do use my real first name and mentioned that I'm am engineer which is true but sanitation to aeronautics who knows. I played it normal like I didn't hear it but my mind was like WTF; is she stalking me, did she call into my office, is she and her boyfriend going to rob my house, ect? None of these things are a worry to me because I'm single and my first line of defense are my 2 Rottweilers that love daddy since they were pups. I'm guessing my cel or car plate.? Fucking internet. Anyway, haven't visited her since. I've been screened by an escort but who would have thunk by a dancer, imo.

[Nutinyoface323]

Haha, a 13-poster trying to school the veteran xBiker sorta makes me laugh.

But I do follow your suggested approach, and get good results like 70% of the time. You need to talk, to gauge their focus & attitude. I like girls who like to have fun. Joey at TL was a fave in this regard (although her loud smoker's laugh could get grating after a while LOL). That whole dead behind the eyes, silently going through the motions thing is a wood-killer to me, too.

But if you frequently get FS tip asks of $700 as you mention in another post, you might be working a little TOO hard to make them comfortable. Anything over $500 at a COI club, I generally just smirk and say I've fucked many beautiful strippers and won't pay 1/2 that (not entirely true but close), and thank her for her time. 70% negotiate against themselves in response, 10% just walk off, and 20% bitchily say "not as beautiful as me" or some other BS chick tactic response to my "micro-aggression. " Then I do the walking away. Yeah sometimes they try to blackball you after, but it's a competitive business among strippers. The only place I've seen a successful blackball "cartel" is ecstasy OC day shift, and it didn't last long. Plus they forget over time, usually.

What you consider hot might be a 5 to others, just saying, and I'm no rookie.

[XBiker]

Joey at TL was a fave in this regard (although her loud smoker's laugh could get grating after a while LOL).

Joey was lot of fun. I remember when I first meet her. She had turned 18 had a few more months before finishing high school. No tats or smoker's laugh. This was pre-VIP, but she was still lot of fun back then too.

[XBiker]

No offense but it could be the vibe you give off as well. I'm sure a lot of guys read this thread and think "Wow I can get FS! Without realizing you still need to put a little work into it. Talking to the girls a little before going in, be clean looking and not a creep. Make them feel comfortable and vibing with them that you will tip. Honestly, whenever we agree upon FS, I always pay up at the beginning of the session and never had an issue.

Seems I had good luck when the topic comes up on the floor about going VIP, "Yeah I do kinda want to go VIP! What can we do in there?" . Usually they will reply with "whatever you like / what do you want? Than along the lines ill say something like "I do kinda want to fXXk". And when they say their price, reply back with whatever you willing to spend and go from there.

I agree. I went with her directly to the VIP room because we have danced in the past, and it was at the end of the shift. I was showered and wearing clean clothes. I tipped her when she was on stage.

I've doing this long enough to know how the game is played.

It just she was always friendly with me, even if I was waiting for someone else. I did try to chat her up while were walking to the VIP room, but she wasn't very talkative. This was so out of character for her, and kind of freaked me out. Maybe, it was one time thing. We'll see.