Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**Schandl2** · 04-20-23 12:16

Hello guys,

I wanted to give a warning. I have a significant other. I love my marriage and wife but our sex life has declined as she has gone through menopause. So I have turned to SA and other outlets.

I previously found a like minded woman on SA who was also married and her marriage had the same problem. So it was great with us, till it wasn't and we parted ways. So I searched for the same thing, 'Married but Looking'. I found someone who seemed interested and claimed to have the same issues as me. We took our conversation off line, she was using a number with a strange area code but said it was a work number but she also had said she worked in school system. I use google voice but when I tried to send pics it would not go through, so I used Textnow app (I should have noticed that, this meant I had to use something other than google voice). Google voice is more secure. She asked for pics and I sent some my best that were taken on vacation her response was to ask for a selfie taken right now so that she knew I wasn't scamming her and not a catfish. My spiddy sense went off so I asked for a voice call first. She didn't respond and after a little while I sent a selfie of me in my backyard against my better judgement. She responded with similar photos. She continued with just day to day type conversation. I felt it was just normal conversation. She mentioned that this was her second affair and asked if I had done it before, I said yes (now she has historical incriminating info). She asked about details of my previous arrangement, like payment and what are my preferences and kinks (more historical incriminating info). Then some more adult photos came and she asked for some of me (my photos didn't include my face but were taken at my house and background can be identified, more incriminating info). This is all over less than 48 hours.

Then on my way to work the next morning I get a text message to my google voice and textnow app from a new number with screen shots of my SA profile, my messages, the pictures I had sent, my wife's facebook page, and my facebook page. The messages from a seemed to be a angry husband. I did not respond but I soon got a call to my google voice number from the husband. He lit into me about the situation and told me he was private investigator and that he had caught his wife texting me with her work phone, I remained calm and apologized as much as possible. He goes on and on about what a shitty person I must be and what I have done to my wife and him. He says he is going to hang up now and call my wife. In the back of head I felt like something was off. He says he wants me to tell him why he shouldn't call my wife. I apologized and said what I could. He responds that he now has to divorce his wife and its unfair that he is burdened with this cost and that I should help him out. So I now I am pretty certain that I am being extorted but I am trapped he has my identity and my wife's identity. I am not a rich man or have tons of cash so I braced myself. His number was higher than I had onhand so he accepted what I could pay right now and said I would never hear from him again. I actually believe him on that.

After some research trying to determine how he got my info I discover that Textnow numbers can be researched and the identity of the owner can be found. I also made the mistake of not scrubbing the meta date off of the pictures I took from home. Metadata includes things like GPS coordinates and other such info. Take a look at the website Exif to see more. Finally I had my google number set up to forward calls to my regular number and if a call goes to voice mail the message has my full name on it. So between these things he had all he needed.

I won't say how much he got from me. I am leaving this here for others awareness and maybe caution some of you. It truly shook me and is the closest I have come to what could have been and might still be a life destroying event. I am rethinking my activity in the game.

**Member #6771** · 04-20-23 08:01

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-d61fda1e05de

Did a meet and greet. She's sexy and has a nice ass. Great hip to ass ratio. Mentioned 500 but I think she's looking for more. Can't host.

**AkaToneloc** · 04-20-23 06:16

Originally Posted by BrianPeter [View Original Post]

Update: Slim thick! Seeking pictures do no justice. Ass is plump, round, and soft. She looks innocent but really gets in to it. YMMV also, you damage may vary. Didn't want to give this one up to the board but she's probably fucking someone on here anyway so what the hell. Thank me later.

Nice review BP! I was hesitant about reaching out to her. A good reminder to not let one thing in their profile stop you from at least chatting. The part about "weekend vacations and enlightening discussions regarding my business plans and future endeavors. " I typically avoid ladies seeking trips and vacations LOL.

**Member #6771** · 04-18-23 13:35

Originally Posted by BrianPeter [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-b12c8a754058

Any info would be appreciated. Thanks.

Update: Slim thick! Seeking pictures do no justice. Ass is plump, round, and soft. She looks innocent but really gets in to it. YMMV also, you damage may vary. Didn't want to give this one up to the board but she's probably fucking someone on here anyway so what the hell. Thank me later.

**LoveTheGame78** · 04-17-23 23:09

Found this one last summer, we lost touch but reconnected recently. She's actually out in Chesterfield County, SC which I know is over an hour away from Charlotte but she said she can come close to the city.

Good: she's gorgeous and has a great body. Just about everything is on the table. DFK, GFE, you name it.

Bad: extremely unreliable. Will cancel right before a planned meet. Stood me up a couple times.

Ugly: will blow up your phone for "help" often. Always seems to need gas or food or to pay a babysitter or something.

I don't think she's active on seeking anymore but if interested I have her contact info. Just PM for details.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

**AkaToneloc** · 04-13-23 10:40

Originally Posted by Grievous2 [View Original Post]

I was going to make this one my UTR but she can be a time waster at times. She is real and pics are really her but she will explode your phone afterwards asking for more help. First time was great (Enthusiastic BBBJ, 69 and covered cg). She ghosted me the next couple of planned dates. Agreed on 2 bills and a half ppm.

Not super reliable. PM me for more details.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-0076b16e7d16

Everything as stated above. Pics are legit and she's definitely enthusiastic with the deed. I too was going to keep her as my main SB as I have been seeing her for months under her now deleted old profile with a different name. But she consistently asks for more money and she's ghosted me on a couple occasions and the most recent time was after I've checked in and she stated that she's on the way.

**Member #6771** · 04-13-23 08:10

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-b12c8a754058

Any info would be appreciated. Thanks.

**Grievous2** · 04-08-23 15:07

Also keep in mind SA auto-generates a user name for you when you first sign up. Its for members like me who can't think of a catchy name.

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

I had read from another forum where I used to live that many bots create an Adjective-Noun user name. Of course that doesn't mean all such users are bits. My current long-term SB is 100% real and her user name is in the Adjuective-Noun format (such as EndearingSiren, EnchantingAphrodite).

**Grasshopping** · 04-08-23 13:47

Originally Posted by Zeth210 [View Original Post]

I've noticed that most of the scam profiled have two-part names, like "MysticalBeauty" or "SweetCharmer" Etc. That doesn't mean that others arent, just a pattern I've noticed.

Not to say ElegantEnthusiast is a scammer for sure, but the generic two part name in addition to her number straight up posted screams scam to me. Idk.

I had read from another forum where I used to live that many bots create an Adjective-Noun user name. Of course that doesn't mean all such users are bits. My current long-term SB is 100% real and her user name is in the Adjuective-Noun format (such as EndearingSiren, EnchantingAphrodite).

**Zeth210** · 04-08-23 10:06

Originally Posted by DriveHard [View Original Post]

ElegantEnthusiast :

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-8f9a283dc253

Number posted on her profile. Anyone hear back from her? Is this a scammer collecting numbers?

I've noticed that most of the scam profiled have two-part names, like "MysticalBeauty" or "SweetCharmer" Etc. That doesn't mean that others arent, just a pattern I've noticed.

Not to say ElegantEnthusiast is a scammer for sure, but the generic two part name in addition to her number straight up posted screams scam to me. Idk.

**DriveHard** · 04-08-23 09:59

ElegantEnthusiast :

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-8f9a283dc253

Number posted on her profile. Anyone hear back from her? Is this a scammer collecting numbers?

**Ho Hopper** · 04-06-23 23:21

VWO33 COM Not worth 50%.

**Member #6771** · 04-05-23 15:05

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-06ccc9e43852

Any information on this one?

**LV Fun** · 04-03-23 21:16

Originally Posted by EpicSD [View Original Post]

To the best of my knowledge SA is not an app but a site. Whenever I see someone calling it that I assume it's a scammer.

A well designed website can easily masquerade as a phone app. (source: I've written a few).

Not to mention to the younger generation everything is an app. (source: my kids).

**Grasshopping** · 04-03-23 20:15

Originally Posted by EpicSD [View Original Post]

To the best of my knowledge SA is not an app but a site. Whenever I see someone calling it that I assume it's a scammer.

Actually SA does have an app for both iOS and Android. I never used it as I always access SA from the web. If you go into your App Store or your Goole Play Store and do a search, you'll find the app.