Strip Club Reports

[PelicanT99]

I completely agree that outside the club tends to make it feel real, normal, and legit but I always stop and ask myself one question. If the money stopped flowing, would she still be around?? This tends to bring me back to reality.

Rickers & Jeep speak the truth, from what I've experienced. It's a transaction, "she don't love you" and "just because she tells you about her life doesn't mean you're part of it."

Some would say we're just cynical, & that attitude kills the fun & fantasy of seeing a stripper. That is true, and everyone is entitled to make bad decisions (assuming they also will pay the price themselves & not whine about it to the rest of us who think otherwise). I've felt the buzz of "this stripper likes me! But like with booze & drugs you need to think it through before you spend excessively or do shit that hurts you in other relationships or respects in reliance on your heat of the moment feelings. One girl I saw had a guy take her to Italy for 2 weeks & then denied sex and eventually took off on him (& changed her flight back he bought, to avoid him). I dumped her after that BS move on a fellow user, cause it's only a matter of time till it's me. Do you want to be that guy? I don't.

Sure there's 1 in 100 cases, but don't lose your head & enjoy it for what it is: an enjoyable but temporary transaction. Remembering your birthday is nice, but my stockbroker sends me birthday gifts too & I don't get misty-eyed about that LOL.

[Rickers]

Man, thanks for all of your input. Really insightful post. I always tell myself that no matter how outgoing and bubbly she is with me, at the end of the day, she is only doing her job. It just sucks that the time spent outside the club felt so real and legit. Apart from the banging, our conversations about life and our past experiences made it feel like we knew each other since forever. Also, I don't think I will ever find another dancer to drop me off at the airport or bake me a birthday cake, LOL.

I completely agree that outside the club tends to make it feel real, normal, and legit but I always stop and ask myself one question. If the money stopped flowing, would she still be around?? This tends to bring me back to reality.

[TcoMan]

There's nothing wrong with going with the same girl over and over again. It's natural because her services are consistent / predictable and you don't have to take risks in getting ripped off by a new girl. Also conversation and chemistry carries over time. The trouble is labeling a girl as ATF. Your feelings and attachment for her will never be reciprocated. You're out looking for a good time and she looking for money. The intend is not the same. As soon as your VIP session with her ends, she will completely forget about you and be looking for another guy to pay her bills. I had girls that I developed feelings for over the years but I will always leave that inside the club or the hotel because this fantasy doesn't mix with real life. Im thinking of a girl as Im writing this but Im sure as hell she hasnt thought about me.

Man, thanks for all of your input. Really insightful post. I always tell myself that no matter how outgoing and bubbly she is with me, at the end of the day, she is only doing her job. It just sucks that the time spent outside the club felt so real and legit. Apart from the banging, our conversations about life and our past experiences made it feel like we knew each other since forever. Also, I don't think I will ever find another dancer to drop me off at the airport or bake me a birthday cake, LOL.

[Rickers]

There's nothing wrong with going with the same girl over and over again. It's natural because her services are consistent / predictable and you don't have to take risks in getting ripped off by a new girl. Also conversation and chemistry carries over time. The trouble is labeling a girl as ATF. Your feelings and attachment for her will never be reciprocated. You're out looking for a good time and she looking for money. The intend is not the same. As soon as your VIP session with her ends, she will completely forget about you and be looking for another guy to pay her bills. I had girls that I developed feelings for over the years but I will always leave that inside the club or the hotel because this fantasy doesn't mix with real life. Im thinking of a girl as Im writing this but Im sure as hell she hasnt thought about me.

Well said. We have to keep reminding ourselves that some of these girls are better liars than we are. I can't believe how many of these girls have spouses who willingly drop them off every night to "entertain" numerous guys at the club.

[Pusclicious]

Noticed that Mindy has posted on IG that she will be back at SR COI after a long time away. Perhaps had a kid? Never had the chance myself. Was she a GPS queen? Any reviews on her?

She does have a kid.

[Roland2418]

Noticed that Mindy has posted on IG that she will be back at SR COI after a long time away. Perhaps had a kid? Never had the chance myself. Was she a GPS queen? Any reviews on her?

[Jeep5151]

Sounds like you have had fun with a lot of dancers.

I got to expand my horizons with new dancers. It's just that I'm very particular with the type of dancer that I want on my lap, LOL.

There's nothing wrong with going with the same girl over and over again. It's natural because her services are consistent / predictable and you don't have to take risks in getting ripped off by a new girl. Also conversation and chemistry carries over time. The trouble is labeling a girl as ATF. Your feelings and attachment for her will never be reciprocated. You're out looking for a good time and she looking for money. The intend is not the same. As soon as your VIP session with her ends, she will completely forget about you and be looking for another guy to pay her bills. I had girls that I developed feelings for over the years but I will always leave that inside the club or the hotel because this fantasy doesn't mix with real life. Im thinking of a girl as Im writing this but Im sure as hell she hasnt thought about me.

[Pusclicious]

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[TcoMan]

It sounds like you have the right mentality with your "relationship " . Definitely enjoy it as long as it lasts. I've done the same thing throughout the years and need to keep myself disciplined but they can been a lot of fun. Best of luck.

Thanks man. I agree, discipline is key.

[TcoMan]

Amen to "enjoy it while it lasts. " I've had many Current Favorites ("All-Time" precludes moving on), but they all eventually fade for one reason or another. Sometimes them, sometimes me.

I don't count them as a CF unless I'm seeing them at least twice a month (usually more) for at least 3 months. And I have to enjoy their company beyond just the porking. I had several 2-3 years, one 6 years, one almost 10. They usually find a bigger whale, or get greedy, or decide to have kids, or want a ring LOL, or just lose interest (tho I usually lose interest first: my money has more staying power than their fungible pussy). 10 years was married & just doing it as a lark and for me alone (she says, I don't care), and I really like her personality, and she's the only one I've kept in touch with even though the banging stopped 6-7 years ago. With the others I've tried to part on good terms, tho some make that impossible. You never know.

Sounds like you have had fun with a lot of dancers.

I got to expand my horizons with new dancers. It's just that I'm very particular with the type of dancer that I want on my lap, LOL.

[Rickers]

Thou shall not fall in love with thy stripper. LOL.

In all seriousness, you're right. A majority of dancers tend to be unreliable and careless, which I think stems from deep problems like coming from a broken family, traumatic childhood, making poor choices in life, etc. The dancer who I'm referring to has these issues. Indeed, I will enjoy it while it lasts.

It sounds like you have the right mentality with your "relationship " . Definitely enjoy it as long as it lasts. I've done the same thing throughout the years and need to keep myself disciplined but they can been a lot of fun. Best of luck.

[TcoMan]

Thou shall not fall in love with thy stripper. LOL.

In all seriousness, you're right. A majority of dancers tend to be unreliable and careless, which I think stems from deep problems like coming from a broken family, traumatic childhood, making poor choices in life, etc. The dancer who I'm referring to has these issues. Indeed, I will enjoy it while it lasts.

[PelicanT99]

I've known my ATF (Synn dancer) for three years. During this time, we have spent immense time both inside and outside the club. She would text or call me whenever she's dancing and also to know how my day was going.

Recently as of late, not sure what happened but she's been distant. She did tell me about her plans after dancing and the new endeavor she's been pursuing, so maybe she is focusing on that. I guess this is why you should try new dancers and not stick with just one, LOL. Man, it's just that she checks every box that I look for in a fantasy showgirl. Anyways, how long did you last with an ATF? When did you know it was time to part ways? Did you part in good terms? Do you still keep in contact with your ATF?

Amen to "enjoy it while it lasts. " I've had many Current Favorites ("All-Time" precludes moving on), but they all eventually fade for one reason or another. Sometimes them, sometimes me.

I don't count them as a CF unless I'm seeing them at least twice a month (usually more) for at least 3 months. And I have to enjoy their company beyond just the porking. I had several 2-3 years, one 6 years, one almost 10. They usually find a bigger whale, or get greedy, or decide to have kids, or want a ring LOL, or just lose interest (tho I usually lose interest first: my money has more staying power than their fungible pussy). 10 years was married & just doing it as a lark and for me alone (she says, I don't care), and I really like her personality, and she's the only one I've kept in touch with even though the banging stopped 6-7 years ago. With the others I've tried to part on good terms, tho some make that impossible. You never know.

[Roland2418]

Sounds like falling in love with a stripper. But seriously not much can be learned from these situations. Most of these girls are unpredictable and flaky or wouldn't be in this line of work. Who was this? There are probably several other guys with the same story from this same girl. Enjoy it while it lasts.

I've known my ATF (Synn dancer) for three years. During this time, we have spent immense time both inside and outside the club. She would text or call me whenever she's dancing and also to know how my day was going.

Recently as of late, not sure what happened but she's been distant. She did tell me about her plans after dancing and the new endeavor she's been pursuing, so maybe she is focusing on that. I guess this is why you should try new dancers and not stick with just one, LOL. Man, it's just that she checks every box that I look for in a fantasy showgirl. Anyways, how long did you last with an ATF? When did you know it was time to part ways? Did you part in good terms? Do you still keep in contact with your ATF?

[XBiker]

Haha, holding a grudge for 20+ years because they didn't let someone in wearing Dolphin shorts commando or maybe MC Hammer parachute pants?

My go-to club wear has been slick sweat pants with a loosely-tied elastic waist over boxer briefs, & a polo shirt. Freshly laundered of course. I think I've been refused entry over the sweat pants 3-4 times over the years during the day, maybe more at night. Hats seem to be the big trigger at clubs. Doing the old man ball walk in thin BB shorts should be. So any tales about what's led to being refused admission from others here?

I got refused couple of times for wearing t-shirts, usually concert shirts or single-color T. Nothing loud like an Ed Hardy or something. Dress code required collars on all shirts. Also, got refused entry for cargo shorts. Back then some of door men really had sticks up their you know what. Triple digit heat and they wouldn't get guys in with shorts.