"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**BadaBng** · 04-04-23 23:10

So is everyone paying the crazy prices to become a premium member of SA?

Is there a way around it?

I feel like the prices are a little high considering you still have to pay these girls to meet them.

Some of these girls look great but I don't want to shell out money just to become a premium website member.

**SeekingHead** · 04-04-23 23:01

Originally Posted by Atlvoy [View Original Post]

I would like to genuine feedback to know if I'm just poor is the market is a bit crazy? I generally like to start off PPM and if things do get serious, I transition over to allowances, but a lot of these SB's having been saying they won't meet for a minimum 500 with tons of red tape / restrictions. If they can't host, they need a 5 star hotel, dinner at 200 $ pp first on top of PPM. If I was going to pay all that, I'd rather just go to a KRoomSalon. I'm used to negotiating down and increasing as meets get more intimate and such but the door to entry / damage minimum has been wild lately for me. Am I just damn poor or what?

I have had one long term girl who I see weekly for $200 BBFS, & I tryout other girls on the side or go get a massage. $250-300 is normal for a solid 8 ceod, BBFS is the standard. Just stay at it.

**LogJammin18** · 04-04-23 19:30

If so, which one did you get and where, how did you register it and did it work?

**SalvatoreIttup** · 04-04-23 18:20

Originally Posted by Atlvoy [View Original Post]

I would like to genuine feedback to know if I'm just poor is the market is a bit crazy? I generally like to start off PPM and if things do get serious, I transition over to allowances, but a lot of these SB's having been saying they won't meet for a minimum 500 with tons of red tape / restrictions. If they can't host, they need a 5 star hotel, dinner at 200 $ pp first on top of PPM. If I was going to pay all that, I'd rather just go to a KRoomSalon. I'm used to negotiating down and increasing as meets get more intimate and such but the door to entry / damage minimum has been wild lately for me. Am I just damn poor or what?

You may be too poor to do this sort of thing in Miami or San Fransisco, but Atlanta is a relatively cheap market. Sometimes there are a string of GPS girls, but if you stay at, you'll run into a bunch of struggling women that will gladly do a free quick coffee date, and then take 200-300 for hours of fun afterwards!

**Atlvoy** · 04-04-23 14:52

I would like to genuine feedback to know if I'm just poor is the market is a bit crazy? I generally like to start off PPM and if things do get serious, I transition over to allowances, but a lot of these SB's having been saying they won't meet for a minimum 500 with tons of red tape / restrictions. If they can't host, they need a 5 star hotel, dinner at 200 $ pp first on top of PPM. If I was going to pay all that, I'd rather just go to a KRoomSalon. I'm used to negotiating down and increasing as meets get more intimate and such but the door to entry / damage minimum has been wild lately for me. Am I just damn poor or what?

**TravelinSD** · 04-04-23 14:42

If it's the girl from SA that was listed in a previous post, I did spend an afternoon with her back in November. We had coffee and then back to my place for fun. She started out at $500, but quickly agreed to $300. She definitely was BBBJ and bbfscip. I'm snipped and told her so. Nice time, but not exciting enough to repeat.

One thing is, she was driving a Jaguar SUV. So, either she's doing ok, or has someone that's doing well.

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

Congrats on BBFSCIP that girl! She is smoking hot! I'm curious as to what the damages were on that, prior to the extortion attempts LOL. May be worth it to bag her once LOL!

**LouisHernandez** · 04-04-23 12:28

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

Congrats on BBFSCIP that girl! She is smoking hot! I'm curious as to what the damages were on that, prior to the extortion attempts LOL. May be worth it to bag her once LOL!

You come across a GPS like that, and sometimes you think. Maybe it's worth the $600 one time or whatever the stupid amount is, but if you're going to pay that much, you want the "full experience" as you did. But as noted, that's a bad idea in the long run. I imagine other than the fact she was hot that the sex was bad, b / c GPS are not there b / c they like you in any capacity, they are all about whatever resources they can extract from you in the shortest amount of time possible even if that is thru ruthless and devious means.

**PornRider** · 04-04-23 09:51

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

Congrats on BBFSCIP that girl! She is smoking hot! I'm curious as to what the damages were on that, prior to the extortion attempts LOL. May be worth it to bag her once LOL!

You can PM me for the answer, but she wasn't cheap. And way too expensive given all of the drama.

**MacLuvin** · 04-04-23 08:36

Congrats on BBFSCIP that girl! She is smoking hot! I'm curious as to what the damages were on that, prior to the extortion attempts LOL. May be worth it to bag her once LOL!

**MacLuvin** · 04-04-23 08:35

Pregnancy scams, personal info getting out, threats, crazy world out there fellas!

Rule # 1 is these girls are not your friends, they are only about themselves and their $$. Don't simp and fall in love with them and let your guard down. Even if they make you feel like a GFE, 99% will turn on you given the chance. If they think they can make $$ off you without having to put in the work they will do it.

Rule # 2 As stated never ever ever use real phone #s, SnapChat accounts, or any social media. Use a fake name and hell don't even let them know what city you actually live in. I never list my home city in my profile, I pick somewhere else close enough to still get search result filters but not figure out where I am. The hardest part is not using your real photos since SA seems to have good filters that figure out you're using a fake pic off the internet, even if it looks close enough to you. Or just don't post pics period.

Rule # 3 if these girls try to scam you go dark if you can. If they found your personal info and are threatening you, go the MAD route and get their info too. It doesn't cost much to find out a lot of info online. A lot of these girls have social media presence because they are aspiring content sellers etc. Politely remind them that you also know who they are and will return the favor, and also remind them that extortion is illegal and you'll be contacting LEO if they chose to move forward.

I'm snipped and have paperwork to prove my boys don't swim anymore. Still had a former SB try that one on me too. Granted she didn't have my personal info but I politely reminded her I was snipped and had paperwork to prove it if she wanted to pursue the matter. She suddenly remembered another guy had raw dogged her and that it was "probably him". Never heard from her again.

Again stay safe!

**FarFarAway** · 04-03-23 15:24

So I was just on the site, running a search one one of my photos and trying to see what shows up for me now that I have done some doctoring of my real images on the web. When you click on a particular image that PimEyes finds of you, this dialog comes up. It says that I can keep that photo private. There is a process you must go through, and you can do that with your IRL identity, no need to hide. You do have to give a reason, but I think that it likely to be rather loose.

**AmpFanatl** · 04-02-23 19:05

Originally Posted by Lozo43 [View Original Post]

Never used the gifting option on SA but was curious as to if they get a notification that somethings been purchased for them? I have this one potential sb I am very interested in but they haven't been online in a few weeks, I was wondering if I sent them a gift would they get a notification? TIA.

Cash only given after services, if they will only talk to you after you give them a "gift" it's probably best to move on anyway.

**Donwhite** · 04-02-23 15:38

Originally Posted by PornRider [View Original Post]

That's actually what I proposed, but then she countered that she would never let me accompany her as she is going with her mom and best friend. This is one of the red flags that I got from the whole exchange. It was very suspect from the beginning. Then today she said that she would be willing to take the pill, but that the cost would be $1600. I said that sounds high, and she said to do my research. I strongly believe now that she is trying to hustle me.

I think this is a scam. I talked to her when she was in Nashville. I was going to meet with her, but decided to cancel. She blew my phone up after I cancelled trying to get me to pay her a cancellation fee. I had to block her. If she's at least 9 weeks pregnant, request a paternity test before doing anything. I think she's scamming you. I would make her go with you to urgent care and have them do a pregnancy test.

**Turtman** · 04-02-23 14:18

Joined seeking again after an year, since my long time sb has gone radio silent and LOL everything changed now, met couple of them recently but lot of them don't like the $$ - $$$ any more. Everyone wants to discuss with 5 $ as a start. Many of them seem to make $$ just with online content. And with the recent posts it is making me question myself is it even worth pursuing this style of dating.

Janedoe3.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...f-e54de2b3cb0e

Only interested in selling online content.

Layla.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-e04c33fddff2

Real profile, no consistency with scheduling.

Rosy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...5-d96ccf2b62f1

Real but need $$ for initial m&g.

CollegeGirl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-3e7a50d98039

Need 4 $ for each ppm. Previous reports did not confirm any action aside the same negotiation.

Brownsugarbabe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-f91f8456fa36

Asked for 5 $ but okay with 3. 5 and mentioned okay with anything. Seems like a pro more than a sb.

Nadianas.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-1fd5845c8338

Conversation was good thought we really clicked, but wanted 8 $ as a start for each meet.

Tip: Started off with some good meetups scheduled but negotiated a 350 meetup with one of the sb which I don't have the link anymore. Right after this everything went down hill, not sure if she wrote up some stuff about the negotiation. All the lineups went silent and also response rate declined like crazy on SA.

Have one final meeting scheduled and hoping it to go well, in other case will take a break from sugar dating.

**LouisHernandez** · 04-02-23 13:49

Originally Posted by Lozo43 [View Original Post]

Never used the gifting option on SA but was curious as to if they get a notification that somethings been purchased for them? I have this one potential sb I am very interested in but they haven't been online in a few weeks, I was wondering if I sent them a gift would they get a notification? TIA.

Don't ever do that. That's SIMPing 101.

Cash after services are rendered or you'll just get scammed.