"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**LouisHernandez** · 03-29-23 13:12

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

As for filters, I find something on snapchat that changes facial features enough not to be recognized on one of those photo search sites. Usually it's a filter that firms up the jawline and cheeks for more of an angular or squared jaw look if that makes sense but it doesn't look too fake for the POT to call BS. And if they do I just tell turn it around on them and ask for them to send a real non filtered pic and that usually settles it because 99% of those girls won't send something that doesn't look like they have 5 layers of makeup on or some kind of filter. It seems like a fair amount of the girls I've talked to on there are trying to stay discreet as well as they have jobs, in a relationship, or kids.

What sites do you recommend that will run these sorts of filters on your photos?

**LouisHernandez** · 03-29-23 12:52

Originally Posted by SmittyScott [View Original Post]

I am not sure where to put this post, but I put it here because it started out in a sugar baby situation and I would love a little advice. I have been sugaring for about 8 years. Usually have 2-3 going at once and have had a few winners and a couple of flops. Most of the advice that I have used, I got from this website.

Current situation. I am 53 years old and one of my currents (9-10 months) has recently started an only fans account. This has allowed her (27 year old) to quit one of her two jobs and she has been making pretty good money at it. Most of her requests lately have been to fuck on camera. She asked me to be the guy in the video and she has managed to keep my face and voice out of her production. Since we started this. Her account has tripled. Not because of me, but because the demand for that is much greater than just nudes and masturbation. She suggested to me that maybe I look into Viagra or Cialis to be able to go twice back to back. This would us allow to film a couple of videos per session. I have never partaken of the stuff and was wanting some feedback. My questions are:

1. Do you lose sensation?

2. Do you last longer?

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly?

4. Are there side effects to deal with?

I had my physical a week ago and got a prescription, but have not filled it. It feels like from my end, that there is no downside.

This is the classic YMMV. Everyone is different. The dosage is important, you want to take the minimum amount of these medications to achieve the best results. If you take too much you'll just get hard and never cum. There are side effects with everything. I think Viagra overtime will cause blindness actually.

**MacLuvin** · 03-29-23 08:00

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Before I meet a girl (M&G) or go to a FC meeting, I remove my (1 rear) license plate. This is fine in California, it might not be OK in other jurisdictions. I also have black tape across the VIN # on the windshield of my car.

IK a website where you can give them a plate or VIN # (and $40) and you get the full ownership of the vehicle.

Can you advise about what you exactly do w / your filter, that keeps you safe but satisfied the POT?

As for filters, I find something on snapchat that changes facial features enough not to be recognized on one of those photo search sites. Usually it's a filter that firms up the jawline and cheeks for more of an angular or squared jaw look if that makes sense but it doesn't look too fake for the POT to call BS. And if they do I just tell turn it around on them and ask for them to send a real non filtered pic and that usually settles it because 99% of those girls won't send something that doesn't look like they have 5 layers of makeup on or some kind of filter. It seems like a fair amount of the girls I've talked to on there are trying to stay discreet as well as they have jobs, in a relationship, or kids.

**BobeSugar** · 03-29-23 07:47

Originally Posted by Shakal8021 [View Original Post]

Hey guys, I thought its about time I contribute back to the community. Haven't been active on here but still been active in the game. I'm going to post some encounters I've had. All of these have been personal meet ups. Either I won't see them again or I'm just willing to share them.

These will just be a brief description, if anyone wants an in depth review, DM or post on here and I may do so.

Lisapoo.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...0-437671bbdf85

Wanted 3 $$ for a "quickie" claiming 15 minutes but she was here for an hr, can't host. Wouldn't budge below 3. Was GFE, all bare with CIP.

Sugarbabyyyy20.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...5-ded2f7656260

She's been reviewed on here before, if I had known I would have saved myself $1 $$, paid 3. But apparently she'll do 2 $$. Very mechanical and boring and kept holding off on the fun. 3+ hrs.

The Lioness Goddess.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-80436751d397

Attractive photos, a bit bigger in person imo. Very sweet girl, but required cover. Did anal though. 3 $$, hung out for about 2 hrs. Can't host.

Angel.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-5d9fe4a2e082

Seen her twice a while back. Very sweet girl. Great sex, all bare, GFE, and did anal the second time with CIA. 3 $$-35 $. 4-5 hrs w / multiple rounds. Lives in gainesville though and isn't mobile anymore. Can't host.

Germanbabe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-d876c43e10e4

Seen twice, all bare. Also does anal with CIA both times. 2 rounds. 2-3 hrs. 3 $$. Can't host.

Sultrybabe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...8-c52cbfc2b580

Pretty sure she's a LC girl. Doesn't give head but the rest YMMV. $50. Hosted out of hotel room.

BellaRose.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-1809d583944c

She agreed to 2 $$ since I was younger and she let me get a pass for that apparently. Made me take an instant oral HIV test to do bare so total was $$5. Was GFE. Also can't host. 2-3 hrs.

Nezzy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-f9a26f7a1aa7

She's been reviewed on here before. Seen her 3 x. 1 $$-50. All bare and CIP. She hosted out of her apartment. One round.

Cute_lover93.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-be5b505b4ad0

Took some convincing but got her to do bare, no cip though. Not really my cup of tea and the sex was boring. $$$5. Agreed to 2 rounds but did 1. 1-2 hrs. She hosts.

Babygirliriss.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...3-3b9c24067e1f

Didn't look like pics imo. Was heavier. Can't remember the damage but think it was $$5. Wanted a cover. 1 hr. She hosts.

LunaLuvv.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-e77c3ba0b9e4

All bare no CIP, 2 rounds. 3 hrs. Can't host. $$5.

Kay_C.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...4-d3d42043906d

GFE, All bare. Let me do anal second time. Can host, but was far for me. 3 $$-35 $.

InnovativeSmartness.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-33dc68f60062

Very sweet, GFE. All bare. CIP. 3 $$. Open for more than one round. Can host.

XJ.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-25b6998aaa77

Very fun, GFE. All bare with CIP. 1-2 hrs. 2 $$. Can host.

LovelyCe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-375ac3ec10bd

Quick fun. Only done cardate with her as she can not host. Great bbj and all bare as well. CIP first time as she's not on BC anymore. 1 $$50.

That's all for now folks, at least the ones I can find and want to share. Got a couple from SDM I may share later on when I'm bored.

Enjoy.

Oh BTW has anyone ever seen latinmami?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-2251c5a10d26

If so I'd love to hear about your experience, I've always wondered about her. Willing to share more. Thanks.

Thanks for sharing. Your inbox is full, would like to ask you a question.

**Effnonit** · 03-29-23 02:57

Originally Posted by Wleakr [View Original Post]

I respect getting "professional" advice. IMHO there are several "professionals" that will say the "right" thing or quote textbook to you, but may not have actual experience with the issue (meaning they've never tried it). Truthfully, you could just google the subject and get the exact same info a urologist would give and save yourself the co-pay and time. There is definitely value added in seeking those with actual experience.

Completely agree. I had my first P2P encounter in 2007 and for the next two years indulged to an alarming degree with ladies, liquids and the gambit of recreational releases. One of the gals I liked to sportf**k said she'd waive donations if I could acquire and would use what she called "dick on demand". At that time viagra was still pretty new and cialis had just hit the market and it seemed most legit docs would only right a script if you could prove you were drawing Social Security. I had just turned 40 (I'm approximately same age as BobeSugar) and my doctor would not cooperate so I was SOL. As luck would have it, tho, a female client was having an affair with an older man who was having real ED issues so she figured out how to order online out of an Arizona online pharmacy with only one obstacle: she had to voice verify to complete the order. She asked me to do it and I said "no problem" so long as my commission came out of the delivery. I made a call and couple days later a batch of 10 mg Cialis showed up. I bit one in half and did nothing but fornicate for the next 48 hours. Fifteen years later I sometimes will pop one, but not always. Thing is, tho, if you have it in your arsenal you'll always be locked and loaded.

Couple recommendations:

1. On this topic I think every man has to decide for himself what works best for him. I've got friends who swear by viagra but I've tried a couple times and find it too unreliable. I'm a cialis man and find that 5 mg will do me for a couple days. I went to fill my last prescription for 5 10 mg pills and the pharmacist told me that I could get 30 of the "daily use" tadalafil (generic cialis) forth the same price and they were equivalent. I figured I'd try them and after a couple I sit here with a sore package and a lighter wallet and a grin on my face. . . And I've still got 20+ to go.

2. Over the years I've become a bit of an edgeer (sp?) and cialis is perfect if you're into that. You can start / stop over and over and then when it finally happens its all that and a bag of the best damn chips ever.

Originally Posted by SeekingHead [View Original Post]

1. Do you lose sensation? No.

2. Do you last longer? Yes, for me personally it takes me 50% longer to cum normally.

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly? I would need a 10-20 minute break, & then be ready.

4. Are there side effects to deal with? Not really, a stuffy nose for me so I keep an afrin bottle nearby.

Completely agree with Seeking on answers 1-3. As for side effects (question 4), I've never had a problem with nasal issues but I do usually end up with a sore package afterwards but that's because when I have Dick on Demand I inevitably end up demanding it boldly go where it normally would not be able (great for greek; and sometimes bbfs will occur because I'll convince myself it'll just be this once so I might as well run a marathon rather than a sprint) and forget to lube up for round 3, 4, etc.

**Wleakr** · 03-28-23 23:03

Originally Posted by BobeSugar [View Original Post]

First off, good for you. But I would seek professional advice from a urologist, not even general physician. When your tooth hurts, you don't go online and start looking for advice, you go to a dentist. This is even more serious because it involves more sensitive place. So talk to a urologist. You don't need to provide your life info, just let the guy know that you want to have fun. My two cents.

I respect getting "professional" advice. IMHO there are several "professionals" that will say the "right" thing or quote textbook to you, but may not have actual experience with the issue (meaning they've never tried it). Truthfully, you could just google the subject and get the exact same info a urologist would give and save yourself the co-pay and time.

There is definitely value added in seeking those with actual experience.

**BobeSugar** · 03-28-23 22:30

Originally Posted by SmittyScott [View Original Post]

I am not sure where to put this post, but I put it here because it started out in a sugar baby situation and I would love a little advice. I have been sugaring for about 8 years. Usually have 2-3 going at once and have had a few winners and a couple of flops. Most of the advice that I have used, I got from this website.

Current situation. I am 53 years old and one of my currents (9-10 months) has recently started an only fans account. This has allowed her (27 year old) to quit one of her two jobs and she has been making pretty good money at it. Most of her requests lately have been to fuck on camera. She asked me to be the guy in the video and she has managed to keep my face and voice out of her production. Since we started this. Her account has tripled. Not because of me, but because the demand for that is much greater than just nudes and masturbation. She suggested to me that maybe I look into Viagra or Cialis to be able to go twice back to back. This would us allow to film a couple of videos per session. I have never partaken of the stuff and was wanting some feedback. My questions are:

1. Do you lose sensation?

2. Do you last longer?

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly?

4. Are there side effects to deal with?

I had my physical a week ago and got a prescription, but have not filled it. It feels like from my end, that there is no downside.

First off, good for you. But I would seek professional advice from a urologist, not even general physician. When your tooth hurts, you don't go online and start looking for advice, you go to a dentist. This is even more serious because it involves more sensitive place. So talk to a urologist. You don't need to provide your life info, just let the guy know that you want to have fun. My two cents.

**Machintosh** · 03-28-23 21:52

1. Do you lose sensation? No.

2. Do you last longer? Not really.

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly? It doesn't for me. ED meds studies show it doesn't impact refractory period.

4. Are there side effects to deal with? Stuffy nose sometimes.

**SeekingHead** · 03-28-23 21:27

1. Do you lose sensation? No.

2. Do you last longer? Yes, for me personally it takes me 50% longer to cum normally.

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly? I would need a 10-20 minute break, & then be ready.

4. Are there side effects to deal with? Not really, a stuffy nose for me so I keep an afrin bottle nearby.

**AmpFanatl** · 03-28-23 20:42

Originally Posted by SmittyScott [View Original Post]

I am not sure where to put this post, but I put it here because it started out in a sugar baby situation and I would love a little advice. I have been sugaring for about 8 years. Usually have 2-3 going at once and have had a few winners and a couple of flops. Most of the advice that I have used, I got from this website.

Current situation. I am 53 years old and one of my currents (9-10 months) has recently started an only fans account. This has allowed her (27 year old) to quit one of her two jobs and she has been making pretty good money at it. Most of her requests lately have been to fuck on camera. She asked me to be the guy in the video and she has managed to keep my face and voice out of her production. Since we started this. Her account has tripled. Not because of me, but because the demand for that is much greater than just nudes and masturbation. She suggested to me that maybe I look into Viagra or Cialis to be able to go twice back to back. This would us allow to film a couple of videos per session. I have never partaken of the stuff and was wanting some feedback. My questions are:

1. Do you lose sensation?

2. Do you last longer?

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly?

4. Are there side effects to deal with?

I had my physical a week ago and got a prescription, but have not filled it. It feels like from my end, that there is no downside.

Go with BlueChew and Cialis / Tadalafil. The only time I have real issues is when drinking more than a couple, as tends to happen on overnights with a couple of my SBs.

Also when sober, I have noticed that you last longer when on it. And able to go a second round pretty quick.

Just a week ago I met a prospect SB for dinner and things went well. Overnight in the hotel I shot down her throat at the start, and was ready for round 2 pretty quickly while taking Cialis / Tadafil earlier in the day.

As for the famous Blue Pill, it's pretty time limited. You need to plan ahead, take it and get busy within an hour or so.

**RockLeex3** · 03-28-23 20:24

"Vibe"ygurll.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...9-ef8f8bd8289f

Met with this one today. Real but prob not worth it. We met somewhere public to discuss before moving to a hotel. Talked for about 30 minutes and a couple (personal) dealbreakers came up so I wanted to reschedule and try to get out of it. She understandably got upset and I offered her some money for gas. She took it but demanded more ($100) cause she spent a whopping 30 minutes talking. I declined and she said "well I got my gun in my car so what's it going to be". Kinda blind sided me so I just gave her more money and she drove off. We were in a public parking lot and I honestly probably would have been fine but didn't want to get shot soooo.

Her profile says "come catch a vibe" and she talked about how she believed in karma. *shrug*. I guess if I didn't re-neg it woulda been fine but I don't think I deserved to get shot / robbed LOL.

Exoticspoiling.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...1-9ae3a17268b0

Talked very little and probably real? Asked her what she's used to / comfortable with in terms of payment. She said 6 k a meet. LOL. Calling any oil princes?

**Smitty Scott** · 03-28-23 19:34

I am not sure where to put this post, but I put it here because it started out in a sugar baby situation and I would love a little advice. I have been sugaring for about 8 years. Usually have 2-3 going at once and have had a few winners and a couple of flops. Most of the advice that I have used, I got from this website.

Current situation. I am 53 years old and one of my currents (9-10 months) has recently started an only fans account. This has allowed her (27 year old) to quit one of her two jobs and she has been making pretty good money at it. Most of her requests lately have been to fuck on camera. She asked me to be the guy in the video and she has managed to keep my face and voice out of her production. Since we started this. Her account has tripled. Not because of me, but because the demand for that is much greater than just nudes and masturbation. She suggested to me that maybe I look into Viagra or Cialis to be able to go twice back to back. This would us allow to film a couple of videos per session. I have never partaken of the stuff and was wanting some feedback. My questions are:

1. Do you lose sensation?

2. Do you last longer?

3. Can you go back to back pretty quickly?

4. Are there side effects to deal with?

I had my physical a week ago and got a prescription, but have not filled it. It feels like from my end, that there is no downside.

**FarFarAway** · 03-28-23 14:05

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

Honestly even just getting your tag number on your car is enough info. I always try to avoid any scenario where they can get my real life info, but unfortunately a lot of personal info is widely available through free open source research online. Same reason I never use real pics of myself on SA, nor send them. I also use a fake snapchat account with location services off and if they want a pic they get a filtered one. Too many crazies out there. I had one close call years ago where a girl figured out who I was because I wasn't careful enough on snapchat.

Before I meet a girl (M&G) or go to a FC meeting, I remove my (1 rear) license plate. This is fine in California, it might not be OK in other jurisdictions. I also have black tape across the VIN # on the windshield of my car.

IK a website where you can give them a plate or VIN # (and $40) and you get the full ownership of the vehicle.

Can you advise about what you exactly do w / your filter, that keeps you safe but satisfied the POT?

**Peter Johnson** · 03-28-23 13:52

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

Desperate times call for desperate girls. .

Yes when they really really need that rent money (or $ for hotel room), that is when your bargaining position is at the best. I'll never forget this preggers 24 yo that I CIP'd for. 3 back in they day when she was really hard up for cash.

**Peter Johnson** · 03-28-23 13:46

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

Cash at the grocery store for a prepaid visa / mc is the simplest most effective way to buy an anonymous credit card.

I don't think it is any more, or less effective, than buying the card number online If it works, on Seeking then it works and if not, it doesn't. And it's simpler for me to just do it from home and conserve my cash, But still have to go out to public wifi to actually make the payment to renew the subscription, unless you want Seeking to be logging your non VPN'd IP address.

And it's all a personal decision of how much risk you want to take, just like BBFS / CIP with these girls. I'll take that risk, but not some others. But it's good we have multiple payment options now, in case some of them stop working.