"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**LouisHernandez** · 03-28-23 12:50

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

In the past, I have bought a prepaid VISA card at Publix, and then registered the card with fake info, for my Seeking membership renewals. I figured out another way that works is to use crypto, and buy prepaid MC on Bitrefill.com

https://www.bitrefill.com/buy/prepaid-mastercard-usa/?hl=en

(Of course the crypto you pay with, may, or may not be linked to your identity, so that is an additional aspect to consider.)

When you buy the card on Bitrefill, it will give you a code that you enter at https://myprepaidcenter.com and then can make an acct and register the card. You can also buy the card for the exact amount of the membership, so you don't have to worry about using up the rest of it somehow.

Cash at the grocery store for a prepaid visa / mc is the simplest most effective way to buy an anonymous credit card.

**LogJammin18** · 03-28-23 10:52

Which VISA card at Publix? OneVanilla? Have you been able to then go online and register it? The VanillaGift Visa from Publix / CVS will no longer allow you to register it with any name / address on-line now.

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

In the past, I have bought a prepaid VISA card at Publix, and then registered the card with fake info, for my Seeking membership renewals. I figured out another way that works is to use crypto, and buy prepaid MC on Bitrefill.com

https://www.bitrefill.com/buy/prepaid-mastercard-usa/?hl=en

(Of course the crypto you pay with, may, or may not be linked to your identity, so that is an additional aspect to consider.)

When you buy the card on Bitrefill, it will give you a code that you enter at https://myprepaidcenter.com and then can make an acct and register the card. You can also buy the card for the exact amount of the membership, so you don't have to worry about using up the rest of it somehow.

**MacLuvin** · 03-28-23 09:01

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

With the economy thankfully turning back to capitalism more than socialism, these women should start becoming more reasonable. So the sugar economy should begin to improve to our advantage as the economy continues to decline. Get off seeking.com . There are other sites with better approaches that I can already vouch that work much better. The girls are higher quality, friendlier, and less GPS. Sure you still deal with the standard flake rates, but the numbers are getting more in our favor. Make sure you have some good profile pics and stay in shape and stay within about 20 years of your age success can be had for $200 a pop BBFS. Game also matters, just don't simp.

Desperate times call for desperate girls. But do you have any recommendations on legitimate sites? I know SD Meet but haven't tried it yet. I don't see a lot of other highly reviewed sites and SA still seems to be the most popular unfortunately.

**MacLuvin** · 03-28-23 08:43

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

And in real life too, because someone can just surreptitiously take a photo of you, with their phone, and then use this facial recognition tech to get your name, address, etc, etc.

Honestly even just getting your tag number on your car is enough info. I always try to avoid any scenario where they can get my real life info, but unfortunately a lot of personal info is widely available through free open source research online. Same reason I never use real pics of myself on SA, nor send them. I also use a fake snapchat account with location services off and if they want a pic they get a filtered one. Too many crazies out there. I had one close call years ago where a girl figured out who I was because I wasn't careful enough on snapchat.

**DudeNextDoor** · 03-28-23 08:37

Seemed to be semi-pro. Said she could host or come to me. I think she wanted 600 or even more, can't remember exactly.

Originally Posted by ElKurdo [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-73747b0813e6

Been texting this girl, wanted to see if anyone has had an encounter.

**ElKurdo** · 03-27-23 18:55

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-73747b0813e6

Been texting this girl, wanted to see if anyone has had an encounter.

**Peter Johnson** · 03-27-23 18:55

In the past, I have bought a prepaid VISA card at Publix, and then registered the card with fake info, for my Seeking membership renewals. I figured out another way that works is to use crypto, and buy prepaid MC on Bitrefill.com

https://www.bitrefill.com/buy/prepaid-mastercard-usa/?hl=en

(Of course the crypto you pay with, may, or may not be linked to your identity, so that is an additional aspect to consider.)

When you buy the card on Bitrefill, it will give you a code that you enter at https://myprepaidcenter.com and then can make an acct and register the card. You can also buy the card for the exact amount of the membership, so you don't have to worry about using up the rest of it somehow.

**MoreFunNoDrama** · 03-27-23 18:54

Originally Posted by WoodstockShane [View Original Post]

I also spoke to the blonde in the middle. Didn't meet her, but we were texting for a while. She also came on to me rather bitchy, and demanding. I think she even discussed the fact that she needed a man with a very short refractory period. Well, I'm not 19 any more sweetheart. I can find women like these at a bar any weekend on Canton Street.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-3bf0f59a9e98

Waste of time. They want 1 K per meet each. LOL. Wished her luck.

**Peter Johnson** · 03-27-23 18:25

Originally Posted by LouisHernandez [View Original Post]

As AI improves it's becoming almost impossible to stay truly anonymous online if you are up against a dedicated hacker. That's just reality I'm afraid.

And in real life too, because someone can just surreptitiously take a photo of you, with their phone, and then use this facial recognition tech to get your name, address, etc, etc.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 03-27-23 18:14

ElegantMarathoner.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...9-b26c56cbf07a

Dreamybabe23.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...e-a93a11ac2fb7

Blossom.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-7a732fc16772

**LouisHernandez** · 03-27-23 11:41

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

So, about that giving you a few freebies. Most sites for search of identifying information do this. However, they either set cookies to count off the number, or require an email address. You can get around this by providing yet another email address or deleting cookies.

My huge concern is even on the initial search, they show the URL on which the photo is found. Well, at least much of it. But often enough of it that someone smart could figure out the real URL, and go to it and look for you. Especially when it is from a prominent organization.

And, like others, I found some websites that have my photo up that should not. An advocacy organization that I used to be a member of evidently still has a profile for me, with picture. I have had to contact them to get them to take it down.

One thing we definitely must be sure not to do is ever ever ever mention to a SB or on a website other than this one that this power exists. The fewer girls who know about this the better.

One of the things about SA that has been a plus in the past is that they block google from scanning its profile pages, so you can't automatically show up in a google search. YK, it used to be that they had a mandatory captcha just to log into the site each and every time. Those days, that seemed safer to me. It probably is sorta safer than just being out on CL or some such.

I think it's by IP address on the freebies, and without paying it requires some technical prowess that basically no SB will have to track you down.

As AI improves it's becoming almost impossible to stay truly anonymous online if you are up against a dedicated hacker. That's just reality I'm afraid.

**FarFarAway** · 03-27-23 10:30

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

There is a link where you can upload a pic as well as an anonymized version of your I'd and they will supposedly stop showing any results for your face. I gave it a shot and removed all info from my DL other than my name and photo. Hoping I'm not making it worse.

Super interesting! Let us know how this works out. If it is a way to go, we'll all be grateful. I am going to start taking some other photos of mine and testing how easily the site matches up to the real me.

**2me4Looking2** · 03-27-23 10:26

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

Like others, I tested with a photo I normally share and it found some matches. It won't let me see where they are from without paying though. I did click on the link to have my pics removed, but you have to do that for each individual result and I have no idea if they will really honor that request. I used to only share fake photos and then I lost 2 SB's I really wanted to see because they were upset that I used a fake pic. Not sure what I'll do going forward.

There is a link where you can upload a pic as well as an anonymized version of your I'd and they will supposedly stop showing any results for your face. I gave it a shot and removed all info from my DL other than my name and photo. Hoping I'm not making it worse.

**2me4Looking2** · 03-27-23 10:00

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

A comment made in another sugar thread concerned me so I personally investigated. If you have a SO, you really really need to be careful about this.

The website that you need to worry about is pimeyes.com. It is a free facial recognition site. I have been very circumspect about putting my real photos on the seeking site, the only ones I provide are actually of someone not me (but similar to me) and have half the face cut off. However, in private texting, after I have spoken w / someone and am pretty sure I want to meet them, I saw no recourse but to provide a real pic. This is one that has all metadata stripped and has never appeared anywhere on the internet, on social media or anywhere else.

I just ran pimeyes on my one real photo I use for sugari. I have a relatively prominent internet presence because of my profession. That website found 7 instances of my real photos online. One of the finds was of someone else. However, if a girl wanted to search my one provided pic, she would get my *real* name and lots more information about me. This would make me extremely vulnerable to extortion, as I clearly mark on my seeking profile that I am married.

The only mitigating feature of pimeyes is that we can use it against girls.

Like others, I tested with a photo I normally share and it found some matches. It won't let me see where they are from without paying though. I did click on the link to have my pics removed, but you have to do that for each individual result and I have no idea if they will really honor that request. I used to only share fake photos and then I lost 2 SB's I really wanted to see because they were upset that I used a fake pic. Not sure what I'll do going forward.

**Peter Johnson** · 03-27-23 06:47

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

Using a picture of me in sunglasses (which I have shared with potential SBs), the site pulled up a professional website picture of me as the very first of 30 potential matches. So in a matter of seconds, a woman with bad intentions would have my name and workplace. This is disturbing. I wont be sharing pictures any longer.

I just tried it with one of the photos that I usually send out to sb prospects, and it pulled up another pic of me from a few years ago, among four potential matches. I paid the $14.99 to see what site it linked to, but that site was "mavink.com" and the link said "under maintenance" so not sure what that is about. But yes, this is troubling, and I won't be posting any more photos of me on social media (although it's clearly already too late).