"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**CatchNGo** · 03-07-23 20:13

I talked to this one a few months ago. She says she is a dancer. Seem to be a cool chick. We had good convo. Says she will take 250. But then she hits me with, she needs a deposit. I don't play that. So I stop communications with her. A couple weeks later she hits me out the blue. Once again good conversation. She likes sports and says she use to play basketball. We never talked about hooking up when she reached back out. Not sure if she is a scam or not. But if you want to try your luck go ahead.

**Peter Johnson** · 03-07-23 14:52

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

I read the poor review of SmartAngel, and MyPleasure1215's profile disappeared while we were in the middle of a promising chat. So I'm back to square one.

Can anyone recommend any MILFs in their 30's or 40's who are easy going and don't have unreasonable money expectations?

Missy in Alpharetta qualified, but I don't know if her profile is still active: https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-87bc3b0e650d.

**MrVmp** · 03-07-23 13:24

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

Thanks. I got the same vibe from her that you did, so I was on the fence about seeing her when her last profile disappeared. I usually assume that women whose profiles disappear and then reappear with a slightly altered name are getting booted from the site for talking PPM or trying to sell pictures. That assumption makes me a little more skeptical of her.

Still looking for decent MILFs if anyone has any recommendations.

I was in contact with her for awhile. She claimed to be out of state and hit me up when she came back to GA with a sob story and wanted me to buy some pic to help her out. Not my thing, so I ended contact after that.

**SeekingHead** · 03-07-23 12:44

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

It's supply and demand, and there are a lot of attractive women out there, but there are 3.9 billion horny men on the planet. (Or ok, take out the gay guys and little kids, and you still have over 3 billion dudes). And men generally work hard and earn $, and they spend some of it on porn and adult entertainment. I'm glad only fans wasn't around when I was younger, because would have been tempting, I'm sure.

But yes, the hottest girls can do only fans and not even have to meet anyone in person. So we just are left with ones who are less than smoking hot, or hot ones who really enjoy sex. I paid a girl $500 per meet a couple of times last year, and it was worth it, because she was so my type and an incredible piece of ass. But I can't afford to do that regularly and $1k is just not reasonable for me, under any circumstances. Most of the time, I go for $250 to $300 max. I suppose $1 k is really just equivalent to two meets with the $500 girl, but I just am not going to do it. It's not even up for serious consideration, given my finances.

It depends on how much disposable income you have, and I'm not even wealthy. So there are plenty of guys where $1 k means little to nothing, and they compete with us, for the limited number of extra hot girls.

I know I'm mostly stating the obvious here, but just good to occasionally give myself a reality check, as well.

Supply & Demand, let's talk about this in regards to the Atlanta metro. To pay those prices you need an income of better than $200 k a year, only 5% of all households in Metro Atlanta make that. This gives you a take home pay of about $12 k a month after taxes, & everything else. I am willing to bet that less than 2% of men in those households have ever sugared dated before. Also of those 2%, more than half of them are married. There are not 50 k men in Atlanta making this amount of money, I'd be willing to say it's less than 500 men total in the metro who can afford $1 k meetups. About 1/2 of those guys are very wealthy & there are other options available for them which we non multi-millionaires don't have access to. Is there anybody on this board who can write a $5 k check to the SPCA, a single guy who writes a check like that is going to have instagram models he can date. Also married men need a income of around $350 k or greater, as the wife & kids get a large portion of that money, plus the wife is going to be asking?'s about where $2-4 k a month is going.

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-07-23 11:56

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

She is back with a new profile if you are really interested. https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-a8ff97b6a3d9.

I chatted with her and she seemed fine other than really only willing to talk about doing a massage, but I never pulled the trigger because that seemed more like a UTR than SB.

Thanks. I got the same vibe from her that you did, so I was on the fence about seeing her when her last profile disappeared. I usually assume that women whose profiles disappear and then reappear with a slightly altered name are getting booted from the site for talking PPM or trying to sell pictures. That assumption makes me a little more skeptical of her.

Still looking for decent MILFs if anyone has any recommendations.

**2me4Looking2** · 03-07-23 11:45

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

It's not the norm. Stop talking to wannabe instagram models or the younger than 21 girls, and talk to some girls that are 8's instead of 10's, and you'll find plenty of 200-300 girls.

I disagree. This is coming from girls that are in there 20's-40's that are a 6 at best, but if you want to share some profiles to prove your point, I'm happy to do the research.

**GoneForGood97** · 03-07-23 11:32

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I know it's been said, but still getting frustrated with just how many women are expecting $1 k or more per meet and then get offended when you offer less. High end escorts are cheaper than that and a lot less hassle. This used to just be the occasional GPS, but now it's seems to be the norm. I'm assuming some guys are paying it which seems insane.

It's not the norm. Stop talking to wannabe instagram models or the younger than 21 girls, and talk to some girls that are 8's instead of 10's, and you'll find plenty of 200-300 girls.

**2me4Looking2** · 03-07-23 11:08

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

I read the poor review of SmartAngel, and MyPleasure1215's profile disappeared while we were in the middle of a promising chat. So I'm back to square one.

Can anyone recommend any MILFs in their 30's or 40's who are easy going and don't have unreasonable money expectations?

She is back with a new profile if you are really interested. https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-a8ff97b6a3d9.

I chatted with her and she seemed fine other than really only willing to talk about doing a massage, but I never pulled the trigger because that seemed more like a UTR than SB.

**NewAnonymousName** · 03-07-23 11:02

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

Does anyone have information about MyPleasure1215? Her profile says she's a certified massage therapist, which could be a nice twist.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-67748d679baf

I also heard from SmartAngel. Does anyone have experience with her to offer a review?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9ad640c6-dfb7-4925-b1ec-d7b9cd9428d5

I read the poor review of SmartAngel, and MyPleasure1215's profile disappeared while we were in the middle of a promising chat. So I'm back to square one.

Can anyone recommend any MILFs in their 30's or 40's who are easy going and don't have unreasonable money expectations?

**Peter Johnson** · 03-07-23 08:09

Originally Posted by PeterPan [View Original Post]

$1 k per meet or even $500 per meet is a lot of money. For the couple of hours they spend! What else I also don't understand is some of the females making even more crazy amount on only fans.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/fired-tea...090033910.html

Unfortunately there are men who are clearly paying. Can't this lasting for ever though.

It's supply and demand, and there are a lot of attractive women out there, but there are 3.9 billion horny men on the planet. (Or ok, take out the gay guys and little kids, and you still have over 3 billion dudes). And men generally work hard and earn $, and they spend some of it on porn and adult entertainment. I'm glad only fans wasn't around when I was younger, because would have been tempting, I'm sure.

But yes, the hottest girls can do only fans and not even have to meet anyone in person. So we just are left with ones who are less than smoking hot, or hot ones who really enjoy sex. I paid a girl $500 per meet a couple of times last year, and it was worth it, because she was so my type and an incredible piece of ass. But I can't afford to do that regularly and $1k is just not reasonable for me, under any circumstances. Most of the time, I go for $250 to $300 max. I suppose $1 k is really just equivalent to two meets with the $500 girl, but I just am not going to do it. It's not even up for serious consideration, given my finances.

It depends on how much disposable income you have, and I'm not even wealthy. So there are plenty of guys where $1 k means little to nothing, and they compete with us, for the limited number of extra hot girls.

I know I'm mostly stating the obvious here, but just good to occasionally give myself a reality check, as well.

**Member #6704** · 03-07-23 01:05

Originally Posted by MacLuvin [View Original Post]

I blame * and the people who send these girls money online without ever meeting. They know they don't have to meet for less than that now. I've still found a few out there willing to take under $5 and unless they're North of 35 or just not pretty they're even getting difficult to get under $3 now. Crazy times.

$1 k per meet or even $500 per meet is a lot of money. For the couple of hours they spend! What else I also don't understand is some of the females making even more crazy amount on only fans.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/fired-tea...090033910.html

Unfortunately there are men who are clearly paying. Can't this lasting for ever though.

**MacLuvin** · 03-06-23 17:40

Originally Posted by 2me4Looking2 [View Original Post]

I know it's been said, but still getting frustrated with just how many women are expecting $1 k or more per meet and then get offended when you offer less. High end escorts are cheaper than that and a lot less hassle. This used to just be the occasional GPS, but now it's seems to be the norm. I'm assuming some guys are paying it which seems insane.

I blame * and the people who send these girls money online without ever meeting. They know they don't have to meet for less than that now. I've still found a few out there willing to take under $5 and unless they're North of 35 or just not pretty they're even getting difficult to get under $3 now. Crazy times.

**Peter Johnson** · 03-06-23 16:26

Originally Posted by PrinceOfFools [View Original Post]

That's the thing. ..................so no one's doing that for pocket change and access is logged for years afterwards.

Ok we don't agree 100%, but for the most part, we do. Thanks for taking the time to write a detailed and well reasoned response. I could actually do a lot more to further protect my privacy. I probably go to greater lengths thann 98% of other people, but that's not saying much, and I could do much more.

**Peter Johnson** · 03-06-23 16:24

Originally Posted by NewAnonymousName [View Original Post]

But subpoenas don't go out unless you're being investigated for a crime or in a lawsuit (like a divorce proceeding). I'm not worried about those remote possibilities. I just don't want my name to go public if there's a hack of Seeking's database of members.

Yes, of course if the FBI gets you confused with a terrorist and goes after you, with help from the NSA, CIA, etc, then they are going to find you. But that is unlikely and there are still levels of privacy, and it pays not to be too lazy, with protecting yours, in this hobby. I could do a lot more, so I am not an ideal role model, but I try not to be too slack with all of it.

**2me4Looking2** · 03-06-23 16:10

I know it's been said, but still getting frustrated with just how many women are expecting $1 k or more per meet and then get offended when you offer less. High end escorts are cheaper than that and a lot less hassle. This used to just be the occasional GPS, but now it's seems to be the norm. I'm assuming some guys are paying it which seems insane.