"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[NewAnonymousName]

Here's a nut job to avoid. We texted a bit, all nice and cordial. We finally got down to specifics and she says $500. I politely responded that was out of my range and the most I could do was $300. She responded:

"Did you forget what I look like?

And sent me about 10 very sexy pics and this response:

"If you are a man who does not like to invest in a quality woman's time, please just being mature adult, and say that so that I can block you and make sure that I never received a message from your greedy ass again. ".

This was my response:

"I know you're incredibly sexy, and I'm sure you're very much in demand. I was considering it, but after the attitude with that last sentence I'm definitely not interested. I'm blocking you as well. ".

I then blocked her on both Google Voice as well as on SA.

Then I receive like 4 calls on GV from another number. Here's the transcript from the messages:

"Kill yourself? You're f* worthless. You're f* useless. You're nothing f* kill yourself. Put a f* bullet through your no good worthless brain, b*. ".

Personally, rather than put a bullet through my brain, I'd say I dodged a bullet, LOL. No girl who turns that nasty would be a good experience to be with.

Sorry I don't have the link to her profile, I wanted to block it ASAP.

As always, Good Hunting.

Travelin.

Here is the link: https://members.seeking.com/member/7...1-1c364aff3f6f.

[TravelinSD]

Here's a nut job to avoid. We texted a bit, all nice and cordial. We finally got down to specifics and she says $500. I politely responded that was out of my range and the most I could do was $300. She responded:

"Did you forget what I look like?

And sent me about 10 very sexy pics and this response:

"If you are a man who does not like to invest in a quality woman's time, please just being mature adult, and say that so that I can block you and make sure that I never received a message from your greedy ass again. ".

This was my response:

"I know you're incredibly sexy, and I'm sure you're very much in demand. I was considering it, but after the attitude with that last sentence I'm definitely not interested. I'm blocking you as well. ".

I then blocked her on both Google Voice as well as on SA.

Then I receive like 4 calls on GV from another number. Here's the transcript from the messages:

"Kill yourself? You're f* worthless. You're f* useless. You're nothing f* kill yourself. Put a f* bullet through your no good worthless brain, b*. ".

Personally, rather than put a bullet through my brain, I'd say I dodged a bullet, LOL. No girl who turns that nasty would be a good experience to be with.

Sorry I don't have the link to her profile, I wanted to block it ASAP.

As always, Good Hunting.

Travelin.

[LouisHernandez]

Same here. Got on when I was 42 and still off and on (more on than off LOL) at 50.

Pretty much agree. The situations where I have had more of a vanilla or a purely vanilla relationship with seeking chicks is where they started out that way, with no $$$ exchange. My longest relationship post divorce was with someone from seeking 21 years my junior, and while she was "spoiled" and enjoyed an elevated lifestyle, at no point did I ever hand cash over to her. I can see it would be hard to make the jump from here is a few hundred bucks to fuck to hey be my serious gf.

$200 and then after "hey be my girlfriend", well honestly there is no girl I will want to date long term that took $200 for sex anyway. These aren't girls you will "take home to momma". These amateur prostitutes do serve a purpose and god bless them for that.

[LouisHernandez]

Very well said. And time is money, so sugar dating is often less expensive than a vanilla dating woman who f*cks you for "free". But yes every time I try to do some regular dating, it always feels like there is something missing. I suppose we are just corrupted and spoiled too much, at this point. And as you point out, amateur prostitutes are the best prostitutes.

Seeking has at times skewed my vanilla dating cadence. I must remember to slow down my pace significantly in the vanilla real world, else I'll spook them.

[Member #6718]

Very well said. And time is money, so sugar dating is often less expensive than a vanilla dating woman who f*cks you for "free". But yes every time I try to do some regular dating, it always feels like there is something missing. I suppose we are just corrupted and spoiled too much, at this point. And as you point out, amateur prostitutes are the best prostitutes.

Haha yep there have been some vanilla dating chicks this year I have spent a fortune on for not much end action. I mean there is more to it than just sex, but damn at the end of the day the cost of getting laid can get wild.

A lot of sense being talked on this board. Sorry to the guys who just want to hear about whose dtf LOL.

[Member #6718]

I've been on SA for 6 years on and off, all throughout my 40's. I've never been able to cross over into vanilla dating when I tried. Once there is a monetary exchange for sex, it's impossible to just "flip a switch" and start vanilla dating any of these girl. In my mind it will never work, but the times I've tried, the girl wasn't interested either. For now if I'm looking for vanilla I just go to a vanilla site. SBs to me are just amateur prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. And that's fine, I use an all of the above approach. Vanilla dating takes too long to get laid so that's what SBs are for.

Same here. Got on when I was 42 and still off and on (more on than off LOL) at 50.

Pretty much agree. The situations where I have had more of a vanilla or a purely vanilla relationship with seeking chicks is where they started out that way, with no $$$ exchange. My longest relationship post divorce was with someone from seeking 21 years my junior, and while she was "spoiled" and enjoyed an elevated lifestyle, at no point did I ever hand cash over to her. I can see it would be hard to make the jump from here is a few hundred bucks to fuck to hey be my serious gf.

[Peter Johnson]

I've been on SA for 6 years on and off, all throughout my 40's. I've never been able to cross over into vanilla dating when I tried. Once there is a monetary exchange for sex, it's impossible to just "flip a switch" and start vanilla dating any of these girl. In my mind it will never work, but the times I've tried, the girl wasn't interested either. For now if I'm looking for vanilla I just go to a vanilla site. SBs to me are just amateur prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. And that's fine, I use an all of the above approach. Vanilla dating takes too long to get laid so that's what SBs are for.

Very well said. And time is money, so sugar dating is often less expensive than a vanilla dating woman who f*cks you for "free". But yes every time I try to do some regular dating, it always feels like there is something missing. I suppose we are just corrupted and spoiled too much, at this point. And as you point out, amateur prostitutes are the best prostitutes.

[Member #6704]

I've been on SA for 6 years on and off, all throughout my 40's. I've never been able to cross over into vanilla dating when I tried. Once there is a monetary exchange for sex, it's impossible to just "flip a switch" and start vanilla dating any of these girl. In my mind it will never work, but the times I've tried, the girl wasn't interested either. For now if I'm looking for vanilla I just go to a vanilla site. SBs to me are just amateur prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. And that's fine, I use an all of the above approach. Vanilla dating takes too long to get laid so that's what SBs are for.

Agree 100%. There might be some exceptions always. But above statement is the norm.

[LouisHernandez]

That all makes a lot of sense.

My MO is a little different. I am single, and enjoy dating younger chicks. So if they end up wanting it to be more of regular relationship, and I am into them, then I am generally 100% down with that. My challenge in my home turf is most of the chicks these days tend to be more pro about it all.

I've been on SA for 6 years on and off, all throughout my 40's. I've never been able to cross over into vanilla dating when I tried. Once there is a monetary exchange for sex, it's impossible to just "flip a switch" and start vanilla dating any of these girl. In my mind it will never work, but the times I've tried, the girl wasn't interested either. For now if I'm looking for vanilla I just go to a vanilla site. SBs to me are just amateur prostitutes. Don't kid yourself. And that's fine, I use an all of the above approach. Vanilla dating takes too long to get laid so that's what SBs are for.

[LouisHernandez]

But, by pacifying her with cash up front, it made her a hooker in my eyes. So as she is sitting there on the couch, starting to kind of cuddle and talking about whatever she felt like talking about, I just unzipped my pants, pulled out my cock with one hand and pulled her head down into my lap with the other hand, stuffing her mouth so I didn't have to listen to any more talk. I then proceeded to fuck her like the paid sex object she demanded to be, making sure I got my moneys worth. Came inside, didn't ask for permission. Wham bam thank you mam and you may go home now thanks and nice meeting. Never called her again. Beautiful girl and a nice fuck, but negotiating rates and paying up front is something hookers do, so that's not going to be a repeat situation for me.

Excellent post and on point. I've paid upfront one time b / c she was that hot. I was mad about it but got my money's worth from the deed, and never saw her again either. Once you spend all the time and effort to get them back to your place, it's pretty much impossible to cancel trying to score, it's all up to them on if the situation reoccurs or not. Hookers I will never see twice.

[LouisHernandez]

This is an active forum, curious if the market prices have deflated from the covid BS money printing days? The vibe I get and from my experience is supply and demand is getting back to normal, but would like some other data points besides my own.

[MatteoRusso]

This profile uses one of the pics "Bella" sent me privately. A google image search of the profile pic had multiple hits on escort sites but it looks like they've taken down the ads now.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

She messaged me a few weeks ago and I wanted to definitely clap those cheeks for a few hours. She wanted 7 Benjamins for dinner to see if we had Chemistry but never mentioned doing the deed. I told her to stop wasting my time as I am a very busy Businessman. She later messaged me again apologizing and requesting 12 Benjamins for a 3 some with her friend but I declined as she seemed very shady. I got scammer vibes from her.

[DudeNextDoor]

This profile uses one of the pics "Bella" sent me privately. A google image search of the profile pic had multiple hits on escort sites but it looks like they've taken down the ads now.

After talking to her it seems it's possibly a group of escorts traveling around or a complete scam. She said it was her and a few friends and the prices range based on which girl you go with. I asked for pics of all the friends and then google image searched them. A couple showed up on escort sites and one was on porn subreddit. I ignored her after that. She sent a message a couple days later saying they'd all be leaving town for the holiday soon.

[BumbaCloth]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...7-046735b28655

[QuartJess]

She got mad that I couldn't meet her the same day.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-f9a26f7a1aa7

I met with Arlena about three years ago. She would drive to me in Gwinnett for 100 $ a pop. BBBJ, BBFSCIP with multiple pops. Eventually, she needed money to pay rent and needed 600 $. At that point, I cut her off and moved on.