"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[NewAnonymousName]

I've been reading this forum for a while. There were some great advice recently. I'm new to this Seeking game, and planning to find myself a long-term SB who would be ok with PPM rather than allowances. To keep things NSA. Is it a good approach to reveal to SB that you're attached, and nothing more cannot be expected? (to keep things clear from the beginning).

I agree with 2 me4 looking2's response below. In addition, I feel like hiding the fact that I'm married will give a repeat SB reason to think she can hold something over me if she finds out. (I never give my real contact information, but that doesn't mean they won't snoop and find clues.) I tell them that the marriage is open but the wife expects me to stay discreet -- no public affection, no work functions, but dinner and drinks are always cool.

[WoodstockShane]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-22ef503fba3a

Exchanged a message or two with her, then saw her on RubMD.

https://rubmd.com/atlanta-ga/fb1dd95...b67a93df?ref=p

Probably best to get with her on Rub. Figure out a nice PPM without dancing around the BS.

Stay Frosty.

[WoodstockShane]

Anyone try this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-8bd04d49cbab

Good luck. Her ad is full of "I know my worth" type of garbage, along with her proclaiming her great job as a "brand ambassador" which is code for chicks that walk around with a certain type of alcohol at bars trying to get you to try the brand. If you start texting with her, I'd suggest getting to brass tacks early on in the process, so when she hits you with her ridiculous number, you can stop wasting your time.

Stay Frosty.

[2me4Looking2]

I've been reading this forum for a while. There were some great advice recently. I'm new to this Seeking game, and planning to find myself a long-term SB who would be ok with PPM rather than allowances. To keep things NSA. Is it a good approach to reveal to SB that you're attached, and nothing more cannot be expected? (to keep things clear from the beginning).

I go ahead and tell them I'm married because it really affects my schedule and when I can meet. It does turn some women off so I'd say it's a crap shoot on whether you think you can really keep it a secret. I will say that the overwhelming majority of the women have no issues with married men and some say they prefer it for the same reason you mentioned or they just like the idea of fucking a married guy.

[TattoedDaddy1]

I've been reading this forum for a while. There were some great advice recently. I'm new to this Seeking game, and planning to find myself a long-term SB who would be ok with PPM rather than allowances. To keep things NSA. Is it a good approach to reveal to SB that you're attached, and nothing more cannot be expected? (to keep things clear from the beginning).

Hello, welcome to the sugaring world. The way you were thinking about things is 100% correct and a real sugar baby will appreciate the honesty not all are OK with attached men, But some are. If you're looking for a long-term sugar baby be careful of the escort / transactional. They will appear to be a real sugar baby but in the long run they have a ten of you. Or more! Which is an always a bad thing, but not conducive with a long-term NSA situation!

[Josh2089]

Given that I-85 and Jimmy Carter is a hotbed of hos, you will need to provide more information than "redhead in Norcross" if you're hoping for any helpful information.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...a-7a28b3799f01

It her but can't message through seeking Rn so I'm SOL.

[Member #6517]

I've been reading this forum for a while. There were some great advice recently. I'm new to this Seeking game, and planning to find myself a long-term SB who would be ok with PPM rather than allowances. To keep things NSA. Is it a good approach to reveal to SB that you're attached, and nothing more cannot be expected? (to keep things clear from the beginning).

[Peter Johnson]

Never seen any evidence that seeking itself is putting up fake profiles, unlike several other websites, like secret benefits.

There are plenty of scammers doing this on their own. One I have recently seen locally, a young asian college student, all the profiles have exactly the same structure, just the names and specifics are the same, they use a city name that isn't a city but just a neighborhood.

IK that there are scammers b / c I spent some time texting them, so they were entered into my phone. Then I had SnapChat search my contacts for people who had snap accounts. They returned accounts that were of guys. Including a lot of foreign guys. So there is one place these things come from.

If you message the fake profiles, they will often not respond or just give lazy one word answers, without trying to get anything from you. What are they trying to scam out of you, in these cases? Maybe I bail on them before they try to get some money from me, but I doubtt it and I still suspect that Seeking, Inc. Is responsible for most of them.

I never said there weren't a lot of scammers on the site. Of course that is true as well.

[TylerDurden07]

Just to clarify the terminology. Her proposal is not GPS. She's not overvaluing what her sexual favors are worth. She plans to never deliver any sexual favors. Money up front is always a scam. A prospective SD will never hook up with her in person, not now, not ever. She will take the money and run until she gets banned. Then she'll set up a new profile and start running her pay me first scam all over again.

Never, ever, ever send money to a woman in advance. To quote Star Wars -- It's a trap!

Yes. I do believe you are right, which makes me feel even better about my decision.

[FarFarAway]

I don't think they are all scammers, per se. Many or most are likely just fake profiles that Seeking pays someone to put up there. They are all over Bumble as well. There aren't any fake profiles of fat chicks. It is all hot ones, to make the site and the service appear to be more valuable than it actually is. But of course to those smart enough to spot them, it just wastes time having to sort through all the fakes.

Never seen any evidence that seeking itself is putting up fake profiles, unlike several other websites, like secret benefits.

There are plenty of scammers doing this on their own. One I have recently seen locally, a young asian college student, all the profiles have exactly the same structure, just the names and specifics are the same, they use a city name that isn't a city but just a neighborhood.

IK that there are scammers b / c I spent some time texting them, so they were entered into my phone. Then I had SnapChat search my contacts for people who had snap accounts. They returned accounts that were of guys. Including a lot of foreign guys. So there is one place these things come from.

[NewAnonymousName]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-dcc465bd007c

After switching to text, she offered to "show (me) her tricks & talents. " She said she'd never been in an arrangement before.

Suddenly, she got it in her head that I was supposed to pay for a $325 facial she was to have today & so asked if I had Cashapp, etc.

I told her it's cash only for me & she then blocked my phone #.

Before blocking me, she sent pics & they were smokin hot.

This is the second day in a row I've had one of these hos ask me to pay for something within the first 10 minutes of meeting them. Oh well. She can take her $16,000 dresses on her wish list & try to sell it on some other sucker.

Just to clarify the terminology. Her proposal is not GPS. She's not overvaluing what her sexual favors are worth. She plans to never deliver any sexual favors. Money up front is always a scam. A prospective SD will never hook up with her in person, not now, not ever. She will take the money and run until she gets banned. Then she'll set up a new profile and start running her pay me first scam all over again.

Never, ever, ever send money to a woman in advance. To quote Star Wars -- It's a trap!

[TylerDurden07]

Red flags she's scammer.

1. Account name within 1-2 days.

2. A single picture of an instagram hot model.

3. Generic copy in the text.

4. Moved to text immediately.

This one is pretty easy to spot. Girls who are real and serious *tend* to put some effort into their profile and will try to feel you out a little first. That said, my favorite Katie went to text quickly and invited me over that afternoon. But she had good pictures, a real personality while talking, and this was probably 5 years ago during the golden years of SA.

Generally, the only having 1 pic is a red flag, for sure. This blonde, I think, is real. She said she went to Emory & was a college student & something about her vibe made me think that part was truthful. But, obviously, her, um, "expectations" were grotesquely unreasonable. Seriously, 5-figure clothing on the wish list? LMAO!

[Peter Johnson]

Red flags she's scammer.

1. Account name within 1-2 days.

2. A single picture of an instagram hot model.

3. Generic copy in the text.

4. Moved to text immediately.

I don't think they are all scammers, per se. Many or most are likely just fake profiles that Seeking pays someone to put up there. They are all over Bumble as well. There aren't any fake profiles of fat chicks. It is all hot ones, to make the site and the service appear to be more valuable than it actually is. But of course to those smart enough to spot them, it just wastes time having to sort through all the fakes.

[Dawgins]

Red flags she's à scammer.

1. Account name within 1-2 days.

2. A single picture of an instagram hot model.

3. Generic copy in the text.

4. Moved to text immediately.

This one is pretty easy to spot. Girls who are real and serious *tend* to put some effort into their profile and will try to feel you out a little first. That said, my favorite Katie went to text quickly and invited me over that afternoon. But she had good pictures, a real personality while talking, and this was probably 5 years ago during the golden years of SA.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-dcc465bd007c

After switching to text, she offered to "show (me) her tricks & talents. " She said she'd never been in an arrangement before.

Suddenly, she got it in her head that I was supposed to pay for a $325 facial she was to have today & so asked if I had Cashapp, etc.

I told her it's cash only for me & she then blocked my phone #.

Before blocking me, she sent pics & they were smokin hot.

This is the second day in a row I've had one of these hos ask me to pay for something within the first 10 minutes of meeting them. Oh well. She can take her $16,000 dresses on her wish list & try to sell it on some other sucker.

[TravelinSD]

I had pretty much a carbon copy experience with her today. Same thing with the tricks later for a facial today.

She is smokin hot. Falls into the TGTBT category.

Good hunting,

Travelin.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-dcc465bd007c

After switching to text, she offered to "show (me) her tricks & talents. " She said she'd never been in an arrangement before.

Suddenly, she got it in her head that I was supposed to pay for a $325 facial she was to have today & so asked if I had Cashapp, etc.

I told her it's cash only for me & she then blocked my phone #.

Before blocking me, she sent pics & they were smokin hot.

This is the second day in a row I've had one of these hos ask me to pay for something within the first 10 minutes of meeting them. Oh well. She can take her $16,000 dresses on her wish list & try to sell it on some other sucker.